Super Friendly Social and Love Advice v7 - Bro just do it, She prob likes you

[Cyril Connolly]

My fundamental guideline is "I want gets nothing" and "never expect that they're into you until they've told you".

[Zar]

just treat girls like you're never gonna get them, lots of girls will mistake it for confidence and only then, you make your move

[editline]9th November 2015[/editline]

also eventually it turns into actual confidence which is even better

[IlluminatiRex]

oh man I have a coffee date with a potential FWB on Friday, I made it clear to her that I am interested in an FWB relationship so this might actually go well for me!

It would suck if this ended up being a catfish, but I don't think she is.

[E = MC Hammer]

tbh just follow 4chan's advice

if you're having trouble talking to a girl just treat her like a guy you want to fuck

[fear me]

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;49085824]tbh just follow 4chan's advice

if you're having trouble talking to a girl just treat her like a guy you want to fuck[/QUOTE]

what if you're bi

that doesn't make it any easier

[Jho]

Just came back from a double date. My date brought her mate her also brought her mate, was awkward. The worst part was most of the date was spent on them 3 smoking fags outside and laughing at dumb facebook videos when we weren't getting worthless tickets from arcade machines. She liked me, I wasn't interested in the slightest. Time to keep on searching

[Derposaurus]

I always get angry whenever my ex talks about her current boyfriend or her friend says anything about it and I don't really know why. I completely and utterly hate her and I know that for a fact, and we broke up over 3 months ago and we both are dating other people. I guess I just don't like how she treated me like shit when we were dating and now she acts all nice with everyone now, and how much she claims to love the new guy. Maybe deep down I kind of miss her but I really don't want to field that thought considering the shit she put me through.

If you guys have any advice that'd be great but I just needed to vent this somewhere

[Fire Kracker]

i don't know why people get so upset when i say my girlfriend in a possessive way, people are like "wtf dude she's not [I]your[/I] possession" and are totally serious about it

like seriously shut the fuck up she's [I]my[/I] girlfriend and i'm [B][I]her[/I][/B] boyfriend its mutual that's why it's a relationship

i get that it's a tumblr thing BUT IT'S INTRUDING INTO REAL LIFE

[Jake]

[QUOTE=Derposaurus;49087527]I always get angry whenever my ex talks about her current boyfriend or her friend says anything about it and I don't really know why. I completely and utterly hate her and I know that for a fact, and we broke up over 3 months ago and we both are dating other people. I guess I just don't like how she treated me like shit when we were dating and now she acts all nice with everyone now, and how much she claims to love the new guy. Maybe deep down I kind of miss her but I really don't want to field that thought considering the shit she put me through.

If you guys have any advice that'd be great but I just needed to vent this somewhere[/QUOTE]

Cut contact with her. Things are only going to hurt worse the longer you stay in touch with each other.

[EagleEye]

[QUOTE=Derposaurus;49087527]I always get angry whenever my ex talks about her current boyfriend or her friend says anything about it and I don't really know why. I completely and utterly hate her and I know that for a fact, and we broke up over 3 months ago and we both are dating other people. I guess I just don't like how she treated me like shit when we were dating and now she acts all nice with everyone now, and how much she claims to love the new guy. Maybe deep down I kind of miss her but I really don't want to field that thought considering the shit she put me through.

If you guys have any advice that'd be great but I just needed to vent this somewhere[/QUOTE]

There's a reason why I don't talk to any of my ex's until considerable time has passed, this is one of them. You'll have to cut contact with her for some time is the only reasonable advice I can offer.

[Sector 7]

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;49088448]i don't know why people get so upset when i say my girlfriend in a possessive way, people are like "wtf dude she's not [I]your[/I] possession" and are totally serious about it

like seriously shut the fuck up she's [I]my[/I] girlfriend and i'm [B][I]her[/I][/B] boyfriend its mutual that's why it's a relationship

i get that it's a tumblr thing BUT IT'S INTRUDING INTO REAL LIFE[/QUOTE]

what kind of shit people do you hang out with

[Fire Kracker]

[QUOTE=Sector 7;49088572]what kind of shit people do you hang out with[/QUOTE]

people that i no longer hang out with

they were okay at first, if a little quiet, we went and hung out a lot with no problems but the second that anything stupid like that comes up they're all over it

like them getting mad at me for forgetting to refer to one of our friends by her pronoun since she came out as transgender BUT I KNEW HER AS A HIM FOR 2 YEARS BEFORE HAND it's not that easy of a switch fucking assholes even she understands that it doesn't come instantly, they only knew her for less than a year too

[Fire Kracker]

or when being asked if i found transgender girls attractive and i said no

just because they're a girl doesn't mean that i am now attracted to them like how am i at fault for this jc

[source]

I have a crush on this girl and im finally acting upon it for once....

people say she likes me, i also like her, and my friends are supportive. I literally have everything going for me rn

plus ive never seen a person with a name like hers which is also cool

[Derposaurus]

What if cutting contact isn't possible, at least not now, because we're lab partners and in a lot of classes together and can't really avoid it?

[Metallics]

[QUOTE=Derposaurus;49088888]What if cutting contact isn't possible, at least not now, because we're lab partners and in a lot of classes together and can't really avoid it?[/QUOTE]

In future take my mothers beautiful advice: Don't shit where you eat.

[meharryp]

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;49088587]people that i no longer hang out with

they were okay at first, if a little quiet, we went and hung out a lot with no problems but the second that anything stupid like that comes up they're all over it

like them getting mad at me for forgetting to refer to one of our friends by her pronoun since she came out as transgender BUT I KNEW HER AS A HIM FOR 2 YEARS BEFORE HAND it's not that easy of a switch fucking assholes even she understands that it doesn't come instantly, they only knew her for less than a year too[/QUOTE]

I never realized how many people I share similar problems with lol, someone who I use to consider a friend is agender and has a different name and one of their friends had a go at me for using their old name even though I've fucking known them as their old name for like 10 years.

[Jake]

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[TIIIN MAAAN]

i'm getting dinner with her!

I just have to worry about whether it's just a platonic dinner or if she's actually going to give me a chance.

We'll have to go Dutch if it's uncertain

[rsk_]

Listen up lads, it's storytime.

So there's this girl I've been good friends with for a couple of months now, she's got a boyf and w/e so never thought of her as more than a friend. She was flirting a bit with me but I brushed it off cause I thought she was joking. Anyway, out of the blue a couple of a days ago she stops replying to my messages and completely ignoring me pretty much overnight.

I ask her what's up and shit, still no reply but w/e I guess. She messages me today (like 2/3 days after?) telling me it's not my fault but she thinks i've got the wrong idea and it's making her feel uncomfortable etc.

At this point i'm just like wtaf cause i'm legit confused, what do I do lmao?

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Dorkslayz;49098222]Listen up lads, it's storytime.

So there's this girl I've been good friends with for a couple of months now, she's got a boyf and w/e so never thought of her as more than a friend. She was flirting a bit with me but I brushed it off cause I thought she was joking. Anyway, out of the blue a couple of a days ago she stops replying to my messages and completely ignoring me pretty much overnight.

I ask her what's up and shit, still no reply but w/e I guess. She messages me today (like 2/3 days after?) telling me it's not my fault but she thinks i've got the wrong idea and it's making her feel uncomfortable etc.

At this point i'm just like wtaf cause i'm legit confused, what do I do lmao?[/QUOTE]

be honest

just be like "well you've nothing to worry about because you have a boyfriend and you don't need to feel uncomfortable because we're just friends and that's all I've ever thought we were, I think perhaps might've gotten the wrong end of the stick about how i've been acting"

unless you're actually into her in which case maybe now is the time to move on lol

[rsk_]

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49098284]be honest

just be like "well you've nothing to worry about because you have a boyfriend and you don't need to feel uncomfortable because we're just friends and that's all I've ever thought we were, I think perhaps might've gotten the wrong end of the stick about how i've been acting"

unless you're actually into her in which case maybe now is the time to move on lol[/QUOTE]

I basically told her i've only ever liked her as a friend and she said she got annoyed cause I kept trying to talk to her (we've had like two proper convos on facebook chill out brah)

[Guy Mannly]

Dated a guy for less than 24 hours, told him I was no longer interested as politely as possible, and got a long text back basically telling me he was only going out with me because I "looked like [I] needed it". Basically called me a charity case and acted like he was the one doing me a favor by granting me the time for me to show up at his apartment with lunch for both of us.

Trying to meet people aside from my ex is exhausting.

[Dilbert]

Just went to my friend's place and got a good bit of relationship advice from him, since I'm going to ask this girl out tomorrow.

What I learned most from talking to him and learning about his own experiences is that everything I'm feeling is healthy and normal.

[Jho]

I wish these local events would come sooner, I'm on both pof and okcupid and there's little differentiation between the majority of women I see on there. Guess they attract a certain audience. There's one person I talk to often from pof but that's about it. I don't regret breaking up with my ex but the loneliness and boredom is kinda eating away at me.

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49099484]Dated a guy for less than 24 hours, told him I was no longer interested as politely as possible, and got a long text back basically telling me he was only going out with me because I "looked like [I] needed it". Basically called me a charity case and acted like he was the one doing me a favor by granting me the time for me to show up at his apartment with lunch for both of us.

Trying to meet people aside from my ex is exhausting.[/QUOTE]

What a piece of shit. Aren't you lucky you didn't go through with it

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49100387]What a piece of shit. Aren't you lucky you didn't go through with it[/QUOTE]

Now that I've cooled down a bit I can laugh at how petty he was about it.

I showed up at his apartment after fretting with my appearance for an hour, and had brought over a ton of pho for both of us for lunch... And he answered the door dressed like he just rolled out of bed and smelling like he hadn't showered yet. Vagina snapped shut. And had to shut him down three times while he pawed at my crotch before I decided to just walk out.

All of this from a guy who wrote in the same petty text that I should have talked to him so we could have worked things out "together".

[hai520]

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[E = MC Hammer]

same

edit: now that that spam post was gone this looks weird, so nevermind

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49100499]Now that I've cooled down a bit I can laugh at how petty he was about it.

I showed up at his apartment after fretting with my appearance for an hour, and had brought over a ton of pho for both of us for lunch... And he answered the door dressed like he just rolled out of bed and smelling like he hadn't showered yet. Vagina snapped shut. And had to shut him down three times while he pawed at my crotch before I decided to just walk out.

All of this from a guy who wrote in the same petty text that I should have talked to him so we could have worked things out "together".[/QUOTE]

You probably missed his secret stash of fedoras