Deli lyfe v.10 let's share our life problems edition because apparently we're all miserable
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"bitch mode"
Yeah okay bud.
It usually helps if you actually like women
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whatever im not letting this go full high school taepo mode i just wanted to share that i didnt go full sperg when talking to a girl and she was actually interested in talking to me no need to all of a sudden start being cunts again i dont care that this is a normal everyday thing for you its a big fucking deal for me but nope back to the anti taepo gang bang
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46014345]whatever im not letting this go full high school taepo mode i just wanted to share that i didnt go full sperg when talking to a girl and she was actually interested in talking to me no need to all of a sudden start being cunts again i dont care that this is a normal everyday thing for you its a big fucking deal for me but nope back to the anti taepo gang bang[/QUOTE]
you need to stop thinking getting a girlfriend will make you feel better. I get the feeling that you're the kind of person who would be very paranoid and controlling with your girlfriend and you'd probably end up feeling worse. Just forget trying to get a girl and relax, and enjoy being by yourself. after having the same problems as you, I just recently sort of let going of the desire for a relationship and its made me feel a little better. I want to focus on myself and make myself feel better before I try and be with someone else, and maybe you should do the same.
[editline]18th September 2014[/editline]
so im not entirely clear, but if Scotland becomes independant, is it still going to be part of EU and start using the Euro? wont this make things kind of confusing and annoying for people living in that area. I remember reading that was a problem in Ireland in some places since north is on the pound and south is on the euro. Also, will the union flag get changed? will they finally put the welsh dragon on it now
Girls aren't some mysterious creature that you must unlock the secrets of.
When you act like they are and you think they are all "bitches" you're already loosing. You have to stop thinking of them as some other species that is out to humiliate you and make you miserable.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46014345]whatever im not letting this go full high school taepo mode i just wanted to share that i didnt go full sperg when talking to a girl and she was actually interested in talking to me no need to all of a sudden start being cunts again i dont care that this is a normal everyday thing for you its a big fucking deal for me but nope back to the anti taepo gang bang[/QUOTE]
its just kind of annoying when you go full on fedora-neckbeard-redpill-friendzone "ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES" mode
thats why the anti-taepo shit starts
I feel like you're overthinking it and trying too hard, and like wulf said, it might not even be what you truly want. Maybe you should just try to get laid and see how you feel after that. If you want a real meaningful relationship it should almost be an accident. If you go out and actively look for a girlfriend and stress over it you'll either end up with a one night stand or just disappointed. If, after you get laid and feel that you still want a relationship, just make friends. Lots of friends. Guys and girls. I know it's easier said than done (believe me), but the more people you know the more likely you'll either hit it off with one of your friends or get introduced to someone. I don't want to sound like a jerk, I'm just trying to help
Taepo, the last nearly 5 years of my life has been a massive series of "wanting to put a gun in your mouth" events. Nothing has gone right for me, but call it corny or cheesy, one day a few months back, I saw this.
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After sitting and thinking about this for a week or so. I realized how true it is. Human nature tells us when things are bad; "I need to fix this.", which in your case involves actively seeking a girlfriend. Please do yourself a huge favor and really sit down and think about that comic/quote, because that's one of the few "life-changing" things I've ever read. After realizing how futile trying to control things out of my control was, and adopting a "life has a cycle of good and bad" approach to things, and started to just let life take sort things out instead of trying to micromanage, I got out of a relationship with someone toxic for me (against my will, but regardless), three jobs fell in my lap, and I've been so much happier not stressing about what I need to be fixing every minute. Things will work out whether you try to control them or not. Just enjoy life as it is.
[editline]18th September 2014[/editline]
[QUOTE=apoctank;46014430][B][I][U]If you go out and actively look for a girlfriend and stress over it you'll either end up with a one night stand or just disappointed.[/U][/I][/B][/QUOTE]
Alright, you guys are right, maybe it's not a girlfriend I want. It's a desire to feel normal and like I fit in with the rest of society, and I see having a girlfriend as an important part of that. Why? Because everywhere I look I see guys with girlfriends. A lot of you guys have girlfriends, all of my friends from high school do, even just walking around my university campus it's rare to see a guy who's not holding hands with a girl. So in my misguided, socially retarded ways, I see that as something I need to do to be normal even though it's really not.
As for just making friends and waiting for a relationship to just happen without trying to force it to happen, I really don't know how that's going to work. I have friends, but they're all like me, no life. I don't have any hobbies I do outside of my room and there's not really any hobbies I can afford to get into that I think I would enjoy. I don't know where to go to make friends. So going back to my desire to feel normal and thinking having a girlfriend will fix that, I feel like I have to actively seek out someone because I know for me it's not going to happen by accident. But I'll try to stop worrying about it and try to talk to girls with the intention of just making friends, nothing else.
And thanks to those of you who are willing to be reasonable with me while I'm in a reasonable state of mind.
Take this as you will, but I feel like you're also building up what a relationship is in your mind and you might be overstating it a little. Having a girlfriend is nice and all, but a lot of times it's more trouble than it's worth until you find a really really good person. Usually relationships involve a lot of arguing and a lot of stress and a lot of heartache mixed in with the good stuff.
Not to mention that they're usually a massive waste of time and money in the end.
Luckily I'm currently with someone who doesn't cause any of those things to me, but it's really pretty hard for anyone to find someone like that and it takes a long time no matter who you are. All I'm saying is that you should look at the bright side and recognize that impermanent relationships are often not as good as they may seem.
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I love her character on P&R. This is gonna be good.
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Tonight a group of people from the local Armed response unit brought guns to our detachment.
G36C with tacticool attachments and a glock17.
Along with kevlar vests and such
(Pictured, not me cause I was at home with the shits.)
I was watching BBC today and I saw this:
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One of my priorities, if I make it as far as him, is to have a properly fitting PC and have the helmet facing forward on my head.
[QUOTE=Holt!;46011144]Been listening to a lot more Synthwave/Dreamwave/that genre which has 40 different names.
Im not sure what it is, I love 80s music, and I love electronic music, so a mix of the two is fantastic.
Some of the stuff out there is great, like Lazerhawk's older stuff and Miami Nights 1984, but then theres stuff by people like powerglove or purtbator which just has too many sound effects or screams for my taste.
I mean Sexualizer by Pertubator has a fucking sample from porn in it. How am I meant to sit on a bus with my headphones next to an old woman who smiles at me while listening top that shit. In saying that, Sexualizer is a great song:
[video=youtube;svyCX2qHWXU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svyCX2qHWXU[/video]
Come to think of it, my interest in this genre probably came from me playing Hotline Miami for the first time a while back.[/QUOTE]
Does this album fall under that genre? [URL]https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA5171QP8x4yVTA1FTWJ20CkQgUk-kMpw[/URL]
It all sounds awesome and Work For Love is probably my favorite, but then Ministry went full industrial-metal (not complaining there though, I like their stuff).
Also I feel you on the songs with porn samples in them. "If only you were hearing what I'm hearing, this would be very awkward." With headphones while listening to those specific songs, I feel like the sound bleeds out even louder and people are going to hear it.
I wish keyboards were pressure sensitive, and the harder you hit the keys, the larger the font gets.
That would be really cool actually
And if the keyboard takes multiple high pressure keystrokes in the same area at the same time,
it assumes you've just rage thumped the keyboard and automatically saves and exits the game.
Or enables cheats, no matter what game it is.
[editline]19th September 2014[/editline]
AH FUCK, PAGEKING.
IM AT WORK
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[QUOTE=GREN EYGS N HAM;46021273]Or enables cheats, no matter what game it is.
[editline]19th September 2014[/editline]
AH FUCK, PAGEKING.
IM AT WORK
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Out of interest what do you actually do?
Or is flipping off lawn mowing men your profession.
i havent posted here since i left the sport, but i knew him pretty well...My team and his team played side by side alot, I remember me and him running up covering each other in many games..He was the nicest dude i've ever met.
this was one of the john lu games we went too. I believe i took the photo on the right as it has both eastern wolves and a couple of members from my team. (I didn't know it was him till the news showed photos of him in gear, I dug through my airsoft pics on FB and found a few of him.)
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I bought some pieces of steel that I can work on. bought some bars to just practice shit. I want to make one into a heart and give it to a friend, one I want to make into a dagger of sorts, and the other is just something I can pound on. Then I bought the flat bar I intend to be my sword. I probably wont work on it for another couple of months, but I want to have it to keep me motivated. I also wanted to buy some plates to have a project to make a pauldron, but they were to pricey and I still need to by the rest of the stuff for my forge. Btw, heres some pics
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This is base of my forge. Look up a "break drum forge" and thats what Im making. rig up a airflow source and fill the drum with charcoal , turn on the heat source and bam, forge. I just need to buy the pipes and stuff to rig the airflow and find something to use as a base/legs and I'm good to get
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And this is my anvil. Its made from an old section of railroad. Its small, but it was very cheap and I'm sure I can make it work.
[QUOTE=Holt!;46023701]Out of interest what do you actually do?
Or is flipping off lawn mowing men your profession.[/QUOTE]
I mow lawns as well and I'm flipping off my workmate/super ultra buddy.
Unrelated car pics.
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[QUOTE=GREN EYGS N HAM;46024891]
Unrelated car pics.
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Wheres the under lighting we talked about?
I'm starting to get the impression you don't even want to be gangsta.
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