Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Metanar;46842439]girl's decided to cancel our 2nd date[/QUOTE] Kick her right in the ass. Win her respect with violent hand gestures and physical attack.

[QUOTE=Metanar;46842439]girl's decided to cancel our 2nd date[/QUOTE] Other plans or no interest?

Oh man i just realized how spoiled i am. Honestly can't remember if i mentioned it or not but when i was at that new years party my vape pen slipped out of my pocket. Now i knew that would happen and left my coat in my friend car but at a point we both drunkenly went out for a smoke and i grabbed my coat, and brought it in with me and thats where it fell out. Anyways i lost my setup but i can't be mad as i still find the night worth it. I swung by a kiosk in the mall i work out with vape shit as they actually have good shit and are cheap and planned on just rebuying my old set up and later down the line finally investing in a nicer one, just something to tide me over for the mean time. They didnt have exactly what i wanted so i opted for another version of what i had but forgot that its all fucking plastic. I'm so spoiled from metal drip tips and pyrex glass tanks that this plastic tankomizer is just god awful. Oh well at least i have something to tide me over for a bit, and besides i'll treat it as a punishment for being an idiot and bringing my coat in with me.

Now I remember why I hate trains so much, less room to move than there is on an airplane...

[QUOTE=Chickens!;46844871]Other plans or no interest?[/QUOTE] She said she hadn't really thought about the age difference (she's a masters student) and that she didn't want to promise anything to me that she would end up breaking. I know she's right to do it but it sucks. It's also basically a repeat episode of something that happened a few months back, though that was a much uglier resolution.

That feel when the guy who made your life hell in 2014 and did a bunch of personally hurtful shit is now suddenly local and using his ability to wear a mask of a flawless self image that hides his shitty side to be friends with all the friends you know. I really shouldn't care at this point anymore but I can't get over the fact that he did all this shit, yet he somehow feels neutral towards me and I'm supposed to feel neutral towards him now and just casually accept him in a friend group.

[QUOTE=KorJax;46847646]That feel when the guy who made your life hell in 2014 and did a bunch of personally hurtful shit is now suddenly local and using his ability to wear a mask of a flawless self image that hides his shitty side to be friends with all the friends you know. I really shouldn't care at this point anymore but I can't get over the fact that he did all this shit, yet he somehow feels neutral towards me and I'm supposed to feel neutral towards him now and just casually accept him in a friend group.[/QUOTE] Worst part about stuff like this is you can't win, just like mutual friends after a breakup.

[QUOTE=KorJax;46847646]That feel when the guy who made your life hell in 2014 and did a bunch of personally hurtful shit is now suddenly local and using his ability to wear a mask of a flawless self image that hides his shitty side to be friends with all the friends you know. I really shouldn't care at this point anymore but I can't get over the fact that he did all this shit, yet he somehow feels neutral towards me and I'm supposed to feel neutral towards him now and just casually accept him in a friend group.[/QUOTE] That sucks dude, have you tried telling your group of friends what he did?

I just not relevant to bring up and I don't feel like causing drama for no reason. And I should mention this group of friends lives an hour and a half away, so I don't see them super often between work and school (but we still keep in touch on twitter at the very least). Meanwhile he's super close to where they all live so can actually hang out with them a lot.

Spent 14+ hours on a film set in 5 degree weather. And now I can barely feel my back today. I love what I do, though! [t]https://scontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xaf1/v/t1.0-9/10885106_1040374012645926_2391980446777506692_n.jpg?oh=65e244599ef4161e91883484fc85fb08&oe=5526A0E8[/t]

I dont like living in a cubicle but at least it isnt like permafrost, respect

Once again I find myself in Sweden with super internet and I don't know what to stream, when I'm in Ireland I want to stream so much but my net sucks :'(

[QUOTE=Chickens!;46849392]Once again I find myself in Sweden with super internet and I don't know what to stream, when I'm in Ireland I want to stream so much but my net sucks :'([/QUOTE] Stream a vlog/rant about your dilemma And afterwards stream your climb of 100 MMR in Dota using only Techies

[QUOTE=KorJax;46849106]I just not relevant to bring up and I don't feel like causing drama for no reason. And I should mention this group of friends lives an hour and a half away, so I don't see them super often between work and school (but we still keep in touch on twitter at the very least). Meanwhile he's super close to where they all live so can actually hang out with them a lot.[/QUOTE] Well obviously it is bothering you, why not talk to this kid directly and tell him how you feel about him then?

[QUOTE=KorJax;46847646]That feel when the guy who made your life hell in 2014 and did a bunch of personally hurtful shit is now suddenly local and using his ability to wear a mask of a flawless self image that hides his shitty side to be friends with all the friends you know. I really shouldn't care at this point anymore but I can't get over the fact that he did all this shit, yet he somehow feels neutral towards me and I'm supposed to feel neutral towards him now and just casually accept him in a friend group.[/QUOTE] if i were in your position i'd see where this goes first before actually reacting. I was on the opposite end of this about 4 years ago where i got in good with a group of people i knew who were also friends with someone a sort of falling out happened with. The guy who had a major issue with me thought i was putting on some mask and infiltrating his group of friends to fuck with him, shit i didn't even know he was friends with these people. I was just being friendly, but i think i made the other dude go crazy with paranoia for a bit. Everythings cool now though but that guy did spend awhile trying to convince the others i was some shitty person by telling really contextualized stories.

[QUOTE=Viva;46851524]if i were in your position i'd see where this goes first before actually reacting. I was on the opposite end of this about 4 years ago where i got in good with a group of people i knew who were also friends with someone a sort of falling out happened with. The guy who had a major issue with me thought i was putting on some mask and infiltrating his group of friends to fuck with him, shit i didn't even know he was friends with these people. I was just being friendly, but i think i made the other dude go crazy with paranoia for a bit. Everythings cool now though but that guy did spend awhile trying to convince the others i was some shitty person by telling really contextualized stories.[/QUOTE] This is exactly why I'm not wanting to spread shit I think he's done some awful shit to me this past year but other than that hes not really doing anything bad right now or anything personal against me. Even the shit he did he wasn't trying to be personal. He just acts, doesn't think (or care) about the consequences and when bad stuff happens because of it he just has an "Oh well! Shit happens!" attitude about it, even if that bad stuff happens to someone that isn't him. I don't think i'll ever get to a point again where I can seriously respect him as a person but I can just hope I'll get over it in time. He totally wears a mask though, not to fuck with me specifically but its just his personality. And its part of the reason the huge friend group he had back where he used to live (that I got to know and chat with pretty good) basically ditched him, word for word from one guy I still text with. Does whatever it takes it make his self image look pristine and god-like, but throws you on the curb and judges you heavily if you don't live up to his standards. I.E. we were getting pizza once, and they messed up his order (wanted no cheese, he doesn't do dairy... not lactose intolerant or anything, just doesn't do it). So when we go back he PROFUSELY apologizes, and says he feels like an asshole for even coming back with a cheesy laugh going on between lines he says the whole time. When they remake his pizza he tries to pay for it multiple times while reminding the cashier that he feels like a jerk for inconveniencing them. It was honestly super awkward, and I knew if I stepped in a told him to give it a break a little in a friendly way he'd immediately jump on a moral high ground. Meanwhile at home or behind closed doors, huge dick mode with how he talks about people (moral high ground again), with words he uses ("what a fucking faggot" is a key phrase), and does his best to make things awkward for people he see's himself above. Hell he started working out and getting buff purely because he was so neurotic with his self-image that something in him snapped after a certain point (and this is something he said that happened to him). Its to the point where I'd honestly classify him as having a psychological disorder on the same level of anorexia and bulimia with how obsessed he is about it (injury/pain/sickness is not an excuse), except in this case it gets him relatively healthy so whats the harm, right? Oh and if you haven't fainted doing deadlifts before, you are totally pussy tier on his book and it proves aren't as hard of a worker as he is (nevermind the fact that if you are fainting while deadlifting you literally doing it wrong and it shouldn't be a badge of pride). Getting ranty at this point :v: It's like when you see the dark side of a person that shows who they really are, you can't go back to seeing them how you did before you discovered that. And this is why being sincere to yourself and others is important.

Wechat voice chat is nice

If anyone wants to chat... [url=http://steamcommunity.com/groups/wechat][img]http://cdn.akamai.steamstatic.com/steamcommunity/public/images/avatars/79/79c64671130cd32b9d9cef1415dd0cd48042e81d_full.jpg[/img][/url] [url=steam://friends/joinchat/103582791432284387][img]https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/1439918/Pics/2015-01-04_14-08-35.png[/img][/url] I'm working on developing a moderator bot that will allow for vote kicking and banning so it can be up to the group if there's someone causing lots of drama.

they joined when i was shitting it up before dw theyre too dumb to care

Chat is rather fun and we did voice chat yesterday, which was cool.

Except for me being an awkwardly silent idiot :x

Why'd it suddenly get popular again?

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46856806]Why'd it suddenly get popular again?[/QUOTE]People were discussing a skype chat or hangouts thing for new years for everyone without plans and I brought up that we all have steam and we chat is a thing so it got all populated again.

I just need to get my microphone sometime and I would totally join wechat's voice chat.

The mailroom should open tomorrow and hopefully I'll finally be able to collect my really expensive new mic. I'm more excited about this than I reasonably should be.

[QUOTE=TehWhale;46856122]If anyone wants to chat... [URL="http://steamcommunity.com/groups/wechat"][IMG]http://cdn.akamai.steamstatic.com/steamcommunity/public/images/avatars/79/79c64671130cd32b9d9cef1415dd0cd48042e81d_full.jpg[/IMG][/URL] [URL="steam://friends/joinchat/103582791432284387"][IMG]https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/1439918/Pics/2015-01-04_14-08-35.png[/IMG][/URL] I'm working on developing a moderator bot that will allow for vote kicking and banning so it can be up to the group if there's someone causing lots of drama.[/QUOTE] this idea sounds great in theory but i'm willing to bet a 10 dollar steam game that it won't do a damn thing. You need to take into account the typical amount of chat participants in order to get a fair vote, or at the very least something like 3 votes. 2's too little and leads to potential exploit, 1 is pointless. 4 is hard to get as while we will have a decent amount in chat, like 15 at peak times, there's usually only about 5 people at most actually active and taking part in chat. Let's say 1 person is causing a problem, that leaves 4 people realistically to vote. Lot of folks honestly don't care most of the time so 3 votes is still a stretch. Usually its not just 1 person but at least two, so now we only have 3 possible votes. Not to mention a bot should really only be used if theres no active mod available, during those peak times with enough people that a bot system would work, a mod would be on and active largely defeating it. Like how last night we had two users bickering, no one was making any sort of effort to stop their shit posting except for myself, others either ignored it completely or tried to badly divert the topic. Just get other mods, if you feel necessary, in other timezones, it's what we did in another group and it worked well enough so there was always 1 active mod in chat at nearly any given time.

HELLO ALL! Long time no see (well.... 11 days lol) How was everyones christmas and new year? I literally had no time free over the christmas holidays to come on here which sucks. But im back at work so now i have LOADS of time haha.

[QUOTE=greeley;46860275]HELLO ALL! Long time no see (well.... 11 days lol) How was everyones christmas and new year? I literally had no time free over the christmas holidays to come on here which sucks. But im back at work so now i have LOADS of time haha.[/QUOTE] i got a tablet which im using now, im incredibly happy with it but i think the refurbbed one i got is starting to show how it was refurbbed. The touch screen isn't always 1:1 its accurate enough to be more than easily usable but its off at times just enough to notice.

So i think me being a homo has gone around town again and 3 other gays from my town added me on facebook who i've never spoken to before ever just started talking to me and asked if i was gay. Its so creepy and slimey though, they are all in relationships like i am and yet they are all saying that they wish they knew before, they'd love to have a night with me. Creeps.

So they're gonna cut off a bit of my nail on my big toe and then commit chemical warfare on it to make sure the bit that was causing the ingrown toenail can't ever come back. 2 months til that fun time :v: