I think my father is gay - General

I don't get it. Why do you want that link snipped?

If he's gay, he's gay. Nothing you can do about it. Sorry to say that. But he'll still be your dad, don't treat him any different as he probably treats you the same as before anyway.

So what if he's gay? It could've been a lot worse. From reading the OP it seems that you're afraid of loose all the good things you got. But it also seems that your father does love you and your mom a lot, otherwise he'd probably would've left and you would've been without those things anyways.

Ah, don't worry about it bro. Same thing here, except much worse stories and reasons why. Nothing much to it, just a couple of times when you question your sexuality, but that'll phase out eventually.

As long as he isn't those flamboyant ones with the annoying accents and goes around saying "YOO HOO, HEY BOY I THINK YOUR SEXY WANNA FUCK?"

So fucking what? Plenty of parents are in the closet and this is how it's been for centuries. It ain't nothing.

[QUOTE=Patcher;25916389]I can track it because one person in this thread quoted it.[/QUOTE] I got my attention for today, yummy!

[QUOTE=Kontradaz;25917656]So fucking what? Plenty of parents are in the closet and this is how it's been for centuries. It ain't nothing.[/QUOTE] Seriously. I still don't know why OP is making such a big deal.

the gay part is obvious, and theres nothing you can do about that. the mom part, well you should talk to him and tell him you know hes gay, and he needs to confront your mother, because he cant just cheat on her like that. IMO. [editline]7th November 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=Oversoul;25917876]Seriously. I still don't know why OP is making such a big deal.[/QUOTE] because that means his dad is cheating on his mom. thats why. [editline]7th November 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=_Maverick_;25916068]he's better than my father atleast xD[/QUOTE] xD

how is he gay if he had sex with a woman to produce you

It doesn't matter, deal with it. If he finds out you know, nothing bad will happen as long as you don't really care about it. Just don't go rampaging around screaming your father is gay and you should be fine.

So what if he's gay. So he likes to lock lips with penis than vagina. He likes to lick balls rather than pussy. He likes to finger buttholes than pussy. You can see where I'm going with this... As long as he loves you, who cares. Homosexuality isn't natural. But love is. Get over yourself. He's still your dad

[QUOTE=Kontradaz;25917656]So fucking what? Plenty of parents are in the closet and this is how it's been for centuries. It ain't nothing.[/QUOTE] It' a problem because if his father were gay, then his relationship with his wife was (forgive my choice of words) based on a lie. It's a problem for the OP, because it messes up his family. I don't think the OP directly cares if his dad is gay, he's just worried about its implications for his family unit. Just remember, he could still be bisexual.

Maybe....he's Bi?

Well you're not having sexual relations with him (I hope) so it shouldn't really matter to you whether he's gay or straight should it? I mean, if you seriously think he is and you think that he's cheating on your mum or something then yeah that might be aproblem but I think you should just wait.

[QUOTE=Vigilance;25915723]Sometimes people come out of the closet after several years of marriage and kids. So if he preferred other men, what effect would that have with you?[/QUOTE] If my dad came out I'd be worried that my mother, me and my sister were just disguises. I'd feel used.

Your dad loves you as a Son and that's all that matters. Be thankful you have a loving dad. It doesn't matter where he puts his rod.

Best advice: Don't talk about it.

Only problem I see here is him possibly sleeping with other people, but whether or not they're a man or women is irrelevant

I think you should just deal with it and if your dad asks you who you would live with again, sit him down and talk to him about the divorce idea

I would say act more mature about it, but considering that it could ruin your life according to your post, maybe just stay quiet about it and leave a little earlier than you've planned.

[QUOTE=DarkWolf2;25915852]Are you kidding me? Being raised by a gay person has no effect to you being raised at all. Zilch. It's like saying that you've been born with a gay gene because one of your parents is gay.[/QUOTE] [img]http://towleroad.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c730253ef01127942dd5628a4-800wi[/img] Sorry, I just had to. :frown: Just ask your dad, OP

My father is a war veteran and he use leather belts when he hit me and my brother.

[QUOTE=Rankxerox;25925538]My father is a war veteran and he use leather belts when he hit me and my brother.[/QUOTE] They weren't even studded?

[QUOTE=Capitulazyguy;25924753]If my dad came out I'd be worried that my mother, me and my sister were just disguises. I'd feel used.[/QUOTE] It can also be a straight to gay transition. It is normal for people to first become bisexual before declaring themselves homosexual. He could have been straight to begin with, but wasn't finished exploring his sexuality. After a couple of kids, they might find that feeling that something isn't right. He could also be gay before marriage but was under pressure from family or society to be the 'man' of a family. In that case I can understand the feeling of disguises. Homosexuality is becoming far more accepted than it was in the last couple of decades.

people arent getting the point of the thread. THE PROBLEM ISN'T HIS DAD IS GAY. THE PROBLEM IS THAT MEANS HIS DAD IS CHEATING ON HIS MOM, WHO HE CARES ABOUT. damnit.

So, you're a butt baby?

most people they don't give a shit if their dads are gay, do the same dude

why are you so traumatized by your father possibly being gay bad past experiences?

I suspected my dad was gay for a few years and just recently this year he told me he was bi. Who cares.