Gay Chat XII - "who🅱est're gay" - General

[QUOTE=Mysterious;52538974]Doubtful.[/QUOTE] unless some super cute guy with no standards falls off a tree and wants to be with someone who's literal garbage, its not that doubtful idk why I post shit like this in here

[QUOTE=Naught;52539025]unless some super cute guy with no standards falls off a tree and wants to be with someone who's literal garbage, its not that doubtful idk why I post shit like this in here[/QUOTE] Trust me, I know how easy it is to think things like that, but I'm being real here. None of you are garbage. I know some truly garbage people and it takes a LOT of awful shit to even be slightly considered to be it. I have the same sorts of thoughts all the time and I'm always doubting if I'm good enough for anyone so I'm also trying to convince myself of this, but all of you have a good chance. Just try and keep your head up. Things are never bad forever.

When I have kids, if they are gay, I don't want them to "come out of the closet" to me, but rather they bring someone home with them from school/college and announce that they "like this person more than a friend". I would greet them, sit them both down, make them a drink, and ask them how they met and all that jazz.

i was driving my mom to work once and out of the blue she asked me if i was gay and i lied and said no and she was like good, don't be gay i guess i won't be coming out to my parents ever [editline]4th August 2017[/editline] OH and there was a solid few months where my dad tried to match-make me with his friends' daughters from indonesia and i was like STOP

[QUOTE=elitehakor;52539082]i was driving my mom to work once and out of the blue she asked me if i was gay and i lied and said no and she was like good, don't be gay i guess i won't be coming out to my parents ever[/QUOTE] My dad used to laugh about how when he suspected someone at his old job (lifeflight) was gay he'd just keep asking until they admitted haha lmao right? I told him numerous times in the past few years that wasn't okay and it was a shitty thing to do (telling my father anything like this is a bad idea tbh), and he kept asking me if I was gay and I refused to give him the satisfaction of telling him. I came out to my mother a while ago. It was super low stress because honestly I've stopped caring [I]a ton[/I] about what my parents think and how they factor into my life. They had their chance to be a positive influence, they weren't, so now they rank as pretty low priority. She was one of the last people I told tbh. And I never told my dad: he had to learn through my mom

I see no need to come out unless I am dating someone . Nobody in my family would care that much anyways . It would just be mildly embarrassing on my end .

[QUOTE=Mysterious;52539035]Trust me, I know how easy it is to think things like that, but I'm being real here. None of you are garbage. I know some truly garbage people and it takes a LOT of awful shit to even be slightly considered to be it. I have the same sorts of thoughts all the time and I'm always doubting if I'm good enough for anyone so I'm also trying to convince myself of this, but all of you have a good chance. Just try and keep your head up. Things are never bad forever.[/QUOTE] I know im not literal garbage, I just mean in the sense that I have no real education, no skills, no money, no brain so im trying to be real here as well, theres no reason why someone would want to be with someone who is more likely to be homeless rather than have a job above minimum wage :v:

The major thing that matters for liking someone is personality. Your caste and situation shouldn't matter. If it does, then the person you are interested in might not be a priority. I feel that myself a lot, but I've gotten better at it. I like one other person, and that's it. This person doesn't care about my job, etc. Finding someone like that is the most important.

[QUOTE=Steam-Pixie;52539057]When I have kids, if they are gay, I don't want them to "come out of the closet" to me, but rather they bring someone home with them from school/college and announce that they "like this person more than a friend". I would greet them, sit them both down, make them a drink, and ask them how they met and all that [B]jizz[/B].[/QUOTE] :hurr:

That's awful. I'm sorry that happened to you.

My parents have made it clear to me they'll support me no matter who I love or what my sexuality is. Which is why I'm planning to come out tomorrow as pansexual and... tell them I wasn't born in the right body. I expect it to be emotional.

I should honestly come out to my folks already, they said they would accept me no matter what. Sometimes when I'm home my Dad is always like 'you should get a girlfriend (already do but plot-twist its a MAN, BABY)...' and then there is a long pause and sometimes he'll say 'or someone else if you swing that way...' followed by Dr. Steve Brule noises.

I'm kind of glad my parents were black sheep in their families. My aunts and uncles have TOO much Jesus in their lives, and thankfully it didn't rub off on my parents.

Plot twist: "Mom, I have to tell you something" "You're coming out as straight?"

[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;52539812]Plot twist: "Mom, I have to tell you something" "You're coming out as straight?"[/QUOTE] Mom, Dad. I'm sorry, but I'm... [t]http://i.imgur.com/Nb9i0Sf.jpg[/t]

Mom, dad, I'm 'Other:' =O

[QUOTE=Naught;52539025]unless some super cute guy with no standards falls off a tree and wants to be with someone who's literal garbage, its not that doubtful idk why I post shit like this in here[/QUOTE] [t]http://horobox.co.uk/u/reag/don_t_be_a_trash_can_t_by_avibroso-d974qoz.png[/t]

[QUOTE=Trekintosh;52539179]:hurr:[/QUOTE] Fuck you I thought I actually misspelled it! :v:

I haven't come out to my parents. I don't think they'd be upset but I'm worried they would ask stupid questions or tell me it's a phase.

I have no plans to come out to my parents. They're better off not knowing.

Myself and my brother are pretty much estranged from our father now. He's become such a piece of shit because of work. It sucks extra because all four of us still live together [I]and[/I] we work together in a family company that he's incapable of running correctly. [editline]4th August 2017[/editline] Also, money doesn't buy happiness. Top 15% income means nothing when your family doesn't communicate

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;52540405]Myself and my brother are pretty much estranged from our father now. He's become such a piece of shit because of work. It sucks extra because all four of us still live together [I]and[/I] we work together in a family company that he's incapable of running correctly. [editline]4th August 2017[/editline] Also, money doesn't buy happiness. Top 15% income means nothing when your family doesn't communicate[/QUOTE] u post about money a lot. I'd be happy to take some off your hands?

[QUOTE=DanTehMan;52540440]u post about money a lot. I'd be happy to take some off your hands?[/QUOTE] I'm capping my salary when I really make it on my own. I'm keeping about $100,000 a year and giving the rest away to friends. [editline]4th August 2017[/editline] Never be jealous of anyone because it'll kill you.

yea im jealous of pretty much everyone considering I failed 3 years of high school, had to get my ged, and failed a few years of college im jealous of anyone who can even pass a class properly

The goal is just to be thankful for what you have.

I remember the last wealthy gaypuncher, he was quite the bastard but he sure was entertaining. He posted in the steam chat a lot. I can't remember his name, something with dragon? Or monster? EDIT: Demon something??

All I really want in life is to have a stable income so I can fulfill the cost for my hobbies and such. Unfortunately a lot of things in my life recently feel like they're preventing me from getting an education to do that, stress and stuff. Hope I end up pulling through.

question: how do you become a trophy husband??? i don't know how to finances and would really like someone who has accountants so that I don't screw up my retirment or something accidentally :v:

I've done a lot to improve my life over the last few years. Not exactly where I wanna be ideally but I feel closer to that every day. As a result my self-confidence has improved a lot. Again, it's still not perfect, but I keep surprising myself. This next year is shaping up to be huge for me and I'm both really excited and really [I]really[/I] nervous.

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;52540489]I'm capping my salary when I really make it on my own. [B]I'm keeping about $100,000 a year[/B] and giving the rest away to friends. [editline]4th August 2017[/editline] Never be jealous of anyone because it'll kill you.[/QUOTE] God I wish that were me.