Last night I went and saw the new IT with my bf however he was seeming really quiet and said he felt a bit ill but didn't give any reason. When I got home he started messaging me that he was having an panic attack and felt really scared. I've never had to deal with anything like this before but eventually I went over to his place and helped him talk it over to help him relax and calm down.
We ended up cuddling and just talking all night so I decided to stay the night. Even in the morning he was still a little worried so we ended up just staying in until the afternoon when I could finally talk him into seeing his uni tutors for help.
It feels so weird to be so comfortable around another person and feel wanted like this. I'm so not used to it.
It's been a nice Halloween.
So after months of thought, I decided that I want to come out to my family. My parents are very liberal ( my dad and mom both smoke weed and my dad still takes acid ) but my grandparents, not so liberal. In fact, extremely LGBT unfriendly.
i'm in a really difficult situation I feel as I want to naturally be my self yet feel pressured by my grandparents to not have a boyfriend or some sort of real relationship with a boy. I know my parents will be fine with it, maybe.... its a difficult situation. I'm very nervous.
I wish I could just like who ever I please with out having to feel pressured by reactions.
[QUOTE=OmTheory;52847432]So after months of thought, I decided that I want to come out to my family. My parents are very liberal ( my dad and mom both smoke weed and my dad still takes acid ) but my grandparents, not so liberal. In fact, extremely LGBT unfriendly.
i'm in a really difficult situation I feel as I want to naturally be my self yet feel pressured by my grandparents to not have a boyfriend or some sort of real relationship with a boy. I know my parents will be fine with it, maybe.... its a difficult situation. I'm very nervous.
I wish I could just like who ever I please with out having to feel pressured by reactions.[/QUOTE]
Don't wait for them to die before you let yourself be happy.
[QUOTE=OmTheory;52847432]So after months of thought, I decided that I want to come out to my family. My parents are very liberal ( my dad and mom both smoke weed and my dad still takes acid ) but my grandparents, not so liberal. In fact, extremely LGBT unfriendly.
i'm in a really difficult situation I feel as I want to naturally be my self yet feel pressured by my grandparents to not have a boyfriend or some sort of real relationship with a boy. I know my parents will be fine with it, maybe.... its a difficult situation. I'm very nervous.
I wish I could just like who ever I please with out having to feel pressured by reactions.[/QUOTE]
I feel like the hardest thing to go through for most people is the acceptance from the parents and that's something you will probably have since yours are as liberal as you described. If your parents support you they might even help your grandparents to understand that you being gay isn't really a bad thing.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;52849171]I feel like the hardest thing to go through for most people is the acceptance from the parents and that's something you will probably have since yours are as liberal as you described. If your parents support you they might even help your grandparents to understand that you being gay isn't really a bad thing.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I don't blame my grandparents for their ideology, they are simply from a different time where such things were slandered. I'm going to go for it and see what happens, at the end of the day I'm at a position where I don't need to ever speak to them again if I so desire as I live away from my family now.
It’s been a month and ya boi questioning. I’m not sure what happenned with my gf I think she’s very excited at the idea of me doing homo stuff, we sorta fuck now which is unheard of.
I’ve had no man accost me in real life, and grinder has me feeling like meat, worse, I feel like I’m applying for a job. Dead silence on the Okcupid end too. I do have a long time online friend who’s really dtf and I trust him a lot, but he’s in Amsterdam for now.
I’m feeling like I’m letting the most minor of inconveniences stop me from doing it with a man, which tells a lot about my resolve to begin with. I think I should go to holland.
You and your girlfriend didn't fuck until she learned you were curious?
[QUOTE=Scarabix;52854483]It’s been a month and ya boi questioning. I’m not sure what happenned with my gf I think she’s very excited at the idea of me doing homo stuff, we sorta fuck now which is unheard of.
I’ve had no man accost me in real life, and grinder has me feeling like meat, worse, I feel like I’m applying for a job. Dead silence on the Okcupid end too. I do have a long time online friend who’s really dtf and I trust him a lot, but he’s in Amsterdam for now.
I’m feeling like I’m letting the most minor of inconveniences stop me from doing it with a man, which tells a lot about my resolve to begin with. I think I should go to holland.[/QUOTE]
I find it pretty cool when girlfriends are ok with their boyfriends doing homo stuff.
I feel like most women are ok with their man wanting to have something with another girl but when he says he wants to do something with a guy they flip their shit beacuse they think this will affect his "manhood".
[QUOTE=inebriaticxp;52855614]You and your girlfriend didn't fuck until she learned you were curious?[/QUOTE]
It’s usually not an every day thing and she’s been picking up the pace as of late, is what I meant. Worded it all weird.
Which looks better on me?
Contacts [IMG]https://facepunch.com/fp/ratings/information.png[/IMG]:
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Glasses [IMG]https://facepunch.com/fp/ratings/wrench.png[/IMG]:
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Apperently they're closing down miiverse tommorow.
I honestly kind of wanna cry right now, I won't be able to see all the funny messages on the miiverse stage in smash with my brother again.
As a matter of curiosity, how many of y'all are gearheads/car guys?
Just as a census type thing, since i feel like any stable relationship requires an understanding as to why i'm spending tens of thousands of dollars on LS parts and jaguars, and i kinda wanna know how likely that is.
Agree for "Supercharger whine makes me hard" and disagree for "i have own a honda civic and i see nothing wrong with that"
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;52857299]Long quote[/QUOTE]
First one makes you look cuter. Second one makes you look nerdier. Studies have shown that glasses make you look smarter, but less attractive.
glasses can be a good look but you gotta choose the right ones
Is it weird that I think thick frame glasses are more attractive than no glasses
[QUOTE=Rubs10;52857496]Is it weird that I think thick frame glasses are more attractive than no glasses[/QUOTE]
it all depends on your head and your face
same with your haircut
glasses like wayfarer shades are pretty universal but you should shop around and see how you look in a few pairs
these are similar to my current pair which is my favorite i've ever had [url]https://www.firmoo.com/eyeglasses-p-4864.html[/url]
that site is great btw, a chinese manufacturer that sells really cheap glasses ($40 usd max, plus lens options) [sp]i also got a pair of these in pink for... purposes https://www.firmoo.com/eyeglasses-p-4248.html[/sp]
this post isn't a firmoo ad i swear
I like my glasses
[QUOTE=Trilby Harlow;52857469]As a matter of curiosity, how many of y'all are gearheads/car guys?
Just as a census type thing, since i feel like any stable relationship requires an understanding as to why i'm spending tens of thousands of dollars on LS parts and jaguars, and i kinda wanna know how likely that is.
Agree for "Supercharger whine makes me hard" and disagree for "i have own a honda civic and i see nothing wrong with that"[/QUOTE]
i can change my oil and my tires
fake edit: i'd love to get more into cars but it's pretty difficult to do anything but read about cars when you're a poor college student
[QUOTE=Trilby Harlow;52857469]As a matter of curiosity, how many of y'all are gearheads/car guys?
Just as a census type thing, since i feel like any stable relationship requires an understanding as to why i'm spending tens of thousands of dollars on LS parts and jaguars, and i kinda wanna know how likely that is.
Agree for "Supercharger whine makes me hard" and disagree for "i have own a honda civic and i see nothing wrong with that"[/QUOTE]
I like dicking around with my car's ECU (nothing changed just like viewing the values).
[QUOTE=Trilby Harlow;52857469]As a matter of curiosity, how many of y'all are gearheads/car guys?
Just as a census type thing, since i feel like any stable relationship requires an understanding as to why i'm spending tens of thousands of dollars on LS parts and jaguars, and i kinda wanna know how likely that is.
Agree for "Supercharger whine makes me hard" and disagree for "i have own a honda civic and i see nothing wrong with that"[/QUOTE]
Huge car/bike guy. I've spent many a dollar on car and bike parts. Can't get enough.
Well that's way more likely than i thought. Cool.
I like cars, mainly rare ones. But not so much working on them. I love supercars.
I know that I hit the pedal and the car goes
I finally got a job working in retail, nothing fancy but it's practically my first real job.
I'm spooked.
[QUOTE=Trilby Harlow;52857469]As a matter of curiosity, how many of y'all are gearheads/car guys?
Just as a census type thing, since i feel like any stable relationship requires an understanding as to why i'm spending tens of thousands of dollars on LS parts and jaguars, and i kinda wanna know how likely that is.
Agree for "Supercharger whine makes me hard" and disagree for "i have own a honda civic and i see nothing wrong with that"[/QUOTE]
i love seeing posts about your jag in the AA thread
[QUOTE=Arkei;52860221]I know that I hit the pedal and the car goes[/QUOTE]
i don't even check my oil often
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;52860529]i love seeing posts about your jag in the AA thread[/QUOTE]
Oh cool, ta.
I bought 6ft of vaccum line today, ran out of light before i could replace all the old lines. And i'm still living with my dad, and he's moving to a new house, without a garage. So as soon as those hoses are done it's going into storage for the winter and until he can errect a garage for our cars.
Car like that, i feel awful when i don't treat it as perfectly as one can treat a car. I feel horrible about this.
[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;52860125]I like cars, mainly rare ones. But not so much working on them. I love supercars.[/QUOTE]
Nah that's the best part
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Nothing as satisfying as wrenching on these things though. Anyone can wrench on a smallblock chevy. Rolls royce V8 and it's Kafkaesque array of hydrolic bullshit? I love it. Its just that much more satisfying when it's all in order and purring happily.
The alignment on the rolls is [I]awful[/I] right now though. Like 3 degrees toe out on the right front and some awful amount of negative camber to boot. It weighs 5500 pounds, i'm amazed it still has tread on it. There's something up with the brakes too. I think the master cylinder might be shot.
I like cars but I'm not sure whether I should learn to drive now while I'm in uni or wait until later.
I've never needed to drive before and probably wouldn't find it very useful as well as it probably being too expensive for me.
I'm big into my cars and motorbikes, but at the moment insurance is the UK is wayyyy too expensive for me to own either, due to not having transferred my Aussie license yet :c
[QUOTE=Niney;52857524]I like my glasses[/QUOTE]
I like your glasses, and you.
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Gay Chat XII - "who🅱est're gay"
