Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

What if I like BFs and dildos and don't want to be interrupted by DEFCON?

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;43503602]What if I like BFs and dildos and don't want to be interrupted by DEFCON?[/QUOTE] change your seizure inducing avatar into something else and it will be ok

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;43503602]What if I like BFs and dildos and don't want to be interrupted by DEFCON?[/QUOTE] Then take it (By it I mean DEFCON) to the other thread? I feel like I'm missing something.

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;43503602]What if I like BFs and dildos and don't want to be interrupted by DEFCON?[/QUOTE] Then stay in this thread and don't go to the DEFCON thread.

[QUOTE=garychencool;43503618]change your seizure inducing avatar into something else and it will be ok[/QUOTE] It's here to stay.

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;43503636]It's here to stay.[/QUOTE] [img]http://puu.sh/6hN6j.png[/img] pack your bags, we're through

So today I found out that my crush is gay, he told a friend who let it slip to someone and then she let it slip to a lot of people. He doesn't know that anybody has found out though, nor does he know that I'm gay. I wanted to tell him that I was gay next week anyway and will still do that, but I'm upset that if he tells me he's gay too I will end up telling him that I already knew and his friend let it slip. I'm also not sure what to do if he doesn't tell me that he's gay, should I tell him that I know he's gay or should I just not say anything?

[QUOTE=Scrappa;43503748]So today I found out that my crush is gay, he told a friend who let it slip to someone and then she let it slip to a lot of people. He doesn't know that anybody has found out though, nor does he know that I'm gay. I wanted to tell him that I was gay next week anyway and will still do that, but I'm upset that if he tells me he's gay too I will end up telling him that I already knew and his friend let it slip. I'm also not sure what to do if he doesn't tell me that he's gay, should I tell him that I know he's gay or should I just not say anything?[/QUOTE] well if you like like him you should go ask him if he would like to do something with you!

[QUOTE=Saza;43503673][img]http://puu.sh/6hN6j.png[/img] pack your bags, we're through[/QUOTE] Yeah I did that as soon as I saw it. I do it with all stupid flashy avatars which are just distracting.

[QUOTE=Saza;43503777]well if you like like him you should go ask him if he would like to do something with you![/QUOTE] I do really like him, but I'm not worried about asking him to go do something right now. I am just unsure what to say to him now that I know he's gay but he doesn't know I am and he also doesn't know that I've found out he is. [b]Edited:[/b] Also, about asking him to go do something I will probably spend ages worrying about that because I'm from a poor family living on a council estate and he is literally a member of the aristocracy living in a mansion with his own private woods in the back garden. There's quite a class gap, so it's a bit intimidating thinking of how to ask him out.

[QUOTE=Scrappa;43503813]I do really like him, but I'm not worried about asking him to go do something right now. I am just unsure what to say to him now that I know he's gay but he doesn't know I am and he also doesn't know that I've found out he is. [B]Edited:[/B] Also, about asking him to go do something I will probably spend ages worrying about that because I'm from a poor family living on a council estate and he is literally a member of the aristocracy living in a mansion with his own private woods in the back garden. There's quite a class gap, so it's a bit intimidating thinking of how to ask him out.[/QUOTE] If he wants to accept your offer, he'll do it. And it's a date, not marriage, money probably won't matter to him. Just say "Heeyyyy, do you, er, wanna go get coffee later, or something?"

I want my glasses now so I may look upon the world with an icy glare.

[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;43503925]I want my glasses now so I may look upon the world with an icy glare.[/QUOTE] Post pics. (When you get them)

[QUOTE=Scrappa;43503813]I do really like him, but I'm not worried about asking him to go do something right now. I am just unsure what to say to him now that I know he's gay but he doesn't know I am and he also doesn't know that I've found out he is. [b]Edited:[/b] Also, about asking him to go do something I will probably spend ages worrying about that because I'm from a poor family living on a council estate and he is literally a member of the aristocracy living in a mansion with his own private woods in the back garden. There's quite a class gap, so it's a bit intimidating thinking of how to ask him out.[/QUOTE] Don't worry about a 'class' difference - trust me, there was a large difference between me and my ex a while back. I don't keep in contact anymore so I don't know how he and his family are doing now, but if someone likes you for who you are, then in all honesty, why would it matter? I lived in an apartment a year and a half ago. Two room. Parents' bedroom and the kitchen/my room/living room. He lived in a pretty wealthy neighborhood and wasn't exactly worrying about his situation. Didn't stop us. [editline]11th January 2014[/editline] speaking of glasses, it's time for me to get a new pair.. I'm thinking getting a rimless pair.

I need to get a new pair of glasses some times soon, my frames are bent a little bit.

[QUOTE=Saza;43503673][img]http://puu.sh/6hN6j.png[/img] pack your bags, we're through[/QUOTE] I can't do that on mobile :c [editline]12th January 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=MasterFen006;43503341]Depends, do you have it?[/QUOTE] No but it ain't a freaking joke for the folks that do :/

[QUOTE=JackSLO;43504205]I can't do that on mobile :c [editline]12th January 2014[/editline] No but it ain't a freaking joke for the folks that do :/[/QUOTE] If you're rooted there's a version of adblock for Android.

[QUOTE=Scrappa;43503748]So today I found out that my crush is gay, he told a friend who let it slip to someone and then she let it slip to a lot of people. He doesn't know that anybody has found out though, nor does he know that I'm gay. I wanted to tell him that I was gay next week anyway and will still do that, but I'm upset that if he tells me he's gay too I will end up telling him that I already knew and his friend let it slip. I'm also not sure what to do if he doesn't tell me that he's gay, should I tell him that I know he's gay or should I just not say anything?[/QUOTE] If he doesn't say he's gay you should be very careful about saying that you know. You've gotta let people come out in their own time; if you really want to force it (without asking him out) the best thing to do is imply that you thought he was gay, but that just infringes on the accidentally letting him know everyone knows thing. Saza is right I think, if you plan on asking him out at some point you can resolve all these issues by just asking him out when you come out to him. You should also consider letting his friend who let it slip know that it's been spread around so he can go about telling and apologising to the crush, before the crush finds out and gets quite upset with the friend.

[QUOTE=Rubs10;43503940]Post pics. (When you get them)[/QUOTE] I am contractually obligated to keep my countenance consealed.

[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;43504656]I am contractually obligated to keep my countenance consealed.[/QUOTE] are you also obligated to maintain a most bullshit of vocabulary

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;43504287]If you're rooted there's a version of adblock for Android.[/QUOTE] You cannot choose to block your avatar but you can try Firefox

[QUOTE=Zeke129;43503288]Was it his idea to pool your money in a paypal account because that sounds like a great way for him to run off with it all[/QUOTE] We're not pooling the money into a paypal account anymore. I'm going to be working at a nearby restaurant until I can afford the ticket and a few other expenses. [editline]11th January 2014[/editline] I like how you guys are dissing me for once having an internet relationship when half of this thread has done the same exact thing.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43504833]We're not pooling the money into a paypal account anymore. I'm going to be working at a nearby restaurant until I can afford the ticket and a few other expenses. [editline]11th January 2014[/editline] I like how you guys are dissing me for once having an internet relationship when half of this thread has done the same exact thing.[/QUOTE] They were more dissing what you were planning to do, not that you have an internet relationship. With online, you may video cam/mic chat, whatever but even with those there are elements to a person you can't know until you meet them irl. And it's hasty and foolish to just move over there when you have no idea what to expect. It may be a nice fantasy but you need to think things through a bit more.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;43504833]We're not pooling the money into a paypal account anymore. I'm going to be working at a nearby restaurant until I can afford the ticket and a few other expenses. [editline]11th January 2014[/editline] I like how you guys are dissing me for once having an internet relationship when half of this thread has done the same exact thing.[/QUOTE] You weren't being dissed for having an e-relationship. You were being dissed because of how quick you were to dismiss actual, sure-fire help and security in favor of something that could easily be exploitable for no good reason. Doesn't matter if he's your ex or not. He's still someone who's miles away. You can't just up and move to a completely different place and expect to fit right in and adapt.

Take a vacation over there first. And then go home. If you liked it, save up again. [editline]11th January 2014[/editline] Just make sure you have backup money to return home.

With the [B]very[/B] slim chance of this going horribly wrong, I'll still have enough to fly back.

You can't be too sure, dude. Going to somewhere completely different and committing to it is a pretty huge deal. Best to take a few trips if you can.

There's like a billion way this could fuck up

Specially when you never ever met the person irl.

My boyfriend is in the UK, but we're not just gonna up and move to where ever each of us lives. We're gonna visit with each other first. It's kinda required to have a completely trustworthy relationship. You can't just wing these things. There's work required by both parties before you can be for sure.