[QUOTE=paindoc;53000783]Not gonna lie, my two chief reasons for wanting a BF atm are 1. Utility cause goddamn doing things like taking a car to the shop sucks when single and 2. Getting on good terms with him so I don't have to listen to my dad fall for Uranium One and Pizzagate at Christmas. Spending Christmas with an SO would be quite nice in comparison[/QUOTE]
see you could game the system if you found someone who is a mechanic. Boom, half of life's problems out the window right then and there.
[QUOTE=Liam968;53003025]I better get time and a half for working today.[/QUOTE]
Legally you have to
I just finished work but merry christmas hEHE
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You sons of grinches had better start getting real jolly real quick
idk what you're talkin about buddy im festive as heck
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I don't post here very much at all but I lurk a lot so
merry christmas :smile:
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it's christmas in EST!
merry xmas
commence countdown to CST christmas, 27 minutes remaining
also merry christmas to probably mostly everybody else
Merry Xmas!
First time posting here. I have a question, and I'll apologize beforehand because I know it's pretty difficult to answer, if at all answerable. It's gonna take a bit of context before I get to it.
First, some background info: mid-20s male who's had sporadic homosex fantasies. I used to have them a lot in my early teens, but they subsided growing into my late teens and early 20s. Even so, discomfort with men in more contexts than sexual has always been a part of my life. These homosexual thoughts have been creeping up more and more as of late.
It's obvious that I'm at least bisexual (which I've identified as with close friends for years now, so not exactly news to me), but the reason these thoughts have become more invasive to me lately is that I've noticed a trend in my dating habits. Typically, when I really like a woman, we date for a few months and generally have a good time. However, we usually reach a stagnation period; the end of the honeymoon phase, I guess. When we're in this phase, I feel a lot of different things. Insecurity about their behaviour behind my back, tons of sexual frustration, but most of all, a strong attraction to the peen. Not men in general, just very specific sexual situations involving men. Over the years, this has manifested in many different fantasies that, overall, embarass me greatly today.
However, when I consider myself single, I rarely think of dick. I'm back to being a sleazeball toward women with a massive insecurity complex (I kid, I try to be decent). I can definitely say that I enjoy chasing and sleeping with women, but as soon as I seem to invest some of my heart in them, what I've described above happens.
So, the question. How gay am I? Should I bite the phallic bullet and find out, or are there less direct methods to tease out the nuance of my sexuality? I'm leaning towards finding a nice dude to experiment with at the moment, but I'd really appreciate some input from more experienced folks too.
TL;DR am gay maybe? What do?
There's no harm in experimenting with men as a whole. Nobody can really tell you whether or not you're gay or you might be more into men than women or vice versa. Only you can decide that for yourself. But if you feel like experimenting is the way to do that, then go for it. As long as you stay safe, obviously.
It honestly sounds like you are bisexual but even bisexual people can have a moderate preference. I consider myself sort of biromantic, but I have a preference to men or masculine individuals rather than women/feminine people. Doesn't rule out the latter entirely, but given a choice, I would usually go for the former.
Shit's weird sometimes but in a lot of cases, you won't really know for sure until you get out there and try to pursue what you think might interest you.
Murreh chrustbubs
Merry Christmas!! <3
My hair on pink, I’m the most fab
Merry chrimbo gayos
I have a pink gin, prosecco and strawberry cocktail from my sister. Get on my level.
Merry Christmas everyone!
[editline]25th December 2017[/editline]
[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;53004516]I have a pink gin, prosecco and strawberry cocktail from my sister. Get on my level.[/QUOTE]
Woah wasn't expecting to see you in here
Merr Christmas!
Had a pretty damn good christmas, I'm getting a toaster oven sent to my apartment (eating nothing but food made on a hot plate or a microwave all quarter has been shit), and I got Sony Vegas 14. On christmas night me and my two siblings got high and we all listened to [URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEoxu0_8uZU"]Perturbator[/URL] with my dad. :ok:
my christmas was okay but ultimately ruined because im a petty person who gets upset when other people talk about how they casually got 500$ while I got socks and chocolate
My SO got us the Lego Saturn V kit, yes, this bad boy: :cool:
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And I got them a Newegg gift card because hooo man do they need a new computer (We recently had to replace the thermal paste on the CPU & GPU on their laptop, and ended up needing to cut pure copper pennies to fill the gap because normal thermal paste wasn't thick enough).
And thankfully my parents and grandparents were relatively low key on the politco stuff this year so that was alright.
The holidays are nearly fuckin over and I couldn't be happier, this has been murder on my body and got a couple of things I have to flare up.
The weird thing is that I don't feel the terrible pit of anxiety and hurt quite as much anymore, but the subconscious effects of most holidays (my birthday + Thanksgiving, Xmas, new year, spring break-ish time) are still just as strong :/
My parents came up for smissmas and we ate at a bunch of fancy restaurants and saw a couple movies. No specific presents, but them being here and doting on us was more than present enough.
Yo. Haven't posted here in a while and I know i'm super late, but merry christmas and all that stuff. hope y'all had a good one.
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