Gay Chat XII - "who🅱est're gay" - General

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;53122503]When are we gonna have humanoids like in I, Robot?[/QUOTE] Next couple of weeks.

[QUOTE=LordyLord;53122408]Man I gotta set up my schedule better, or at least follow what I actually put down. I have an hour each weekday i dedicate to creative work and i haven't done shit with it yet. I just sit on my ass and surf on tf2 :([/QUOTE] I have the same kind of problem. I found that setting up more, smaller, goals helps motivate me to actually pick up my projects. I'm far more likely to start on something I know I can finish in short period of time. Then hopefully that momentum carries over into another task. I had found this app, [url=https://en.todoist.com/]Todoist[/url], about a year ago; it's been a really nice way to keep myself mindful of what I set out to get done during the week. Bonus is that it's also satisfying just being able to check them off.

I went to 1. my first two gaybars and 2. my first furmeet. in regards to 1, it was pretty fun! Felt nice to be around a ton of gay dudes, a bunch of transpeople, and a couple totally chill straight dudes (because furries lol). I went to one of the larger gay bars in Seattle, known for it's daddy/leather/bear/pup scene so that was a trip. I'll probably go back with workfriends and scare the gay tourism out of them lol. in regards to 2 - so so [I]soooooo[/I] much less awk than I expected. The few really awkward dudes I met sorta stayed in their own group, but it was mostly a bunch of really cool folks. I met a ton of friends and have plans to go to another meet and party in two weeks, but this one is much bigger. Fursuits were less disturbing irl than I expected. Mostly just soft and warm. And almost all of them smelt mysteriously great. [sp]also while not bashing furries for being ugly outright or anything, i'm defo a furry 10 and I'm rocking the fuck outta that[/sp] I guess the only downside is that I didn't get my butt touched, but that's just getting upset at things that didn't occur. I've also been not posting lately because I've been out socializing more in general, cultivating friends and hookups. It's been a refreshing change of pace for me, and kinda happened after I realized I just had to change something about my approach to friends and dating and all that shit, and [I]somefuckinghow[/I] giving in to my inner levels of unabashed furfaggotry has been pleasantly rewarding

I haven't posted here in a while, so I suppose a life update is in order, and also this'll help me to vent a bit, but i'll keep it short. So basically my dad cheated on my mom, which led to a divorce happening. I did not take this very well and have been feeling like shit for the past couple weeks. It came outta completely nowhere and the shock of realizing my life is changing sent me into a state of depression and general anxiety. I'm not nearly as bad now as I was initially but its still something I gotta get used to. thanks for reading this and i hope y'all have a nice day <3

My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time today. We both suck. I was way too focused on what I was doing to even enjoy it. How does one learn to enjoy sex properly?

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;53125054]My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time today. We both suck. I was way too focused on what I was doing to even enjoy it. How does one learn to enjoy sex properly?[/QUOTE] foreplay helps fuckloads, for both partners. you say focused, but were you talking about what was and wasn't working? answer can usually be tldr'd as more foreplay imo

[QUOTE=paindoc;53125063]foreplay helps fuckloads, for both partners. you say focused, but were you talking about what was and wasn't working? answer can usually be tldr'd as more foreplay imo[/QUOTE] There was a few minutes of it. Neither of us were sure what was gonna happen when we started making out. I think since the first time is now taken care of, it'll be easier. She's very controlled sexually so I think I can keep it a special event and retain the passion a little bit if we avoid fucking every time we see each other.

sex is just sex if you overthink it you're gonna do something embarrassing just wack it in and do ur thing talking does the trick

My best advice is to just go with the flow. Be open about what is and isn’t working. A lot of what you need to know is felt through your partner. Their sounds, movement, breathing, if you’re aware of those then you can’t go too wrong. Most importantly, have fun with it. Laugh at your mistakes and don’t expect it to be some perfect experience.

[QUOTE=Kiwi;53125104]I just bend over and I just get absolutely dominated.[/QUOTE] hello

[QUOTE=Kiwi;53125104]I just bend over and I just get absolutely dominated.[/QUOTE] I'm not quite seeing how last night's TF2 match is relevant to this discussion

[QUOTE=paindoc;53125063]foreplay helps fuckloads, for both partners. you say focused, but were you talking about what was and wasn't working? answer can usually be tldr'd as more foreplay imo[/QUOTE] My boyfriend doesn't think foreplay exists and it's really frustrating because I'm super all about foreplay, moreso than the actual play.

[QUOTE=Trekintosh;53126025]My boyfriend doesn't think foreplay exists and it's really frustrating because I'm super all about foreplay, moreso than the actual play.[/QUOTE] yeah this is unfortunately pretty common, like people who don't get affectionate or touchy-feely with their hands during sex like damn fam over the weekend, i added something like 20 new contacts to my phone (telegram) lol. mostly friends. few potential hookups but I'm still a bit iffy on giving those a shot.

Man, cuddling, tickling (mostly me getting tickled and laughing/squealing into a pillow) and silly kisses are all the ingredients needed for me and my SO's foreplay. One doesn't have to go super complex with foreplay, just learn what your partner likes. :cat: Feel around both literally and figuratively.

Get a copy of "Identifying Wood", hold cell phone over partner while making beeping noises. When you get to the crotch, go "beepbeepbeep!" 4play4furious

is getting a sex toy as part of your valentine's gift kinda lame? i mean we do a lot of bondage and stuff so i felt like it would be okay, but it is probably the biggest part of the gift

[QUOTE=JerryK;53127150]is getting a sex toy as part of your valentine's gift kinda lame? i mean we do a lot of bondage and stuff so i felt like it would be okay, but it is probably the biggest part of the gift[/QUOTE] nothing says "i love you" like [sp]honoring your promises, holding them on a quiet afternoon, and letting them expose their anxiety[/sp] but [sp]sex toys[/sp] are a close second and sure beats chocolate or other material gifts

[QUOTE=bitches;53127201]nothing says "i love you" like [sp]honoring your promises, holding them on a quiet afternoon, and letting them expose their anxiety[/sp] but [sp]sex toys[/sp] are a close second and sure beats chocolate or other material gifts[/QUOTE] definitely part of the plan, a movie, dinner, some chocolate and a card that he saw in target and really liked and a lot of cuddling

[QUOTE=JerryK;53127211]definitely part of the plan, a movie, dinner, some chocolate and [B]a card that he saw in target and really liked and a lot of cuddling[/B][/QUOTE] when people do this kind of thing, buying small but still meaningful gifts for their partners, it gets me all teary eyed (mostly good, not just a pit of self-pity lol) it's so cute! and cuddles! ;~;

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I know I don't shut the fuck up about Doom, but I'm really proud of how this layout is turning out. [t]https://puu.sh/zmHDw/937f7b86cd.png[/t]

So I got a job, its at starbucks. Pay's ok I guess, but I got this job so late Im going to have to probably eat nothing but instant noodles for the better part of this year, not really an exaggeration. Dad's out of the hospital again, he was in it because he had tried to kill himself, and then he's just out yesterday, nobody tells me and he's asking me for tax forms like fucking nothing happened, so I don't even know what emotion to feel on that, I can't get my hopes up when it comes to him anymore, he'll probably be back in the hospital in a few months or worse, its just been up and down the last year, its exhausting. The fucking motherfucking busses are out of cunting service today so Im late for my first fucking day at work so I cant even rely on this stupid fucking city's public transit. After my shift today I went to a pub, calmly had some food, walked home while thinking about everything, showered, and then everything just hit me. I finally cracked, I cried for about four hours straight, all my loneliness and problems just fucking broke me, I've never been this scared about my future before. And to top it all off tomorrow is valentines day so I'll probably be sad about that too.

My bf and I are making pancakes tomorrow was he was sick today and we wanted something cute to do together.

hi

First valentine I've ever had in my life going on currently this shit's so gay.

You know I had a bunch of money I scrounged up to spend on valentine's day. Then a few days earlier BF breaks up with me. And people ask me why I hate valentine's day.

not gonna lie im sharing a little bit of that loneliness

[QUOTE=DrugUnit;53130839]You know I had a bunch of money I scrounged up to spend on valentine's day. Then a few days earlier BF breaks up with me. And people ask me why I hate valentine's day.[/QUOTE] At least he wasn't some scumbag who'd let you spend the money first and [i]then[/i] break up with you.

i had a really romantic and lovely time with my boyfriend from yesterday to today and he surprised me with something super cute he commissioned when we woke up my heartt [url]http://www.furaffinity.net/view/26388361/[/url] (yeah its furry trash no shit) [editline]14th February 2018[/editline] oh no why did it have to be this way i did not mean to be the page king

Let's not forget that February 15th is the better day, for single people and couples alike can enjoy the taste of discount chocolates. [QUOTE=ddsn;53133064](yeah its furry trash no shit)[/QUOTE] Tbh that's just adorable.