Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny?
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When I came out my mum was like "Oh okay wow" (in a good way not 'oh okay wow i hope you die son omg'), my friends were pretty surprised to a small extent but were otherwise accepting of it, my older sister said she'd always thought it might be the case and apparently my sister shouted "WOO, GAY BROTHER" the moment she found out :v:
My Mum worked out that I was Bi, from my boyfriend staying over heaps.
Came in and asked "Are you Bi/gay?" Said I was bi, she just looked at me for a second, then said, "Fuck yes won a bet!" and walked out.
Mom was like: Mkay I don't really care, love you anyway.
Dad was like: ... (and still wont talk about it)
Gran was like: [B]FUCKING KNEW IT[/B]
v:v:v
Fucking hell I wish I was fully just Bi. It's so annoying to explain how I'm asexual.
Most all of my conversations about my sexuality (because it usually starts with someone making a gay joke or referencing how I would date a guy if I liked him)
Them: "You'd be with a dude?"
Me: "Yeah.."
Them: "So you're gay?"
Me: "No."
Them: "Then you're bi!"
Me: "No... I'm asexual."
Them: "haha what so you reproduce with yourself?"
Me: *cringe and refrain from violence*
I used to just end up being the 'gay' friend to some of the girls I knew anyways. They would change in front of me and I'd just sit there playing my games.
What does being asexual mean though? I know there is a wiki but like I want to hear what it means from an asexual person.
[QUOTE=Catscratch;43042794]Fucking hell I wish I was fully just Bi. It's so annoying to explain how I'm asexual.
Most all of my conversations about my sexuality (because it usually starts with someone making a gay joke or referencing how I would date a guy if I liked him)
Them: "You'd be with a dude?"
Me: "Yeah.."
Them: "So you're gay?"
Me: "No."
Them: "Then you're bi!"
Me: "No... I'm asexual."
Them: "haha what so you reproduce with yourself?"
Me: *cringe and refrain from violence*
I used to just end up being the 'gay' friend to some of the girls I knew anyways. They would change in front of me and I'd just sit there playing my games.[/QUOTE]
''....Mom...Dad... I have something to tell you that I've been keeping to myself for a while....
*gulps
I-.....I'm a clown.
*honk honk''
[QUOTE=Firecat;43042760]I kind of got a couple shitty "yeah ok" replies when I told a few close Internet friends I was bi. I've been told it's usually just "for attention" or something. I don't really understand how anyone could use ones sexuality as an attention grabber or whatever. I can't even think about coming out to people I know close in real life (mostly because they don't really need to know right now, and I don't need to be mocked or something right now in life), why the fuck would people do that just to grab attention? I can't think of a logical reason why anyone would do that. Sorry if my post is kind of sloppy or misunderstood as I am on my phone and I don't really know what words to put my thoughts in.[/QUOTE]
Even worse is telling people one's pansexual, because there's three responses to that:
-u like pans??? lel
-having to explain it, then getting some shit response
-oh you're doing that just for attention, to be different, you're just gay/bi
I just... stick to saying i'm bi nowadays
[QUOTE=ultra_bright;43042679]Sounds like there's a bit of denial going on there and they're not comfortable talking about it.
At least that's what my parents are like. But they're fine with me bringing my boyfriend over and my mom really wants to meet him. The last time she missed out, she got really angry with me.[/QUOTE]
I doubt it'd be denial. And even so, it's not like they'd hate me for it. They're pretty open minded when it comes to gay stuff :v:
As for the rest of my family, barring my siblings, I dunno how they'd feel. Most likely, denial or begrudging acceptance
[QUOTE=Firecat;43042911]I literally asked the same question right after haha.
Also he just told me to repost it here if anyone thinks I'm being an ass posting his reply without his permission or something.[/QUOTE]
Wow that must suck, no offense.
Despite it's total irrelevance to the subject at hand I feel it's worth noting that I have just discovered my CD tray has been open for the last 7 hours :v:
I haven't used my CD tray in a long while.
What's a CD
I haven't used my CD tray in so long that it gets stuck and you have to press the button exactly 18 times to open it. Had it for 8 years though.
[QUOTE=Firecat;43042760]I kind of got a couple shitty "yeah ok" replies when I told a few close Internet friends I was bi. I've been told it's usually just "for attention" or something. I don't really understand how anyone could use ones sexuality as an attention grabber or whatever. I can't even think about coming out to people I know close in real life (mostly because they don't really need to know right now, and I don't need to be mocked or something right now in life), why the fuck would people do that just to grab attention? I can't think of a logical reason why anyone would do that. Sorry if my post is kind of sloppy or misunderstood as I am on my phone and I don't really know what words to put my thoughts in.[/QUOTE]
I'm straight.
Gimme muh attention
I was installing Medal of Honor Allied Assault okay it was well worth going back to using it for the nostalgia trip. :v:
[QUOTE=garychencool;43043053]I'm straight.
Gimme muh attention[/QUOTE]
You're allowed to be straight as long as you're not narrow~
[QUOTE=Shark Bones;43043044]What's a CD[/QUOTE]
[img]http://trendsupdates.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/disk.jpg[/img]
This is a CD I think
[QUOTE=Mysterious;43043059][img]http://trendsupdates.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/disk.jpg[/img]
This is a CD I think[/QUOTE]
Remember when video games used to come on these?
me neither because im not 65 years old GRANDPA
[QUOTE=Catscratch;43043058]You're allowed to be straight as long as you're not narrow~[/QUOTE]
What
[QUOTE=garychencool;43043069]What[/QUOTE]
Don't be a homophobe and you're fine :p
Catscratch, what is it like to be asexual? I'm curious.
[QUOTE=Catscratch;43043073]Don't be a homophobe and you're fine :p[/QUOTE]
Ohhhhh
Don't worry, I'm pretty open minded
[QUOTE=HeavyGuy;43043063]Remember when video games used to come on these?
me neither because im not 65 years old GRANDPA[/QUOTE]
No, I remember when they came on these.
[img]http://images.sodahead.com/polls/003207127/2827623253_floppy8_answer_2_xlarge.jpeg[/img]
The only game I had on a floppy disk was Home Alone.
[img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-hlClhHJXdMM/TbzzbBYNtRI/AAAAAAAAAL4/ptb5Sks6W4Y/s1600/home-alone-2-pc-game-dos-dosbox-1.JPG[/img]
It was pretty terrible.
[QUOTE=Xieneus;43043082]Catscratch, what is it like to be asexual? I'm curious.[/QUOTE]
It was tough to decide how to explain, so here
[video=youtube;xv6d-LK8Hns]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xv6d-LK8Hns[/video]
But no really what's it like to be ... bisexual or gay or whatever you are?
I don't really care for the labels themselves. Labels make people try to fit to what te label is described as. Where your affection lies is where it lies. It doesn't need to fit any name of definition.
Honestly, no label can really be applied to anyone. Gender, sexuality, even race labels don't work. They're only good for a somewhat vague idea of who are.
[IMG]http://ibiblio.org/comphist/files/images/CensusData.jpg[/IMG]
Guys, this is where it's at
[QUOTE=Sgt. Khorn;43043134]I don't really care for the labels themselves. Labels make people try to fit to what te label is described as. Where your affection lies is where it lies. It doesn't need to fit any name of definition.
Honestly, no label can really be applied to anyone. Gender, sexuality, even race labels don't work. They're only good for a somewhat vague idea of who are.[/QUOTE]
This is basically what my parents told me.
When I came out to my family it was quite the opposite of what usually happens. I was all negative and they were like "wtf why are you crying what's wrong with that" :v:
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