Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167052]Except there are men who do and women who don't! A man who shaves is still a man and a woman who doesn't is still a woman. Is it really such a pre-requisite?[/QUOTE] God you really like being picky about words, eh? Ever heard about what is opinions or tastes and what exceptions are?

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167056]God you really like being picky about words, eh? Ever heard about what is opinions or tastes and what exceptions are?[/QUOTE] I understand it's an opinion. I'm not trying to be argumentative. I'm asking in that capacity: in your opinion is it really that important? That's the question. [editline]don'thurtmeqq[/editline] The reason I ask is because I agree with you for the most part, but I am dating someone who does shave and he doesn't like the idea of body hair. He doesn't shave absolutely everything but does shave the majority and I'm trying to figure out how I feel about it.

[QUOTE=Zeke129;44166905]lets have a gay chat thread meetup where we all shave each others butts[/QUOTE] can we please do this not because it sounds hot just because it would be so great if someone else could do it for me that would just be so fantastic

I don't really mind body hair on my guys, but on myself I just hate it. My body hair is all black and thick, and I just find it bleh on my own body.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167064]I understand it's an opinion. I'm not trying to be argumentative. I'm asking in that capacity: in your opinion is it really that important? That's the question.[/QUOTE] Yes it is important. Look, I'm bisexual, I find it to be a trait for girls to be well shaved and "clean", while a trait for guys to be, well, guy looking. Hairy or not, since it happens naturally that some people aren't hairy, or not a lot. I'm not going on to seek for a guy to have hairs all over, I'm just not looking for someone who shaves daily, weekly or whatever you guys do, all over. Trim beard and crotch and be done with it, basic hygiene and that's it. Now I'm not going to ditch a possible dude because they shave either, but if they expect me to shave like them too, or more than just trim my beard and my crotch, then I'm sorry, but it's not going to work at all. Matter of taste. TL;DR, I prefer guys with a bit of a more, natural-for-guy look, and my girls with a more-clean-shaved look. Capiche?

Now this is starting to look like a real Gay Chat.

[QUOTE=kalamari13;44162828]Speaking of meeting people. These dudes from OKC want to meet me and it's kinda getting a little unnerving. I sorta want to but at the same time I don't want to risk the embarassment. All of these guys think I have a 'cute' sort of shy, not the 'awkward creep' kind of shy. We've only talked a few days on skype, nothing else really. They have no idea[/QUOTE] OKC, huh? They're only two hours away from me, and I go there to see friends of my own. Small world.

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167093]Yes it is important. Look, I'm bisexual, I find it to be a trait for girls to be well shaved and "clean", while a trait for guys to be, well, guy looking. Hairy or not, since it happens naturally that some people aren't hairy, or not a lot. I'm not going on to seek for a guy to have hairs all over, I'm just not looking for someone who shaves daily, weekly or whatever you guys do, all over. Trim beard and crotch and be done with it, basic hygiene and that's it. [B]Now I'm not going to ditch a possible dude because they shave either, but if they expect me to shave like them too, or more than just trim my beard and my crotch, then I'm sorry, but it's not going to work at all. [/B] Matter of taste. TL;DR, I prefer guys with a bit of a more, natural-for-guy look, and my girls with a more-clean-shaved look. Capiche?[/QUOTE] This is what I think I was hoping to find. Thank you for bearing with me. Sorry for being indirect about it and more argumentative than I needed to be.

[QUOTE=Seiteki;44167112]OKC, huh? They're only two hours away from me, and I go there to see friends of my own. Small world.[/QUOTE] I think he was talking about OKCupid. But on that note, I actually do live in Oklahoma City

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167116]This is what I think I was hoping to find. Thank you for bearing with me. Sorry for being indirect about it and more argumentative than I needed to be.[/QUOTE] Hoping to find what in that? What do you mean? (And don't worry, it's fine, I had the chance to explain my opinion better, too.)

It's the "I don't understand how some people can like men not looking feminine" chat.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;44167135]It's the "I don't understand how some people can like men not looking feminine" chat.[/QUOTE] Yes. It seems so alien here when someone (me for example.) likes guys that aren't feminine/girly, too.

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167141]Yes. It seems so alien here when someone (me for example.) likes guys that aren't feminine/girly, too.[/QUOTE] [URL]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1326877&p=44164681&viewfull=1#post44164681[/URL] ;3 It isn't just you.

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167134]Hoping to find what in that? What do you mean? (And don't worry, it's fine, I had the chance to explain my opinion better, too.)[/QUOTE] I edited this post for clarity but I don't know if you saw it: [QUOTE=gerbe1;44167064]I understand it's an opinion. I'm not trying to be argumentative. I'm asking in that capacity: in your opinion is it really that important? That's the question. [editline]don'thurtmeqq[/editline] The reason I ask is because I agree with you for the most part, but I am dating someone who does shave and he doesn't like the idea of body hair. He doesn't shave absolutely everything but does shave the majority and I'm trying to figure out how I feel about it.[/QUOTE] I wasn't sure what I was looking for when I asked but now I think I can refine it to "can you have a relationship with someone with incompatible hair opinion" :v: it sounds silly but sometimes these small things get in the way. I'm certainly not saying I don't understand how you can like men not looking feminine, I prefer guys with more hair!

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;44167158][URL]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1326877&p=44164681&viewfull=1#post44164681[/URL] ;3 It isn't just you.[/QUOTE] Yeah, that first picture in your post, is a body type I like. But super muscled guys are a turn off for me, on the other hand. :v:

I don't understand how people can like things I don't like.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167164]I edited this post for clarity but I don't know if you saw it: I wasn't sure what I was looking for when I asked but now I think I can refine it to "[B]can you have a relationship with someone with incompatible hair opinion[/B]" :v: it sounds silly but sometimes these small things get in the way. I'm certainly not saying I don't understand how you can like men not looking feminine, I prefer guys with more hair![/QUOTE] To answer to bold part. Yes, as long as they don't give no shit about me being hairy.

Going to America today, woo :P

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167093] Now I'm not going to ditch a possible dude because they shave either, but if they expect me to shave like them too, or more than just trim my beard and my crotch, then I'm sorry, but it's not going to work at all. [/QUOTE] I don't know if it's because of my submissive nature or because I don't like my own body hair, but I kind of like the idea of a guy who expects me to shave

[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;44167141]Yes. It seems so alien here when someone (me for example.) likes guys that aren't feminine/girly, too.[/QUOTE] I think, from what you said, it could have been inferred that you were saying that you didn't think feminine men were still men. "I like my guys, guys. I'm not seeking to find a girl when looking for a guy." Might have been a little rough way to say what you were trying to say... to some people, at least. Then it just kind of snowballed. But whatever. Opinions and stuff. Masculinity, femininity, blah blah blah. I need something new to watch on Netflix, any suggestions?

I should really shave my legs but it grows back so fast. An epilator might be something to consider, possibly. High heeled boots aren't fun with hairy legs.

[QUOTE=brutalmoose;44167190]I think, from what you said, it could have been inferred that you were saying that you didn't think feminine men were still men. "I like my guys, guys. I'm not seeking to find a girl when looking for a guy." Might have been a little rough way to say what you were trying to say... to some people, at least. Then it just kind of snowballed. But whatever. Opinions and stuff. Masculinity, femininity, blah blah blah. I need something new to watch on Netflix, any suggestions?[/QUOTE] Argh no I wasn't being offended about it or anything. This is terrible I feel so bad. It's the first time I have caused something like this to happen. I've ruined my excellent record :v:

[QUOTE=brutalmoose;44167190]I need something new to watch on Netflix, any suggestions?[/QUOTE] mythbusters binge holy shit I did that one saturday, literally spent about 7-8 hours just watching mythbusters i guess i just can't get enough mythbusters mythbusters mythbusters mythbusters

[QUOTE=Alexak75;44167200]mythbusters binge holy shit I did that one saturday, literally spent about 7-8 hours just watching mythbusters i guess i just can't get enough mythbusters mythbusters mythbusters mythbusters[/QUOTE] Hmm... I guess I could do Mythbusters. Last new thing I watched was House of Cards, though, so I'm kind of wanting to get invested in another drama/thriller.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167199]Argh no I wasn't being offended about it or anything. This is terrible I feel so bad. It's the first time I have caused something like this to happen. I've ruined my excellent record :v:[/QUOTE] Duuude don't sweat it! No one's angry with you or anything, and it's not caused any long-term drama. You're in the clear.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44167199]This is terrible I feel so bad. It's the first time I have caused something like this to happen. I've ruined my excellent record :v:[/QUOTE] when in doubt, lurk [editline]8th March 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=brutalmoose;44167202]Hmm... I guess I could do Mythbusters. Last new thing I watched was House of Cards, though, so I'm kind of wanting to get invested in another drama/thriller.[/QUOTE] oh my god I influenced a famous youtuber by the rules of the internet I must now be flooded with self-pride and accomplishment

[QUOTE=brutalmoose;44167202]Hmm... I guess I could do Mythbusters. Last new thing I watched was House of Cards, though, so I'm kind of wanting to get invested in another drama/thriller.[/QUOTE] Twin Peaks is pretty drama/thrillish, but I dunno if it'd be what you're really looking for. It's an acquired taste :v:

[QUOTE=Mysterious;44167236]Twin Peaks is pretty drama/thrillish, but I dunno if it'd be what you're really looking for. It's an acquired taste :v:[/QUOTE] high five fellow Lynchbro

I forgot that my tutor is good at comics. [t]http://puu.sh/7ncHr[/t]

[QUOTE=Mysterious;44167236]Twin Peaks is pretty drama/thrillish, but I dunno if it'd be what you're really looking for. It's an acquired taste :v:[/QUOTE] Coincidentally, Twin Peaks is my favorite world of warcraft zone. [editline]8th March 2014[/editline] [sp]oh god dont kil me[/sp]