[QUOTE=Roll_Program;45624284][IMG]http://33.media.tumblr.com/096155c6d9f7a62c05926a16e40e380e/tumblr_n9t02c6CSV1toab07o4_r1_500.png[/IMG]
Minus the shame part.[/QUOTE]
Who could blame you, [del]we're[/del] he's pretty adorable
Our society is slowly starting to erase the concepts of homo- & bisexuality and calling it straight.
Straight [I]same-sex experimentation[/I].
Straight same-sex. Ok.
[QUOTE=Talvy;45624802]Our society is slowly starting to erase the concepts of homo- & bisexuality and calling it straight.
Straight [I]same-sex experimentation[/I].
Straight same-sex. Ok.[/QUOTE]
In an absolutely perfect world, there would be no definitions of "gay." It would just be "love."
In reality sexuality isn't black and white. It's just a bunch of shades of gray
About 50 of em too
[QUOTE=Slade Xanthas;45626328]I snorted because of this post, and that's terrible[/QUOTE]
I don't think doing coke is an appropriate action to that shitty joke
[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;45621944]I've left plenty of things unsaid about myself during my time here so far, but I think I can open up a bit.
Ever since I left Reno, I've been feeling alone and disconnected. My family doesn't know. My friends don't know either. The loneliness is killing me. I haven't been eating properly in the last week or so, yet I don't know why. Every day feels the same to me. Combined with the stress of trying to organize a film production and all this going on, I think I'm on the verge of depression.
The relationship between I and the guy I slept with has been destroyed to the point of no return. I'm starting to believe it was my fault.
Being LGBT is so frowned upon in my community that I wouldn't dream of ever opening up here. I feel closed off, alone with nobody to talk to about this.
I hate Utah.[/QUOTE]
That sucks.
I had to move away from my home town to come out. But luckily when i told my family and moved back into my home town everything was all good.
I know I'm like 5 years late, but all this about "straight men experimenting/having same-sex fantasies" is pissing me off.
I seriously read an article about a man who constantly has sex with dozens of men because "it's something new", and calls himself straight.
Have people completely forgotten about the term bisexual?
If fantasising and having gay sex isn't gay anymore (or even bi!), then what is?
[QUOTE=Talvy;45627966]I know I'm like 5 years late, but all this about "straight men experimenting/having same-sex fantasies" is pissing me off.
I seriously read an article about a man who constantly has sex with dozens of men because "it's something new", and calls himself straight.
If fantasising and having gay sex isn't gay anymore (or even bi!), then what is?
Have people completely forgotten about the term bisexual?
Sexuality isn't like a hobby you need to try to know if you like it. It doesn't freaking matter [I]WHY[/I] you do it. You like it -> you're gay/bi.
As much as I'd like to believe there's more to it, there isn't. There's actually this much denial in the world.[/QUOTE]
Then again, saying this, i have a friend who is completely indifferent to labels/orientation.
He says he just calls himself straight because he is most definitely attracted to women and its easier for people to comprehend. But out of his sexual partners like 20% of them have been men and his simple reasoning for why he did it was "I wanted to see what the fuss was about".
I remember when i came out to him and he was just like cool. And we got talking and he told me how he'd been with 4 guys sexually before when drunk just to see what its like. And i was like "ermmm what?" and he goes "every now and again i just get curious, like, maybe i would like a hairy guy, but nope, maybe i'd like a black guy, nope ect..." and i was actually quite impressed by his mindset. He just doesn't really care. He has sex JUST for pleasure, he doesn't get intimate with it. He also said sometimes he just forgets how it felt to have sex with a guy and goes off and finds out, like when i came out to him, he was like "hmmmm, i might actually try a guy again" and the next weekend he did just that. He says its fun having it now and again, but he definitely prefers sex with women.
He's an awesome guy, crazy, but awesome, hes very fun.
But that's the problem. If he doesn't label orientation, why does he call himself anything?
Especially straight. It seems like nowadays, you're either gay or straight based on whichever you do more.
Imagine your parents walking up on you while you're having sex with two men, and you responding "I'm straight because I only do this a little."
That's not the definition of straight.
Besides, sexuality isn't like a hobby you need to [I]try[/I] to [I]know if you like it or not.[/I]
who cares? let the man identify as he wants, no skin off your bones.
[QUOTE=Talvy;45628110]But that's the problem. If he doesn't label orientation, why does he call himself anything?
Especially straight. It seems like nowadays, you're either gay or straight based on whichever you do more.
Imagine your parents walking up on you while you're having sex with two men, and you responding "I'm straight because I only do this a little."
That's not the definition of straight.
Besides, sexuality isn't like a hobby you need to [I]try[/I] to [I]know if you like it or not.[/I][/QUOTE]
Like i stated.... He claims "straight" because its easier to tell people and they understand better (i'm assuming this is from experience) because he's mostly with girls and actually wants to marry a woman, have kids (with a woman) and be in a relationship (with a woman). He literally only has sex with a guy just for a bit of "flavor" in his life. You know, living! He just does whatever he wants without giving a crap what other people think. It is a VERY good outlook and i kind of idolise him for it.
Words are just, like, concepts maaaaan...
[QUOTE=greeley;45628327]Like i stated.... He claims "straight" because its easier to tell people and they understand better (i'm assuming this is from experience) because he's mostly with girls and actually wants to marry a woman, have kids (with a woman) and be in a relationship (with a woman). He literally only has sex with a guy just for a bit of "flavor" in his life. You know, living! He just does whatever he wants without giving a crap what other people think. It is a VERY good outlook and i kind of idolise him for it.[/QUOTE]
This guy is like the adult version of an overly sexually secure college bro haha. But in a way i can see why you do like him for that.
[QUOTE=Viva;45628474]This guy is like the adult version of an overly sexually secure college bro haha. But in a way i can see why you do like him for that.[/QUOTE]
Yeah he is cool. but hes not big headed either, hes just confident. I had a crush on him for a bit but now hes kind of just a "bro" haha. I wish i still saw him more, i haven't seen him for about a month.
Sitting in the airport, waiting on my flight. I got two hours of sleep. That's two more than I was expecting.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;45628894]Where you flying to?[/QUOTE]
Denver. It's a 45 minute flight apparently.
[editline]8th August 2014[/editline]
7:55am to 8:40am
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;45629142]I've never done domestic flights always international.
45 hours from the UK to New Zealand was a fucking drag.[/QUOTE]
id love to go New Zealand but yeah, the flight would kill me.
im going on holiday at the end of the month with my boyfriend (first holiday abroad not with family) and we're probably going Malta (getting a last minute deal) and thats a 3 hour flight and even that makes me go EUGH.
(It's actually an hour and forty five minutes. ~timezones~)
I find flying pretty stressful until I reach cruising altitude. This year was my first time travelling alone and I had to fly from Belfast to London to Helsinki. Heathrow does not fuck about with security but mostly everything was easier than I expected (last time I flew I was like 11)
take off and landing are the worst for me
also experienced turbulence for the first time which was dreadful
like, i know its all safe and stuff but the fact that everything shakes makes it feel like the airplane is made out of paper mache
I love flying.
I was going to be a pilot at one point.
Then I realised I could get paid to do maths and sit around all day without mistakes risking damage to million dollar objects and/or people.
I love flying. Have done heaps of travel to the UK and US for a lot of my life, they are some long as flights.
Airports are fascinating to me, always love seeing knew ones. Singapore airport has got to be my favourite though.
I love flying, turbulence is fun in my opinion.
One time we had to land in Atlanta due to the weather and the dangus pilot tried to fly around the storms, only to fly straight into the core of a really strong one. We went straight through the downdraft and the plane dipped a couple hundred feet and everyone went flying in their seats. It was a bit spooky but man it was a ride.
I need to see more big airports; I don't remember most. I was at the Sydney airport and there is basically a whole mini-airport dedicated to QANTAS and the terminal was basically a shopping centre with a random gate inbetween now and then.
I could have done all my clothes shopping in the airport they had basically all the stores. Except no sales so probably not a good place to actually buy things.
I didn't really like Sydney airport, felt old and worn out.
Quite liked Brisbane airport when I got there last night. Also Gerbe1 you should come visit me tomorrow or something.
I don't like flying, or being on ships. I am stuck here.
Send help.
I've seen a bunch of airports in my time, and most of them are pretty un-remarkable.
Except Dubai International, the sheer scale of that fucking thing, and everything in that damn city evokes a very primal terror, i still remember being completely out-of-my-mind with sensory overload, jet-lag and awe at how fucking big the Dubai Mall is, then stepping outside and having my mind shattered by the baby space elevator they'd built outside.
when i first saw the burj khalifa, the caveman in me ran away and cowered, nothing in nature should be that tall.
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