So in other words you can't control yourselves to not be dicks and you want to cry that its their fault.
I feel immensely lucky never to have been bullied (nor to have bullied) but I feel like I miss an important life perspective.
[QUOTE=Bletotum;39698114]So in other words you can't control yourselves to not be dicks and you want to cry that its their fault.[/QUOTE]
Oh my lord, stop making it a us: vs them scenario.
By your stance, i'm going to assume you are singled out a bit, why else would you have such a strong opinion for the victims? If you are, what do you think you can/could have done to avoid such scenarios? I can probably think of a few seeing as how black and white your argument is.
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[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [B]you're being 'bullied'[/B]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
I was bullied by an entire class of older students when I was 10 years old. every fucking day. they were 5 years older than me, and nearly as double my size. you cant simply change something, facing a wall of people every day. I wasnt overly extra, I was chosen by them simply because I was very skinny.
so, fuck you
[QUOTE=KaNe1310;39698491]I was bullied by an entire class of older students when I was 10 years old. every fucking day. they were 5 years older than me, and nearly as double my size. you cant simply change something, facing a wall of people every day. I wasnt overly extra, I was chosen by them simply because I was very skinny.
so, fuck you[/QUOTE]
see throwing that in at the end as if to say "the world is unfair" is what singles you out
I know shit happens, I'm sorry to hear it was that bad for you. Though I honestly believe you could have worked it out, given your situation.
I can guarantee if you did shit [i]right[/i] seeing as you were probably way smarter then them and probably will get a lot farther in life, they would actually treat you with a great amount of respect.
Now, I know your memory is probably foggy back then, but do you think you were doing anything that would tick people off? It might not just be because you were smaller, fuck usually the smaller dudes have more back
I could be looking at this wrong, I haven't really been in a singled out position ever, I've always had enough people having my back that i've never really thought about a situation like yours. I don't say these things to disrespect anyone mind you. I'm just giving the point of view from someone who isn't mad at life all the time, and deals with their problems without sulking because problems occur in life.
My point is: Don't sulk if you're presented with people who don't like you, use that to fuel yourself to become a better person, which in your case is almost 100% true. Is it not?
This guy has a beautiful voice.
Didn't make me cry, but it made me think.
Made me want to go outside.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [b]you're being 'bullied'[/b]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
My life was made a living hell for 9 years by everyone around me, and nothing infuriates me more than assholes like you that can't fucking understand that mental torture can destroy your mind and soul so hard you can't stand up for yourself even if you need to.
Have some fucking consideration for once.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [b]you're being 'bullied'[/b]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
did you have a childhood or are you just some edgy home-schooled neckbeard because this "Bullying isn't a real thing" mentality is pretty ignorant.
[editline]24th February 2013[/editline]
Like, come on, I agree, it can be annoying hearing about people being unable to ignore bullying but some people just can't bottle emotions like a Vulcan and take it. Most people take insults to heart. Get over yourself.
I'm not saying bullying is right or anything, or that it doesn't exist because it does, but a lot of these kids make it out to be something it's not.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [B]you're being 'bullied'[/B]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
That is the most retardedly illfounded conclusion that has ever been concieved by a sentient being.
Answer me this; why was my entire accademic career made horrible, yet I never did this 'extra' you're talking about. I had a normal amount of friends I would talk to regularly every day, I never did or said stupid shit, I'd get detention for cursing at the most. I passed my classes, and kept my own priorities in line, nobody elses. Yet still got shit for being normal.
This isn't even considering the other personal things I kept away from most people, like depression and such.
[QUOTE=Bleach Qeef;39701447]I'm not saying bullying is right or anything, or that it doesn't exist because it does, but a lot of these kids make it out to be something it's not.[/QUOTE]
can you give some examples?
[QUOTE=Meatloaf;39701594]can you give some examples?[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I have a friend who thinks he was bullied really bad in middle school. Fact of the matter was that everyone had it bad in middle school. I got it worse than he did, but it wasn't bullying.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [b]you're being 'bullied'[/b]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
Hahahaha oh god, survival of the fucking fittest, what are you, a fucking cave man?
You do realise most bullies don't give a shit if you change, they just want someone to make fun of.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [b]you're being 'bullied'[/b]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
hahahahaha oh my fucking god, is this guy serious?
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_dkGLXw8RMs[/media]
This is IMO his best poem by far, helps me when I'm feeling down a lot.
My teacher showed us this in class and oh god i was so high i didn't understand what he meant in his words and it sounded like it was turning into a rap song
[QUOTE=TheFilmSlacker;39718867]DentalDoctor is always like this. Just ignore him and he'll shut up.[/QUOTE]
You know posting in the thread a day later just makes it appear on the new threads list
i hope you know it
its the page when you click videos
also you nerds don't know shit
that's why you're in stuck on the internet whining about being bullied
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[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39719200]You know posting in the thread a day later just makes it appear on the new threads list
i hope you know it
its the page when you click videos
also you nerds don't know shit
that's why you're in stuck on the internet whining about being bullied
[highlight](User was banned for this post ("Trolling" - Craptasket))[/highlight][/QUOTE]
2hard4me brb killing self. I'll never be as cool as you
[QUOTE=Crash15;39674475]I think it all wouldn't have happened if he just answered "Pork chops" instead of "Karate chops".
I laughed when he answered with "Karate chops"[/QUOTE]
Sure it was silly, but pretty much this same thing had happened to me.
Its funny but what it leads to is not that funny.
I pray that I don't become a blind parent to bullying when I become older.
For the most part I never really got bullied, but in elementary I would bully people a lot. I guess I'm still a bully really, but I'm trying to be a better person. It may not mean much, but I want to say that I'm sorry that I have caused a lot of pain to people who didn't deserve it.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
[/QUOTE]
Man, your so cool, can I be as cool as you are?
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39697532]It's hard to understand, but its true.
In highschool, the only people who ever were singled out was because they were overly extra, wouldn't do shit to not be annoying, took everything as offence and probably thought the whole world was against them.
If you want to stop being 'bullied' don't start acting like [b]you're being 'bullied'[/b]
I also hate that word, 'bullying' it's survival of the fittest, do something to change shit. If you're not big or anything, use your words. You can shit talk and weasel to get your way out of anything.
Stop secluding yourself whimpering because noone likes you. As long as people aren't robbing you or kicking the shit out of you, it isn't bullying.
Also, stop thinking that anyone who hasn't been bullied doesn't know the feeling, the feeling is anxiety and everyone gets it. You feel like there's no point for your input, or theres nothing you can do. It's bullshit.
But, this is facepunch so I already know no one is going to see eye-eye with me because they're so ~damaged~ and noone ~understands~[/QUOTE]
Ok, try being born with no function of your legs and getting picked on for it with no control over it. Then come back and say that.
Fucker
This hit home for me. For the longest time, I was bullied as well. I'm not the first. I won't be the last. But I can share what it's done to me.
I was the shortest kid in my elementary class, every year, from kindergarten to 3rd grade. I was picked on by everyone. "Shorty". "Midget". "munchkin". He'll, I was called an Oompa Loompa once or twice. It hit hard on my childhood. As a result of daily torture by practically the entire school, I turned away from the public, and home schooled up to high school. I thought it'd change. It didn't. Freshman year was hell. I used origami to cope, believing that I could persevere. They called me mister origami-fu. So I turned to science. Growth hormones made me tall, but it's given me sscoliosis. There is a chance I might lose my legs to paralysis if I'm not careful. I graduated, sure, but as a result of what they had done to me, the permanent scarring they've left, I'm no longer happy being myself. I hate myself, and try to be someone else whenever I can. Even now, in college, I'm seeking a way to lose my past forever. I want nothing to do with the old me.
This is what they did to me. They reduced me to a miserable pile of self-contempt and spite. Is bullying a problem that can be "gotten over"? No. It is a burn mark on the soul of the unfortunate. Did I ask for this life? Do people really think I wanted this path of isolation and wretchedness? No. But I am forced down it anyways.
[QUOTE=xxfalconxx;39829535]This hit home for me. For the longest time, I was bullied as well. I'm not the first. I won't be the last. But I can share what it's done to me.
I was the shortest kid in my elementary class, every year, from kindergarten to 3rd grade. I was picked on by everyone. "Shorty". "Midget". "munchkin". He'll, I was called an Oompa Loompa once or twice. It hit hard on my childhood. As a result of daily torture by practically the entire school, I turned away from the public, and home schooled up to high school. I thought it'd change. It didn't. Freshman year was hell. I used origami to cope, believing that I could persevere. They called me mister origami-fu. So I turned to science. Growth hormones made me tall, but it's given me sscoliosis. There is a chance I might lose my legs to paralysis if I'm not careful. I graduated, sure, but as a result of what they had done to me, the permanent scarring they've left, I'm no longer happy being myself. I hate myself, and try to be someone else whenever I can. Even now, in college, I'm seeking a way to lose my past forever. I want nothing to do with the old me.
This is what they did to me. They reduced me to a miserable pile of self-contempt and spite. Is bullying a problem that can be "gotten over"? No. It is a burn mark on the soul of the unfortunate. Did I ask for this life? Do people really think I wanted this path of isolation and wretchedness? No. But I am forced down it anyways.[/QUOTE]
if you said, "fuck you, want to fight about it" they wouldn't look at you as a pussy little bitch and would leave you alone
there are extremely short people who I am friends with who never get picked on because they have heart and self respect
just because you were small doesn't mean anything, stop associating these peoples comments with reality, it shouldn't matter to you because who the fuck are these people
why do strangers opinions affect you people, who the fuck cares???
stop having pity in yourselves, be the best you can be
[QUOTE=xxfalconxx;39829535]This hit home for me. For the longest time, I was bullied as well. I'm not the first. I won't be the last. But I can share what it's done to me.
I was the shortest kid in my elementary class, every year, from kindergarten to 3rd grade. I was picked on by everyone. "Shorty". "Midget". "munchkin". He'll, I was called an Oompa Loompa once or twice. It hit hard on my childhood. As a result of daily torture by practically the entire school, I turned away from the public, and home schooled up to high school. I thought it'd change. It didn't. Freshman year was hell. I used origami to cope, believing that I could persevere. They called me mister origami-fu. So I turned to science. Growth hormones made me tall, but it's given me sscoliosis. There is a chance I might lose my legs to paralysis if I'm not careful. I graduated, sure, but as a result of what they had done to me, the permanent scarring they've left, I'm no longer happy being myself. I hate myself, and try to be someone else whenever I can. Even now, in college, I'm seeking a way to lose my past forever. I want nothing to do with the old me.
This is what they did to me. They reduced me to a miserable pile of self-contempt and spite. Is bullying a problem that can be "gotten over"? No. It is a burn mark on the soul of the unfortunate. Did I ask for this life? Do people really think I wanted this path of isolation and wretchedness? No. But I am forced down it anyways.[/QUOTE]
I had the exact same thing, even the medication. And I feel the same way, although I am feeling better slowly.
[editline]7th March 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39831917]
why do strangers opinions affect you people, who the fuck cares???
[/QUOTE]
anxiety, ect
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;39831917]if you said, "fuck you, want to fight about it" they wouldn't look at you as a pussy little bitch and would leave you alone[/QUOTE]
this doesnt work for a speech impediment fyi
[QUOTE=Cone;39832046]this doesnt work for a speech impediment fyi[/QUOTE]
then you fight him, even if you lose you still win
he will leave you alone
but you fight like you want to prove yourself, not like you have to
its not what you do, it's how you do it.
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