Rare to medium rare is generally the way I like my steaks cooked
[QUOTE=paindoc;52545594]being upset or irritated by how someone prefers food they paid for and/or prepared themselves is fucking asinine[/QUOTE]
ask any chef what they think of a well done steak, ull get the same answer, killing the steak by doing it.
if someone buys a historic work of art and breaks it, are you not allowed to be upset? since they did pay for it after all...
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
some people like fucked up foods, i know some ppl who like stale fucking bread but it doesnt mean that i cant say bro you're fucking weird just because its food they bought and ruined, it's literally the same as well cooked vs med rare in my eyes. you are paying to do some fucked up shit to that product and im going to call it as i see it...
[QUOTE=myon;52545530]a well done steak is a crime against humanity
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
this is not opinion; it's fact and a basic law of physics[/QUOTE]
People who say that don't know how to do a well done steak.
the only type of people I actually hate are food snobs
especially steak related ones
because holy shit some people get so upset that I like well done/medium steaks, fuck off. its my food, I want it how I like it, not how you like it. I'm sure you like some shit that other people don't like either.
[QUOTE=Louis;52545723]ask any chef what they think of a well done steak, ull get the same answer, killing the steak by doing it.
if someone buys a historic work of art and breaks it, are you not allowed to be upset? since they did pay for it after all...
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
some people like fucked up foods, i know some ppl who like stale fucking bread but it doesnt mean that i cant say bro you're fucking weird just because its food they bought and ruined, it's literally the same as well cooked vs med rare in my eyes. you are paying to do some fucked up shit to that product and im going to call it as i see it...[/QUOTE]
I was unaware that I expressed an opinion on historic works of art and how they're treated in my post regarding food
i think people fail to understand that the well done vs medium rare isn't "lol well done KILLS the meat bro DONT EAT THIS" its moreso that it just makes it lose some nice qualities that anyone who has an appreciation for (people who know the difference from experience like chefs) are gonna pick up on.
hand me a well done steak im not rly gonna throw it in the trash i still eat that shit also i counter ur point reagy with anyone who thinks that they know how to do a well steak better than med rare is a wizard and can come take up a job as my personal chef
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
[QUOTE=paindoc;52545745]I was unaware that I expressed an opinion on historic works of art and how they're treated in my post regarding food[/QUOTE]
was saying the "u paid for it u do what u want with it" argument that is very uninspired and kinda cop out but deflect it as u will
I don't think the words of chefs really matter in the end, its all up to personal opinion. you have great chefs like gordon ramsay who literally went out and said that pineapple on pizza is terrible, but you still have tons of people who love the stuff. its all whatever.
[QUOTE=paindoc;52544855]
Beyond just having a place where I can plant tulips and have a lovely study, yeah I want a house for the sake of MORE DOGGOS[/QUOTE]
I need a shop with a lift and all sorts of tools to make horrible horrible roadkill teir things in
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Boost is a right not a privilege
[QUOTE=Naught;52545758]I don't think the words of chefs really matter in the end, its all up to personal opinion. you have great chefs like gordon ramsay who literally went out and said that pineapple on pizza is terrible, but you still have tons of people who love the stuff. its all whatever.[/QUOTE]
Gordon Ramsay doesn't know dick.
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If he really thinks this isn't a culinary masterpiece, he doesn't deserve to call himself a chef.
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
People can like whatever, but I can't really tolerate anyone who eats plain cottage cheese. Sorry. That shit looks and smells like vomit.
[QUOTE=LoneWolf_Recon;52545666]I just like meat as long as it doesn't poison me.[/QUOTE]
I'll eat anything so long it doesn't upset my stomach.
Gonna bite the bullet and see if anyone is willing to buy some of my game consoles to hopefully get rid of this credit card debt that I have.
[QUOTE=Pascall;52545911]Gonna bite the bullet and see if anyone is willing to buy some of my game consoles to hopefully get rid of this credit card debt that I have.[/QUOTE]
tough. I'm considering doing the same, though I have a hard time deciding what to do lol. too attached to my wii u and my old ps1 + games, too many good memories, old and new.
if things go as planned though, it won't be necessary. but as a backup plan, I think I'll just accept the loss
Ugh I might have to call it quits with the guy I've been seeing down here in Kentucky. I'm heading back to my hometown in New York this week and we're both unsure if an LDR would work.. ugh.
[QUOTE=myon;52545931]tough. I'm considering doing the same, though I have a hard time deciding what to do lol. too attached to my wii u and my old ps1 + games, too many good memories, old and new.
if things go as planned though, it won't be necessary. but as a backup plan, I think I'll just accept the loss[/QUOTE]
I'm basically pricing them what I feel they're worth. There's a few consoles that my dad got me that I'd really rather hang onto unless someone offers me a good amount for them. So I might be able to keep them safe that way. But there are quite a few other things that I don't mind parting with. I have multiples of a handful of things too just because I liked the color variants.
So we'll see what happens. I posted them on Facebook and Nextdoor so if nothing happens there, I might go to eBay.
[QUOTE=Xieneus;52545943]Ugh I might have to call it quits with the guy I've been seeing down here in Kentucky. I'm heading back to my hometown in New York this week and we're both unsure if an LDR would work.. ugh.[/QUOTE]
have you both expressed why you don't think it'll work? might be you're both accidentally self-sabotaging
[QUOTE=Pascall;52545978]I'm basically pricing them what I feel they're worth. There's a few consoles that my dad got me that I'd really rather hang onto unless someone offers me a good amount for them. So I might be able to keep them safe that way. But there are quite a few other things that I don't mind parting with. I have multiples of a handful of things too just because I liked the color variants.
So we'll see what happens. I posted them on Facebook and Nextdoor so if nothing happens there, I might go to eBay.[/QUOTE]
good luck. nothing beats the feeling of getting rid of debts.
I'd really want to buy old NTSC game consoles, 50hz sucks hard. I already got a NTSC N64 and it rocks. Now I need some games besides SM64.
Shipping costs from the US suck though, so it won't probably happen until I go visit family/friends in the US.
I just watched that movie "Her" for the first time and wow I'm fucked up now.
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
And I want to make an AI that works like that so I can have someone without the nonsense.
just came back from seeing dunkirk in imax and now im deaf
absolutely stellar movie tho
Don't really like putting my personal life on the internet, especially something like this, but I think I need to get this out of me.
I'm a (mostly) closeted bisexual. I tried telling my mother but she refused to accept it (she then told my blabbermouth grandma, so now I've got no idea who else might know) and no one's spoken to me about it since then. For the duration of my high school years (in Aus grade 8-12) I was in a small, private Christian school and as a result most of the people I'm friends with are devout Christians. My teachers obviously were too, but the school's math/science teacher was a lot like a father figure for me in the absence of my real one. Immediate family aren't too devout (sisters most certainly aren't) but grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins are. As for me... been drifting away from religion for a while now but I always had different views on sexuality.
In the past year and a half since grade 12 finished up, the prospect of having a relationship has become more important in my head as I've started Uni. While I am bi, I don't normally feel much attraction for people but I do for men more often than women. With my upbringing it's already difficult to accept that that's who I am even though I know it'll be better if I do, but knowing that if anyone found out I was bi or if I chose to have a relationship with a guy I'd lose almost everyone close to me is really beginning to tear me apart inside. I've always had anxiety issues and I can't handle the thought of my friends telling me that's not really who I was, shunning me or trying to "cure" me of it. I'm not really sure what to do. I feel a lot better after writing this but I feel like there's no good way out of this situation.
[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;52546078]I just watched that movie "Her" for the first time and wow I'm fucked up now.
[editline]6th August 2017[/editline]
And I want to make an AI that works like that so I can have someone without the nonsense.[/QUOTE]
excellent film. now watch all of Spike Jonze's other movies
[QUOTE=AbbaDee;52546221]Don't really like putting my personal life on the internet, especially something like this, but I think I need to get this out of me.
I'm a (mostly) closeted bisexual. I tried telling my mother but she refused to accept it (she then told my blabbermouth grandma, so now I've got no idea who else might know) and no one's spoken to me about it since then. For the duration of my high school years (in Aus grade 8-12) I was in a small, private Christian school and as a result most of the people I'm friends with are devout Christians. My teachers obviously were too, but the school's math/science teacher was a lot like a father figure for me in the absence of my real one. Immediate family aren't too devout (sisters most certainly aren't) but grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins are. As for me... been drifting away from religion for a while now but I always had different views on sexuality.
In the past year and a half since grade 12 finished up, the prospect of having a relationship has become more important in my head as I've started Uni. While I am bi, I don't normally feel much attraction for people but I do for men more often than women. With my upbringing it's already difficult to accept that that's who I am even though I know it'll be better if I do, but knowing that if anyone found out I was bi or if I chose to have a relationship with a guy I'd lose almost everyone close to me is really beginning to tear me apart inside. I've always had anxiety issues and I can't handle the thought of my friends telling me that's not really who I was, shunning me or trying to "cure" me of it. I'm not really sure what to do. I feel a lot better after writing this but I feel like there's no good way out of this situation.[/QUOTE]
in my experience dating people who are raised devout, and even recently dating someone who had been a christian missionary, the most important thing is to find people you can express this side of yourself with. universities are a great place to meet new people and have new experiences and it's important that you push yourself to discuss these things with people because it gives you a chance to process things more objectively.
if it comes down to eventually having the conversation with your family members, let them know how much you want to be a part of their lives but that this is a very real part of you and they will need to work to accept it.
before that happens though you need to work on accepting yourself
A guy I've been dating for a month hung out with an ex visiting from out of town for a few days this past week. He said he'd just be hosting friends and showing them around. I know this from his instagram. He's stopped actively texting/communicating with me during this time and hasn't since. Should I be worried or is it just jealous paranoia? I'm a little anxious and heartbroken especially since I've been aromantic for all of my life until now, he's the first guy I've ever actually had a crush on and this is my first try at having a relationship. I honestly don't know what to feel or think right now and I can't sleep and I need some outside advice and perspectives.
I really don't want this to be my first experience with relationships because this is just going to turn me off the whole concept and leave me with trust issues if what I fear is true.
[QUOTE=Mr._N;52547198]A guy I've been dating for a month hung out with an ex visiting from out of town for a few days this past week. He said he'd just be hosting friends and showing them around. I know this from his instagram. He's stopped actively texting/communicating with me during this time and hasn't since. Should I be worried or is it just jealous paranoia? I'm a little anxious and heartbroken especially since I've been aromantic for all of my life until now, he's the first guy I've ever actually had a crush on and this is my first try at having a relationship. I honestly don't know what to feel or think right now and I can't sleep and I need some outside advice and perspectives.
I really don't want this to be my first experience with relationships because this is just going to turn me off the whole concept and leave me with trust issues if what I fear is true.[/QUOTE]
You are fine. If they're ex-bfs it's for a reason, you're more important than him.
Either way, don't let it affect you or the relationship, being jealous (or showing it) will only hurt both of you. Try to chill and don't be clingy, he'll reply soon enough.
[QUOTE=Tsanummy;52547284]You are fine. If they're [B]ex-bfs it's for a reason[/B], you're more important than him.
Either way, don't let it affect you or the relationship, being jealous (or showing it) will only hurt both of you. Try to chill and don't be clingy, he'll reply soon enough.[/QUOTE]
As much as I hate to admit it for the situation, this sometimes backfires. People can get back together. I don't think it's fair to assume breaking of contact if they are friends. Being worried is reasonable, but like Tsanummy says, try not to think too much of it.
[QUOTE=Tsanummy;52547284]You are fine. If they're ex-bfs it's for a reason, you're more important than him.
Either way, don't let it affect you or the relationship, being jealous (or showing it) will only hurt both of you. Try to chill and don't be clingy, he'll reply soon enough.[/QUOTE]
A little more context: I haven't been with him for 2 weeks now, and I've initiated talking to him over text only twice in that period. I've been avoiding being clingy because I've seen how bad it can get from friends who've experienced it. But I feel this is the bare minimum. If I hadn't prodded him those 2 times, there probably would've been dead silence between us for that entire span.
[QUOTE=Mr._N;52547294]A little more context: I haven't been with him for 2 weeks now, and I've initiated talking to him over text only twice in that period. I've been avoiding being clingy because I've seen how bad it can get from friends who've experienced it. But I feel this is the bare minimum. If I hadn't prodded him those 2 times, there probably would've been dead silence between us for that entire span.[/QUOTE]
I mean I hate to say it, but that doesn't bode well. Maybe talk to him explicitly about this and how it makes you feel, and how conversation is important to you. "Clingy" is messaging several times in a day without reply in a new relationship, or not being willing to give him space. You are emphatically [I]not[/I] acting clingy.
[quote]I really don't want this to be my first experience with relationships because this is just going to turn me off the whole concept and leave me with trust issues if what I fear is true.[/quote]
Your first experience with relationships doesn't define your future potential or outlook for relationships at all. My first relationship was a twink with quadruple the attitude and a quarter the cute who got mad at me for asking to hold his hand in public, lol. My second was complex but it wasn't pretty either. My third was some guy who reminds me of what you're experiencing. I spent a lot of time pretending the warning signs weren't warning signs. That's not to say your first relationship going sour doesn't hurt, but if nothing else it teaches you how to do better at finding someone the next time around.
On the aromantic thing, at least you know now you [I]can[/I] feel for people. I hope it works out well, but do take care to look out for yourself in all of this. I can't imagine such a long period of no texting from my current relationship, for either of us. I may by exceptionally talkative, but what you described does not seem the norm.
Speaking of relationships, im reconsidering getting back together with my ex. Gonna give myself some time to think about it, don't want this to be a constant rollercoaster.
edit: oh ok
[QUOTE=LordyLord;52547853]Speaking of relationships, im reconsidering getting back together with my ex. Gonna give myself some time to think about it, don't want this to be a constant rollercoaster.
edit: oh ok[/QUOTE]
why would you do this? someone literally just mentioned "they're an ex for a reason". Why get back together with someone that didn't work when you could find something new? (plus, new things can be exciting!)
[QUOTE=paindoc;52547873]why would you do this? someone literally just mentioned "they're an ex for a reason". Why get back together with someone that didn't work when you could find something new? (plus, new things can be exciting!)[/QUOTE]
It's not that cut and dry. I've been having doubts ever since I broke up with him. It lasted a month, we only saw each other once or twice a week, and I broke up because I got moody once and freaked. I really like him, and keep beating myself up for not manning up and learning about these new feelings. Instead I just ran away.
edit: Bleh, you guys are right. Forget what I said.
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