Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=gerbe1;44666181]It's also usually very difficult to do. Someone's arm is always in an awkward position.[/QUOTE] As a huge guy I'm always the big spoon, the trick is to put one arm under his neck and bring it back round to hold his chest, and put the other arm over him as normal.

I used to be really into kissing and found it really hot before I had a BF, but no so much anymore. It got to the point where I felt like I was kissing just to kiss/makeout rather than actually sincerely kiss. Sometimes I'd just kiss for [I]really[/I] long amounts of time, which is awkward and feels like I'm wasting time :v: I much prefer cuddles/squeezing/hugging now. That said occasionally I see a picture or video of guys kissing in an erotic fashion and when done just right its a super big turn on. I don't know what makes it just right though, most of the time it doesn't do anything for me anymore. [editline]28th April 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=G-foxisus;44666686]So, apparently the person whom I was supposed to go with to NYC has been silent to me for the past few months, despite numerous attempts at contact. I've known this person for more than a year and I really trusted that person too; been planning this for several months and invested a lot of time in it. Now I'll be stranded in NYC alone for 9 days if I don't find a way to fix this. Seriously, trust is such a rare virtue nowadays (it wont go without saying that I'm not the most trustworthy person there is, but this is very different).[/QUOTE] Trust is one of the most valuable assets you can have with other people. The fact that nobody seems to respect this at all is mind boggling. Trust is what gets you jobs, what gets you into the good parties, what gets you amazing opportunities, what gets you a good relationship, its how you actually maintain friendships, etc. Literally the backbone of any social/relationship interaction is trust, and if you blow that you've blown a lot more than what you might have saved by breaking that trust. No matter how insignificant the other person seems at that moment in time, it is always worth keeping that trust. You never know when you need to rely on them in the future, if they'll be able to help you land that job you've wanted, if they'll be able to help you with some other thing, etc. I have a friend who lives out of state and was set to drive one of his friends to the airport to catch a plane. This was a planned event months in advance - his friend was visiting and in state for two weeks and needed to catch a plane to fly back at the end of those two weeks. Well, turns out that friend just blew him off and forced his friend to not only almost missing his flight, but also have to pay a shit load of money to a taxi driver for him to get to the airport on time. The reason why he blew him off? Supposedly it was because he was grieving over his dead mother who died the week before, and that day they had did the burning of the ashes. Except he never liked his mom when she was alive. Okay... so lets assume he started feeling things for her after death, that's not really unheard of and its still a sad event. But the ashes were already burned many hours before he needed to pick up his friend and drive him to the airport. Okay... so lets assume the whole thing just kept him really sad and broken all day. Except for the fact that during the time he was supposed to drive his friend to the airport, he instead spent it hanging out with his boyfriend and going on a valentines date. He kept making excuses otherwise though. TL:DR friend tries to convince everyone that the reason he broke prior commitments with a friend that ended up costing that friend a lot of money and almost a lot of time was because of recently dead mother even though it was really because he wanted to go on a date and he was totally fine enough to do that. Moral of the story is, trust is important. If I was in his situation there is no way in hell I'd break that trust by deciding to blow off my friend at his financial expense to do something else. I'm just too loyal and value trust too much to let that happen. [editline]28th April 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Roll_Program;44667438]As a huge guy I'm always the big spoon, the trick is to put one arm under his neck and bring it back round to hold his chest, and put the other arm over him as normal.[/QUOTE] I always imagined you as a really skinny tight-jeans type of guy for some reason haha

[QUOTE=KorJax;44667610]I used to be really into kissing and found it really hot before I had a BF, but no so much anymore. It got to the point where I felt like I was kissing just to kiss/makeout rather than actually sincerely kiss. Sometimes I'd just kiss for [I]really[/I] long amounts of time, which is awkward and feels like I'm wasting time :v: I much prefer cuddles/squeezing/hugging now. That said occasionally I see a picture or video of guys kissing in an erotic fashion and when done just right its a super big turn on. I don't know what makes it just right though, most of the time it doesn't do anything for me anymore. [editline]28th April 2014[/editline] Trust is one of the most valuable assets you can have with other people. The fact that nobody seems to respect this at all is mind boggling. Trust is what gets you jobs, what gets you into the good parties, what gets you amazing opportunities, what gets you a good relationship, its how you actually maintain friendships, etc. Literally the backbone of any social/relationship interaction is trust, and if you blow that you've blown a lot more than what you might have saved by breaking that trust. No matter how insignificant the other person seems at that moment in time, it is always worth keeping that trust. You never know when you need to rely on them in the future, if they'll be able to help you land that job you've wanted, if they'll be able to help you with some other thing, etc. I have a friend who lives out of state and was set to drive one of his friends to the airport to catch a plane. This was a planned event months in advance - his friend was visiting and in state for two weeks and needed to catch a plane to fly back at the end of those two weeks. Well, turns out that friend just blew him off and forced his friend to not only almost missing his flight, but also have to pay a shit load of money to a taxi driver for him to get to the airport on time. The reason why he blew him off? Supposedly it was because he was grieving over his dead mother who died the week before, and that day they had did the burning of the ashes. Except he never liked his mom when she was alive. Okay... so lets assume he started feeling things for her after death, that's not really unheard of and its still a sad event. But the ashes were already burned many hours before he needed to pick up his friend and drive him to the airport. Okay... so lets assume the whole thing just kept him really sad and broken all day. Except for the fact that during the time he was supposed to drive his friend to the airport, he instead spent it hanging out with his boyfriend and going on a valentines date. He kept making excuses otherwise though. TL:DR friend tries to convince everyone that the reason he broke prior commitments with a friend that ended up costing that friend a lot of money and almost a lot of time was because of recently dead mother even though it was really because he wanted to go on a date and he was totally fine enough to do that. Moral of the story is, trust is important. If I was in his situation there is no way in hell I'd break that trust by deciding to blow off my friend at his financial expense to do something else. I'm just too loyal and value trust too much to let that happen. [editline]28th April 2014[/editline] I always imagined you as a really skinny tight-jeans type of guy for some reason haha[/QUOTE] Huge as in tall, I'm still pretty skinny though, to put things in perspective I'm 6'6" and 210~ lbs now.

I don't contribute to this thread that much penis

comrades who live in the southern united states please keep an eye to the sky today, the conditions are ripe for supercell thunderstorms

[QUOTE=Xieneus;44667897]comrades who live in the southern united states please keep an eye to the sky today, the conditions are ripe for supercell thunderstorms[/QUOTE] Oh great. Time to hide in my bed for an hour or so when it hits!

[QUOTE=Mysterious;44667961]Oh great. Time to hide in my bed for an hour or so when it hits![/QUOTE] You can't run from heaven !

[QUOTE=Xieneus;44667897]comrades who live in the southern united states please keep an eye to the sky today, the conditions are ripe for supercell thunderstorms[/QUOTE] Hi there, it came and went in northern Louisiana. I got woke up by some scary thunder but i'm alright. We heard it was gonna be worse but eh, I cuddled up in bed and ended up not dying thankfully.

[QUOTE=Mysterious;44667961]Oh great. Time to hide in my bed for an hour or so when it hits![/QUOTE] [IMG]http://www.spc.noaa.gov/products/md/mcd0451.gif[/IMG] [quote] CONCERNING...SEVERE POTENTIAL...TORNADO WATCH LIKELY VALID 281705Z - 281900Z PROBABILITY OF WATCH ISSUANCE...95 PERCENT SUMMARY...TORNADO WATCH IS HIGHLY PROBABLE WITHIN NEXT HOUR ACROSS DISCUSSION AREA. SUPERCELLS ARE EXPECTED TO DEVELOP IN BKN/SW-NE BAND AND INTENSIFY THROUGH AFTN WITH A FEW SIGNIFICANT/LONG-TRACK TORNADOES POSSIBLE. DISCUSSION...EARLIER CONVECTION HAS LEFT OUTFLOW/DIFFERENTIAL-HEATING BOUNDARY ALIGNED SW-NE ACROSS DISCUSSION AREA...BECOMING MORE DIFFUSE WITH SWWD EXTENT AT SFC. MEANWHILE VIS IMAGERY SHOWS EXPANDING POCKETS OF RELATIVELY CLOUD-FREE AREAS THAT WILL FOSTER SUSTAINED PERIOD OF INSOLATION AND QUICK SBCINH REMOVAL. MODIFIED RAOBS AND FCST SOUNDINGS OVER THIS CORRIDOR SUGGEST 1500-2500 J/KG MLCAPE WILL BUILD NEWD. IN THIS ENVIRONMENT...TSTMS ALREADY ARE DEVELOPING OVER NERN LA INVOF MLU...AND IF NOT ALREADY SFC-BASED...MAY BECOME SO SHORTLY. ADDITIONAL CONVECTION IS LIKELY TO FORM NEWD ACROSS MS INTO SRN MID TN AND NWRN AL AS AIR MASS THERE DESTABILIZES IN NEXT 2-3 HOURS. DEEP-LAYER AND LOW-LEVEL SHEAR EACH ARE FAVORABLE AND WILL REMAIN SO...WITH 50-70 KT EFFECTIVE SHEAR MAGNITUDES. EFFECTIVE SRH SHOULD INCREASE THROUGH AFTN TO AROUND 300 J/KG...AND VWP ALREADY SHOW 300-500 J/KG OF 0-3 KM SRH OVER NERN MS. ..EDWARDS/THOMPSON.. 04/28/2014[/quote] mesoscale discussion, the suck zone

The April 2011 storms were some of the worst I have ever seen. Saw the roof of a warehouse get ripped off and thrashed into another building. Constant cloud-to-ground lightning, extremely high winds, torrential downpours of rain and hail, shit like that. My dad said he was right next to a tornado on the Pigeon Forge strip when trying to come home. I was really scared then.

RIP sexiest voice on the planet (jk, tho i just cant get the voice from Xieneus out of my head even for like 2 years)

Oh good it's mostly in Mississippi. We may still get some pop ups and break offs, though. Sorry Mississippians :c

[QUOTE=KorJax;44667610] Trust is one of the most valuable assets you can have with other people. The fact that nobody seems to respect this at all is mind boggling. Trust is what gets you jobs, what gets you into the good parties, what gets you amazing opportunities, what gets you a good relationship, its how you actually maintain friendships, etc. Literally the backbone of any social/relationship interaction is trust, and if you blow that you've blown a lot more than what you might have saved by breaking that trust. No matter how insignificant the other person seems at that moment in time, it is always worth keeping that trust. You never know when you need to rely on them in the future, if they'll be able to help you land that job you've wanted, if they'll be able to help you with some other thing, etc. I have a friend who lives out of state and was set to drive one of his friends to the airport to catch a plane. This was a planned event months in advance - his friend was visiting and in state for two weeks and needed to catch a plane to fly back at the end of those two weeks. Well, turns out that friend just blew him off and forced his friend to not only almost missing his flight, but also have to pay a shit load of money to a taxi driver for him to get to the airport on time. The reason why he blew him off? Supposedly it was because he was grieving over his dead mother who died the week before, and that day they had did the burning of the ashes. Except he never liked his mom when she was alive. Okay... so lets assume he started feeling things for her after death, that's not really unheard of and its still a sad event. But the ashes were already burned many hours before he needed to pick up his friend and drive him to the airport. Okay... so lets assume the whole thing just kept him really sad and broken all day. Except for the fact that during the time he was supposed to drive his friend to the airport, he instead spent it hanging out with his boyfriend and going on a valentines date. He kept making excuses otherwise though. TL:DR friend tries to convince everyone that the reason he broke prior commitments with a friend that ended up costing that friend a lot of money and almost a lot of time was because of recently dead mother even though it was really because he wanted to go on a date and he was totally fine enough to do that. Moral of the story is, trust is important. If I was in his situation there is no way in hell I'd break that trust by deciding to blow off my friend at his financial expense to do something else. I'm just too loyal and value trust too much to let that happen. [/QUOTE] To vent even further, I've been met with "betrayal" and tests of trusts so many times in my life, I cannot even undergo a relationship with anyone anymore; same goes with close friends. I keep them at bay because I've experienced time and time again that I'll be lied to. I have been untrue others before, but that was after pondering on it for several weeks, experiencing nothing but anxiety and stress, alongside depression and such. The most annoying thing of all is probably that I've never really felt close to anyone ever in my life; not in a loving way or in a friendship type of way. I see people, friends and the like, as means to an end, because I've stopped trying putting trust in others, only to have it squandered. That doesn't mean you have to be a complete robot, lacking all feelings, but you should take some measures to ensure that you're the party that comes out the strongest, and not fall on your face because you invested so much in others. Kind of made me think a lil and I came to a conclusion that [I]others simply do not care as much as you care for yourself.[/I] Parents and your partner might care, but only to a certain extend, as they have worries of their own to take care of. If you make mistakes, only you will remember them. Others will forget because they do not care enough. And that's a good thing

[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;44668076]RIP sexiest voice on the planet (jk, tho i just cant get the voice from Xieneus out of my head even for like 2 years)[/QUOTE] you fool I live in New York, I don't live in the deep south. I just like following meteorological events

[QUOTE=Xieneus;44668110]you fool I live in New York, I don't live in the deep south. I just like following meteorological events[/QUOTE] The more you know.

It's gonna go through most of Middle Tennessee, and I live in the far eastern part, so I should be okay. Still, there could be break offs and pop ups, though.

The really severe stuff doesn't look like it'll be heading down where I live, so that's good at least. I'll still be getting normal thunder storms though, not that that's a bad thing. The worst I've seen was the storm on the eve of my graduation day in 2010. Really heavy rains, with a bunch of tornadoes that destroyed a significant chunk of the town that I was living near at the time, including the high school I was supposed to graduate from.

[IMG]http://www.spc.noaa.gov/products/watch/ww0108_radar_big.gif[/IMG] [IMG]http://puu.sh/8rbLE.png[/IMG] the watch is live, this is the danger zone [quote] [highlight]...THIS IS A PARTICULARLY DANGEROUS SITUATION...[/highlight] * PRIMARY THREATS INCLUDE... NUMEROUS TORNADOES EXPECTED WITH A FEW INTENSE TORNADOES LIKELY WIDESPREAD LARGE HAIL EXPECTED WITH ISOLATED VERY LARGE HAIL EVENTS TO 3 INCHES IN DIAMETER LIKELY SCATTERED DAMAGING WIND GUSTS TO 70 MPH LIKELY [/quote]

well, today's been solidly half decent. [url=https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/31421373/Camera%20Uploads/IMG_20140428_141954.jpg]burned the shit[/url] out of my left arm and tore the skin off, and then my headset broke too, but then I went and chilled with the girlfriend listening to jethro tull for like three hours how've you all been lately? I haven't talked with many of you

My life has been slowly but surely rising out of the sterotype circle just to fall right back in. Seriously though, lately (except the musical event which was genuinely amazing) only intersting thing was into what level can my classmates rise my disgusts for them. I believe today we hit the ceiling (or rather, I really hope so).

[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;44668648]My life has been slowly but surely rising out of the sterotype circle just to fall right back in. Seriously though, lately (except the musical event which was genuinely amazing) only intersting thing was into what level can my classmates rise my disgusts for them. I believe today we hit the ceiling (or rather, I really hope so).[/QUOTE] You will prob. brake the ceiling numberless times, but let me give you an advice: Get earbuds and listen to music everytime they try to annoy you. Also will be getting a new tablet tommorow. Cant wait to draw dicks n shit.

shit, under a tornado watch and the sky is getting dark, why do we have every terrible natural disaster in this country :(

[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;44668786]You will prob. brake the ceiling numberless times, but let me give you an advice: Get earbuds and listen to music everytime they try to annoy you. Also will be getting a new tablet tommorow. Cant wait to draw dicks n shit.[/QUOTE] You'd be surprised but it's hard to focus on music when your classmate is jerking off in a class into ice-cream cone, throwing it into Cola and then drinking it. Yes, THAT actually happened.

Fucking what.

Today has been fun, gone from suspected wax build up to ear infection then to bells palsy because of the infection. I can't control half of my face and now I'm drugged as fuck on antivirals and steroids. What's worse is its so hard to eat and drink because my lower lip has no control.

I need to go to fucking sleep. GNIGHT.

Thought I'd finally drop in and say hello! Been lurking here a little bit but finally got the confidence to say something!

[QUOTE=Whitewolf;44669371]Thought I'd finally drop in and say hello! Been lurking here a little bit but finally got the confidence to say something![/QUOTE] One of us, one of us.

[QUOTE=Whitewolf;44669371]Thought I'd finally drop in and say hello! Been lurking here a little bit but finally got the confidence to say something![/QUOTE] Welcome to the Gay Chat!

My new job is pretty great, all the coffee I can drink from a kanye west mug I found, my own desk, my own phone, keys that open drawers that seem to be completely lost, and two screens! That's more than one!