Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Qaus;45122277]i have an interview on the 19th i'm excited, i might actually start making money![/QUOTE] oh i forgot to mention, i got the job. $11.75/hr is pretty fuckin good for a first job, right?

I've started to become attracted to guys over the last couple years. I've never been with one before, what would you guys suggest? I wouldn't know where to start. I can't even tell who else is gay most of the time.

[QUOTE=THEMikeDurham;45181957]I've started to become attracted to guys over the last couple years. I've never been with one before, what would you guys suggest? I wouldn't know where to start. I can't even tell who else is gay most of the time.[/QUOTE] Just follow the rainbow flow~

[QUOTE=THEMikeDurham;45181957]I've started to become attracted to guys over the last couple years. I've never been with one before, what would you guys suggest? I wouldn't know where to start. I can't even tell who else is gay most of the time.[/QUOTE] Honestly, I have same problem as you.

[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;45182435]Honestly, I have same problem as you.[/QUOTE] The conservative midwest sucks in this regard. Nobody outright hates gays, openly at least, but there is still that stigma that surrounds it. So you never know someone is truly gay unless you're friends with them.

What sucks is, psychologically, you kinda need a couple relationships under your belt early (before like 24)* and it's during that time that people are stuck in their home towns or places that they don't really choose to be and when you are of an alternative sexuality that isn't catered for you will struggle to find the relationships you need to develop socially. What sucks even more is that after the first couple (unless you're me who acknowledges it but doesn't care because I'm dumb) of relationships you realise that like/attraction/lust =/= relationship material** and then suddenly you become content without a relationship. Or at least can survive. I base this on my observations of people I try to get into relationships with who turn me down because they're emotionally unavailable, not because of me... so they say -.- *** *according to my psychologist **according to my psychologist and my sister and everyone I tell about my relationship issues. I will prove these more experienced and knowledgeable people wrong! ***one guy I know

[QUOTE=Demache;45183224]So you never know someone is truly gay unless you're friends with them.[/QUOTE] Nor do you know if they are straight if you don't know them.

Dudes, I may have just unlocked a new way of thinking. I'm a pretty reasonable guy here, and I'm good at making people chill out. I say nice things and stuff. I was discussing a movie that I've loved for a long time with someone (Porco Rosso), and they had a bunch of things they disliked about it, which made them feel that it wasn't a very good movie. I argued a little with stuff like "maybe we just didn't understand the character" or "I guess it's just something we're not meant to understand". And it dawned on me while writing this that those are just shit excuses. Maybe it wasn't I who failed in understanding the movie, but the movie that failed in making itself understood. I shifted the locus of control. One rare moment where I chose to blame the movie instead of myself, and that action was so new that I realised a new problem. Or at least I realised the way my mind works. When I dislike a movie I don't blame the quality of a movie, but instead I blame my competence as a viewer. When someone pisses me off, I just question my ability to not get pissed off, or my inability to befriend them. I totally blame myself for every problem I have. I am the source of all my problems, and so I should be the source of all my solutions, is how it seems to work with me. I don't depend on anyone so it's easy to forgive them for anything they do. Funny thing about revelations like this is that quite often they don't seem to make a difference. Maybe it will, I dunno. I'll keep it in mind in every encounter from now on.

Spoilers for Godzilla 2014 [sp] I feel that Admiral Stenz was the best character in the film (sans Godzilla himself). Edwards chose to direct the Stenz character in a fascinating way. During his debut scene explaining that the MUTO is "No longer terrestrial and appears to be airborne", his way of speaking sounds irritated and annoyed rather than concerned, as if he knew that it was going to hit the fan once it hatched. The second part is only seconds long but also fairly character developing, when Godzilla is submerged underneath the Saratoga, the pens and pencils that Stenz has on his desk roll off to one side as the ship is set off balance. The camera pans to show Stenz's stoic face, who again looks annoyed rather than concerned. Finally, what I felt to be the most important development in Stenz was the scene after the MUTO retrieves the last warhead. "This alpha predator of yours, Dr., you really think he has a chance?". Not only is this his first line that sounds concerned, it's proof that he still had some faith in Godzilla, even after his plan failed. He knew that the warhead wouldn't be taken out of the city in time, and simply wondered if Godzilla could finish the job before it went off.[/sp] I know this might not belong here but meh I like to delve into things when I shouldn't.

[QUOTE=Combine 177;45183389]Nor do you know if they are straight if you don't know them.[/QUOTE] Fair enough. But statistically speaking, odds are, 99% chance of them being straight (or unwilling to tell, unless they are really good friends). Compound that with the fact that I'm shy around strangers so making friends is hard enough as it is. Maybe I'm just being pessimistic and it may happen one day.

this is going to be a hell of a week

[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;45185302]this is going to be a hell of a week[/QUOTE] And why would that be so?

[QUOTE=THEMikeDurham;45181957]I've started to become attracted to guys over the last couple years. I've never been with one before, what would you guys suggest? I wouldn't know where to start. I can't even tell who else is gay most of the time.[/QUOTE] you'll finetune your gaydar over the years its best to start it slowly and not suddenly date someone when you're still in the confusion state. maybe fap to gay porn or something. after you're comfortable with that, do what others here do: + purchase long, colourful socks (preferably from sockdreams) + purchase a long, colourful dildo + experiment + then burn the previous stuff after you've outgrown it then you'll be a full gay

[QUOTE=gerbe1;45183363] What sucks even more is that after the first couple (unless you're me who acknowledges it but doesn't care because I'm dumb) of relationships that like/attraction/lust =/= relationship material** and then suddenly you become content without a relationship. [/QUOTE] to be fair the freedom of not being in a relationship is better to some people than being in a relationship i just browse this thread to read birdmarde posts and to keep up with popular media even though I'm never going to come out or pursue an fag relationship irl because this is about as much gay chat as it is WAYT with more furries

everythng is out of proportion and in pieces, I am lost. Nothing makes sense anymore and I can't remember how I got here. It all just feels broken now, I want help. Nothing about this is real anymore, it all has to be a dream of some sort. I feel so disconnected and distant, there is no obvious solution, I know everything will end in disaster, its inevitable. Its so fucking unbearable but I just have to let it go on I want this all to end plradse help

[QUOTE=THEMikeDurham;45181957] I wouldn't know where to start. I can't even tell who else is gay most of the time.[/QUOTE] usually you just know

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Get to go to the zoo tomorrow woot c:

SGDQ's going on right now and it's great.

Sore throats fuggin suk

Colds are not good!

I'm pretty sure I have strep throat atm

I have strep throat right now!

[QUOTE=Fhenexx;45189147]I have strep throat right now![/QUOTE] Strep buddies!

It's past 2 am and I can't sleeeeep. I hope my insomnia isn't returning. I hate it whenever telling someone that I'm going to sleep and then I just lie awake in bed and end up doing the opposite. It's like I'm lying straight to their face :c

[QUOTE=Mysterious;45189353]It's past 2 am and I can't sleeeeep. I hope my insomnia isn't returning. I hate it whenever telling someone that I'm going to sleep and then I just lie awake in bed and end up doing the opposite. It's like I'm lying straight to their face :c[/QUOTE] You shouldn't feel guilty for it. It's not something you really have control above. Been having pretty much the opposite of this. I am like "Yeeaaah, gonna stay awake tonight and chat with friends, play games, maybe even draw." End up falling asleep 80% of the time before midnight or even sooner. It doesn't matter if I sleep throught the whole day, officially, night is time of sleep for me. On one side, I am happy that I can go to bed in normal hours. On the other side, I barely get to chat with peeps that have different timezones.

It's so annoying dealing with a screwed up sleep schedule because of many things. You're awake when your friends are asleep, you can't really stay up until a more practical time to fall asleep without feeling groggy, and even if you do that you end up sleeping more than intended!

[QUOTE=Teto;45156456] Where are you at?[/QUOTE] Africa, Djibouti. Sorry for the delay, I pretty much have no free time over here. Probably the most stressful thing about being over here is being on the opposite side of my friends and family, so I have to stay up super late in order to talk to someone real time. It feels bad sometimes

[img]https://www.vilaszoo.org/uploads/images/17520_FAQ.jpg[/img] Going to the Zoo today :3

[t]http://imgur.com/HKh2MZ8.jpg[/t] [t]http://imgur.com/IcdLxks.jpg[/t] Finally got the game I ordered. Didnt expect it to be in this condition. It's sealed in the box. I'm afraid to open it. [editline]23rd June 2014[/editline] [t]http://i.imgur.com/R9GsfC7.jpg[/t] Yesssss the game and more importantly my SNES works!!!