Super Friendly Social and Love Advice v7 - Bro just do it, She prob likes you - General

[QUOTE=srobins;49960865]I assume you're trying to keep your disability benefits but their stipulation is either 6 months in rehab or daily checkups? [/QUOTE] No, they just want to make sure I'm not using drugs since I almost died a couple of weeks ago because of an overdose. That's why the social services opened up an investigation seeing if putting me in rehab is necessary, and so they really want me to take my medication because I derail completely without them, and it's not really formal checkups, I live in an apartment connected to residential staff that give me my medication twice a week. They seem content with just seeing me taking my medication. My psychiatric health care department want me to leave urine samples but that's impossible, I can't relax during pressure and I think I've made it pretty clear that it's not an option. So they're going to see if they can take saliva samples or taking blood instead. Benefits pretty much comes from a different department where there are no issues. There's a law in Sweden financially protecting autistic people like me. The meeting just left me with some emotional instability. I'm fine now though. [editline]19th March 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49961057]It applies to any profession. Be diplomatic and easy to work with and people will put the extra effort into accommodating you. You said yourself that your addiction 'comes and goes" - it's unsurprising they're worried about relapse. Aside from that, most people who experience drug addiction end up relapsing. Often they are predisposed to addiction and avoiding it can be a lifelong struggle for them. Phobias are generally treated with exposure therapy. If you deal with social phobia, the typical treatment for this would be exposing you to social situations. Avoidance does not help with phobias/anxiety, it only makes them worse.[/QUOTE] I know this, I'm an autistic bipolar, don't you think I've studied almost everything there is to know about panic, fear, anxiety and phobias?

Damn, flu hit me pretty hard and I wasn't able to ride up north to meet her. She understood the situation and we've been on the phone pretty much all day. But all is not lost. Quite the contrary, she's spending her week down here with her dad and step mom. They live an hour away from me, so yay!

[QUOTE=LtKyle2;49959315]Embrace it and he'll stop if he sees it doesn't bother you. How big are we talking? Big girls are awesome.[/QUOTE] Very

Oh shit man. Last time l've engaged with a large girl, she popped out a cheeseburger out of her purse and starts munching on that shit, as a pre dick appetizer. Jesus Christ... a fucking cheeseburger. I shit you not. But seriously good luck pall. I'm rooting for you. Hope you get a cheeseburger free relationship and a happy one.

I sent a message to a female friend on facebook telling her I still have feelings for her while asking how she's doing. She didn't respond. That hurts.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;49964685]Oh shit man. Last time l've engaged with a large girl, she popped out a cheeseburger out of her purse and starts munching on that shit, as a pre dick appetizer. Jesus Christ... a fucking cheeseburger. I shit you not. But seriously good luck pall. I'm rooting for you. Hope you get a cheeseburger free relationship and a happy one.[/QUOTE] huh what the fuck

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49964791]Well that's just weird, you don't do that out of the blue[/QUOTE] I thought it felt strange when I did it. But she's aware of the fact that I suffer from severe mood swings. Edit: Sorry for being autistic, but how is that weird? [editline]19th March 2016[/editline] I wish there was an instruction manual on how to properly live life for autistic people.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49964850]Put yourself in her shoes. Empathy, empathy[/QUOTE] Right! I shall meditate on this. Edit: Yup. That was weird. [editline]19th March 2016[/editline] Meditating on empathy actually made me understand the perspective of another person. I've never experienced this before, I've only used other forms of meditative practices. I should do this on a regular basis.

[QUOTE=Solodris;49964884]Right! I shall meditate on this. Edit: Yup. That was weird. [editline]19th March 2016[/editline] Meditating on empathy actually made me understand the perspective of another person. I've never experienced this before, I've only used other forms of meditative practices. I should do this on a regular basis.[/QUOTE] Everybody should do this, all the time. [i]Especially[/i] when it comes to dating and relationships.

Receiving medication that alleviates social anxiety made me think that at this point it's okay to be weird because I don't feel anxious about it anymore. But meditating on empathy made me realize it makes other people uncomfortable.

I'm not even sure what the difference between my bipolar and my personality is, it creates a split personality and I don't recognize which one is really me. Being stable, I'm the friendly buddhist that likes to read or practice counseling people online. Being manic, I'm a prophet delivering a message of supreme revelation while engaging in behaviors that makes people concerned or angry. It's exhausting. People have deleted me from facebook and stopped answering their phone when I call or text them. Some friends remain though, true friends.

[QUOTE=Solodris;49965019]I'm not even sure what the difference between my bipolar and my personality is, it creates a split personality and I don't recognize which one is really me. Being stable, I'm the friendly buddhist that likes to read or practice counseling people online. Being manic, I'm a prophet delivering a message of supreme revelation while engaging in behaviors that makes people concerned or angry. It's exhausting. People have deleted me from facebook and stopped answering their phone when I call or text them. [U][B]Some friends remain though, true friends[/B][/U].[/QUOTE] Way to go. I usually show all my friends pages like efukt and weird shit like you can't even imagine. Only the strong remain. The rest find me weird, or get deeply concerned, or, when I was younger used to call my parents in a deeply concerned tone, but I don't care. I never did care. I don't need weakling who can't handle a little coprophilia or have a laugh among gentlemen at anal prolapses on internet porn, or ass to mouth with poop on the tip of the actor's dick once in a while, you know. I want only the strong and the brave as friends. And I won't settle for anything less than that. It's important to set your bar high.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;49964685]Oh shit man. Last time l've engaged with a large girl, she popped out a cheeseburger out of her purse and starts munching on that shit, as a pre dick appetizer. Jesus Christ... a fucking cheeseburger. I shit you not. But seriously good luck pall. I'm rooting for you. Hope you get a cheeseburger free relationship and a happy one.[/QUOTE] Is it a thing with us Portuguese to go for the big girls? Because I find myself drawn towards the thick to slightly big and my cousin got himself a big girl too. Maybe it's the food, I head up to the Portuguese neighborhoods from time to time in NJ and all the girls there have got big bodies. Too much carbs I think. :vs:

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49964791]Well that's just weird, you don't do that out of the blue[/QUOTE] I do that all the time when I'm drunk and yet I'm still friends with them. LOGIC FAILURE.

[QUOTE=LtKyle2;49966510]Is it a thing with us Portuguese to go for the big girls? Because I find myself drawn towards the thick to slightly big and my cousin got himself a big girl too. Maybe it's the food, I head up to the Portuguese neighborhoods from time to time in NJ and all the girls there have got big bodies. Too much carbs I think. :vs:[/QUOTE] Although I do like girls a bit on the chubby side, thick legs and all, I have to say that the situation I described was desperate. Ok, pretty desperate. I felt instant regret after that episode and completely cut off all contact with that girl. Well, but yeah, I gotta agree on the food part. I'm getting a belly of my own too. Gotta hit the gym to burn this off.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;49966785]Although I do like girls a bit on the chubby side, thick legs and all, I have to say that the situation I described was desperate. Ok, pretty desperate. I felt instant regret after that episode and completely cut off all contact with that girl. Well, but yeah, I gotta agree on the food part. I'm getting a belly of my own too. Gotta hit the gym to burn this off.[/QUOTE] Ah but my friend! The gym will never save you when this is what we dine on! [img_thumb]https://easyportugueserecipes.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/649572-portuguese-egg-tarts.jpg[/img_thumb] [img_thumb]http://leitesculinaria.com/wp-content/uploads/2001/05/malassadas.jpg[/img_thumb] [img_thumb]http://farm1.static.flickr.com/127/373950662_4ebdba6a81.jpg[/img_thumb] [img_thumb]http://glocallynewark.com/cms/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/Frango.jpg[/img_thumb]

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Man, yesterday the girl I was going to go on a date with me came to me yesterday and asked if we could talk privately. She confirmed my suspicions on how she didn't want to say no because she didn't want me to feel bad and that ultimately she did not want to go. I appreciated the straight forwardness, asked if we could look past this situation, and we both, I believe, worked it out amicably. I know we have to just chug along these type of things, but I'd be lying if I didn't say I was disappointed. I really dug this girl and all of this has been a roller coaster in my life. At least I'm getting my shirt back soon.

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[QUOTE=damnatus;49966966]how to combat random boners FUCK[/QUOTE] Depends on the situation, really. If it's REALLY that big of a deal go to a sporting goods store and buy compression shorts, they're uncomfortable but it'll keep everything flat and where it belongs. They're so you can play football without getting boners and breaking them on a defensive lineman's hemet

[QUOTE=vizard38;49967026]Man, yesterday the girl I was going to go on a date with me came to me yesterday and asked if we could talk privately. She confirmed my suspicions on how she didn't want to say no because she didn't want me to feel bad and that ultimately she did not want to go. I appreciated the straight forwardness, asked if we could look past this situation, and we both, I believe, worked it out amicably. I know we have to just chug along these type of things, but I'd be lying if I didn't say I was disappointed. I really dug this girl and all of this has been a roller coaster in my life. At least I'm getting my shirt back soon.[/QUOTE] Well, at least you tried instead of sitting around thinking about it. Now next time you ask someone out you'll be a little bit better at it!

[QUOTE=srobins;49967850]Well, at least you tried instead of sitting around thinking about it. Now next time you ask someone out you'll be a little bit better at it![/QUOTE] Definitely man. I'm going to be bummed out for a bit though. On a tangent, I've noticed that you've been responding to my posts and I just wanted to say I really appreciate it. You've been really helpful in all of this!

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;49967726]Depends on the situation, really. If it's REALLY that big of a deal go to a sporting goods store and buy compression shorts, they're uncomfortable but it'll keep everything flat and where it belongs. They're so you can play football without getting boners and breaking them on a defensive lineman's hemet[/QUOTE] It's just I've been going out with this girl, and shit looks like it'll start getting intimate soon, what do I do THEN

[QUOTE=damnatus;49969757]It's just I've been going out with this girl, and shit looks like it'll start getting intimate soon, what do I do THEN[/QUOTE] you get a boner why is that bad

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;49969791]you get a boner why is that bad[/QUOTE] I don't know it seems awkward as fuck to me obviously i'm not talking about sex, stuff like kissing

[QUOTE=damnatus;49969757]It's just I've been going out with this girl, and shit looks like it'll start getting intimate soon, what do I do THEN[/QUOTE] boners are suppose to happen during sex :science:

[QUOTE=damnatus;49969823]I don't know it seems awkward as fuck to me obviously i'm not talking about sex, stuff like kissing[/QUOTE] i am not a girl but considering all a boner means is "oh boy look at me all aroused" i imagine you could see it as a compliment

Been single for a few years now and its getting to the point that whenever I'm out with friends the conversation always turns to it and its starting to annoy me. Like why does anyone give a fuck.