• I have nothing to look forward to in life. HELP.
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[QUOTE=The Pro;16051505]procure a suitable female girlfriend[/QUOTE] what if he wants a male girlfriend are you going to stop him!??11
oh he's a teen filled with angst. he'll get over it eventually.
Everyone's life amounts to nothing, don't feel bad about it. [sp]Go kill people[/sp]
okay OP here's what I did I saved up money for a few months and I bought a punching bag now whenever I get mad or depressed I beat the crap out of it, you could get rid of all that teenage angst this way
Suicide is a stupid, self absorbed solution. Stop thinking that ending your life will fix any problems-- realize that it only creates a lifetime of problems for everyone around you left behind. When my older brother killed himself because "no body cared" more people showed up at his funeral than he could have ever imagined... all those people that "didn't care" were actually all around him. He was just to focused on his own problems that he didn't notice them there. Had he seen that before we know he would have thought differently. You need medication and therapy. Neither of which you'll find on FP. Go do something about it instead of bitching on some random forum.
[QUOTE=rilez;16051547]okay OP here's what I did I saved up money for a few months and I bought a punching bag now whenever I get mad or depressed I beat the crap out of it, you could get rid of all that teenage angst this way[/QUOTE] I see, that would probably assist me a bit, I guess.
I'm in my final year of highschool and I still don't know what I'm doing. Stop being so impatient and try a hobby for more than five minutes before you give up.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051554]I see, that would probably assist me a bit, I guess.[/QUOTE] Well, it helps me when I get angry at least. Don't worry about your career yet. [B]My brothers just graduated college and they still aren't sure.[/B] You still have plenty of time. Your mother is just worried about you, my mom says the same stuff occasionally. As for the social stuff, don't worry about that either. It doesn't matter if you're unpopular in high school, it's 4 years of your life. Make a few good friends that share common interests and hang out with them. These are the people you will still hang out with even after school. Who gives a shit what some random skater dude thinks about you? It's only high school, dude. If you find yourself in the same position ten years from now, then start worrying. also if someone is making fun of you behind your back, [I]they aren't your friend[/I]. forget about them and move on, it isn't even worth it.
join clubs at school, easiest fuckin way to get friends.
[QUOTE=Gringamos;16051580]join clubs at school, easiest fuckin way to get friends.[/QUOTE] I agree. My school had a fucking video game playing club.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051376]Hey guys, I know this might not be the right section, but I sure as hell hope it is. Anyways, I've recently noticed (with the help of my mom screaming at me) that my life has NOWHERE that it's going. From what I know, I guess I'm supposed to have chosen my career choice by now (which is going into Sophomore year of high school). Everyone that I hang out with have good, positive lives, they really seem like they could do something impressive if they wanted to. But me? Well, I just seem like I'm always not having anything to do, always being 'bored'. Although my friend(s) try to help me, usually I just brush them off, thinking later against it. I don't really have any skills at all, not even social skills. I'm usually the person everyone secretly points at and makes fun of. And even when I AM good at things, I think negatively about it, or put it in the wrong perspective. I used to be pretty good at doing Rubik's cubes, but once I saw my friend doing them in ~18 secs, I saw that (in my mind) I wasn't making any improvement, really just staying where I was at. I do this with any hobby I try, I just give up when I can't instantly win. Facepunch, what should I do? I've tried learning how to play music, but that usually turns out to sound like shit. I tried being more social, and that made me seem like the wierdest kid at my school, and pretty much everyone stays away from me now because of it. Suicide sounds like a reasonable option, I've thought of it a few times and attempted on some of those thoughts. What should I do?[/QUOTE] I know a girl who has grown up well off. Her parents are rich. They rent houses out to people, they have their own yacht, they're paying her college off. She's been nothing but fortunate in the money department. She has talent with art and music, she went to college straight out of highschool to do what she already knew she was born to do. She's getting a whole new experience being in college and all that. She isn't the happiest girl in the world. She's got everything you claim to be lacking and yet she's miserable, she has social anxiety, she considers herself to be awkward even though she's a great girl and it makes her miserable. Wait until you get into the real world. This highschool social scene doesn't mean shit. If you're not really good at anything and can't make up your mind about school, just get through highschool and get yourself a job, or get some basic diploma from college just so you can use it to get your foot in the door somewhere. You may stumble into something you find incredibly interesting and discover you're proficient at it while you're fuckin' around in college. I don't know what I want to do yet and I'm getting older now, so I'm kind of at that point where I think I need to just get my ass in there and get going, but you've got plenty of time to figure things out. Look, I was at the point where I thought suicide was the answer. It isn't. Things change, you change, your perspective of the world changes, you meet people, you discover. I used to suffer from depression and anxiety and then one day I woke up and I realised it was gone. Had I killed myself, I wouldn't be able to enjoy life as I do now, I wouldn't be able to share my life with my wife. What's really important is figuring out who you are and what you want out of life. There's no set pattern or shape you have to cram your life into to please others' expectations. I'm not picky. I don't want fancy cars and a huge house. Material possessions aren't important; after all, you're going to die. But don't kill yourself. All of these confusing things don't get solved by doing that. Just be glad you get the chance to experience life. Being alive, getting by with a few luxuries here and there is enough for me.
Do a type of sport, start talking to people, don't be so negative, try harder on things, and stop bitching. You're going nowhere complaining about how shitty your life is. You completely deserve it if that is how you act.
[QUOTE=rilez;16051587]I agree. My school had a fucking video game playing club.[/QUOTE] Fuck, why can't my school have one? For fucks sake, the closet thing we have to video games is chess. WHO THE FUCK PLAYS CHESS other than people who enjoy it?
[QUOTE=Malumbre;16051611]teeeeeext[/QUOTE] This man knows what he's talking about, and every word is perfect. Except for that typoe in the first paragraph (my her). But honestly, I suffered the same thing as he did, by the sounds of it. But everyone goes through something like that in their life. At least, most people do. The point is not to give up. Just keep going.
School doesn't mean shit unless you drop out to do nothing. Relax.
I feel the same way as OP, I don't feel like I'm going anywhere. I have dreams but I ask myself "do I really want to do this?"
[QUOTE=Elstumpo;16051731]Fuck, why can't my school have one? For fucks sake, the closet thing we have to video games is chess. WHO THE FUCK PLAYS CHESS other than people who enjoy it?[/QUOTE] Who the fuck plays video games other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck runs other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck smokes weed other than people who enjoy it? See what I'm getting at?
Grow a spine for fuck sake! Your life isn't getting any better no matter how much you whined about it. Quite the opposite. Do something about it.
[QUOTE=PrismatexV0;16051795]Who the fuck plays video games other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck runs other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck smokes weed other than people who enjoy it? See what I'm getting at?[/QUOTE] Do you see your failure to catch the poorly made joke?
[QUOTE=PrismatexV0;16051795]Who the fuck plays video games other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck runs other than people who enjoy it? Who the fuck smokes weed other than people who enjoy it? See what I'm getting at?[/QUOTE] I bet more people enjoy playing video games than the chess club has, which is what he's getting at.
i read up to the sophomore part. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? "i'm only 15, my life is going nowhere!" Someone needs to fucking slap you! You're going into into your second year of highschool, and already you have written off your life as worthless. Go join a fucking club, go play sports, go do something constructive! Learn how to build things with wood, learn how to do SOMETHING. If i knew you in real life i'd punch you right now.
just breeze through high school with a 75 average, go to a local college and be a business major like all of us slackers with no ambition :D
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051376]Hey guys, I know this might not be the right section, but I sure as hell hope it is. Anyways, I've recently noticed (with the help of my mom screaming at me) that my life has NOWHERE that it's going. From what I know, I guess I'm supposed to have chosen my career choice by now (which is going into Sophomore year of high school). Everyone that I hang out with have good, positive lives, they really seem like they could do something impressive if they wanted to. But me? Well, I just seem like I'm always not having anything to do, always being 'bored'. Although my friend(s) try to help me, usually I just brush them off, thinking later against it. I don't really have any skills at all, not even social skills. I'm usually the person everyone secretly points at and makes fun of. And even when I AM good at things, I think negatively about it, or put it in the wrong perspective. I used to be pretty good at doing Rubik's cubes, but once I saw my friend doing them in ~18 secs, I saw that (in my mind) I wasn't making any improvement, really just staying where I was at. I do this with any hobby I try, I just give up when I can't instantly win. Facepunch, what should I do? I've tried learning how to play music, but that usually turns out to sound like shit. I tried being more social, and that made me seem like the wierdest kid at my school, and pretty much everyone stays away from me now because of it. Suicide sounds like a reasonable option, I've thought of it a few times and attempted on some of those thoughts. What should I do?[/QUOTE]Well, you could always become homosexual. Then you will be popular. Then everyone will know you. Then you should unbecome homosexual and then you will be able to proceed get down with the ladies.
Why are most people on FP dicks? The only good post I've seen in this thread is Malumbre's.
Just remember OP: There's no point to life, dying at 112 is just the same as dying at 17, because if you do change the world in some way it won't matter at all when the universe ends or the planet is engulfed by the sun.
"Whether or not you think you can do it, you're right" - I forgot who said this and I can't be arsed googling it but it's right If you stopped having such a gloomy attitude towards everything you'd be better at stuff
Just hang out with your friends more often, that's helping me.
My brother after failing at becoming a network administrative (he failed the last test, twcie) he joined the army. He seems happy, but then again, he's been looking forward to the army since he was 4
Become a criminal.
[QUOTE=cheesylard;16052023]Well, you could always become homosexual. Then you will be popular. Then everyone will know you. Then you should unbecome homosexual and then you will be able to proceed get down with the ladies.[/QUOTE] THAT IS TRUE! It really is. A friend of mine, was a null, the moment he openly said he was gay (still gay though), the ladies where swarming around him. Combine that with the Emo/scene/punk/whatever style and you'll have just as much women you would have when wearing a wolf shirt
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