Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;46902234]College class starts on tuesday. Excited as hell[/QUOTE] Tuesday's coming

Alright I missed the last few days, so apologize if everyone moved on. Not going to lie I like stupid dirty talk gay slang words :v:

[QUOTE=KorJax;46904230]Alright I missed the last few days, so apologize if everyone moved on. Not going to lie I like stupid dirty talk gay slang words :v:[/QUOTE] Boipucci - Fragrance for (gay) men

MankÜnt The new exotic fragrance for him

You know how people flash their hazard lights to say thanks? I let a ambulance driver in on the way to the gym and he flashed all the blue lights instead of the hazards :v:

[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;46904459]Boipucci - Fragrance for (gay) men[/QUOTE] Bleajúb, the new fragrance.

Kumfaart - Location in Scandinavia.

Anussax - Name of our super cool band when we were 15 and played In Flames and other such shite. we legitimately thought it was a pretty metal band name

Its funny how easy I can wind up niney. :v:

[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;46904523]MankÜnt The new exotic fragrance for him[/QUOTE] Borrowing this :v:

I'm not sure if any of you remember but i vented about my relationship on thursday on here and then someone went on my boyfriends tumblr and called him a bad boyfriend like a childish prick. Well.... turns out that my boyfriend went on this forum without telling me and started checking what i post. I found out and confronted him about it and he said it wasn't him. Then asked again with more information and he still said no. Then i was still adament that it was him and kind of bluffed and said "A mod is going to tell me the email address that was used" and he then admitted it was him. I was extremely annoyed that he lied to me to begin with but it hurt even more when he tried to lie again after i found more evidence. But we had a big talk about everything on Friday and he said he came on here because when he has a problem about us, he tells me straight away, regardless of whether he is being stupid or not. BUt i don't like doing that, i want to get a second opinion. And what better way to get a second opinion than to talk to guys with a similar outlook that i do not know in my life. You guys would help me realise if i was being a prick or not when i vent here. Then if my venting is justified, i'd go tell him about it. But yeah. Its all good now, hopefully. Was a big dent in the trusting thing though. He also admitted on our big talk that he looked at my phone and internet history more times that i didn't know about which miffed me a little but it was a while ago so i can't really bring that up now.

Spent the morning cleaning up my NES collection (bought the Nintendo screwdriver to open them up and clean the connectors) and I took some pictures I later put together in a huge ass image (Quality is low because phones are shit) [t]http://a.pomf.se/fjvlxo.png[/t] There are a few missing because I lend them to a friend (Batman, Zelda and Zelda II; my three favorites of my collection) Also tomorrow it'll be 3 years with the bf, but it also means finals so kill me please.

[QUOTE=greeley;46909568]I'm not sure if any of you remember but i vented about my relationship on thursday on here and then someone went on my boyfriends tumblr and called him a bad boyfriend like a childish prick. Well.... turns out that my boyfriend went on this forum without telling me and started checking what i post. I found out and confronted him about it and he said it wasn't him. Then asked again with more information and he still said no. Then i was still adament that it was him and kind of bluffed and said "A mod is going to tell me the email address that was used" and he then admitted it was him. I was extremely annoyed that he lied to me to begin with but it hurt even more when he tried to lie again after i found more evidence. But we had a big talk about everything on Friday and he said he came on here because when he has a problem about us, he tells me straight away, regardless of whether he is being stupid or not. BUt i don't like doing that, i want to get a second opinion. And what better way to get a second opinion than to talk to guys with a similar outlook that i do not know in my life. You guys would help me realise if i was being a prick or not when i vent here. Then if my venting is justified, i'd go tell him about it. But yeah. Its all good now, hopefully. Was a big dent in the trusting thing though. He also admitted on our big talk that he looked at my phone and internet history more times that i didn't know about which miffed me a little but it was a while ago so i can't really bring that up now.[/QUOTE] This happened earlier on in my last relationship It sucks and it hurts trust a lot but... things got better. Just make sure you two are open and communicative with each other.

[QUOTE=LuaChobo;46909751]il be in my 20s in a few hours[/QUOTE] It's my birthday today.

[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;46910544]It's my birthday today.[/QUOTE] You're old.

[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;46910544]It's my birthday today.[/QUOTE] Ja nu ska han skjutas... Grats.

[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;46910544]It's my birthday today.[/QUOTE] Tillykke fra Danmark.

omg a bee stung my arm 2 days ago and it's itching like fuck, i think i'll have tu amputate D:

woo, got a new job today at an alarm monitoring center. Hopefully all goes well!

[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;46911711]woo, got a new job today at an alarm monitoring center. Hopefully all goes well![/QUOTE] How did you find the job?

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46911782]How did you find the job?[/QUOTE] My university had a job fair a few months ago and I walked through it. I saw the company there advertising a job to college students that was really flexible. I didn't need a job at the time, though, so I passed on. But I was looking the other week and remembered the company name and applied there.

[QUOTE=LuaChobo;46909751]il be in my 20s in a few hours[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;46910544]It's my birthday today.[/QUOTE] Merry Birthday you two!

Is it normal to charge to enter a job fair? My uni charges £100.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46912102]Is it normal to charge to enter a job fair? My uni charges £100.[/QUOTE] Ours doesn't. You don't even have to register if your just looking to see what's available. [editline]12th January 2015[/editline] 100 pounds sounds pretty steep.

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Man let me tell you guys Being home wrecked in a relationship is possibly worse than cheating Even if you are super secure and trusting in your relationship with your partner for a long time, none of that matters at all. A good home wrecker will completely destroy a relationship and change that person into thinking they are better off being with them. As a matter of fact I'd argue it is even easier to happen in a lasting relationship because the homewrecker will seem so new and exciting compared to the much less exciting but stable relationship. You feel totally powerless as the person you knew so closely and so well suddenly is alienating and different. And because he still cares for you (just not in *that* way anymore), he tries to get you to hang out with his new boy crush all the time and is upset when you are hurt by everything going on. You try and explain it but even though he recognizes the shitty aspects of the homewrecker he's so disillusioned by him at this point that he dismisses these faults as an "everyone has their faults" argument. And then when the one you thought loved you in a sincere manner ends up getting upset, the homewrecker calls you out as being the one who is hurtful. All of this after witnessing a long, torturous process where the one you loved had tears in his eyes as he was being broken by the homewrecker and wasn't sure what to think. God damn this is going to scar me pretty bad in my future, i just know it... the most honest, trusting and moral person I know being broken by a socially manipulative slimeball who was willing to do anything to break us up and get with my boyfriend. How could I possibly spend another three to four years in a relationship without constant fear of someone like that coming around and suddenly switching gears on everything? I don't think I want to be with anyone anymore honestly. Stuff like this makes me believe that I'm the only one who values a relationship beyond the honeymoon phase. The stuff that counts. The companionship you develop by going through life events thick and thin with someone. The real deal. Nobody lives to be with the one they love till they are old because they are the most exciting thing on earth. They do it because they respect and love them so much that loyalty is established no matter what happens, despite minor faults and quirks. This is something that I believed my boyfriend believed deeply in, especially knowing his opinions on monogamous relationships and the fact that his previous boyfriend cheated on him (to the point where he was scared I would do the same to him while we were dating). I guess this was true up until someone who he was close to as a friend to and trusted corrupted him to believe otherwise.

Oh fuck oh man oh god oh jesus aaaaa There's less than 7 minutes left on this eBay auction and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna win but I've still never been this stressed out about something in my life oh my goooood this is the first time I've used eBay ever [editline]12th January 2015[/editline] oh wow that's a really heavy post for me to be right under I'm so sorry

KorJax, you just need to move on. Forget him. Push him out of your life and focus on something else right now. Him treating you this way is problem number one, but the fact that you're [I]letting him[/I] is problem number two. I've been in a similar situation and I felt the same way you are feeling now. You just have to move forward. I'm still trying to get over a guy I had a brief fling with last summer. It sucks and it hurts to know that I'll never be with him again. But I just have to accept that and move on, focusing on work and school right now. More opportunities, with better people, will be presented to you later in life. It's not easy, but it's all you can do.

Like Idk If I'm the best relationship counselor but if I were you I would tell your boyfriend how you [I]really[/I] feel about this whole situation But I don't know if the that's the best thing to go about things so if someone could back me up or say that it's just unwise let me know.

Get rid of the whole "I dont think i wanna have a relationship anymore" mentality. Relationships aren't magical and a lot of times they don't work. it sucks, but there's plenty of other metaphorical fish in the metaphorical sea and right now you wanna isolate yourself based on anecdotal evidence Just because this one guy you loved and care about did this doesn't mean they all will. At this point you're better off just trying to cut off some contact for now, tell him you need time. Meet people, do other stuff. It hurts for the first couple weeks/months but time always heals.