[QUOTE=myon;52703506]do you suggest tape or acid[/QUOTE]
yes
good depilatory creams work well, though usually most people don't realize you have to be fairly generous in applying the stuff.
otherwise I'm definitely getting laser hair removal when work paychecks from going full-time start rolling in, since that permanently thins the hair (and leaves you smooth for longer)
Body hair is beautiful, and I hope everyone here who has it doesn't feel excluded from the only gay chat on the site because everyone says it's disgusting.
Trust me when I say there are millions of gay men who love your body hair.
[QUOTE=revan740;52704250]Body hair is beautiful, and I hope everyone here who has it doesn't feel excluded from the only gay chat on the site because everyone says it's disgusting.
Trust me when I say there are millions of gay men who love your body hair.[/QUOTE]
I'm one of them :~)
[QUOTE=revan740;52704250]Body hair is beautiful, and I hope everyone here who has it doesn't feel excluded from the only gay chat on the site because everyone says it's disgusting.
Trust me when I say there are millions of gay men who love your body hair.[/QUOTE]
ya honestly as someone with a fair bit of body hair its kind of annoying hearing everyone say that its literally disgusting and they'd never date someone for the hair on their body, you should think about how it sounds to people who for whatever reason don't/can't get rid of it
[QUOTE=revan740;52704250]Body hair is beautiful, and I hope everyone here who has it doesn't feel excluded from the only gay chat on the site because everyone says it's disgusting.
Trust me when I say there are millions of gay men who love your body hair.[/QUOTE]
Yeah like seriously it's kinda ridiculously exclusionary when people go "body hair is gross" when the fact of the matter is most people just have it. I'm not a big fan of body hair but I still get a little mad at the extreme hatred of it around here. Considering how persecuted gays are in general, you'd think we'd be a little more inclusive among ourselves.
Stuff like
[QUOTE=Bengley;52703480]Ugh, body hair. Nope.
Mostly always a total turn off for me[/QUOTE]
could be phrased [I]way[/I] less harshly. No need to make someone with body hair feel like shit just because you don't like it.
Nope sorry, gotta pull a Frank, I prefer my men pure and free of sickness
i prefer my dudes hairless but ive warmed up to body hair, its not a huge deal unless it gets annoying
I'm full of body hair and I'll parade my bigfoot looking ass wherever I please.
What do y'all think of drinking. I don't drink and when my SO does he turns into another person and I didn't choose that person so I feel weird and treat him cold-like which makes him feel bad. Fuck.
It just feels wrong like a body snatcher took him over.
[QUOTE=01271;52704485]What do y'all think of drinking. I don't drink and when my SO does he turns into another person and I didn't choose that person so I feel weird and treat him cold-like which makes him feel bad. Fuck.
It just feels wrong like a body snatcher took him over.[/QUOTE]
I'm in the exact same boat as you, although my SO has started to stop drinking so much, it still feels weird when he does. Though he only started to cut down once I had sat down (when he was sober) and talked to him about it so I would suggest you do the same.
[QUOTE=01271;52704485]What do y'all think of drinking. I don't drink and when my SO does he turns into another person and I didn't choose that person so I feel weird and treat him cold-like which makes him feel bad. Fuck.
It just feels wrong like a body snatcher took him over.[/QUOTE]
I think drinking in moderation is fine, but if they can't control their drinking and alcohol starts taking the wheel, then they need help. Have you considered having an intervention or confronting the problem itself?
Once a week I get a different person for a few hours idk if that counts as alcoholism.
[QUOTE=01271;52704691]Once a week I get a different person for a few hours idk if that counts as alcoholism.[/QUOTE]
While that doesn't really sound like alcoholism, it sounds like they still might have some problem with drinking. Have you asked them to limit when they do drink?
Body hair is all about preference really. If you love someone for who they are, you shouldn't give a shit about body hair in my opinion.
[QUOTE=01271;52704485]What do y'all think of drinking. I don't drink and when my SO does he turns into another person and I didn't choose that person so I feel weird and treat him cold-like which makes him feel bad. Fuck.
It just feels wrong like a body snatcher took him over.[/QUOTE]
I just drink alone to make the pain go away, but then I just turn into someone who complains about everything so its not much different from the usual
its not for everyone and I cant stand most people when they're drunk, naturally I turn off my internet when I get drunk so I don't complain to people endlessly
I don't really prefer much body hair one way or the other, but I would feel really dickish and selfish if I was dating someone and I made them shave just because I don't like it. I understand that attraction does start at looks, but it's not very cool to treat people like they're the plague if they have body hair.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;52705065]I don't really prefer much body hair one way or the other, but I would feel really dickish and selfish if I was dating someone and I made them shave just because I don't like it. I understand that attraction does start at looks, but it's not very cool to treat people like they're the plague if they have body hair.[/QUOTE]
I mean if you're already dating that person it would be wrong to force them to shave. But I'm only attracted to people physically if they are shaved. I'm also not really starved for a relationship so I still have my 'standards' which includes no hair, because im picky.
[QUOTE=Naught;52705110]I mean if you're already dating that person it would be wrong to force them to shave. But I'm only attracted to people physically if they are shaved. I'm also not really starved for a relationship so I still have my 'standards' which includes no hair, because im picky.[/QUOTE]
Having a preference is fine, but when people throw around shit like "ugh body hair is so disgusting just get rid of it" it's going to make people feel like shit for simply having it, and lots of people do. Not saying you specifically did that, but that's the general vibe I'm getting from this thread. And like Axel said, if I like someone, I'm not going to check for body hair to see if I've made the right choice or not :v:
If anything, in a healthy relationship, you can experiment and have fun together by making a deal.
[QUOTE=revan740;52704250]Body hair is beautiful, and I hope everyone here who has it doesn't feel excluded from the only gay chat on the site because everyone says it's disgusting.
Trust me when I say there are millions of gay men who love your body hair.[/QUOTE]
Thank fuck, cause I'm not so sure if I wanna shave or not.
It Wouldn't really matter anyway. My shaven hair grows back in like two days anyway :v:
[QUOTE=chickenlover;52705290]Thank fuck, cause I'm not so sure if I wanna shave or not.
It Wouldn't really matter anyway. My shaven hair grows back in like two days anyway :v:[/QUOTE]
I gotta say you look much better with a beard. but that's just me I suppose.
Conclusion: body hair is still subjective.
I had the bright idea of taking a hot shower while it's hot outside.
What have I done.
Well, I guess all of y'all better do what needs doing soon.
BECAUSE SATURDAY IS THE RAPTURE BAY-BEE. US CHRISTIANS WILL BE RIGHT AFTER ALL.
(God I hope not)
Its been the rapture for like five years.
hairless boys: smooth and beautiful
hairy boys: fuzzy and hot
there are no losers only winners
I just finished Spec Ops: The Line and now I feel like trash.
[QUOTE=Trekintosh;52706143]I just finished Spec Ops: The Line and now I feel like trash.[/QUOTE]
The game accomplished what it set out to do.
My dad just told me that he used to be a reenactor for The French-Indian war battalion of the 60th of Foot, who were the one regiment who were employed by the british empire to use the Hit and Run tactics used by the Native Americans, whilist being profiecent in Line warfare making them very flexible. They basically went on to become one of the founding Royal Green Jackets regiments.
I always knew my dad was a French Indian War reenactor for the British side, but I never knew that he was backed by a museum, and was reenacting probably the most metal fighting force I've heard of.
I have played with the idea of shaving all my body and i would do it probably but i appreciate my body hair and would never do anything more long lasting like waxing
My coworker gave me the number of her cute friend and Im gonna text him now. wish me luck my dudes
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