I haven't played since summer as I couldn't get decent fps at all...
About to board a flying tube of death, wish me luck ;_;
a plane?
Fuuuuuuck I hate that the only group of people available to hang out at most times is a group that smokes weed 70% of the time.
Why can't I find friends that just play games, watch Netflix and sit around with me.
Blech.
[QUOTE=Catscratch;43109596]Fuuuuuuck I hate that the only group of people available to hang out at most times is a group that smokes weed 70% of the time.
Why can't I find friends that just play games, watch Netflix and sit around with me.
Blech.[/QUOTE]
Yea, I know how it is. That's what I get for living in Southern California. Pot-smoking surfer bros.
[QUOTE=Catscratch;43109596]Fuuuuuuck I hate that the only group of people available to hang out at most times is a group that smokes weed 70% of the time.
Why can't I find friends that just play games, watch Netflix and sit around with me.
Blech.[/QUOTE]
To be fair, the group of friends that smokes weed is the group of friends that does all of that afterward
[QUOTE=Solece;43109851]To be fair, the group of friends that smokes weed is the group of friends that does all of that afterward[/QUOTE]
Not if it's one of those groups that smoke and only smoke.
That's true, and if they really are that bad and want to do nothing but that, then avoid those people, because chances are they're not
doing anything with their lives and will drag other friends down with them if you let them.
Off topic from weedchat for some ranting from me because I [b]really really[/b] need to vent to someone/something right now.
Being in a relationship where your other blames you for everything and then pulls the "you don't love me/you don't trust me" card
when you don't side with them fucking sucks. And that I don't really have anyone to talk to about it because if I tried to, he'd try telling everyone
about every bad thing I've ever done to try to make me seem like the most terrible person on the planet.
I'm not even sure what to do because he told me he wants to break up because "I don't trust him ever", even though he lied about this same
particular thing before, and although I was [b]trying[/b] to trust him but admitted that I still thought in the back of my head that there was
the possibility that he could be lying but I was trusting that he wasn't anyway, and it apparently meant I never ever trust him and I'm
the worst person in the world and that "something is seriously wrong with our relationship". I've had such terrible past few months because
of my health and our relationship being a rollercoaster fighting simulator and I really don't know what to do anymore.
I love him more than anything in the world, but at the same time I give in to what he wants all the time just to make him happy, and if I don't, he
accuses me of not loving him or not caring and threatens our relationship, while if I try to say anything about something he does, he
brings up how much money he spent on me and how much that means he loves me, and/or brings up past things I've done and turns it around
on me instead. I always try communicating with him but he doesn't like listening to anything that he doesn't want to hear about. If I try telling
him he's not listening, he blames me for using a "bad tone towards him" even when I talk as politely and non-offensively as possible.
There have been so many times that I've just given in and pretended like everything was okay just so that he wouldn't get mad at me or something,
and I feel like I'm barely allowed to have an opinion of my own anymore. I really just want to be happy with him but at the same time I feel like I'm
becomming less and less of my own person. What should I do, gaychat? :c
[editline]bluh[/editline]
If you're reading this you, please don't reply to this trying to call out everything I did instead, because I know I did a lot of wrong things myself.
I just needed to vent and want someone else to get advice from, rather than only your advice.
break the fuck up with that cunt
punch him
kick him in the ribs
and spit in his face
So he's an FPer?
Either way, from what you say, it sounds like an unfair relationship. Also, before you do anything else, remember, you can find another person and learn to love them more. And when you find someone who is equal with you, you can learn to love them even more.
Don't tell yourself you'll never find anyone better. Unless you have met every person, than you will never know. You can always find another person to love, but it can be better or worse than your last one. But you'll never know unless you try.
[QUOTE=Xieneus;43109437]a plane?[/QUOTE]
No, a flying tube of death. It says it right there, jeez.
The thing is, I really do love him and want to stay with him. We've been together for two years and I don't want to ruin all of that. We're both very stubborn but him much more so(in my opinion atleast, but again I'm stubborn too so of course I would say that) and if he thinks he's right, he doesn't even begin to consider that he might be wrong, even if facts are thrown in his face. I always try to consider everything he says and think about how he feels, but he just doesn't even try sometimes. If he would just talk to me with an open mind instead of only what he wants to talk about, I wouldn't be in this situation.
[editline]8th December 2013[/editline]
How do I tell someone something when they don't want to be told it and actually have them listen? Because that's basically been the question of my past half year.
[QUOTE=Solece;43110183]The thing is, I really do love him and want to stay with him. We've been together for two years and I don't want to ruin all of that. We're both very stubborn but him much more so(in my opinion atleast, but again I'm stubborn too so of course I would say that) and if he thinks he's right, he doesn't even begin to consider that he might be wrong, even if facts are thrown in his face. I always try to consider everything he says and think about how he feels, but he just doesn't even try sometimes. If he would just talk to me with an open mind instead of only what he wants to talk about, I wouldn't be in this situation.
[editline]8th December 2013[/editline]
How do I tell someone something when they don't want to be told it and actually have them listen? Because that's basically been the question of my past half year.[/QUOTE]
I'd talk to you about this if you want through Steam. It'd be easier for a conversation.
You need to think about this. You've had 2 years with this person, now can you think about living in this situation for another 5 years, 10 years, and longer. You would be alright with what's going on between you two for longer? Do you feel like it you two are splitting further apart?
You love him and all, but you can learn to love someone else. Many people go through multiple relationships. Some people can have long relationships and than end them.
If I were you, I would move on and just remember the good parts. And with a bit of effort you can move on and find another to love. You will be able to find another and have an even better time together. You don't need to suffer for another person. You can find someone else who will shower you with the affection you want and need, with less drama. And in return you can learn to do the same.
This is a similar issue to many things in life. Like getting a job, or switching jobs. You can find something better. But it may not be the next thing you find. It can take time to find something better than before.
Don't suffer because you're scared of change.
[QUOTE=Solece;43110049]That's true, and if they really are that bad and want to do nothing but that, then avoid those people, because chances are they're not
doing anything with their lives and will drag other friends down with them if you let them.
Off topic from weedchat for some ranting from me because I [b]really really[/b] need to vent to someone/something right now.
Being in a relationship where your other blames you for everything and then pulls the "you don't love me/you don't trust me" card
when you don't side with them fucking sucks. And that I don't really have anyone to talk to about it because if I tried to, he'd try telling everyone
about every bad thing I've ever done to try to make me seem like the most terrible person on the planet.
I'm not even sure what to do because he told me he wants to break up because "I don't trust him ever", even though he lied about this same
particular thing before, and although I was [b]trying[/b] to trust him but admitted that I still thought in the back of my head that there was
the possibility that he could be lying but I was trusting that he wasn't anyway, and it apparently meant I never ever trust him and I'm
the worst person in the world and that "something is seriously wrong with our relationship". I've had such terrible past few months because
of my health and our relationship being a rollercoaster fighting simulator and I really don't know what to do anymore.
I love him more than anything in the world, but at the same time I give in to what he wants all the time just to make him happy, and if I don't, he
accuses me of not loving him or not caring and threatens our relationship, while if I try to say anything about something he does, he
brings up how much money he spent on me and how much that means he loves me, and/or brings up past things I've done and turns it around
on me instead. I always try communicating with him but he doesn't like listening to anything that he doesn't want to hear about. If I try telling
him he's not listening, he blames me for using a "bad tone towards him" even when I talk as politely and non-offensively as possible.
There have been so many times that I've just given in and pretended like everything was okay just so that he wouldn't get mad at me or something,
and I feel like I'm barely allowed to have an opinion of my own anymore. I really just want to be happy with him but at the same time I feel like I'm
becomming less and less of my own person. What should I do, gaychat? :c
[editline]bluh[/editline]
If you're reading this you, please don't reply to this trying to call out everything I did instead, because I know I did a lot of wrong things myself.
I just needed to vent and want someone else to get advice from, rather than only your advice.[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry, he sounds really abusive and those types of people just fuck with your self esteem and sense of self. It's not really a good idea to stay in a relationship where you can't be yourself because it becomes a relentless well of frustration, and frustration=stress, which is a shitty way to come home every day feeling.
[editline]8th December 2013[/editline]
I don't really have that much of experience with boyfriends though, sorry.
Lol +1 to Husky for the title.
that is a fucking horrible title
I feel it goes perfectly with the Facepunch atmosphere
prepare to never be taken seriously
At least it isn't twice as long as his posts
But female. :c
It was a title in spite of a comment down in Fast Threads.
Bone's pretty happy with it.
I still don't understand why you always come here if you hate this place and the community so much, Bones.
It's entertaining to come down and see what Facepunch is raving about, though.
It's not that I hate the place, more like I have very very low expectations from it.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;43110535]I still don't understand why you always come here if you hate this place and the community so much, Bones.[/QUOTE]
I don't like this place so much either but some masochist thing keeps me here.
[sp]Seriously though, there's some good people here and a few interesting characters. Quas and Kaze being the best examples.[/sp]
[QUOTE=WhiteHusky;43110546]I don't like this place so much either but some masochist keeps me here.
[sp]Seriously though, there's some good people here and a few interesting characters. Quas and Kaze being the best examples.[/sp][/QUOTE]
Honestly, if you browse fast threads or SH. You're just asking to find shit heads. Fast Threads is basically a mix of reddit, tumblr, and 4chan.
Even the OIFY is better, cause that's forced shitposting. SH is just arguments and news.
[QUOTE=LuaChobo;43110553]well to be honest people have the same expectations of you so theres not really much to complain about[/QUOTE]
It's the internet, that's what I've come to expect.
If you come for much besides entertainment then you've come to the wrong town, son. :U
It's pretty sad that some people take the OIFY seriously. Big source of drama, that place.
[QUOTE=Shark Bones;43110568]It's the internet, that's what I've come to expect.
If you come for much besides entertainment then you've come to the wrong town, son. :U[/QUOTE]
If you expect nothing but low standards, than you haven't been around long, or much.
Sounds like you visit the same places as many others.
And I'm not talking about Facepunch only.
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