Deli lyfe v.10 let's share our life problems edition because apparently we're all miserable
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the maker of tehg3a3's avatar?
[QUOTE=jomt1234;41665074][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/MIvdPLd.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
Sir. Why you putting Windex in my cheese.
[QUOTE=upsideonion;41665950]the maker of tehg3a3's avatar?[/QUOTE]
it's supposed to be nick from left 4 dead 2 making a goofy face at Ellis, pulled it off deviantart years ago
it looks like eddsworld
[editline]31st July 2013[/editline]
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Whenever I see girls I know from high school come through Walmart they're almost always with some huge braindead oil/construction worker and a good portion of them either have babies already or are pregnant. They're 19 years old. This is fucking depressing. But I guess I'm not the loser now am I?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41667472]Whenever I see girls I know from high school come through Walmart they're almost always with some huge braindead oil/construction worker and a good portion of them either have babies already or are pregnant. They're 19 years old. This is fucking depressing. But I guess I'm not the loser now am I?[/QUOTE]
You're still obsessing over your social status and how you rank up against everyone else so you're not really on the moral high ground.
In the real world nobody cares beyond a superficial level about what job you have or who you're married to or how much money you have in the bank. What matters is who you are and what you do with it. I don't know anyone with a job as cool as mine but I don't flaunt it because it doesn't matter, the guy who started as a construction worker might end up the CEO and the guy who's a big-wig could get fired. I know people with more successful relationships than me but again, it doesn't matter, it can always change and good times could be right around the corner. Money comes and goes, but who people perceive you to be [I]as a person[/I] is an impression that does not change easily or without effort.
My point is, Taep, every problem you've posted in this thread, every issue you've brought to us, fundamentally traces back to you being judgmental. You judge the women you meet, you judge the people you went to school with, and fundamentally you judge yourself. It's useless advise for me to tell you to just stop judging people, that kind of feel-good bullshit doesn't work, but you really do have to make an effort to be more open.
Live your life as yourself and be responsible to yourself. When you make goals, follow through. When you make promises, follow through. Be who you say you are and everything else will come with time. Don't compare yourself to others to decide your worth as a human being. Don't compare yourself to others to decide their worth, either. And most of all don't judge people by superficial characteristics. There is so much richness to every person that to reduce them to such a caricature is almost criminal.
My father was born of a pair of teenagers who didn't want a child and was adopted by a dirt-poor rural country family in Oregon. He went on to become the chief of an entire division within the CIA. Then, suddenly, he died of a disease he never knew he even had. Fortune changes. Keep that in mind when you're looking down on people.
Live your life. Stop worrying about how you live your life. Stop worrying about how others live their lives. Stop worrying about how others think you live your life. Life is too short to waste on petty bullshit. Next time you think about posting here about your latest bout of drama, stop and think about what you're doing.
Just my two cents.
if they were 12-14 like in my town then its more depressing when they're pregnant
Hey catbarf looks like you got that title you wanted!
[QUOTE=catbarf;41668210]You're still obsessing over your social status and how you rank up against everyone else so you're not really on the moral high ground.
In the real world nobody cares beyond a superficial level about what job you have or who you're married to or how much money you have in the bank. What matters is who you are and what you do with it. I don't know anyone with a job as cool as mine but I don't flaunt it because it doesn't matter, the guy who started as a construction worker might end up the CEO and the guy who's a big-wig could get fired. I know people with more successful relationships than me but again, it doesn't matter, it can always change and good times could be right around the corner. Money comes and goes, but who people perceive you to be [I]as a person[/I] is an impression that does not change easily or without effort.
My point is, Taep, every problem you've posted in this thread, every issue you've brought to us, fundamentally traces back to you being judgmental. You judge the women you meet, you judge the people you went to school with, and fundamentally you judge yourself. It's useless advise for me to tell you to just stop judging people, that kind of feel-good bullshit doesn't work, but you really do have to make an effort to be more open.
Live your life as yourself and be responsible to yourself. When you make goals, follow through. When you make promises, follow through. Be who you say you are and everything else will come with time. Don't compare yourself to others to decide your worth as a human being. Don't compare yourself to others to decide their worth, either. And most of all don't judge people by superficial characteristics. There is so much richness to every person that to reduce them to such a caricature is almost criminal.
My father was born of a pair of teenagers who didn't want a child and was adopted by a dirt-poor rural country family in Oregon. He went on to become the chief of an entire division within the CIA. Then, suddenly, he died of a disease he never knew he even had. Fortune changes. Keep that in mind when you're looking down on people.
Live your life. Stop worrying about how you live your life. Stop worrying about how others live their lives. Stop worrying about how others think you live your life. Life is too short to waste on petty bullshit. Next time you think about posting here about your latest bout of drama, stop and think about what you're doing.
Just my two cents.[/QUOTE]
You can tell me not to judge others as much as you want, but judging others is just simple human nature. Everyone does it. If you tell me you don't judge ANYONE that you ever see you're probably lying. If you say you don't compare yourself to others you're also probably lying.
Hell I even compare myself to all of you guys and feel somehow inferior to people I've only met on the internet just through the small glimpses I get into your lives. You're all doing hobbies you enjoy, you're all well adjusted socially and have normal social lives. I don't have any of that, just locking myself in my room unless I go to school or my shitty mind numbing job pushing in shopping carts at Walmart.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41668733]You can tell me not to judge others as much as you want, but judging others is just simple human nature. Everyone does it. If you tell me you don't judge ANYONE that you ever see you're probably lying. If you say you don't compare yourself to others you're also probably lying.
Hell I even compare myself to all of you guys and feel somehow inferior to people I've only met on the internet just through the small glimpses I get into your lives. You're all doing hobbies you enjoy, [b]you're all well adjusted socially and have normal social lives.[/b] I don't have any of that, just locking myself in my room unless I go to school or my shitty mind numbing job pushing in shopping carts at Walmart.[/QUOTE]
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You seriously skew things way to much. You think you are the ONLY ONE with problems. The ONLY ONE who has social anxiety is social inferior. jfc get a grip and go to the fucking doctor already. you're making me legitimately angry. and dont give me the step father bullshit, just go.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41668733]You can tell me not to judge others as much as you want, but judging others is just simple human nature. Everyone does it. If you tell me you don't judge ANYONE that you ever see you're probably lying. If you say you don't compare yourself to others you're also probably lying.[/QUOTE]
No kidding it's human nature. It's also fucking awful to do and any momentary bit of self-assurance you get by mentally putting others down is fleeting compared to the crushing despair of deciding that everyone is better than you based on surface characteristics. Sure, you may want to compare yourself to others. But if you actually care about a mental dick-waving contest based on what external qualities you know of a person, reducing them to a near-stereotype so that you can judge them on the basis of a few trite labels, then you're only hurting yourself in the long run.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41668733]Hell I even compare myself to all of you guys and feel somehow inferior to people I've only met on the internet just through the small glimpses I get into your lives. You're all doing hobbies you enjoy, you're all well adjusted socially and have normal social lives. I don't have any of that, just locking myself in my room unless I go to school or my shitty mind numbing job pushing in shopping carts at Walmart.[/QUOTE]
And this is what I'm talking about. You don't know anything substantive about anyone here. You're interacting purely through text on a subforum dedicated to a single hobby, so there is no way you're going to get any useful assessment of anyone else's life. I was raised overseas in third-world hellholes, I didn't have any real friends until I was maybe twelve, my father died when I entered high school and I never had a real relationship until college. You think I'm the hallmark of being 'well adjusted socially' and having a 'normal social life'? Fuck no. You think everyone here has a cool awesome job better than working retail? Again, fuck no. All these judgments you make, about yourself and others, are based on unfounded [I]assumptions[/I] about other people.
We get along with it because we pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and make the best of it for ourselves instead of wallowing in a pool of self-pity and expecting the world to change because we want it to. What does it matter what the guy next to you is doing? Get out there and do the best for yourself or nothing will happen. If you wait for things to come to you you're gonna be a long time waiting.
i somewhat agree
who gives a shit though what other people think
thats what i say
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You seriously skew things way to much. You think you are the ONLY ONE with problems. The ONLY ONE who has social anxiety is social inferior. jfc get a grip and go to the fucking doctor already. you're making me legitimately angry. and dont give me the step father bullshit, just go.[/QUOTE]
I legitimately have no way to go and I don't want anti depressants either no matter how badly I probably need them because of the nasty side effects.
Catbarf: You're still more normal and well adjusted than me if you actually go out and do things instead of sitting on your ass gaming for 10 hours a day. There's nothing fun to do here and I have no friends so I have no choice.
taep go
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669090]I legitimately have no way to go and I don't want anti depressants either no matter how badly I probably need them because of the nasty side effects.
Catbarf: You're still more normal and well adjusted than me if you actually go out and do things instead of sitting on your ass gaming for 10 hours a day. There's nothing fun to do here and I have no friends so I have no choice.[/QUOTE]
GOD FUCKING DAMNIT, ITS YOUR FAULT YOU SIT ON YOUR ASS, AND YOUR FAULT YOU DONT HAVE FUCKING FRIENDS, YOU IGNORANT AND LAZY FUCKING TWAT. GO OUT AND MAKE FRIENDS INSTEAD OF SITTING ON YOUR ASS. ITS YOUR FUCKING CHOICE SO DONT BITCH ABOUT IT.
[QUOTE=Herfjotur;41669106]GOD FUCKING DAMNIT, ITS YOUR FAULT YOU SIT ON YOUR ASS, AND YOUR FAULT YOU DONT HAVE FUCKING FRIENDS, YOU IGNORANT AND LAZY FUCKING TWAT. GO OUT AND MAKE FRIENDS INSTEAD OF SITTING ON YOUR ASS. ITS YOUR FUCKING CHOICE SO DONT BITCH ABOUT IT.[/QUOTE]
It's not my choice if people don't like having me around now is it?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669117]It's not my choice if people don't like having me around now is it?[/QUOTE]
Its because you're such a sandy vagina.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669117]It's not my choice if people don't like having me around now is it?[/QUOTE]
Happiness is a choice.
People don't like having you around because of your incessant bitching
fix your attitude
fix yourself
ONLY YOU CAN FIX YOU
It's not them, [I]it's you.[/I]
[QUOTE=felix the cat;41669131]People don't like having you around because of your incessant bitching[/QUOTE]
I don't bitch like this in real life. Being 100% honest here. Real life involves me not saying anything because I doubt anyone cares about what I have to say.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669179]I don't bitch like this in real life. Being 100% honest here. Real life involves me not saying anything because I doubt anyone cares about what I have to say.[/QUOTE]
What makes us any different?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669179]I don't bitch like this in real life. Being 100% honest here.[B] Real life involves me not saying anything because I doubt anyone cares about what I have to say.[/B][/QUOTE]
HMM I WONDER
WHAT IS THE PROBLEM HERE
THEM
OR YOU
(HINT: IT'S NOT THEM)
[editline]31st July 2013[/editline]
do you need me to spell it out for you
i can help with that
i have years of experience spelling things out
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;41669179]I don't bitch like this in real life. Being 100% honest here. Real life involves me not saying anything because I doubt anyone cares about what I have to say.[/QUOTE]
chances are you do and you just dont notice it
dark your avatar oh my ogd
taep you're making canadasoft look bad no offence
[QUOTE=Apache249;41669189]What makes us any different?[/QUOTE]
Because by being in a subforum dedicated to airsoft on a gaming forum, that pretty much confirms you guys are interested in gaming, toy guns that shoot plastic pellets and for a lot of you, military gear and equipment. No, you probably don't care about my bitching. That's what I can gather. What matters is I can actually discuss things that interest me with you guys. Most people I've talked to in real life, we have absolutely no common interests. Not to say there aren't people I can have conversations with in real life about things that interest me, but they're few and we're not amazing friends.
This is what it all comes down to. I'm scared of getting judged for my interests as a satanist, mass murderer, meme-spewing faggot, all the negative stereotypes associated with things that interest me. And you guys, since we have similar interests other than me liking metal while most of you don't, know the stereotypes are incorrect.
[editline]31st July 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=upsideonion;41669295]taep you're making canadasoft look bad no offence[/QUOTE]
I'm not, we have Niko and his coolness and actually playing airsoft make up for me.
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