Deli lyfe v.10 let's share our life problems edition because apparently we're all miserable
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[QUOTE=Mbbird;42970394]today shall be a good day
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[editline]24th November 2013[/editline]
kudos to catbarf and cardfan for their A++ suggestions[/QUOTE]
Oh shit where did you find a print copy of Blindsight? I just read it online but having a hard copy would be great, it's one of my new favorite books.
[QUOTE=Fish Muffin;42970665]just wait until she sucks your dick
[editline]24th November 2013[/editline]
also THANKS FRAGG
money is a little tight right now but maybe I can get some help with christmas[/QUOTE]
You mean wait until he starts sucking her dick, you know, to keep her happy, by spending copious amounts of money on dates, gift, trinkets, and lasting mementos of their memories till the possible fiery crash that will end in unhappiness and long nights spent with a bottle of lotion and really soft Kleenex.
Glad he enjoyed the kiss though.
wow you seem... bitter
[QUOTE=catbarf;42970990]Oh shit where did you find a print copy of Blindsight? I just read it online but having a hard copy would be great, it's one of my new favorite books.[/QUOTE]
Haha Amazon had it, prime compatible too.
[QUOTE=Fish Muffin;42971125]wow you seem... bitter[/QUOTE]
It's just honesty.
[QUOTE=Identity;42971150]It's just honesty.[/QUOTE]
Actually, no it isn't. You should probably seek counseling.
[QUOTE=draugur;42971605]Actually, no it isn't. You should probably seek counseling.[/QUOTE]
That's cute.
I'll just add in this edit to explain my rather abrupt or "bitter" way of thinking. I've been in several relationships, not a ton, but several. The way I average out my statement, is by how successful or unsuccessful they were. When you're in a relationship, you are, by logic, spending more money to support that relationship through physical means (obvious not emotional, because how the fuck would that work). Now if you figure 58% of marriages end in divorce, you can pretty much count on the same or higher percentage with non-committed relationships ending as well. If you're in high school, there is an 85-90% chance you won't be with that person after high school. So yeah, call it being bitter, or just call it being rational. Or ignorantly suggest therapy.
youre assuming that that women dont give anything in return in a relationship tho
and like if a relationship ends then it was all worthless and for nothing and any money or effort spent was wasted
but relationships are two ways. you think that she doesnt put any effort into it? (if she isnt, and just uses you like an atm machine, then there are bigger issues at play)
when a relationship ends, it shouldnt be viewed in that negative manner. think of it as a "learning experience"
you learn what works for you, what doesnt, what you like, what you dont, you build experiences and confidence, plus all the good memories.
therefore, I can say with some certainty that you are pretty bitter about your relationships.
I don't know about you, but I certainly did not gain any confidence.
[QUOTE=Identity;42972022]That's cute.
I'll just add in this edit to explain my rather abrupt or "bitter" way of thinking. I've been in several relationships, not a ton, but several. The way I average out my statement, is by how successful or unsuccessful they were. When you're in a relationship, you are, by logic, spending more money to support that relationship through physical means (obvious not emotional, because how the fuck would that work). Now if you figure 58% of marriages end in divorce, you can pretty much count on the same or higher percentage with non-committed relationships ending as well. If you're in high school, there is an 85-90% chance you won't be with that person after high school. So yeah, call it being bitter, or just call it being rational. Or ignorantly suggest therapy.[/QUOTE]
Are you seriously saying that women are all just materialistic money leeches that don't do anything but waste a man's money? How is it our fault you don't actually know what a relationship is. I'm "ignorantly" suggesting counseling because you clearly need it, because you're clearly the ignorant one.
Like, if you can't keep your self from blowing all your money on someone, that's your problem, and if your relationships are all with overly materialistic women, that's totally your fault as well, the problem isn't because of THEM, it's because you've never learned to get into a relationship that is actually meaningful. Maybe try getting to know a person before you date them? Maybe try actually dating someone that you didn't fuck one random night at a party? If you're being used like a ATM, that's your fault for getting into a one-sided "relationship."
You're like Taepodong-2 was about women, except you're impressing your bitterness onto other people's relationships instead of just your own.
Oh my. I have to do some research for a debate about slavery in APUSH. My guy is John Campbell and he wrote a book titled Negro-mania: Being an Examination of the Falsely Assumed Equality of the Various Races of Men. My research paper has so many things like "superior race" and "lowly negroes" in it, this just doesn't feel right. :v:
[QUOTE=draugur;42973037]Are you seriously saying that women are all just materialistic money leeches that don't do anything but waste a man's money? How is it our fault you don't actually know what a relationship is. I'm "ignorantly" suggesting counseling because you clearly need it, because you're clearly the ignorant one.
Like, if you can't keep your self from blowing all your money on someone, that's your problem, and if your relationships are all with overly materialistic women, that's totally your fault as well, the problem isn't because of THEM, it's because you've never learned to get into a relationship that is actually meaningful. [B]Maybe try getting to know a person before you date them? Maybe try actually dating someone that you didn't fuck one random night at a party?[/B][/QUOTE]
That's a pretty accusative statement to make about a situation you know little to nothing about.
[QUOTE=felix the cat;42973028]I don't know about you, but I certainly did not gain any confidence.[/QUOTE]
well i didnt really start with much so it was a gain for me
[QUOTE=felix the cat;42973121]That's a pretty accusative statement to make about a situation you know little to nothing about.[/QUOTE]
Maybe so, but it's a pretty common thing among people that act like he is acting. I know so many people that say the same things he is and their dating experience pretty much amounts to shit like that. There's a point where if ALL your relationships are the exact same problem, maybe you should take a hint, chances are you probably know SOMEONE that has a happy relationship, and obviously a lot of other people have as well. Can you honestly say that EVERY relationship in the history of FOREVER was simply because a man wanted a shag and a woman needed a good money leech? No, no one who is thinking about this rationally would.
[QUOTE=cardfan212;42973045]Oh my. I have to do some research for a debate about slavery in APUSH. My guy is John Campbell and he wrote a book titled Negro-mania: Being an Examination of the Falsely Assumed Equality of the Various Races of Men. My research paper has so many things like "superior race" and "lowly negroes" in it, this just doesn't feel right. :v:[/QUOTE]
Oh god imagine if you ever had to write a paper on H.P. Lovecraft and his racial views and how extremely racist he was and how in Reanimator the one black character was described as a slavering primate from the congo and how he had a black cat named Niggerman.
[QUOTE=draugur;42973153]Maybe so, but it's a pretty common thing among people that act like he is acting. I know so many people that say the same things he is and their dating experience pretty much amounts to shit like that. There's a point where if ALL your relationships are the exact same problem, maybe you should take a hint, chances are you probably know SOMEONE that has a happy relationship, and obviously a lot of other people have as well. [B]Can you honestly say that EVERY relationship in the history of FOREVER was simply because a man wanted a shag and a woman needed a good money leech? No, no one who is thinking about this rationally would.[/B][/QUOTE]
Nobody said that.
And for the record, I was in a pretty meaningful relationship with a girl I knew fairly well before I dated her, and at the end of the day she fucked me over pretty bad. I don't think she was a money-grubbing whore or anything like that, but it doesn't make me any less bitter about the situation or any less of a broken person.
[QUOTE=Wulfram;42973226]Oh god imagine if you ever had to write a paper on H.P. Lovecraft and his racial views and how extremely racist he was and how in Reanimator the one black character was described as a slavering primate from the congo and how he had a black cat named Niggerman.[/QUOTE]
Except Lovecraft wrote a lot of good stuff. This guy just wrote hateful stuff.
People need to realize that a relationship is not the best thing for someone. Often times they lose a lot more than they come into a relationship with, not material assets either.
Me and my ex girlfriend broke up just about a month ago. I got overly attached because we were pretty good friends before hand. Two months we dated, she did as well. She got super attached and didn't understand that when I was working 13 hour days it was for her. After that she realized that she couldn't handle me being away for that amount of time. We had a nasty break up and did really spiteful things because feelings were still there and the whole jealousy thing ruins everything. It really fucked with me. I am no where near as confident as I used to be. I am shaky an very hard to get to do anything any more.
And that's how researching for APUSH lands you smack dab in the middle of a white supremacist forum. It's a fun one tonight boys!
[QUOTE=cardfan212;42973394]And that's how researching for APUSH lands you smack dab in the middle of a white supremacist forum. It's a fun one tonight boys![/QUOTE]
Just be glad you're not doing an interview with Rush Limbaugh?
[QUOTE=draugur;42973037]
You're like Taepodong-2 was about women, except you're impressing your bitterness onto other people's relationships instead of just your own.[/QUOTE]
Except I was more of a "wah wah all women are bitches who only date douchebags why dont they date a nice guy like me wah wah" kind of bitter. But now I've realized that attitude is the whole problem. I'm still nowhere near confident enough to go start a conversation with a girl I'm interested in but I know what the problem was and I've addressed that
feeling pretty depressed atm. The girl I love is in pain and has no one there to help her, and I want to but I'm too far away to do anything and it's extremely frustrating. I offered to fly up to where she lives to help her but she said since her parents dont know who I am it would cause problems and they probably wouldnt let me take her to get help despite the fact shes an adult. so I have to sit here and watch her be in pain and break down and all I can do is try my best to comfort her. also im really missing my dad because i found this band and im listening to them just imagining how much he would like to too but ill never get to share it with him and its making me think about how little time i really got to spend with him and how much i took for granted. it just feels like my life is pain, the sense of uselessness, and regrets.
[QUOTE=cardfan212;42973394]And that's how researching for APUSH lands you smack dab in the middle of a white supremacist forum. It's a fun one tonight boys![/QUOTE]
I don't even have to be doing school research to find myself somewhere on Stormfront looking to laugh at Obama insults and sharing quotes with my friend.
Here's one:
[QUOTE]I am a White Man of steel who will never bow down to the multi-cultural new World order.[/QUOTE]
Climbed a mountain today with Cooker. Taking the ASVAB Dec.4 at my school. Everyday I move closer to my goal of the Air Force. I am beyond excited.
I'm 18 in a few hours.
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Now what
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42973448]Except I was more of a "wah wah all women are bitches who only date douchebags why dont they date a nice guy like me wah wah" kind of bitter. But now I've realized that attitude is the whole problem. I'm still nowhere near confident enough to go start a conversation with a girl I'm interested in but I know what the problem was and I've addressed that[/QUOTE]
Hey man, progress is progress. And you're one step closer to fixing the problem. The easiest way to be more confident I found was to stop caring about rejection, there are plenty of people out there, and if a few women reject me, fine, it's only awkward if you make it awkward after that, well, most of the time. If she makes it awkward, that's her deal and you're way better off without her anyway.
[editline]24th November 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=paindoc;42973793]I'm 18 in a few hours.
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Now what[/QUOTE]
Start smoking, get cancer! Whoo!
[editline]24th November 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=stabbytheghost;42973769]Climbed a mountain today with Cooker. Taking the ASVAB Dec.4 at my school. Everyday I move closer to my goal of the Air Force. I am beyond excited.[/QUOTE]
Asvab is pretty easy as long as you brush up on your general knowledge shit. Like, mechanics, how gears work, electrical stuff. It's really simple shit. if you're well prepared, the hardest part is the solving a puzzle by just looking at the pieces, and that's generally pretty easy if you've got the mind for it. Just remember that your score is based on both how fast you do it and how right you are, but being right > speed.
Also you MIGHT have to take it again at MEPS, and usually your score will be better than the first time because you'll better know what to expect, so at least there's that.
[QUOTE=stabbytheghost;42973769]Climbed a mountain today with Cooker. Taking the ASVAB Dec.4 at my school. Everyday I move closer to my goal of the Air Force. I am beyond excited.[/QUOTE]
This reminds me I need to see how I can take that at my school, it's near impossible to get an appointment with my counselor anytime soon so I don't have much help with college stuff atm. My friend took it at my school last year. I'm mainly planning on AFROTC at uni but if I don't go that route (because it's expensive and I'm only planning on applying to one or two places that I'm interested in) I'm doing what I originally planned and joining the AF normally.
[QUOTE=draugur;42973037]Are you seriously saying that women are all just materialistic money leeches that don't do anything but waste a man's money? How is it our fault you don't actually know what a relationship is. I'm "ignorantly" suggesting counseling because you clearly need it, because you're clearly the ignorant one.
Like, if you can't keep your self from blowing all your money on someone, that's your problem, and if your relationships are all with overly materialistic women, that's totally your fault as well, the problem isn't because of THEM, it's because you've never learned to get into a relationship that is actually meaningful. Maybe try getting to know a person before you date them? Maybe try actually dating someone that you didn't fuck one random night at a party? If you're being used like a ATM, that's your fault for getting into a one-sided "relationship."
You're like Taepodong-2 was about women, except you're impressing your bitterness onto other people's relationships instead of just your own.[/QUOTE]
You are fucking hilarious. Please don't stop with these rants, because they are honestly making my evening. I never said women are all materialistic leeches. My point was that men put out more than women, as a majority. And I don't know what a relationship is? Really? Pretty sure I have a pretty good handle on what the term is. I mean, you're making more accusations than anyone else here. One night stand? Not my thing. I want at least two in my bedroom. Having one throws off the symmetry and overall feel of the space. Now, speaking as if I give a shit, I've never had a one night stand. I don't do those, just because they're pretty pointless.
And I'm not really bitter about any of this. It's just a viewpoint. And if you don't like it, then fuck off? I mean honestly, saying I need counseling when you know nothing about me is pretty ignorant of you. Just like how me saying you're a fucking retard is dumb because I don't know anything about you. Well, except how you like to feel empowered through your posts. And it's pretty clear because you put them in a way where you don't think you're wrong.
That's the Identity I remember!
[QUOTE=draugur;42973153]Maybe so, but it's a pretty common thing among people that act like he is acting. I know so many people that say the same things he is and their dating experience pretty much amounts to shit like that. There's a point where if ALL your relationships are the exact same problem, maybe you should take a hint, chances are you probably know SOMEONE that has a happy relationship, and obviously a lot of other people have as well. Can you honestly say that EVERY relationship in the history of FOREVER was simply because a man wanted a shag and a woman needed a good money leech? No, no one who is thinking about this rationally would.[/QUOTE]
Show me a relationship where a man didn't shag a women, or where a man didn't shag a man, or where a woman didn't shag a women. Relationships are about happiness, security, procreation, and making a future for the both of you. If you can't understand how those parameters become more and more distant in society then I suggest you read up a bit more.
[editline]25th November 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mbbird;42974475]That's the Identity I remember![/QUOTE]
Hi. :D
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