Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

There was that flash game called Madness Nexus that had awesome main menu soundtrack. I was just sitting in my chair for dozens of minutes just listening to it.

Okay, so I'm pretty sure there's a/some gay guys where I go to school/work (it's complicated), but I have no interest in interaction with them because they seem really fucking flamboyant and generally annoyingly... Gay - I mean, I'm fine with them being that way, I just don't want anything to do with it, I'm not like that (people get suprised when I tell them I'm gay, [I]aside from the scarf[/I]) and I'd rather not be with anyone like that as either friends or anything more. On the other hand I don't think I'm in the best place to be picky, and it might lead to me meeting more gay people, but I'll refrain from contact anyways because... Yeah, am I being stupid? [editline]5th April 2014[/editline] I mean, I'm totally fine with sorta feminine guys, but they're just so much waaay beyond that.

I know what you are meaning and I understand that fully. I don't think I'd enjoy such person's company for longer times.

Well, as I told the guys I asked on Steam: [QUOTE]16:44 - Rauthr: Just kinda asking for opinions to assure me I'm not a dick for backing out on it even though I complain about not meeting any gay guys. [/QUOTE]

Yeah! I just got got Gold Nova 3. [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LIUHQFV.png?1[/IMG]

My initial rank after my 10th win was Gold Nova 2, I was pretty pleased with that.

103rd win, still Nova 2 :(

Blueberry beer was an expensive buy last night not only for my wallet but my thighs But so worth it [editline]5th April 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Cuon Alpinus;44457687]The LGBT center is filled with tumblr feminists and flamey gay guys, and the only cute ones there are straight. As for gay recreational establishments- there are none here. I do make the effort to sit down with random lone guys at dinner/lunch, but all I've been met with is straight dudes. They're nice, though.[/QUOTE] Really just gotta put yourself out there and let yourself be found. Thats how I met my BF, it wasn't even really on a dating site for the purposes of dating. We just chatted on AIM for a month or so before we met up and then woosh 2.5 years later Alternatively become furry :v:. Theres a ridiculous amount of "normal guy" gay people in the fandom, to the point where at times it feels more like a more honest representation of the gay population at large than the actual "pride parade" gay community you'd find in SF or so. You just have to watch out for the weirdos. We've been lucky I guess in that just by going to a couple of cons we've made about a dozen+ new guy-friends who are all gay, really cool to hang out with, and otherwise just normal dudes who happen to have common interests. If we wanted we could head to just about any direction in the country and find someone's house to crash at or hang out with :v: Granted none of these friends are local so

Strawberry and Lime Cider is the best thing since Kanye West.

[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;44459988]Okay, so I'm pretty sure there's a/some gay guys where I go to school/work (it's complicated), but I have no interest in interaction with them because they seem really fucking flamboyant and generally annoyingly... Gay - I mean, I'm fine with them being that way, I just don't want anything to do with it, I'm not like that (people get suprised when I tell them I'm gay, [I]aside from the scarf[/I]) and I'd rather not be with anyone like that as either friends or anything more. On the other hand I don't think I'm in the best place to be picky, and it might lead to me meeting more gay people, but I'll refrain from contact anyways because... Yeah, am I being stupid? [editline]5th April 2014[/editline] I mean, I'm totally fine with sorta feminine guys, but they're just so much waaay beyond that.[/QUOTE] I've learned that I love feminine guys as friends after I had a BF. I really don't care for fem guys at all relationship/sex wise, but they are so fun to be around when you aren't being distracted by how much they aren't your type, and as such both of you know you aren't really interested in dating each other. It's like having a normal guy friend, except both of you can point at dudes you think are hot instead of the whole "Oh thats right, you don't like girls" thing.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;44460223]Yeah! I just got got Gold Nova 3. [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LIUHQFV.png?1[/IMG][/QUOTE] I just got Silver Elite Master :v:

[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;44459988]Okay, so I'm pretty sure there's a/some gay guys where I go to school/work (it's complicated), but I have no interest in interaction with them because they seem really fucking flamboyant and generally annoyingly... Gay - I mean, I'm fine with them being that way, I just don't want anything to do with it, I'm not like that (people get suprised when I tell them I'm gay, [I]aside from the scarf[/I]) and I'd rather not be with anyone like that as either friends or anything more. On the other hand I don't think I'm in the best place to be picky, and it might lead to me meeting more gay people, but I'll refrain from contact anyways because... Yeah, am I being stupid? [editline]5th April 2014[/editline] I mean, I'm totally fine with sorta feminine guys, but they're just so much waaay beyond that.[/QUOTE] That sounds like selection bias of the loudest being heard most, though.

[QUOTE=KorJax;44460775]I've learned that I love feminine guys as friends after I had a BF. I really don't care for fem guys at all relationship/sex wise, but they are so fun to be around when you aren't being distracted by how much they aren't your type, and as such both of you know you aren't really interested in dating each other. It's like having a normal guy friend, except both of you can point at dudes you think are hot instead of the whole "Oh thats right, you don't like girls" thing.[/QUOTE] But it's not like that, I find the whole flamboyant thing really annoying and off-putting; I have nothing against guys who are slightly to medium feminine really, but beyond a certain point it just gets really weird and annoying for me - But not in a judgemental way, all power to them if that's how they are, I just don't really want to be with them in any capacity.

[QUOTE=KorJax;44460613] Really just gotta put yourself out there and let yourself be found. Thats how I met my BF, it wasn't even really on a dating site for the purposes of dating. We just chatted on AIM for a month or so before we met up and then woosh 2.5 years later Alternatively become furry :v:. Theres a ridiculous amount of "normal guy" gay people in the fandom, to the point where at times it feels more like a more honest representation of the gay population at large than the actual "pride parade" gay community you'd find in SF or so. You just have to watch out for the weirdos. We've been lucky I guess in that just by going to a couple of cons we've made about a dozen+ new guy-friends who are all gay, really cool to hang out with, and otherwise just normal dudes who happen to have common interests. If we wanted we could head to just about any direction in the country and find someone's house to crash at or hang out with :v: Granted none of these friends are local so[/QUOTE] To be fair, weird furries are extremely easy to spot from a mile away.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;44460223]Yeah! I just got got Gold Nova 3. [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LIUHQFV.png?1[/IMG][/QUOTE] I just got this today too, 3 star bros for life

[QUOTE=fishyfish777;44460799]That sounds like selection bias of the loudest being heard most, though.[/QUOTE] Well, yes, not saying they represent them all, just that these are the first danish gay guys I've really noticed and I don't feel like having anything to do with them. GODDAMNIT GUYS MY MERGE

Working in that suit is hell, my neck is killing me, is it worth it to be able to list my job as 'Pirate Lemur'? Hell fucking yeah it is

apparently we have to keep a chair in front of the drawer that holds the trash bin because one of our dogs learned how to open it :v: [QUOTE=Uzbekistan;44460832]Working in that suit is hell, my neck is killing me, is it worth it to be able to list my job as 'Pirate Lemur'? Hell fucking yeah it is[/QUOTE] [img]http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41b4ipefRiL._SY300_.jpg[/img] ????

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[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;44457587]holy shit a response that wasn't "make them gay" [editline]40[/editline] Meeting gays is really hard and I would also like to know where to meet them that doesn't involve creepy gay bars, dating sites, and random hook ups.[/QUOTE] I'm friends with lots of queers. Make friends with artsy, liberal, Hipster people, go to concerts and parties and just continue socializing. Eventually you'll find guys you like.

you guys need to toke up more

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another day another weird dream this one involved guys with chainsaws running around attacking everything, I got decapitated, and my head grew legs. Then I started leaping around and biting people until I got flattened by somebody's foot. I got thrown onto a plate, covered in butter and syrup, and I woke up just as I was about to get eaten.

[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;44461038]Check your PMs, we seem to have a different recollection of what I got mad at you for.[/QUOTE] Oh okay, I understand now. Sorry for the confusion.

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