Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Mysterious;43279348]To be quite frank, it sounds like she doesn't really care anyway if she willingly has someone around the house who physically assaults her own son. [editline]22nd December 2013[/editline] If you were seriously fussed about it, you wouldn't be on here complaining, you would be doing something about it. You have the power to do so, and it's your choice whether or not to do it. Not theirs. If it were me, that would be the main priority instead of someone removing me on Steam, even if they were my best friend. You should deal with the main problem at hand and deal with your friend situation later.[/QUOTE] Man it doesn't seem like calling the cops would be the best thing to do in this situation, starting shit like that in families can lead to a pretty sticky, fucked up situation, it just seems too drastic. My advice would be to talk to your mom about it and only get the authorities involved if the situation really escalates into a point in which it's out of control. Another thing is that peoples emotional problems are more important than objective problems like that. Even if something doesn't really seem that big (especially when compared to what's going on) doesn't mean it's not the really, really huge to the person that's close to it. You guys are being a little too reactive and a tad insensitive. [editline]dfsdfg[/editline] Also, if you ever need someone to sorta unload on (not like that lol) just add me on steam, I know talking to a stranger isn't really as good as talking to as would a long time friend, but whatever, I guess it's all I can do.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279330]If I called the cops myself then my mom would hate me forever for trying to get her [B]boyfriend of 15 years[/B] into trouble.[/QUOTE] Wait hold up here. You [i]are[/i] in America right? Because I'm sure someone like your mom can't having relations with a minor.

[QUOTE=Octomum;43279453]Man it doesn't seem like calling the cops would be the best thing to do in this situation, starting shit like that in families can lead to a pretty sticky, fucked up situation, it just seems too drastic. My advice would be to talk to your mom about it and only get the authorities involved if the situation really escalates into a point in which it's out of control. Another thing is that peoples emotional problems are more important than objective problems like that. Even if something doesn't really seem that big (especially when compared to what's going on) doesn't mean it's not the really, really huge to the person that's close to it. You guys are being a little too reactive and a tad insensitive.[/QUOTE] I kinda realized that last part and removed that part of the post. It is pretty important to have some someone to talk to that can understand where you're coming from. If I were in that situation, I'd probably be more crushed if a good friend removed me as well. For that, I apologize. I guess I can't understand what's really going on, since I'm not involved with his family. I'm just sort of looking at this from a common standpoint, which isn't the thing to do sometimes.

[QUOTE=Mysterious;43279531]I kinda realized that last part and removed that part of the post. It is pretty important to have some someone to talk to that can understand where you're coming from. For that, I apologize. I guess I can't understand what's really going on, since I'm not involved with his family. I'm just sort of looking at this from a common standpoint, which isn't the thing to do sometimes.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I can understand that, I've ruined a few relationships just by being too objective. I kinda went a little overboard myself, sorry if I made you feel shitty.

I understand calling the cops probably isn't the best idea, but it's obvious [I]something[/I] should be done, and soon. This seems like a very bad situation :c

can somebody message my buddy? I'll gift somebody a game if they can help get some answers or a resolution with him. I did/amdoing something for christmas for him that I literally have never had the heart to do for somebody else

[QUOTE=Shark Bones;43273717]Wheee, got drawn with one of my local furry friends, known around here as FreakyMe. Socute~ [t]http://i40.tinypic.com/o8z2xc.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] Hey I know that guy! You live in fresno? He's p cool

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279646]can somebody message my buddy? I'll gift somebody a game if they can help get some answers or a resolution with him. I did/amdoing something for christmas for him that I literally have never had the heart to do for somebody else[/QUOTE] I'll do it for free but I kind of need more info.. what needs to be done, exactly?

[QUOTE=Octomum;43279578]Yeah, I can understand that, I've ruined a few relationships just by being too objective. I kinda went a little overboard myself, sorry if I made you feel shitty.[/QUOTE] It's fine, man. I have my rose colored glasses on occasionally and I tend brazenly think that things are simpler than they really are :v:

[QUOTE=Sgt. Khorn;43279401]But if you need anyone to talk to, I'm offering friendship for as long as you need one.[/QUOTE] I'd like to extend this to myself as well, I always like making new friends :D

[QUOTE=Catscratch;43279673]I'll do it for free but I kind of need more info.. what needs to be done, exactly?[/QUOTE] something. anything. [url]http://steamcommunity.com/id/Qaus[/url] I've been online for a little over 10 years now. and I've [I]never[/I] had a friendship as tight as this one. The last good friend like this I had was 3 years ago, and that ended because he died of a drug overdose. I'm nowhere near as social as I was when I met him and filling a hole that he left behind will be impossible for me for a long time. I'm going to be miserable if I cant get some sense from all of this.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279711]The last good friend like this I had was 3 years ago, and that ended because he died of a drug overdose.[/QUOTE] Oh god, that's so far beyond heavy I just couldn't imagine :c

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279711]something. anything. [url]http://steamcommunity.com/id/Qaus[/url] I've been online for a little over 10 years now. and I've [I]never[/I] had a friendship as tight as this one. The last good friend like this I had was 3 years ago, and that ended because he died of a drug overdose. I'm nowhere near as social as I was when I met him and filling a hole that he left behind will be impossible for me for a long time. I'm going to be miserable if I cant get some sense from all of this.[/QUOTE] Well I added him so we'll see what happens

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279711] [url]http://steamcommunity.com/id/Qaus[/url][/QUOTE] I'd add him but I like both Breaking Bad and Game of Thrones and I feel like I'd be in violation of contract my avatar is also lewd with the naughty bits cropped off

It's just I'm on the computer so much that I consider my online life just as important as my real one. If your best friend that you talked to nearly every day suddenly vanished, and then appeared to try to avoid you, you would be upset too. My online lifes backbone is structured by the unique people I meet and the relationships I develop over time. I never ever 'clean' my steam friendslist because I view everybody as a potential candidate for a long lasting friendship, even if that strangers name has sat there unmessaged by me for months, i'll eventually get around to getting to know everybody.

Computer was assembled, I was wanting to see if it would load. It did load, for 30 seconds. I ended up pulling the entire thing apart, to discover the motherboard doesn't like loading without ram in the slots, and I hadn't pushed the ram all the way in. Fun.

@kalamari13 He doesn't feel the same way as you do and you should just calm down if you want to continue the frinedship. Anywho I think I shall do another raffle tomorrow for this chat~ ;3 (better than Rocketbads) Look forward to it!

[IMG]http://horobox.co.uk/u/Reag_1387793643.jpg[/IMG] TELL ME YOUR SECRETS HEART. I'm liking this more than I should.

[QUOTE=Catscratch;43279890]@kalamari13 He doesn't feel the same way as you do and you should just calm down if you want to continue the frinedship.[/QUOTE] I cant "relax if I want to continue the friendship" when all contact from him is completely blocked. communication and displays of kindness and positivity is kind of needed in order to progress things, blocking contact is a wall between all these actions and only makes me feel more desperate for answers.

It is almost Christmas! I will be 17 in a week or two!

I'm just glad christmas and new years is so soon. I don't party any time of the year as hard as I do on new years. It just sucks that there's a whole nother 5 months until the ice and snow recedes. Because I'm almost completely 100% certain now I have [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasonal_affective_disorder]SAD.[/url]

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43279932]I cant "relax if I want to continue the friendship" when all contact from him is completely blocked. communication and displays of kindness and positivity is kind of needed in order to progress things, blocking contact is a wall between all these actions and only makes me feel more desperate for answers.[/QUOTE] Like I said, I've been there, and I had no idea why it happened. At first I wasn't sure what to do. But over time I just had to learn to move on. It's been about 2 years since, and I've moved on.

I feel that most people who message me only do it as a form of internet-psychiatry. Not messaging me with the actual interest into getting to know me. Like, of the few people who ever even message me, most of them are going to ask "hey, how are you feeling?" rather than trying to keep my mind off of my emotional issues. I like Qaus so much because he could easily just pop a random message at me and it was always on a topic that completely distracted me from all of my negative thoughts. Even if that topic itself was negative, it still put me in a place that helped keep my mind suspended.

Most likely, they're just checking up on you to see if you are alright. They're only trying to help. I can see what you mean about the negative thoughts, though.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43280154]I feel that most people who message me only do it as a form of internet-psychiatry. Not messaging me with the actual interest into getting to know me. Like, of the few people who ever even message me, most of them are going to ask "hey, how are you feeling?" rather than trying to keep my mind off of my emotional issues. I like Qaus so much because he could easily just pop a random message at me and it was always on a topic that completely distracted me from all of my negative thoughts.[/QUOTE] It's a bit hard to get to know someone when they are making you worried about their well being. We're a bit more concerned about you right now, so it's only natural for us to respond to you like this. If you came on here and asked to be friends with people, we all would have responded differently. You are getting a response in this way due to your actions here. And I'll still offer my friendship to you if you want a friend, someone to talk to, or someone you want help from. I'll try to provide whatever it is you need at any point.

I am posting from a car in what they call 'the outback' It smells of burnt trees.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;43280340]I am posting from a car in what they call 'the outback' It smells of burnt trees.[/QUOTE] So the scenic middle of fucking nowhere

I feel really guilty. It's my fault he did what he did. I knew he disliked negative topics in conversation, but he never seemed to say it enough that I sometimes just forgot about it. I feel ashamed I didn't keep that as a higher priority. His lack of say about any of it over time made me forget about the emotional toll it could have dished on him. We've only ever talked in text. I've only ever heard his voice a couple of times and that wasn't directly. So all of our conversations with eachother lacked tone and body language. Who knows. Maybe he told me all the time to knock it off and I simply didn't get the hint at all.

Now there is smoke everywhere. [editline]23rd December 2013[/editline] Oh. Hey look. Fire. [editline]23rd December 2013[/editline] It's ok. We drove away from it. Silly fire isn't good at hunting cars.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;43280407]It's ok. We drove away from it. Silly fire isn't good at hunting cars.[/QUOTE] That's what it wants you to think, then it starts appearing in places just out of the corner of your eye, making you question if it's there. Then when paranoia has eaten away at your mind, bam.