Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;45635781]Isn't he in Argentina or something?[/QUOTE] [url=http://facepunch.com/member.php?u=370687]Noa[/url] is in Australia and I'm in the states, but he's pretty much become my long-distance boyfriend <3 He's been helping me through a lot lately, making me feel like I'm worth something to somebody. Anything is possible.

This whole long distanced relationships made me realize two things, there is some hope that everything will go well into plan as long dedication is at will or that everything you had planned was either a waste of time, patience and/or money, have no backup plans and you're left out in the open just to follow what you had planned then hit into a complete pitstop. I'm in between the latter.

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i had an ldr once person was relatively close but distance was still 500 km longer than my dick kinda sucks, can't find many people in my city

LDRs seem like that thing that everyone does once when they're young then realises why everyone else says they're stupid

Eh, I don't think there's anything wrong with a long distance relationship. My first relationship was a long distance one and the only reason we broke up was that I didn't feel anything for him anymore and it didn't feel right to lead him on. Yes, we had met up IRL and we broke as clean as I think it gets. I've since had two other unsuccessful long-distance relationships, one I broke up because the distance was just too great and I knew it wasn't going to happen in any case. The other, the distance was minimal but he just didn't take it seriously, or plainly wussed out (since he dumped me right before we were going to meet up) - Towards the end before he just outright blocked me, we hardly spoke more than once or twice a week. The kicker was that he thought I was 'too clingy' for being unsatisfied with hardly ever talking :v: Single now, and I actually feel good about that in a strange way. Doubt I'll meet anyone I like for a good couple years, but I have other things to focus on that I consider more important (like my education and moving out of my parent's house in the following months).

just fuck all possible relationships

LDRs seem to be more just difficult to make work than inherently flawed to me. My current relationship is an LDR, but we've been together for over a year now. The sad part is that we're within an hour's drive of each other, but we can't actually see each other because neither of us have driver's licenses (I'm working on getting mine though) and his parents are incredibly homophobic, making a meetup difficult, even if I could drive over there. I fully intend on making a meetup work as soon as I can though.

I posted a while ago that I was deploying to Africa. With what's happening right now in Iraq with ISIS everyone in my company is joking about going back. I thought it was funny too until a couple of hours ago I hear that the sick fucks are decapitating children and posting their heads on spikes, and calling out the U.S. As much as I don't want us to go back, god damn does that piss me the fuck off. Right now I'd do anything to fly over and fuck their day up, and I'm not the only one in my company who feels the same.

I've had really good potential relationships fail because the other person was scared that I was too good for them and that any second now a better looking guy would come along and whisk me away. Is it wrong to start dating someone else whilst you still have feelings for someone else? To replace attraction to one person to attraction to another?

id rather focus on getting my own shit together before pursuing relationships, especially online ones you gotta be independent or able to travel to have one of those

[QUOTE=Yin;45637850]LDRs seem to be more just difficult to make work than inherently flawed to me. My current relationship is an LDR, but we've been together for over a year now. The sad part is that we're within an hour's drive of each other, but we can't actually see each other because neither of us have driver's licenses (I'm working on getting mine though) and his parents are incredibly homophobic, making a meetup difficult, even if I could drive over there. I fully intend on making a meetup work as soon as I can though.[/QUOTE] Wouldn't call an hour drive long distance. This is short enough for you to go there, hang out and come back within the same night

My BF lives 4h30 away and that's not even what I'd actually call long distance, sure it's some distance, but we still are together every two weeks.

Holy yes. Guardians was a FANTASTIC movie. Saw one of my old friends there. Hadn't talked in a while. So that was nice!

Since current topics seems to be something I had my own experience with. It's 2012, I reached the age of 17 and current trend of that age between my friends and classmates was having a partner. But of course, as someone who is pretty much, compared to general surrounding, an alien and isn't even sure about his sexuality, that was quite difficult. So logical way of escaping this was Internet. I spent all my time in front of the screen to not have to think about my lack of any relationship and ironically, that was where I met my first love. A girl from Canada. Yes, a girl because I still wasn't sure who I am interested in. She was around a year younger then me but we seemed to have a lot in common. We understanded each other perfectly, we could easily chat together through the night. As the time went, I developed strong feelings for her and she did likewise for me. So yeah, there it was, my first relationship that for whole 6 months made me happy as heck. But through the seventh month it began feeling empty, the lack of physical evidence that I have someone essentially killed it for me. Funnily enough she felt the same way. So we both decided that it would be for the better of us both to end it here. The desperation for love came back and it was even worse. So I quickly threw myself into first possible relationship I and went with it. This time it was a guy, from US, a bit older then me. Though this felt gimmicky all the way through but felt loved again and I didn't want to gave that up. So when her told me he found someone else IRL and that he's leaving me , I almost lost my mind. And again, I took the easy way out and threw myself into arms of first person that was there. Another guy, younger then me, but this time he was from UK, a state relatively close to mine. I could tell this will end shortly because after few days, I realised that I don't feel anything special to this boy. It simply wasn't there. He was loveable fella, good person but I didn't love him. Somehow it lasted for around a month before he took the initiative and told me we should brake up. I could see why because our conversation essentially boiled down to sexual RP. But at the same time, I was again falling for the desperation so I tried to persuade him to wait with it. Didn't happen and there I was, alone again, with no easy way out, no relationship to escape to. Frankly, my last partner decided that the best time for the break up (no, I'm not blaming him) was at the same time where my attempts to communicate with my dad failed and at the same time where I had lot of pressure amd stress on me due to important tests from chemistry getting closer because I failed from it that year. Probably the closest point where I was thinking about suicide. Somehow didn't happen and I punched my way through the life until now. So yeah, there you go, reason why LDR are tabu to me. Ugh, quite the vent. Sorry for that, just felt like getting this from my chest since I never really told anyone the whole story.

[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;45639322]Wouldn't call an hour drive long distance. This is short enough for you to go there, hang out and come back within the same night[/QUOTE] Well, not to devalue the term or anything, its just that I call it long distance because our relationship effectively functions like one at the moment because we can't really see each other. I'd immediately stop calling it an LDR the moment we could make a meet up work.

Oi I'm in France for holiday and it's pretty cool and boring and cool How's it going everybody EDIT: We talking about LDRs? I know a couple who are married now that met on twitter yet I've also seen LDRs fail Honestly the couple can make it work they just need to be patient and devoted you know

I've said what I need to say about my LDR. Not doing it ever again. I'm happy with the woman I have now

[QUOTE=Dog;45637614]i had an ldr once person was relatively close but distance was still 500 km longer than my dick kinda sucks, can't find many people in my city[/QUOTE] so they lived 500.00001km away

[QUOTE=HAKKAR!!!;45636138]internet relationships are fine as long as you dont take them too seriously tbh [editline]9th August 2014[/editline] like go on skype and share pics and shit but dont go on like internet dates in gmod cinema servers or whatever that shits weird[/QUOTE] there was a couple rping on the facepunch terraria server non ironically half a year ago

Wow thanks for the anecdote ROFLBURGER!

i got challenged on facebook this morning to do an "ice bucket challenge" where you dump a whole bunch of icewater over your head for ALS awareness i can already tell today is going to be great also yesterday I got my bunker suit in my firefighting class [thumb]http://i.imgur.com/OnioVa4.png[/thumb] I have to practice getting it all on in less than a minute

[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;45641264]Wow thanks for the anecdote ROFLBURGER![/QUOTE] ok?

[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;45641264]Wow thanks for the anecdote ROFLBURGER![/QUOTE] Mean

Every now and then on FA I see people who fucking proposed and got engaged to people they've never even met, talk about artificially validating your relationship.

I'm married to Dota, my boyfriend comes second.

furries r weird

I'm married to my job...that's my excuse

I'm married to my bed. Ain't nothing separating me and my bed when I'm hungover.

[QUOTE=Chickens!;45643433]I'm married to Dota, my boyfriend comes second.[/QUOTE] cyka