idk, I feel Adelle Zhu because my dad becoming wealthier was one of the worst things to happen to him and us as a family
Like he's already an emotionally and physically abusive piece of shit, but he's also now a judgmental and disparaging piece of shit, too. He grew up [I]really[/I] fucking poor despite his mother's best attempts otherwise (his Dad left when he was young) and yet some-[I]fucking[/I]-how everyone poor is lazy.
he actively bitches about Obamacare being a problem because he has to deal with more gross people: gross being poor, or fat. It seems that all he fucking does nowadays is bitch about how the government is taking his taxes to give it to poor people. Nevermind that it doesn't work like that, nevermind that most people on SNAP are off of it within a year (like 95%), and nevermind that it hurts his mother when he bitches about poor people because [I]she's still poor and living off of social security[/I]. I used to be proud of him and to brag about him to my friends - because he was becoming a doctor and he was going to help people. I don't do that anymore. There's nothing really left to be proud of.
Money doesn't buy happiness, but it can buy peace-of-mind when you're not worrying about bills or how to take care of all your expenses. Doubly so if you're not dealing with severe debt.
Eh fuck it, I wanna get it off my chest. I'm really really worried about my dad's health. He was diagnosed with a blood cancer called MDS a while ago, and ever since then my anxiety/depression has been off the charts. I'm really afraid he will die, and that my efforts in academic stuff will all fall apart. I feel like I have to push on and study, do the best I can to get a good job and move on from all the hits, but it's really tough. My entire life I've been ignorant of the struggles of other people, and now its hit me right in the face.
I'll get off my ass and fix myself up at some point. I have to.
I want to travel, learn more about computers, be an IT and programming extraordinaire like a lot of my friends. I can do it, I know I can, but it just seems so impossible right now. Ugh fuuuuck.
One of my goals in life is to be a rich artist/philanthropist.
The wealth I really only want so I can go around on GoFundMe or other fundraisers like that and help other people get out of student loan debt because BOY I KNOW THAT FEEL. That and I want to be able to pay off all my parents' debt because they're basically supporting a family of six right now while my sister is a stay-at-home mom and I'm in school.
Other than that I wanna be rich so I can go to Disney World whenever I want, that'd be nice.
my goal in life is to just live in a comfy place and paint tbh
My goal is to have a career doing something I love and earn enough to live at my own personal level of comfort.
My goal in life: be happy.
I just want to not live paycheck to paycheck and do some hobbies. It's really stressful to always be teetering on the brink of disaster.
there was a quote i heard from a crash course vid or something: "money doesn't buy happiness but it sure helps remove a lot of misery"
Honestly not sure what my goal is at the moment, lost my job of 3 and a half weeks due to them closing down, so loving being unemployed. I think my next step is to get out of this city, maybe country, just to find work that isn't uber driving, since the economy is so bad. Sorta hard when you like someone here though..
Welp had a p damn good birthday and coming out to my parents was kinda hilarious.
We were eating my rainbow gay ass cake
[t]http://i.imgur.com/f4m30Ya.jpg[/t]
And I was like "so I've been meaning to tell both of you this for a while, I'm bi"
They basically shrugged and went back to eating the cake with my dad's reaction limited to "well as long as they're good people"
So yeah all and all a successful coming out.
Oh man that cake looks yum. I don't like cake that much but I wanna try some.
:wideeye:
What an ass, holy shit
So I made the glorious mistake of looking up disturbing films for morbid curiosity's sake. Not sleepin toNIGHT
I wanna steal Keith Haring's fashion so bad.
[t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/390469bc7425d7d9f70f0fad7decce84/tumblr_osuftiwfzi1rldhmro4_540.png[/t] [t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/7272b9bedcc136a70268ab6bbb8804a3/tumblr_nvbc2qeK6L1rdeh10o5_1280.jpg[/t] [t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/0440e3ecd2fe860ef1dbb42cbf284914/tumblr_oocyvlxMoa1rldhmro1_1280.jpg[/t]
is that weird.
Well my partner has been diagnosed with anemia and potential type-1 diabetes, although they aren't 100% sure about the diabetes due to it having pretty much the exact same symptoms as anemia so they're double checking his blood work for insulin levels. On the flip side his liver is in top notch shape.
[QUOTE=Naught;52540505]yea im jealous of pretty much everyone considering I failed 3 years of high school, had to get my ged, and failed a few years of college
im jealous of anyone who can even pass a class properly[/QUOTE]
It's alright dude, you're not alone. I achieved low grades in high school despite doing my best, and I wasted 3 years of college due to the tutors telling me I'm "not good enough" to progress.
I bought a vest and some dress shoes for my sisters wedding coming up. First time in a long time I actually feels like it fits me and looks good. :rollout:
[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;52540523]The goal is just to be thankful for what you have.[/QUOTE]
I have mixed feelings about this phrase. Sometimes we have things but we don't feel thankful for that and we recognize our ingratitude and it can make us feel worse.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;52542896]I have mixed feelings about this phrase. Sometimes we have things but we don't feel thankful for that and we recognize our ingratitude and it can make us feel worse.[/QUOTE]
I think he means be thankful for the good things we have, no matter how big or small.
I can't really be thankful for being dumb, poor, and useless :v:
-snip, whatever im drunk_
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
sorry
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so i just had this personal trainer dude come over and i totally thought we were gonna bang but we ended up just chatting like old friends for a couple hours.
it was really nice, i definitely want to keep in touch because i need more gay friends
[QUOTE=Political Gamer;52540752]Welp had a p damn good birthday and coming out to my parents was kinda hilarious.
We were eating my rainbow gay ass cake
[t]http://i.imgur.com/f4m30Ya.jpg[/t]
And I was like "so I've been meaning to tell both of you this for a while, I'm bi"
They basically shrugged and went back to eating the cake with my dad's reaction limited to "well as long as they're good people"
So yeah all and all a successful coming out.[/QUOTE]
Did you make this cake? Its amazing
[QUOTE=Pascall;52540883]I wanna steal Keith Haring's fashion so bad.
[t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/390469bc7425d7d9f70f0fad7decce84/tumblr_osuftiwfzi1rldhmro4_540.png[/t] [t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/7272b9bedcc136a70268ab6bbb8804a3/tumblr_nvbc2qeK6L1rdeh10o5_1280.jpg[/t] [t]https://68.media.tumblr.com/0440e3ecd2fe860ef1dbb42cbf284914/tumblr_oocyvlxMoa1rldhmro1_1280.jpg[/t]
is that weird.[/QUOTE]
i dig this tbh
As an old school gay chat member browsing through here and recognizing nobody scares me :(
[QUOTE=Political Gamer;52540752]Welp had a p damn good birthday and coming out to my parents was kinda hilarious.
We were eating my rainbow gay ass cake
[t]http://i.imgur.com/f4m30Ya.jpg[/t]
And I was like "so I've been meaning to tell both of you this for a while, I'm bi"
They basically shrugged and went back to eating the cake with my dad's reaction limited to "well as long as they're good people"
So yeah all and all a successful coming out.[/QUOTE]
That is literally the tallest cake slice I've ever seen
And tastiest cake i've ever seen.
[IMG]https://memestatic.fjcdn.com/pictures/Working+week_286456_6328219.jpg[/IMG]
Seriously don't know where I'm going with my job atm, I work a lot of overtime now as I have no incentive to do anything in my free time, and have nothing I feel like I want to spend my money on. Yay single life! :v:
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