Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

Last time I went to the movies, I saw the first Hobbit movie. I would go if I didn't feel weird going alone.

[QUOTE=Rexxasaurus;45860052]Last time I went to the movies, I saw the first Hobbit movie. I would go if I didn't feel weird going alone.[/QUOTE] Go with Nerdrage!

[QUOTE=kaden9596;45860096]I remember one time I went to a theatre to watch a movie, and I was like, literally the only person there! :v: Kind of felt as if it was a private theatre of my own.[/QUOTE] I wonder if you started having a loud phone conversation during the movie if they would ask you to leave. "Why?" "You're disturbing the othe...r... uhm, I dunno?"

[QUOTE=gerbe1;45860019]The last time I saw it there were basically negative people there because the only other people than us spent the whole movie taking selfies with flash on. It was like constant strobe lighting. Then they left and didn't even stop to watch when baby groot started dancing. They were completely uninterested in the movie.[/QUOTE] oh man from working at the movies i have so many stories of the insane shit people do. Ask me anything anytime anyone, i have 5 years of stories built up.

Just met my cousin's bf and... he's the son of my ex match teacher :v: but unlike his father he's pretty darn cute

Just changed to an open relationship as Im going back to uni next monday and could be away for a few weeks without seeing each other, Its gonna be hard because we have been together every single day since march (been together since last october). We made it open to give each other a bit of freedom and also so we don't worry about each other so much.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;45860066]Go with Nerdrage![/QUOTE] I've already seen GotG, i thought that i'd hate it, because everyone who loved it loved Pacific Rim (and i absolutely loathed Pacific Rim) best part about it would be the massive explodey starship-fight scenes, those were hella rad. I saw the trailer for Interstellar, that looks really promising, but then again, the Transcendence trailer also tickled my sci-fi boner but the actual movie was atrocious.

[QUOTE=Nerdrage;45860310]I've already seen GotG, i thought that i'd hate it, because everyone who loved it loved Pacific Rim (and i absolutely loathed Pacific Rim) best part about it would be the massive explodey starship-fight scenes, those were hella rad. I saw the trailer for Interstellar, that looks really promising, but then again, the Transcendence trailer also tickled my sci-fi boner but the actual movie was atrocious.[/QUOTE] My favourite bit was the second scene in the movie where he's dancing to the musicz. I liked the universe built and the concept of Starlord the famous outlaw. Very Firefly. Very fun.

[QUOTE=Nerdrage;45860310]I've already seen GotG, i thought that i'd hate it, because everyone who loved it loved Pacific Rim (and i absolutely loathed Pacific Rim) best part about it would be the massive explodey starship-fight scenes, those were hella rad. I saw the trailer for Interstellar, that looks really promising, but then again, the Transcendence trailer also tickled my sci-fi boner but the actual movie was atrocious.[/QUOTE] Pacific Rim was a huge let down for me. Characters were weak af and so predictable. The acting was pretty dire. All the action was in the trailers. The love connection was completely unneeded.

[QUOTE=Nerdrage;45860310]I saw the trailer for Interstellar, that looks really promising, but then again, the Transcendence trailer also tickled my sci-fi boner but the actual movie was atrocious.[/QUOTE] I saw this trailer as well, I am definitely wanting to see Interstellar. And some one for a maze thing. That looked kind of interesting as well.

So college is a lot less scary when everyone is actually cool and not a douche :v:

i think that counts for most things

[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;45853410]I cried today, and it was a really big cry. But a happy cry. Today I was reminded 5 years ago of what a horrible drunken fool I was trying to kill my self because of my lack of respect. Almost 9 years ago today(2 months early) I was reminded of my mother's passing due to a mysterious heart clot that killed her and took her away from me. Ever since then suicide has been on my mind and how I still love her to death and how I wished she had never of died. I lost all hope in this world after I couldn't see her to tell her my final goodbye. I realize that I yes I should not of even tried to drink or get high just to forget about it. What death can do to someone is heartbreaking but when you realize you had no control or even the power to save those who died. Is it really worth trying to commit suicide? I felt needed to say this cause of this song. [video=youtube;BmErRm-vApI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmErRm-vApI[/video] When someone dies close to you. You should reach out to family and friends. It helps a lot. I hope that I be a better person now, it's a scar but I'm okay with that now.[/QUOTE] This song gets to me every time. Literally not listening to it at the moment because I know I'll get emotional if I do lol [editline]1st September 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Durnis204;45854232]More on this since I just need to vent. We'd dated on and off for those years since physical distance became part of the relationship somewhere after about a year. Since then, it's just been hard for both of us to handle the distance, since we aren't very extroverted people, resulting in us just dropping off the earth until last night, when the underlying problems behind that came out. The real problem I had with the breakup is that she had already gotten with someone else in a period of 5 or so days of us not talking. I don't know. I can't believe this happened. I had a huge breakdown last night and I said some things I shouldn't have, and we're just talking normally now. I know she still prefers me over this new person, I just don't know what to say, do, or even think. I'm just in limbo. Sorry if this isn't cohesive or well put together, I can barely think.[/QUOTE] It always sucks to feel like you've been replaced. I'm going through that right now, though for me I'm living with my ex and he's still showing a great deal of care for me. There were times when I wish nothing but death for the person who's gotten between me and him, but I've calmed down since then, especially since I know my ex has expressed disinterest in dating anyone right now (including me) and has shot down this other guy's attempts to make things official. Even if they got together, what is it you can do? What is done is done. People move onto other goals in life, and you are lucky that your ex still really cares and respects you. I really hate this guy for being the catalyst to our breakup, and for him burning so many bridges to just to try and get to my ex (he went from a giant friend/support network out in the east coast to basically nothing). And to top it off he's planning on moving into my state just to get closer to my ex. Its almost kind of sad, which is partially making me feel a bit better over it and reminds me that even people you used to look up to as "perfect" have serious issues/faults. It might require you to exercise distance, but it sounds like from what little you've said that basically this was inevitable if distance came into the equation and you both are introverts. Introverts can work really well together but require a special kind of relationship that can be hard to curate from a distance, especially if becoming close again is hard or not on the radar.

[QUOTE=HeavyGuy;45861079]So college is a lot less scary when everyone is actually cool and not a douche :v:[/QUOTE] Yeah that's the cool thing. Past HS being a bully is just being a giant tool so people are chill

Ugh think I'm coming down with a cold already. Time to dose up with paracetamol.

Yesterday's D&D session was really fun, especially since the butthole powergamer hasn't been showing up!

[QUOTE=Levithan;45865856]Yesterday's D&D session was really fun, especially since the butthole powergamer hasn't been showing up![/QUOTE] I'm curious as to how one powergames D&D "I unleash Donger Wave and therefore deal X damage" "But dude that's no fun" like that?

[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;45866861]I'm curious as to how one powergames D&D "I unleash Donger Wave and therefore deal X damage" "But dude that's no fun" like that?[/QUOTE] Min-Maxing stats. Rule lawyering. Center of attention. Disrupting the group for their own benefit, rather than group fun. Etc.

[QUOTE=Rubs10;45866874]Min-Maxing stats. Rule lawyering. Center of attention. Disrupting the group for their own benefit, rather than group fun. Etc.[/QUOTE] But what if the rule is clearly defined but they're doing it wrong ;-; If everyone were rules lawyers then there wouldn't be a problem!!!!

Sooo college orientation is tomorrow. AFAIK no one from my graduating year in high school is going to my college, I expect to pretty much not know anyone at all there. Well then, I guess I have to go meet a bunch of new people tomorrow!

[QUOTE=garychencool;45867944]Sooo college orientation is tomorrow. AFAIK no one from my graduating year in high school is going to my college, I expect to pretty much not know anyone at all there. Well then, I guess I have to go meet a bunch of new people tomorrow![/QUOTE] You get to get involved in clubs you like and look for and meet people who you like and who you want to hang around! Unlike high school where it's a tiny sample of random people who by all rights everyone probably has very little in common with other than their age. And none of them get very much say in the kind of people who they meet at that high school.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;45868027]You get to get involved in clubs you like and look for and meet people who you like and who you want to hang around! Unlike high school where it's a tiny sample of random people who by all rights everyone probably has very little in common with other than their age. And none of them get very much say in the kind of people who they meet at that high school.[/QUOTE] The first thing tomorrow is going into a room specifically for my program so I'd end up seeing and meeting people who are actually doing my specific program which is good! I would be able meet/see people who have the same interests, courses and possibly schedule as I do. Then there is lunch and some other smaller things, then Wednesday is actual classes. I somewhat remember my first days at high school, I just stayed with the friends and students from my previous middle school before, after school and during lunch. Although my homeform for grade 9, I knew no one there. Slowly met more people, etc.

[QUOTE=KorJax;45862269]This song gets to me every time. Literally not listening to it at the moment because I know I'll get emotional if I do lol [editline]1st September 2014[/editline] It always sucks to feel like you've been replaced. I'm going through that right now, though for me I'm living with my ex and he's still showing a great deal of care for me. There were times when I wish nothing but death for the person who's gotten between me and him, but I've calmed down since then, especially since I know my ex has expressed disinterest in dating anyone right now (including me) and has shot down this other guy's attempts to make things official. Even if they got together, what is it you can do? What is done is done. People move onto other goals in life, and you are lucky that your ex still really cares and respects you. I really hate this guy for being the catalyst to our breakup, and for him burning so many bridges to just to try and get to my ex (he went from a giant friend/support network out in the east coast to basically nothing). And to top it off he's planning on moving into my state just to get closer to my ex. Its almost kind of sad, which is partially making me feel a bit better over it and reminds me that even people you used to look up to as "perfect" have serious issues/faults. It might require you to exercise distance, but it sounds like from what little you've said that basically this was inevitable if distance came into the equation and you both are introverts. Introverts can work really well together but require a special kind of relationship that can be hard to curate from a distance, especially if becoming close again is hard or not on the radar.[/QUOTE] I've quickly come to terms with the situation since I've realized that there's no point dwelling. That part of my life is over, and I learned so much, and grew so much as a person, it's a "don't be sad because it's over, smile because it happened" scenario. I've begun to distance myself, because I still love her and I'm only going to hurt myself if I keep letting her back into my life. I really wish it didn't have to be this way since I genuinely enjoy her as a person, but I'm in a fragile state where I need to worry about me, and I need to come first for me. Like you said with relationships between introverts, it does take a great deal of effort from both parties. However in our situation, only one of us put forth effort at a time. We didn't notice this until the end, and she didn't want to try again to repair things, however, with both of us recognizing our previous faults and making it work as a couple for once, it would've worked great, but she was done. Also, as a bisexual male, I've determined my heart longs for my first real relationship with someone who's not a female.

Also to anyone starting college as a friendly reminder don't try to bring up anecdotes and personal stories about yourself every 30minutes in class. You don't wanna be that guy. Everyone hates that guy.

[QUOTE=garychencool;45867944]Sooo college orientation is tomorrow. AFAIK no one from my graduating year in high school is going to my college, I expect to pretty much not know anyone at all there. Well then, I guess I have to go meet a bunch of new people tomorrow![/QUOTE] My orientation is tomorrow too. I have some shit I need to take care of at the finance office so I might end up blowing off a lot of it though.

I can't wait to go back to college, might allow me to make money in a job that doesn't suck.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;45868842]I can't wait to go back to college, might allow me to make money in a job that doesn't suck.[/QUOTE] I actually just got employed. I'm super super excited about meeting new people, learning new stuff, and making money. Good luck on the job hunt, it's impossible here in the US for younger people to find jobs.

Speaking of college, I have a really hot Communications professor. I'm sure he's in his early 30's, but the good news is: [I]No ring on his finger.[/I] And in this state where people get married in their 20's, that's a statement, dammit.

[QUOTE=Durnis204;45868857]I actually just got employed. I'm super super excited about meeting new people, learning new stuff, and making money. Good luck on the job hunt, it's impossible here in the US for younger people to find jobs.[/QUOTE] I want to work somewhere which is tolerable enough to make it worth living.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;45868968]I want to work somewhere which is tolerable enough to make it worth living.[/QUOTE] Same. I'd been searching for months, and actually found something through a friend, fantastic pay, upwards of $700 a week, and I'm only 18 with no expenses. However, it was a shit desk job that I would've been working 40 hours a week and hated it. One of my goals in life is to always have a job where I at least don't hate going to work.