Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

I'm really shy too. He contacted on FA after he saw me on furrymap. We live only some 20km apart.

[QUOTE=gerbe1;46011977]Oh my god I just spent five minutes wondering if the guy next to me was gay and trying to figure out how to say hi at 10.30 pm on a train. He was practicing orchestration I think or something. Anyway I like flashed him screenshots of grindr which was probably the worst way to do it and I don't think he noticed and then I just drifted off to sleep because my station is the end of the line so I can just sleep and worst comes to worse some security guy kicks me off. I wake up to "hey buddy?" And the guys face looking at me and I was like omg unit worked he is going to ask to be my friend the day is saved. But then he was just like "where are you getting off?" and I was like uh no I don't want to go home with you but I told him and he was just all "oh ok you looked like you were asleep I wanted to make sure you didn't miss your stop" Nice guy. I think I am struggling to handle my mind at the moment. Things are feeling really wrong.[/QUOTE] I have this problem too. I accidentally hit on a seriously cute straight guy who looked like he could likely be gay but he wasn't. Gay people need to have some sort of identifier on them, otherwise you never can know who's gay among straight people, aside from the flamers of course, but I'm not really interested in them so it doesn't help me.

[QUOTE=Mudkipslol;46014659]I'm really shy too. He contacted on FA after he saw me on furrymap. We live only some 20km apart.[/QUOTE] Is he cute?

Jesus christ I'm a mess right now, a guy I worked with asked if I was ok and I started crying, no idea why

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46014697]Is he cute?[/QUOTE] yeh :3

[QUOTE=Mudkipslol;46014719]yeh :3[/QUOTE] *finger guns*

[QUOTE=Mudkipslol;46014659]I'm really shy too. He contacted on FA after he saw me on furrymap. We live only some 20km apart.[/QUOTE] A furry-what now?

[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;46014993]A furry-what now?[/QUOTE] furrymap.net Create an account and place a marker. You can set the marker to fade the more you zoom in, to set your location to a city instead of a house or a street.

I'm convinced that whoever designed this house's kitchen never actually cooked in their entire life It's so fucking tiny and poorly laid out

So my friend recovered and now she's heading back home today. Seems like she's doing good right now c: .

Just got my car fixed last week from an engine blowout, and I already have to take it in again to be fixed (starter is fucked up for some reason) fml

I expected this crunchwrap supreme to be sturdier than it really is.

[QUOTE=kaden9596;46016615]I had a bad day at school today. This morning, I felt perfectly fine at first, then after my third period, out of no where, I felt really depressed. I still feel like this, I'm not sure why.[/QUOTE] I know that feeling man *hugs*, even as happy as I typically am, there are always those days

Been going to the LGBT center at my university lately. What a really great bunch of people. It's nice to have like-minded friends that I can share experiences and thoughts with.

[QUOTE=Rexxasaurus;45992695]I might be getting a new cat soon that looks very similar. I'll probably get to meet it sometime this week.[/QUOTE] Turns out the lady held back on giving me the cat because she didn't like my application. Apparently, she wanted to do a monthly house visit or some shit to check up.

[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;46017444]Been going to the LGBT center at my university lately. What a really great bunch of people. It's nice to have like-minded friends that I can share experiences and thoughts with.[/QUOTE] Wish we had things like that in our schools

I don't think I've ever been this depressed.

[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;46017444]Been going to the LGBT center at my university lately. What a really great bunch of people. It's nice to have like-minded friends that I can share experiences and thoughts with.[/QUOTE] I hated the lgbt club at my uni. It was predominantly just trans folks or really smug/snooty/pushy people who were the type that'd just start screaming at you if you ever did anything at all that wasn't complimenting them on how strong they were for being openly gay.

[QUOTE=Viva;46019394]I hated the lgbt club at my uni. It was predominantly just trans folks or really smug/snooty/pushy people who were the type that'd just start screaming at you if you ever did anything at all that wasn't complimenting them on how strong they were for being openly gay.[/QUOTE] Be careful at them, often they're a meet n fuck.

I've never been in an LGBT group outside of high school. I went mostly to meet guys and it was a bunch of scary, hyper-sexual goth lesbians. On a realer note, I'm pretty depressed because I'm still a kissless virgin and I feel as though I won't ever be liked by any guys, and I'm considering just not even pursuing a relationship

[QUOTE=cheetahben;46019626] On a realer note, I'm pretty depressed because I'm still a kissless virgin and I feel as though I won't ever be liked by any guys, and I'm considering just not even pursuing a relationship[/QUOTE] Same boat here man, never even had something close to a physical relationship. Never even talked to another gay guy face to face. You'll meet someone too, trust me. I stopped caring about trying to find a boyfriend, as much as I want one, for now I'm just trying to meet new friends. Who knows, one of them might fall for you, or introduce you to someone. The point is, don't give up, just try changing plans for a while, then try again when you're on a better foot

I know how it feels. Sometimes, I feel really selfish for moping about that kind of shit when there are people worse off than I am. When it comes to relationships, what I've come to find is that sometimes, you need really great friends more than you need a romantic connection. A lot of times when I felt lonely, I mainly just felt that no one have a shit about me. Just the sheer feeling of someone actually telling you/showing you how much they care about you and want you to stick around is just the greatest feeling on earth. Doesn't have to be romantic. That's why I feel really REALLY bad and selfish if I haven't talked to someone in a while that I used to.

Ok so it's basically stalking if sitting behind a guy in a lecture and listening to an acquaintence talk to him I eavesdrop on their conversation and look up my acquaintences facebook and search for the guys name which I learned through listening. Unfortunately he's friends with like fifty Alex's so... But I know he works in landscaping and he forgot his steel capped boots and is a bit stressed about it. Pretty sure he's gay. I don't actually know how to talk to him despite being in the same lecture and therefore same course and clearly some similar interests... Like. I've been sitting behind him in lectures for like six weeks. Do I even want more gay friends. Being gay shouldn't be a requirement for a desire for me to make friends with a person right? And what about girls for friends. Why is there a stereotype that gay guys best friends are girls. I have a couple of female friends but I only made them recently...

So, is steam down for anyone else too? I wanted to chat with Kaden, but steam doesn't let me connect through my phone.

[QUOTE=Davidn64;46019887]So, is steam down for anyone else too? I wanted to chat with Kaden, but steam doesn't let me connect through my phone.[/QUOTE] Ye, the community server's down again, which is what the mobile chat is hosted on

Look at it this way. At least you don't have to necessarily include moving out of your country to be able to go openly gay or finding someone else. I do. My mother even asked me to keep my homosexuality for myself and I understand why. But it helped me to realise that if I ever want to have someone and at least small chance of being happy with them, I need to get the heck out of here.

I'm fairly sure, for the most part, that my family wouldn't disown me if they knew I was gay. I am completely sure however, they would do everything (including call, send texts, send physical letters, inform pastors and worship leaders or whatever 24/7,) that they can for as long as they can to "save me from the depths of hell."

I know mine would genuinely either make me shut or shut me off if I ever managed to open. I just want these 6 more months to pass quickly so I can finally leave for good.

[QUOTE=Gar;46019923]I'm fairly sure, for the most part, that my family wouldn't disown me if they knew I was gay. I am completely sure however, they would do everything (including call, send texts, send physical letters, inform pastors and worship leaders or whatever 24/7,) that they can for as long as they can to "save me from the depths of hell."[/QUOTE] Basically what happened with me. My family is Mormon, and it's every bit as bad as you think it would be. My younger brother is also gay and I have two wonderful lesbian aunts who are both awesome, but it's still a struggle. My parents and I don't really talk about my sexuality ever, and when it does come up they get really uncomfortable. Soooo for now it's all under the rug.

[img]http://i.imgur.com/YW7Sn6V.png[/img] Happy birthday slice you lying piece of shit