Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

Being a fan of metal does help my interest in looking like a freak. :B

I'm hoping to get my hair dyed like this on Tuesday. [IMG]http://www.lovethispic.com/uploaded_images/70923-Claret-Red-Bun.jpg[/IMG] Or a bit more red and darker. I am not sure how it will turn out.

[QUOTE=MasterFen006;45950791]why not just be a metal head by being a fan of metal??[/QUOTE] because i was being a little scene kid and wanted attention lol.

[QUOTE=greeley;45950772]My taste has changed, when i was in school/college and a bit of a metal head that wanted to be classed in that group, i loved piercings and wanted piercings all on my lips, ears and everything. Then i grew up and just kind of got over it.[/QUOTE] I'm a big fan of metal and I look like a fucking nerd [IMG]http://i.cubeupload.com/lCrKCD.jpg[/IMG] The only body art I'd want would just be tats but I really can't cause of shit with my skin

[QUOTE=Ex-President;45952127]I'm a big fan of metal and I look like a fucking nerd [IMG]http://i.cubeupload.com/lCrKCD.jpg[/IMG] The only body art I'd want would just be tats but I really can't cause of shit with my skin[/QUOTE] It that a hard drive cover for your phone?

[QUOTE=Demache;45952165]It that a hard drive cover for your phone?[/QUOTE] Yeah, forgot where the hell I got it. Wanna say it was a mall somewhere out of town but it was by some company called Fred [IMG]http://www.rotofugi.com/toyscart/pc/catalog/graphics4/M24550_dt2.jpg[/IMG]

[QUOTE=Ex-President;45952186]Yeah, forgot where the hell I got it. Wanna say it was a mall somewhere out of town but it was by some company called Fred [IMG]http://www.rotofugi.com/toyscart/pc/catalog/graphics4/M24550_dt2.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE] That's what I thought. Because I was wonder how and the hell you were taking a picture with an HDD.

[QUOTE=Shark Bones;45950658]I'm just a total sucker for body art. I want to get myself pierced and inked up. That's just my style, and I love it.[/QUOTE] Piercings, tattoos, and dyed hair. MMmmmmmmmm just no genital piercings. You already have to take out nipple/lip piercings if you want to get rough, I can't imagine managing one on your vagina/dick.

My brother got one and always talk about how good it is. I seriously wish he'd stop.

I just finally watched The Lego Film. Oh boy, WHY I DIDNT DID THAT BEFORE.

I hate piercings. They just look so out of place on the human body.

[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;45954286]I hate piercings. They just look so out of place on the human body.[/QUOTE] I think there's some that can work well. Navel piercings and snakebites are definitely my favis.

[t]http://i.cubeupload.com/EwmYMZ.jpg[/t] I'm still glad I have a vinyl record store in Palmdale c:

Oh dear, piercing talk. s:

So is Tinder for gays just a more classy version of Grindr, or is it still used mainly for hookups?

Been exercising a little. Pushups, specifically, but for real exercise I need to go to the gym nearby. I can feel my arms and stuff getting more muscly, tho. Woo!

Well, as tough as it was and as hard as it had to be, me and Heavy are no longer an item. The sheer distance between us was too great to circumvent and it was really hurting the both of us more than it was helping. We really did love eachother and there's absolutely no bad blood between us at all, but the fact that we couldn't physically be there for eachother was too tough for us both to handle. Regardless of all that, I have a great best friend in him and so does he. I regret none of the time we spent together one bit, and it was the happiest year of my entire life, guaranteed. To anyone who is currently in an LDR, don't let this discourage you. If you are perfectly happy with who you're with, stay with them. We made eachother happy the best we could and it was completely worth every second, I can't state it enough. It really is worth all the heartache, and yes. It CAN work out in the end. And if it doesn't, don't let that stop you if you still feel good about it and yourself. Everything will be okay, no matter what. <3

It pains me a little that 'item' means couple and doesn't make sense for a single person. "Are you an item because I want to pick you up" would be a godsend of a shitty chat up line, but now it makes no sense. God damn it.

I'm not really good with LDR. I had one with an Icelander long ago and it made me so happy to be with him but I've ruined so many things that we aren't even friends now anymore... Well, nothing feels the same.

I was in an LDR too sort of, but then I guess I creeped the guy out by accident and he blocked me.

I'm not the most clingy person ever oh and paranoid.

On the note of LDR, I just had to refuse like two guys recently that have said that they might love me. For fuck sake, why do people fall for me when I REALLY don't want any of this. It's worse since I said to myself to not get into LDRs ever again.

I wouldn't call my relation an LDR since me and my bf are together every two weeks, (Still a 4h45 drive.). But it would be way hard if it wasn't from the fact we see each other at least 4 to 10 days a month. I'd tend to say, if you don't have a way to be physically together with your half, it might not be a really good option. But if you can make it work, power to you!

Make a difference between distance and internet, though. If you never actually saw the person irl and started a relationship, I can see why it might not work. You have to set limits to what you can do.

I get annoyed really badly sometimes that I can't go visit ninny then spend an hour just staring at a blank message window not knowing what to say before giving up and doing something else to take my mind off it.

I thought I had really no chance of finding anyone in Tennessee. Still kinda think that, and Heavy really made me happy, so I thought why not? Don't regret a second I spent of it. It lasted a good year, and that's fine by me. Hell, if I didn't have anyone else ever after this, I'd still be okay with it.

[QUOTE=Mysterious;45956678] Hell, if I didn't have anyone else ever after this, I'd still be okay with it.[/QUOTE] You shouldn't say that. You'll want to find someone eventually. And I'm sure you and heavy will find another.

Yeah I know. Coping mechanism to fight back the sadness :v:

Growing up here and seeing how gay people are actually treated has made me afraid of broadcasting my sexuality and I feel like others are the same. I've only known of 3 other gay people in my life and 2 of them committed suicide because of bullies. The other one moved away almost as quickly as he came in. I should probably get over that and change up my mindset, but it's not something that can be done overnight. I know I'm not hopeless, but those thoughts can creep up like nothing again and again.

Well, it'd be a good start to move out of Tennessee if you're worried about the community around you.