Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Jacen;46024960]And besides, with alcohol, there's more than just the taste to dislike, such as the burning sensation it has in the throat.[/QUOTE] You can completely remove that burning sensation with clever mixing. You can be drinking high percentage alcohol and never taste it one bit.

i dont drink because im not a derp :^)

[QUOTE=zerothefallen;46026542]i dont drink because im not a derp :^)[/QUOTE] Missing out~~~~~~

[QUOTE=zerothefallen;46026542]i dont drink because im not a derp :^)[/QUOTE] :^)

[QUOTE=H4ngman;46021227]Hello gay chat. It's been a while since I posted in here. I realize that my last personal life updates were somewhat apocalyptic so I just wanted to keep you up to date to let you know I am still alive. With all the relationship problems I had over the past half year, I am about to make a very difficult decision. For a quick recap, my partner has serious emotional and health issues. The problems reached a peak when I was confronted with the possibility of his suicide. This being a long-distance relationship, the feeling of absolute powerlessness left me in total despair and panic. I was up and about to just request emergency vacation at the office and cover the entire distance by car but he didn't want that. It was either several weeks of me staying or nothing at all. Needless to say, I can't do that so I felt even worse. In those days of non-stop crying and shivering with anxiety, confronting myself over and over with the possibility of his death, something inside me changed. First I got really sick. I was so spent and exhausted from the emotional stress that my body gave in. Then I started becoming indifferent. All the feelings of affection and love started dying off. I assume it was some sort of self-protection reaction. All the emotional ties that caused me so much anguish shut down, along with parts of my entire emotional spectrum. It all switched to stand-by and the pain stopped. I was left with a very pragmatic desire to help this person in need. But in over a year I haven't succeeded in even getting him to see a doctor or a therapist. Not one tiny piece of advice was listened to. The last time I saw him, he had fits of unconsciousness. Possibly a result from his emotional trauma or something worse, something physical. He didn't even listen to me trying to get him to lie or at least sit down after such a fit. Needless to say, these things put even more strain on me. At some point I reached a very uncomfortable conclusion. I can't help him. I'm hurting myself trying. I am not a doctor or a therapist and I can't fix his problems with all my love and affection and I am drained of these feelings. All I have left is worry and a feeling of complete impotence and helplessness. I started becoming sick myself, I have developed a severe Tinnitus which the doctors say could be the result of permanent nerve damage or PTSD-like symptoms. I don't know how I will come to terms with this decision, but I have to get out of this situation. I will forever feel like a total cunt for abandoning a person for having problems but I can't take it anymore. I am falling apart an i'm doing more harm than good. I spent all my time and a lot of money trying to fix things that are beyond my power. I feel like a horrible person doing this, giving up because things get difficult but I have reached my limits. I tried to fix something beyond my power and competence. But I DID do EVERYTHING in my power. Love, advice, Money, Time, Council I gave EVERYTHING I had of ALL OF THESE THING until I was completely spent and had nothing more to give. I absolutely positively tried EVERYTHING there was to try and I gave EVERYTHING I had and now I have nothing left because I am emotionally and physically exhausted and drained. All I can hope for now is that I will be able to forgive myself for giving up and that I will regain some sort of equilibrium.[/QUOTE] Hey. It's been a really long time since we've talked, but I've been keeping updated on your story and how you progressed. It's not nice seeing you like this with this situation, you don't deserve to go through anything like with your previous girlfriend, and it's messing you up. If you are so seriously worried, then it's not a time for a relationship, with suicide being a threat and these blacking out issues, seeing a doctor is not optional, and if he will not see one, with his state of mental health it might even be best to have him treated against his will if that is possible, because he is not in the right state of mind to be saying no at this point. He needs professional help and you need to make it clear you are not a replacement for that and he needs to step forward and do something about it, and until he does, a relationship is unthinkable. You would be doing the right thing here, if's not giving up, it's doing what's best for you, and what is best for him by making it very clear it's an issue that needs to be undertaken by people who can help, and showing him that you're not that person. You've had a lot of success lately, I would seriously hate for this to drag you down while there's so much good going for you.

[t]http://i.imgur.com/SzQUObI.jpg[/t]

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46027218][t]http://i.imgur.com/SzQUObI.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] Omg that is too fucking cute

Tusk was fucking stupid don't watch it

Hello

[QUOTE=sa2fan;46027618]Hello[/QUOTE] Hi. Is it bad that I read your posts in a really dumb Stewie voice?

[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;46022388]Cider is the best. I love a good apple cider, or strawberry and lime.[/QUOTE] I really hate most alcohol but I can sit there and drink cider's no problem. Tastes more like apple juice and I fucking love apple juice.

I don't drink alcohol. Never tried.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46027218][t]http://i.imgur.com/SzQUObI.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] Fucking Shiba Inus looking all cute and shit when doing anything.

[QUOTE=Reagy;46027738]Fucking Shiba Inus looking all cute and shit when doing anything.[/QUOTE] Memes ruined them.

I've actually seen one irl, it's so goddamn cute.

Watched Godzilla (2014) again. Man, I can't not have fun with the Big G. I need to re-watch Gojira though, which is an all time fave.

[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;46022388]Cider is the best. I love a good apple cider, or strawberry and lime.[/QUOTE] Can confirm, cider is amazing.

Too sweet for me.

Root beer is my favorite beer.

[QUOTE=H4ngman;46021227]Hello gay chat. It's been a while since I posted in here. I realize that my last personal life updates were somewhat apocalyptic so I just wanted to keep you up to date to let you know I am still alive. With all the relationship problems I had over the past half year, I am about to make a very difficult decision. For a quick recap, my partner has serious emotional and health issues. The problems reached a peak when I was confronted with the possibility of his suicide. This being a long-distance relationship, the feeling of absolute powerlessness left me in total despair and panic. I was up and about to just request emergency vacation at the office and cover the entire distance by car but he didn't want that. It was either several weeks of me staying or nothing at all. Needless to say, I can't do that so I felt even worse. In those days of non-stop crying and shivering with anxiety, confronting myself over and over with the possibility of his death, something inside me changed. First I got really sick. I was so spent and exhausted from the emotional stress that my body gave in. Then I started becoming indifferent. All the feelings of affection and love started dying off. I assume it was some sort of self-protection reaction. All the emotional ties that caused me so much anguish shut down, along with parts of my entire emotional spectrum. It all switched to stand-by and the pain stopped. I was left with a very pragmatic desire to help this person in need. But in over a year I haven't succeeded in even getting him to see a doctor or a therapist. Not one tiny piece of advice was listened to. The last time I saw him, he had fits of unconsciousness. Possibly a result from his emotional trauma or something worse, something physical. He didn't even listen to me trying to get him to lie or at least sit down after such a fit. Needless to say, these things put even more strain on me. At some point I reached a very uncomfortable conclusion. I can't help him. I'm hurting myself trying. I am not a doctor or a therapist and I can't fix his problems with all my love and affection and I am drained of these feelings. All I have left is worry and a feeling of complete impotence and helplessness. I started becoming sick myself, I have developed a severe Tinnitus which the doctors say could be the result of permanent nerve damage or PTSD-like symptoms. I don't know how I will come to terms with this decision, but I have to get out of this situation. I will forever feel like a total cunt for abandoning a person for having problems but I can't take it anymore. I am falling apart an i'm doing more harm than good. I spent all my time and a lot of money trying to fix things that are beyond my power. I feel like a horrible person doing this, giving up because things get difficult but I have reached my limits. I tried to fix something beyond my power and competence. But I DID do EVERYTHING in my power. Love, advice, Money, Time, Council I gave EVERYTHING I had of ALL OF THESE THING until I was completely spent and had nothing more to give. I absolutely positively tried EVERYTHING there was to try and I gave EVERYTHING I had and now I have nothing left because I am emotionally and physically exhausted and drained. All I can hope for now is that I will be able to forgive myself for giving up and that I will regain some sort of equilibrium.[/QUOTE] It really is a tough situation, i know, i've lived through it multiple times in fact. It's sort of the reason why today i distance myself from a lot of people. Before i would spend so much time trying to help but after awhile it just got frustrating to watch people never take advice or even humor you or make any actual attempt to help themselves. From that point on it just takes a toll on you and it breaks you down. As terrible as it is, i just sort of.....got used to it. Resulting in me taking on a very realistic way of thought. Some perceive this as just cynicism or me being an asshole, but it's just me being bluntly realistic about things.

[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;46027830]Watched Godzilla (2014) again. Man, I can't not have fun with the Big G. I need to re-watch Gojira though, which is an all time fave.[/QUOTE] I remember losing my shit in the theater when he [sp]breathes fire[/sp]

Love my job so far basically I was with another female employee who was a meganerd (had a lot of max level WoW accounts) who pretty much would make every stiff person scream "IM TELLING HR" if you listed to our conversations.

[QUOTE=cheetahben;46028014]I remember losing my shit in the theater when he [sp]breathes fire[/sp][/QUOTE] It was my girlfriend's first legit Godzilla movie (excluding Godzilla vs Megaguirus), and she downright loved it.

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;46028027]Love my job so far basically I was with another female employee who was a meganerd (had a lot of max level WoW accounts) who pretty much would make every stiff person scream "IM TELLING HR" if you listed to our conversations.[/QUOTE] babby's first girl friend?! u go getem

[QUOTE=zerothefallen;46028362]babby's first girl friend?! u go getem[/quote] ironic shitposting is still shitposting No she was just cussing a lot, talking about bad customers; none of the shit you're implying.

[QUOTE=Reagy;46023067]Imagine waiting till you're 21 to legally drink. :v:[/QUOTE] my 21'st is this tuesday. All i asked for was a new desk that i'd go 50/50 for with my parents and a bottle of scotch.

I like making alcohol a lot more than actually drinking it

[QUOTE=Ex-President;46027405]Tusk was fucking stupid don't watch it[/QUOTE] I got about 2,000 people saying the opposite today. Had like another 2,000 thursday night. IDK kevin smith fans loved it, but then again those are also the people who knew the whole story and heard the podcast it was based on.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;46024711]Just because your liver can process it fast doesn't mean it isn't going to be damaged by it. Also how much vodka a day are you going through to be surprised you're not an alcoholic?[/QUOTE] Not much anymore. I don't really ever drink. Granted, that was a bit of an overstatement. I'm aware that because I never got too drunk doesn't mean it didn't do damage (hence the for the better part). I try not to drink much for that exact reason, really.

I like to drink, but seriously I hate people who have a superiority complex because they don't.