I'm moving into a house full of furries tomorrow, help me
[QUOTE=kaze4159;53151154]I'm moving into a house full of furries tomorrow, help me[/QUOTE]
As long as they're hygienic and clean up after themselves then no worries. Hell that doesn't apply to furries, just roommates in general.
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;53151575]As long as they're hygienic and clean up after themselves then no worries. Hell that doesn't apply to furries, just roommates in general.[/QUOTE]
Jokes about being housebroken
[QUOTE=Ax3l;53151584]Jokes about being housebroken[/QUOTE]
Keep a spray bottle on standby.
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;53151627]Keep a spray bottle on standby.[/QUOTE]
HISSS
[QUOTE=LordyLord;53151081][sp]my bf calls me pup so i got a collar with metal print denoting me as such B)[/sp][/QUOTE]
the local pup and pup handler group is a real trip tbh, but they're fun to drink with
i've got a fun weekend planned - Friday is drinking with a local friend and music producer (probably making some tunes), Saturday is a big local event, and Saturday evening is "hanging out" with a pilot who just started flying for Alaska [sp]and who's been seemingly busy and in a dry spell while doing weeks of flight training in California. Not actually sure this will get lewd but chances are good because furries (smh)[/sp]. a local group also announced they're holding a yacht party in July, which they did last year as well. it looks wild and like an absolute ball so I'm buying tickets as soon as they go on sale. I'm already super excited, but it's also super far away, so the wait is gonna kill me. like, I'm already planning outfits
i also went on a shopping spree of buying a bunch of sneakers, a healthy helping of leggings (redbubble) and cheap knock-off compression pants (amazon, lol). thinking of going to H&M this weekend, I've been kinda going for the American Heritage look for a few years now and I'm feeling like switching it up and trying out a new [i]a e s t h e t i c[/i]
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unrelated, but holy fuck is our work internet speed an embarassment
pages often fail to load, our DNS server shits the bed frequently, and sometimes I can't even stream from spotify or soundcloud like wtf
also our website is a complete joke, our upper management completely underestimates the role social media and a slick website can play even for companies that don't rely on public investment (just those that benefit from public interest and popularity). like, we could be making mad headlines and cultivating a following if people here would just bother with it. I've been working on a new website based on Jekyll, but I'd like us to also start a twitter account and such.
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[editline]22nd February 2018[/editline]
I am extremely gay and incredibly happy.
[editline]22nd February 2018[/editline]
[QUOTE=mecaguy03;53150659]if I ever get a bf who is also a fur I want to draw them all the mushy cute art among other things[/QUOTE]
draw for us :p (im just teasing you, but i would always be down for more art with my boyfriend)
I need some advice because I'm in a bit of a potential pickle.
My parents want to come visit me and see my apt, but ofc I'm living with my SO and I haven't come out to them yet. So far I've played it that I'd be out of town the week they're available (I travel like 30% of the time for work so its believable) and I've turned the offer around by saying that I'd be free a week later to come up and visit them.
I'm totally not ready to come out to them b/c they'll want to meet my roommates and that'd be hard to play straight faced about. (Especially if they look and see all my clothes in our shared bedroom).
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;53154390]that'd be hard to play straight[/QUOTE]
so to speak
I was once really looking forward to watching The Incredibles 2 because I really liked the first movie but I don't think I can stomach watching it now because I dated someone who works at Pixar and he treated me like such shit. He used me, then threw me away like used garbage, then kept stringing me along.
I been really on the edge about being gay recently. Just kinda getting tired about having to hide it and live in fear. Specially now that another gay couple got assaulted here recently.
I've been very gloomy as of late. My anxieties have crept back into me and it's become harder for me to talk to people out of fear that I'm annoying them or being a nuisance. I just want this nagging fear to go away forever, but I don't think it ever will.
I guess I could just wait it out, but I hate waiting.
My father died recently, but at least he never knew that I was the thing he hated most. I had a weird relationship with him towards the end so I'm just super conflicted on what to feel at the moment.
Anyway, despite that, I obviously hope everyone is doing the best they can be and I wish the best.
-snip-
My bf and I just finished watching Avatar: The Last Airbender. It’s a genuinely excellent show I never fully watched. I’m glad I did.
[QUOTE=Trekintosh;53159380]My bf and I just finished watching Avatar: The Last Airbender. It’s a genuinely excellent show I never fully watched. I’m glad I did.[/QUOTE]
Its one of the few shows intended for children that's actually intelligently written, covers some solid topics and treats the audience intelligently whilst being [URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FFuLkymdZc"]funny[/URL].
I highly suggest ya'll watch Legend Of Korra as hoo-boy does it take the lore up to 11 and some nice subversion of expectations.
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;53159422]Its one of the few shows intended for children that's actually intelligently written, covers some solid topics and treats the audience intelligently whilst being [URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FFuLkymdZc"]funny[/URL].
I highly suggest ya'll watch Legend Of Korra as hoo-boy does it take the lore up to 11 and some nice subversion of expectations.[/QUOTE]
the money really ran out at the end though, and the ending was super rushed.
[sp]the main antagonist of the last season went from reasonable misguided villain to literally hitler in the space of about 4 episodes. It would've been so much better if they'd kept the charicter more grounded while keeping their actions the same to show the traps of ideological posession under hypothetical morale pretenses, as it was at the start of the season.
And i say literally hitler because they even have the villain build the fucking gustav gun. Imagery doesn't get any less subtle than 1,300 tonnes of german madness[/sp]
[QUOTE=Trilby Harlow;53159646]the money really ran out at the end though, and the ending was super rushed.
[sp]the main antagonist of the last season went from reasonable misguided villain to literally hitler in the space of about 4 episodes. It would've been so much better if they'd kept the charicter more grounded while keeping their actions the same to show the traps of ideological posession under hypothetical morale pretenses, as it was at the start of the season.
And i say literally hitler because they even have the villain build the fucking gustav gun. Imagery doesn't get any less subtle than 1,300 tonnes of german madness[/sp][/QUOTE]
That's entirely fair, [sp]Kuvira's reasoning of uniting the Earth Kingdom after it fell to anarchy from the Earth Queen's assassination seemed reasonable, but it was really only reasonable for say Ba Sing Se only. The surrounding territories and rural areas couldn't give less of a shit so it just red-flagged everything and made her philosophy fall apart when she started conquering the territories. She was agreed the weakest villian but still a decently written villian.[/sp]
[sp]I thought that Zaheer was arguably the smartest/best written villain considering not only what affect he had on not only Korra but the world as well. His philosophy while crazy was atleast watertight IMO. And holy subversion of expectation batman, up until when he air assassinated the Earth Queen I was thinking "alright this guy is ambitious but he's not a fucking god like Vaatu" and then bam it happened and he earned my respect.[/sp]
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;53159767]That's entirely fair, [sp]Kuvira's reasoning of uniting the Earth Kingdom after it fell to anarchy from the Earth Queen's assassination seemed reasonable, but it was really only reasonable for say Ba Sing Se only. The surrounding territories and rural areas couldn't give less of a shit so it just red-flagged everything and made her philosophy fall apart when she started conquering the territories. She was agreed the weakest villian but still a decently written villian.[/sp]
[sp]I thought that Zaheer was arguably the smartest/best written villain considering not only what affect he had on not only Korra but the world as well. His philosophy while crazy was atleast watertight IMO. And holy subversion of expectation batman, up until when he air assassinated the Earth Queen I was thinking "alright this guy is ambitious but he's not a fucking god like Vaatu" and then bam it happened and he earned my respect.[/sp][/QUOTE]
Yeah she was order of magnitude better than most villans in most shows who're usually just "i'm bad lol", but it just got confused at the end and sort of dismantled it's own premise.
I don't remember enough about the first season but i remember enough to know that [sp]The way it was written essentially framed it as "he made an exellent argument for his ideas, and he just executed them in an immoral way". Whereas i think it would've been far better if he started out as perfectly reasonable and a leader of an outwardly benign social movement claiming "inequality of abilities between benders and non benders is unjust and should be mediated for a fair society", and he and his followers get sucked into more and more immorale actions, simply by actually starting to act out those just sounding ideas, which is exactly how those ideas always manifest as horror and tyranny, from the soviet union to venezuela. As i remember it, the first season essentially said "the ideas are good he just executed them wrong!" which is really the wrong way to treat the radical ideological movements of the period that the show was trying to tackle. You could make exactly the same argument for the benign nature of fascism, for example, and this is what i mean by the trap of hypothetical morale pretenses, and that's why i liked the start of the last season so much. It tackled those ideas very well at the outset, with the outwardly benign ideas of whatsername, juxtoposed to the ridiculous and unfit for purpose monarchy. Which is a very clever way to package up the social problems of the early 20th century, they just cranked it up far too much, far too quickly[/sp]
This thread now looks like a CIA document.
In other news, I can make my girl cum strictly by penetration.
i love you guys
Nobody loves me. Finally come to terms with that I really can't be liked by other people specially on an emotional level. At least it makes things clear if kinds more depressing.
[QUOTE=DrugUnit;53161093]Nobody loves me. Finally come to terms with that I really can't be liked by other people specially on an emotional level. At least it makes things clear if kinds more depressing.[/QUOTE]
DU, I'm sure there's someone who likes you. Even I had to pretty much trip over a lot of people to find someone that does (even if it did include finding people with a similar taste in [sp]kinks[/sp]). If I can do it, so can you :cat:
[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;53161584]DU, I'm sure there's someone who likes you. Even I had to pretty much trip over a lot of people to find someone that does (even if it did include finding people with a similar taste in [sp]kinks[/sp]). If I can do it, so can you :cat:[/QUOTE]
After trying and failing three times due to my own reasons I think I have sufficient proof.
[QUOTE=DrugUnit;53161593]After trying and failing three times due to my own reasons I think I have sufficient proof.[/QUOTE]
See this is the kind of lacking rigour that leads to bad science. A sample size of three is simply insufficient data to characterize the hundreds, thousands, or hundreds of thousands of people likely just living in your immediate area, to say nothing of the billions worldwide. More research is definitely required to make a reasonable conclusion.
More seriously, I've felt exactly like this at times before, but it's not a rational position. This might sound weird but it's almost arrogant to say that out of all the people out there, you're an exceptional case where nobody can love you. There's simply too many people out there for this to be the case. For me anyway this kind of thinking leads to a dangerous loop where you dislike yourself because you're lonely, decide that this makes you not worth having friends/relationships, and then avoid those interactions causing you to stay lonely. This is not healthy, there are much better ways to approach loneliness. I can't possibly know your personal situation, but if you feel like you're doing something to sabotage your relationships, don't focus on the negative emotions surrounding previous mistakes, focus on self improvement to avoid those mistakes in the future. Everyone makes mistakes, the most important thing is to learn from them and move forward. I know that it can be hard to block out the part of you that wants to obsess over the things you've done wrong (or at least that can be hard for me), but ignoring that and focusing on the future is the best way to get out of that rut.
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;53161669]See this is the kind of lacking rigour that leads to bad science. A sample size of three is simply insufficient data to characterize the hundreds, thousands, or hundreds of thousands of people likely just living in your immediate area, to say nothing of the billions worldwide. More research is definitely required to make a reasonable conclusion.
More seriously, I've felt exactly like this at times before, but it's not a rational position. This might sound weird but it's almost arrogant to say that out of all the people out there, you're an exceptional case where nobody can love you. There's simply too many people out there for this to be the case. For me anyway this kind of thinking leads to a dangerous loop where you dislike yourself because you're lonely, decide that this makes you not worth having friends/relationships, and then avoid those interactions causing you to stay lonely. This is not healthy, there are much better ways to approach loneliness. I can't possibly know your personal situation, but if you feel like you're doing something to sabotage your relationships, don't focus on the negative emotions surrounding previous mistakes, focus on self improvement to avoid those mistakes in the future. Everyone makes mistakes, the most important thing is to learn from them and move forward. I know that it can be hard to block out the part of you that wants to obsess over the things you've done wrong (or at least that can be hard for me), but ignoring that and focusing on the future is the best way to get out of that rut.[/QUOTE]
Its fairly well established that loneliness creates feelings and thoughts that can lead to further self-isolation, thus increasing the loneliness you feel and just making the loneliness worse.
Personally I've found making more irl friends and spending time with people in-person has helped loads. Plus, since dating when gay is like getting a job (do it online or get referred) meeting friends and just getting out there can help you score those referrals, yo
I spent years feeling lonely and letting it just make me more and more insular - don't do that. Eventually I snapped and kinda went the opposite direction, but I'd still recommend avoiding going down that path in the first place
[editline]26th February 2018[/editline]
I'm wearing green pants and a splendid burgundy bomber today, i can't figure out if it looks super good or if its just too much. I've been moving away from my old style though, and I'm kinda digging my new direction and have fun outfit ideas planned
[QUOTE=paindoc;53161692][editline]26th February 2018[/editline]
I'm wearing green pants and a splendid burgundy bomber today, i can't figure out if it looks super good or if its just too much. I've been moving away from my old style though, and I'm kinda digging my new direction and have fun outfit ideas planned[/QUOTE]
Green and burgundy are a fan-fucking-tastic color combination and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;53161669]See this is the kind of lacking rigour that leads to bad science. A sample size of three is simply insufficient data to characterize the hundreds, thousands, or hundreds of thousands of people likely just living in your immediate area, to say nothing of the billions worldwide. More research is definitely required to make a reasonable conclusion.
More seriously, I've felt exactly like this at times before, but it's not a rational position. This might sound weird but it's almost arrogant to say that out of all the people out there, you're an exceptional case where nobody can love you. There's simply too many people out there for this to be the case. For me anyway this kind of thinking leads to a dangerous loop where you dislike yourself because you're lonely, decide that this makes you not worth having friends/relationships, and then avoid those interactions causing you to stay lonely. This is not healthy, there are much better ways to approach loneliness. I can't possibly know your personal situation, but if you feel like you're doing something to sabotage your relationships, don't focus on the negative emotions surrounding previous mistakes, focus on self improvement to avoid those mistakes in the future. Everyone makes mistakes, the most important thing is to learn from them and move forward. I know that it can be hard to block out the part of you that wants to obsess over the things you've done wrong (or at least that can be hard for me), but ignoring that and focusing on the future is the best way to get out of that rut.[/QUOTE]
Relationships are kinda hard when you live in in country where you can stabbed for being gay. Not to mention being an introverted person. Oh and the fact that I have no IRL friends and most IRL people I meet are horrible since Estonia is not the best place to live in or find friends. So while all this advice is cool it's kinda wasted since I'm blocked off fro everything that could improve me or my mood.
[QUOTE=DrugUnit;53161918]Relationships are kinda hard when you live in in country where you can stabbed for being gay. Not to mention being an introverted person. Oh and the fact that I have no IRL friends and most IRL people I meet are horrible since Estonia is not the best place to live in or find friends. So while all this advice is cool it's kinda wasted since I'm blocked off fro everything that could improve me or my mood.[/QUOTE]
come to america my dude, you can have a threesome with me and my bf
we do live in the south tho
Bored; and, hello.
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Gay Chat XII - "who🅱est're gay"
