Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Jesus Crits;43138713]I need some advice, chat. I dont want to be with my boyfriend of 5 months, good friend of 3 years. I'm not happy, which makes him not happy. We've tried fixing our relationship but no amount of glue or pillow talk can piece it back together. Earlier today he asked me to move to arizona with him after my birthday (He has a job offer with his father). I, knowing the relationship is on unsteady terms, declined in the chance theres a fault in the relationship that turns into a canyon, leaving me stranded in a state that I've never been in. He asked me what I want, which at this point is to be single, but no matter how much I want to break up with him I cant. A while back, while discussing our relationship, he straight up said he'd kill himself if I left him. I really think he's too smart for that, but he's been unstable since childhood (diagnosed with mild scizophrenia, depression, dyslexia, ect). What do I do?[/QUOTE] To be honest you need to end the relationship. If he is saying he'd kill himself for you leaving him, that's technically a form of emotional abuse. Using guilt to keep you with him is not good, and he needs psychiatric attention.

[QUOTE=Zeke129;43138483]hey guys are we still postin pics check it out [img]http://i.imgur.com/s6PJi7u.jpg[/img] [editline]10th December 2013[/editline] the weird thing about pixelations it that you can stand across the room and squint and it kind of looks fine[/QUOTE] sounds like video game graphics back in the day

[img]http://i.imgur.com/MyCfA0h.png[/img] I pixellated myself.

You're all pansies for pixelating your faces like that. I'd post a pic of myself but I, uhh... I'll take that photo and show it the next morning! Promise! :v:

[QUOTE=OffTheRoad;43139383]You're all pansies for pixelating your faces like that. I'd post a pic of myself but I, uhh... I'll take that photo and show it the next morning! Promise! :v:[/QUOTE] [img]http://puu.sh/5IJkQ.png[/img] [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Macro, ban history" - SteveUK))[/highlight]

Here's my face [IMG]http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3139/4622863702_111dcd3e17.jpg[/IMG]

[video=youtube;SPO9pVwoxVg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPO9pVwoxVg[/video] No wonder civ pilots need way more hours than military. [video=youtube;nL2gd6Z9Csk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nL2gd6Z9Csk[/video] Them manoeuvres.

[QUOTE=Jesus Crits;43138713]I need some advice, chat. I dont want to be with my boyfriend of 5 months, good friend of 3 years. I'm not happy, which makes him not happy. We've tried fixing our relationship but no amount of glue or pillow talk can piece it back together. Earlier today he asked me to move to arizona with him after my birthday (He has a job offer with his father). I, knowing the relationship is on unsteady terms, declined in the chance theres a fault in the relationship that turns into a canyon, leaving me stranded in a state that I've never been in. He asked me what I want, which at this point is to be single, but no matter how much I want to break up with him I cant. A while back, while discussing our relationship, he straight up said he'd kill himself if I left him. I really think he's too smart for that, but he's been unstable since childhood (diagnosed with mild scizophrenia, depression, dyslexia, ect). What do I do?[/QUOTE] You need to break up with him. The relationship won't work, and I'm assuming its long distance considering he's wanting you to live with him out of state ([I]after only five goddamn months at that[/I]), and he's threatening you with suicide if you break up. Nobody should ever be put in a situation like that and if he honestly cared for your intentions and you guys were in a healthy relationship him even thinking of doing something like that if you were to break up would never happen. Its toxic to be around people like that, and you should break it off ASAP. That said, try and do it with some tact. I wouldn't confront him all hostile about it, but instead just explain that its not working out, you aren't ready to really take it into a serious relationship, and that you feel that you two need to work things out with yourselves first before pursuing a relationship. If he honestly attempts suicide, it is not your fault or your cause at all. Its a terrible thing for him to do that and I'd argue its the same exact type of mentality an abusive partner has, except the introspective version of that mentality instead of the extrospective version. Either way, you really do not want to be with someone who is like that, because its a bad idea to date if you rely on your partner so much that you can't fathom living without them. ESPEICALLY after 5 goddamn months. I'd be more empathetic of suicidal thoughts if it was a long term partner, and a happy relationship being suddenly lost due to a tragic event. Doing such thoughts in such a young relationship shows that there are internal issues that your partner needs to work out before he should continue with relationships in general. The old adage holds true - before you can love another you must first love yourself. It seems pretty clear to me your partner isn't ready to love himself yet if he thinks of his life in such little regard to hold you up on an (awkward and stressful) pedestal. Good news is, I don't think its that unusually. A lot of young, inexperienced partners have these kinds of issues in their first relationships. I was also way too invested in my first local relationship to the point that after we broke up 5-6mo later, I felt really shaken by the whole experience. It really taught me value in taking it slow and easy, not getting too attached too quick, not making such a big deal about being in a relationship, and not getting involved in blind partner worship. Now I'm in a stable long-term 3 year relationship with a partner I love very much and comfortably live with. I needed that "wake up call" to really learn first-hand what I need out of myself and my relationships.

David Duchovny, especially while acting in the X-Files, is my husbando.

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;43140576]David Duchovny, especially while acting in the X-Files, is my husbando.[/QUOTE] Do you threaten divorce when he's in anything else?

Yup.

I feel like talking over voice on Skype and start a group chat to discuss stuff. You can contact me at WhiterHusky or clicking this [URL="https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/17823794/startchat.html"]link[/URL]. Unless my mic decides to be a total ass.

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Well how was your day, Roll_Program? Doing anything fun for the holidays?

I find it funny when people ask "How was your day" as soon as I get up I just fucking woke up, I don't know :v:

[QUOTE=OffTheRoad;43139383]You're all pansies for pixelating your faces like that. I'd post a pic of myself but I, uhh... I'll take that photo and show it the next morning! Promise! :v:[/QUOTE] Someone said I was a 'qt' last time I posted my face. :v:

[QUOTE=Rubs10;43142377]Well how was your day, Roll_Program? Doing anything fun for the holidays?[/QUOTE] Thanks for asking <3 Nothing much, except going to London with some Facepunchers :D

[QUOTE=Roll_Program;43142332]Thread is dead today.[/QUOTE] I got my second ASVAB test scores back today. Did a couple orders of magnitude better on Electronics Information and Auto and Shop Information than I did the first time, which means I have a pretty damn good shot at getting a job in the USAF that I've been looking forward to like repairing jet engines or testing/maintaining avionics systems on aircraft; something cool as shit that gets me working on stuff that's cool as shit. Maybe I'll make it a career or something. I like the sounds of all of it and have very little to lose if I get in.

simply having a wonderful christmas time the tree is decorated and the driveway is all iced up christmas time is here

[QUOTE=Tark;43142654]I got my second ASVAB test scores back today. Did a couple orders of magnitude better on Electronics Information and Auto and Shop Information than I did the first time, which means I have a pretty damn good shot at getting a job in the USAF that I've been looking forward to like repairing jet engines or testing/maintaining avionics systems on aircraft; something cool as shit that gets me working on stuff that's cool as shit. Maybe I'll make it a career or something. I like all of it.[/QUOTE] Hey that's great. Best of luck to you. One of my best buds IRL from Facepunch is an avionics tech for the army and he loves it. I think I'm about to sign up too. Been discussing it with family & friends.

Why do I only ever fall for straight or bisexual guys who have no interest in me :'(

Aaa the bird keeps preening herself on my shoulder and she's brushing feathers under my ears and neck It tickles so much but I can't make her stop :v:

[QUOTE=kaze4159;43142706]Aaa the bird keeps preening herself on my shoulder and she's brushing feathers under my ears and neck It tickles so much but I can't make her stop :v:[/QUOTE] Take a video :D

This Holiday music is getting to me at work. A single 40 minute long cd. Most are variants of each other. Played all day. It's hell on the floor, lucky me, I work in the back where the speakers are broken.

[QUOTE=Sgt. Khorn;43142922]This Holiday music is getting to me at work. A single 40 minute long cd. Most are variants of each other. Played all day. It's hell on the floor, lucky me, I work in the back where the [b]speakers are broken.[/b][/QUOTE] for now :~)

[QUOTE=Xieneus;43142957]for now :~)[/QUOTE] Ah, you wish, they've been dead for years. No one cares.

So I haven't even lurked for like a month, how is everyone doing? HOW ARE MY PALS

My mom quit the shitty job that was killing her from stress, and now we're taking a holiday to Europe to celebrate :D Australian passport applications are a supermassive pain in the ass though.

[QUOTE=Catscratch;43142782]Take a video :D[/QUOTE] She decided to stop being cute and just shit on me again, so she's sitting on her cage now

[QUOTE=GhostProject;43142976]So I haven't even lurked for like a month, how is everyone doing? HOW ARE MY PALS[/QUOTE] Pretty okay HOW BOUT YOU?