Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

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Still hacking ice...

[QUOTE=Animosus;43273005]We have two phone lines going in to the house, one for Internet, back in the day my Mum needed to be able to use the phone and the Internet at the same time, so she paid to get a second one laid to the house. So we are paying double the line rental. With our mobile signal being full 4G signal inside on our mobile carriers, we don't get dropouts.[/QUOTE] Sorta curious if a larger blackout could knock out the towers, forcing landline to be a only solution to call outside.

So I'm with my family and relatives and it's awful. We're nothing alike. They're all laughing together and I find myself trying to just slowly back away and I feel so lonely. Am I the only one who just... I know they're 'family' but I just don't have any overly joyous feelings for them and I have no closeness towards them whatsoever?

Pretty much every time I hang out with my family is like that. I'm a transgendered agnostic woman, almost every member of my family is a conservative Jesus freak.

My dad called me and yelled at me to snowblow because I was "arguing" with my mom. "Mom, can I snowblow in the morning before you go to work?" "Sure". Not to mention she's been telling my brother to do it for two days. I don't even fucking live here asdfo;insagafnsdg

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[QUOTE=WhiteHusky;43276443]Sorta curious if a larger blackout could knock out the towers, forcing landline to be a only solution to call outside.[/QUOTE] Generally towers have a backup battery that will last for a few days, in the case of a large power outage. [editline]23rd December 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=Catscratch;43277328]So I'm with my family and relatives and it's awful. We're nothing alike. They're all laughing together and I find myself trying to just slowly back away and I feel so lonely. Am I the only one who just... I know they're 'family' but I just don't have any overly joyous feelings for them and I have no closeness towards them whatsoever?[/QUOTE] I'm in a similar position, while yes there are a lot of my family members that I get along with, they seem to all be their own group. Then there is a few of my cousins and myself. I really don't like going to family outings and usually leave early.

I got into a fight with my moms boyfriend. I don't even remember what it is originally about. My neck and arm got really scratched up. He's kind of patrolling the top of the stairs in case I want to leave. My head is throbbing. I haven't eaten in 2 days. The first thing I come to after my online absence is my best friend removing me from steam again for no reason. I was coming back here expecting to post on a high note after I got a new computer, but there you go.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43278705]I got into a fight with my moms boyfriend. I don't even remember what it is originally about. My neck and arm got really scratched up. He's kind of patrolling the top of the stairs in case I want to leave. My head is throbbing. I haven't eaten in 2 days. The first thing I come to after my online absence is my best friend removing me from steam again for no reason. I was coming back here expecting to post on a high note after I got a new computer, but there you go.[/QUOTE] this sounds kinda like a "get cops involved" situation

He's patrolling outside your room? Your mom's boyfriend is trying to keep you in your room? You probably should call the cops. Especially if he hurt you.

I don't even care about the fight anymore. I'm having a panic attack that qaus removed me I seriously have no other friend that ever cared to talk about the same hobbies and likes and games. I have this laptop with his name on it that I was planning on giving him in a few days for being a good friend. he was the only one that ever cared to message me out of the blue and ask me to play a game with him [editline]22nd December 2013[/editline] Every time the cops come I turn into a stuttery nervous wreck and my mom sweettalks them against me

Call the fucking cops, if need be write down everything before they arrive and hand it to them.

Call the police

Yeah, seriously, call the cops, dude. Keeping you in your room against your will isn't particularly legal.

calling the cops for a dumb fist fight is just pointless and does more harm than good I just want my friend back. he has no clue what I had to do to get this laptop for him

Calling the cops for someone holding you hostage is NOT dumb.

I'm choosing to be in the basement because I'm trying to avoid him, not because he's forcing me to.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279118]I'm choosing to be in the basement because I'm trying to avoid him, not because he's forcing me to.[/QUOTE] [quote]He's kind of patrolling the top of the stairs in case I want to leave.[/quote] Fucking bullshit.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279118]I'm choosing to be in the basement because I'm trying to avoid him, not because he's forcing me to.[/QUOTE] Dude, get off of facepunch and call the police. I swear, this could solve ALL of your problems.

My mom would get in their faces not letting me talk and tell them this whole twisted story of how I'm the aggressor. I'd be the only one getting into trouble, despite being innocent

If you sit there and do nothing, it'll continue to keep happening. If it doesn't work the first time, keep trying. If any investigator had any wits about them, they'd suspect SOMETHING fishy going on.

I dont care about the fight guys. All it did was scrape my elbow and neck. And I respect my moms bf a little less. I'll let it pass. I dont care about it and no I'm not calling the cops. I'm flipping the fuck out because the person who helped me keep my mind off of negative things for years just decided to delete me as I was sleeping for no stated reason. I'm feeling miserable and desperate because of this. he's blocking me and I have no where else to turn

Maybe I'm just belaboring the point, but the fact you implied that the cops have been called before is really, really concerning to me and probably a lot of other people here. This feels like one of those ongoing problems that you just can't sweep under the rug... if that makes sense to you guys

If I called the cops myself then my mom would hate me forever for trying to get her boyfriend of 15 years into trouble.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279330]If I called the cops myself then my mom would hate me forever for trying to get her boyfriend of 15 years into trouble.[/QUOTE] let's be honest here it doesn't exactly seem like they like you but okay, if you want to continue making a bad situation for yourself continue to do so

To be quite frank, it sounds like she doesn't really care anyway if she willingly has someone around the house who physically assaults her own son. [editline]22nd December 2013[/editline] If you were seriously fussed about it, you wouldn't be on here complaining, you would be doing something about it. You have the power to do so, and it's your choice whether or not to do it. Not theirs. You should deal with the main problem at hand and deal with your friend situation later.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279330]If I called the cops myself then my mom would hate me forever for trying to get her boyfriend of 15 years into trouble.[/QUOTE] If your mother cares more for the BF than you, than there is a problem. I don't know if you have anywhere else to turn, but that situation is not healthy. And if wish to talk to someone, I'm always here for support. I got enough free time when not at work to talk and play games.

[B]I DONT CARE ABOUT THE FIGHT. I JUST NEED TO TALK TO QAUS.[/B]

I had a great friend once who one day randomly stop talking to me or anwserig my calls/texts. I know how odd it can feel. But if you need anyone to talk to, I'm offering friendship for as long as you need one.