• I have nothing to look forward to in life. HELP.
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[QUOTE=johngrimm;16053132]Is the girl attractive?[/QUOTE] Yeah, but I wouldn't say she's one of those smoking hot girls every guy gawks at and she's only had one boyfriend. I find her to be incredibly hot actually, she's my type physically.
Hey, i'm 20 in a few days, and i havn't done jack shit since i left school years ago. To be honest, i'm fucking loving it doing nothing all day. But having a job where i have to play games all day helps too. Besides, if i ever feel bad in any way, masturbation always fixes me right up again.
Grow balls then grow hair on those balls then drop those balls then get laid
You've 'tried' playing music and gave up because it sounded shit? Dude, c'mon. It takes YEARS to master an instrument, and music theory. Good music doesn't come from 5 minutes practise. Basically, you're just lethargic. Find something to do, and STICK WITH IT. If you see someone better at it than you, treat it as a challenge. Once you've got a hobby you're enthusiastic about, have a passion for, you'll break out of this lethargic rut. So DO IT! DO IT NOW!
[QUOTE=KaIibos;16053467]No you're not You may think you are but you're not In the worst instance, nobody gives a shit about you and you never even enter their heads[/QUOTE] Oh, fuck, yeah, I didn't address this. I used to deal with this shit every moment of my life. I wasn't exactly popular in school and it brought me great distress, especially being made fun of from time to time. Even passing cars in the street, which were only in my life for a fraction of a minute, were an immense source of stress for me, because I thought everyone was watching my every move, checking out my clothes, my shoes, my hair, my face, everything, and judging me. I used to cross the street to avoid passing people. I wouldn't make eye contact with people while talking to them. It's fucked up, I know. Well, after years of dealing with this crap, I moved out on my own. I had to start doing things that I could get my parents to do for me before, like ordering a pizza or activating my credit card. It was hard, but I had no choice. I started to build confidence and realised that dealing with people isn't so hard, and that people don't really give a shit about you the way you think, they aren't thinking anything about you that you don't think about them, and fuck their opinions anyway. Who the fuck are they? It might sound silly, but a good exercise for me to eliminate this problem was for me to stare people down. I used to look away whenever someone would catch me looking their way, almost as if I was submitting to them in a battle of wills or some shit. I started maintaining eye contact with passersby or people sitting around me in public places and I made them look away. It was a little thing that helped me realise I'm just as important and powerful as anyone else in the room if I want to be. You know, I've been thinking about this. What the fuck makes us this way? I know several people, including my wife (I've helped her a lot), her best friend, that girl I mentioned earlier, a friend of my mother's, etc., that suffer from this phobia. Why the fuck do we care so much about what others think of us and why can't some of us shake it even into our young adult years? Is it mass media sculpting us for consumerism or something?
[QUOTE=Malumbre;16055141]Oh, fuck, yeah, I didn't address this. I used to deal with this shit every moment of my life. I wasn't exactly popular in school and it brought me great distress, especially being made fun of from time to time. Even passing cars in the street, which were only in my life for a fraction of a minute, were an immense source of stress for me, because I thought everyone was watching my every move, checking out my clothes, my shoes, my hair, my face, everything, and judging me. I used to cross the street to avoid passing people. I wouldn't make eye contact with people while talking to them. It's fucked up, I know. [/quote] What are you talking about?! A lot of angsty teens go through this. Even adults... [quote] Well, after years of dealing with this crap, I moved out on my own. I had to start doing things that I could get my parents to do for me before, like ordering a pizza or activating my credit card. It was hard, but I had no choice. I started to build confidence and realised that dealing with people isn't so hard, and that people don't really give a shit about you the way you think, they aren't thinking anything about you that you don't think about them, and fuck their opinions anyway. Who the fuck are they? [/quote] Are you fucking kidding me... stop whining. That isnt hard. I'm not trolling or whatever you call it, I'm telling you hands down truth. Unless you moved out when you were 10 years old, that isnt a big deal! Its called growing up. [quote] It might sound silly.[/QUOTE] you do... Honestly, dont think about what other people think of you. People are just people. [editline]09:02AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Malumbre;16055141] You know, I've been thinking about this. What the fuck makes us this way? I know several people, including my wife (I've helped her a lot), her best friend, that girl I mentioned earlier, a friend of my mother's, etc., that suffer from this phobia. Why the fuck do we care so much about what others think of us and why can't some of us shake it even into our young adult years? Is it mass media sculpting us for consumerism or something?[/QUOTE] I actually do have that problem. Walking down the street thinking people are staring at me and I sweat a lot and my heart races and I have panic attacks on the side of the road.. but other than that... I really dont care what people think about me. It just happens.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;16055187]What are you talking about?! A lot of angsty teens go through this. Even adults... Are you fucking kidding me... stop whining. That isnt hard. I'm not trolling or whatever you call it, I'm telling you habds down truth. Unless you moved out when you were 10 years old, that isnt a big deal! Its called growing up.[/quote] Yeah, I realise that now, don't I? I'm not whining, I'm just telling of my experience. Try explaining to arachnophobes that it's just a spider.
sorry for that rant/rage fest. [editline]09:04AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Malumbre;16055208]Yeah, I realise that now, don't I? I'm not whining, I'm just telling of my experience. Try explaining to arachnophobes that it's just a spider.[/QUOTE] "just stomp on it! You're bigger :D"
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;16055187]Are you fucking kidding me... stop whining. That isnt hard. I'm not trolling or whatever you call it, I'm telling you hands down truth. Unless you moved out when you were 10 years old, that isnt a big deal! Its called growing up.[/QUOTE] He's not speaking for everyone. It was a problem he dealt with and he's saying that he got past it, that's all.
[QUOTE=Plasticnoob;16055222]He's not speaking for everyone. It was a problem he dealt with and he's saying that he got past it, that's all.[/QUOTE] I know.
And knowing is half the battle.
I don't like talking to my parents about being really cuddly with lots of girls all the time, so I never speak of it. Today they confronted me with "We think you're gay and sell sex services to get friends" except a lot more serious and with an angry tone. Awesome, I'm soon 22 years old, I don't smoke nor drink, I'm straight and a virgin. Back on topic, don't try to be something, just ignore it and accept the fact that life sucks. When you've realised that, you'll be able to live your life.
Talk to a the rapist.
[QUOTE=Shadow7;16055250] Awesome, I'm soon 22 years old, I don't smoke nor drink, I'm straight and a virgin. [/QUOTE] That is admirable to a lot of women. Nothing wrong with that at all.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051376] firstpost[/QUOTE] Start smoking, or better yet snus(google). Shure it's addicting but whatever, i feel like you do when i'm empty. Also try out 3d modeling and stuff.
Might as well add, the more you try the more you'll feel suicidal. [QUOTE=HookerVomit;16055260]That is admirable to a lot of women. Nothing wrong with that at all.[/QUOTE] I sure think so but I'm not good with getting past the just friends part, I've had many girls trying hard to get me but thought I didn't care and went for one of my friends instead.
Basically what I was trying to say in that whole novel I wrote was to just face your fear because it's not as big in reality as you make it in your head, I suppose. Lol, actually, it's funny because I used to have an irrational fear of bees/wasps on top of that (I accidentally disturbed a wasp nest when I was 12, I know where this fear came from). So, whenever a bee or wasp would come near me I'd act retarded and run away and even scream if I thought it touched me, which would set off my anxiety because normally there'd be people around to view such a bizarre and humourous sight. I got stung one night while sitting on my computer, by a wasp that was trying to escape into our house from the winter cold. I had a brief freakout, realised the pain wasn't as bad as I had built it up to be, and ever since I haven't had a problem with them. Completely unrelated to topic but it's related to what I said and I feel like sharing that. What.
[QUOTE=Shadow7;16055278]Might as well add, the more you try the more you'll feel suicidal. I sure think so but I'm not good with getting past the just friends part, I've had many girls trying hard to get me but thought I didn't care and went for one of my friends instead.[/QUOTE] Did you even try?
take out a bunch of other people with yourself, or drown yourself in tub full of baked beans...manly
wait.. nevermind.. snip :v:
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;16055302]Did you even try?[/QUOTE] Uh not sure, I might be old but I have absolutely no social experience at all, my life started 1 and a half year ago. I clearly show them that I favourite them over others to cuddle with or be with... donno what else I could do.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051376]Hey guys, I know this might not be the right section, but I sure as hell hope it is. Anyways, I've recently noticed (with the help of my mom screaming at me) that my life has NOWHERE that it's going. From what I know, I guess I'm supposed to have chosen my career choice by now (which is going into Sophomore year of high school). Everyone that I hang out with have good, positive lives, they really seem like they could do something impressive if they wanted to. But me? Well, I just seem like I'm always not having anything to do, always being 'bored'. Although my friend(s) try to help me, usually I just brush them off, thinking later against it. I don't really have any skills at all, not even social skills. I'm usually the person everyone secretly points at and makes fun of. And even when I AM good at things, I think negatively about it, or put it in the wrong perspective. I used to be pretty good at doing Rubik's cubes, but once I saw my friend doing them in ~18 secs, I saw that (in my mind) I wasn't making any improvement, really just staying where I was at. I do this with any hobby I try, I just give up when I can't instantly win. Facepunch, what should I do? I've tried learning how to play music, but that usually turns out to sound like shit. I tried being more social, and that made me seem like the wierdest kid at my school, and pretty much everyone stays away from me now because of it. Suicide sounds like a reasonable option, I've thought of it a few times and attempted on some of those thoughts. What should I do?[/QUOTE] I know how you feel. I've been there. Now I'm an extremely happy being with hopes to my life and life goals. What I'm trying to say is... Wait it out, pussy. funniest thing is I'm younger than you
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;16055306]wait.. nevermind.. snip :v:[/QUOTE] Hey, wtf is Blurb? :P Oh, you thought I wrote a novel? Haha.
[QUOTE=Shadow7;16055317]Uh not sure, I might be old but I have absolutely no social experience at all, my life started 1 and a half year ago. I clearly show them that I favourite them over others to cuddle with or be with... donno what else I could do.[/QUOTE] You aren't old.. you're like 2 years older than I am. So, you're quite bashful towards women I'm assuming? I dont like to give advice, but its like what people say, if you want something bad enough, you will work towards it to get it. Not telling you to be a douchebag and act all suave to a girl with lines like, "hey babe, wanna fuck?" But if you want to be with a girl, you have to put in the effort. [editline]09:19AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Malumbre;16055328]Hey, wtf is Blurb? :P Oh, you thought I wrote a novel? Haha.[/QUOTE] yeah, read it wrong. Blurb is an awesome site nonetheless. check it out :D
So you're an American version of me? Cool
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051376](with the help of my mom screaming at me)[/QUOTE] I've noticed that a lot of you little emo cunts seem to shift blame to your parents, how mature.
join the army
You're a sophomore in high school. Sophomore year sucked. Pick up and instrument, and PRACTICE. It's going to sound terrible at first, but you're going to learn to love it if that's what interests you. Get a job? It'll make you feel better about yourself. Bottom line though, just wait it out. I was the same way in Sophomore year. Depressed, anti-social and boring. But just look at me now. :D Seriously though, it gets better at Junior/Senior year.
[QUOTE=Jack_Ghetto;16055441]I've noticed that a lot of you little emo cunts seem to shift blame to your parents, how mature.[/QUOTE] Jack_Ghettout.
[QUOTE=Malumbre;16055141]I used to deal with this shit every moment of my life. I wasn't exactly popular in school and it brought me great distress, especially being made fun of from time to time. Even passing cars in the street, which were only in my life for a fraction of a minute, were an immense source of stress for me, because I thought everyone was watching my every move, checking out my clothes, my shoes, my hair, my face, everything, and judging me. I used to cross the street to avoid passing people. I wouldn't make eye contact with people while talking to them. It's fucked up, I know.[/QUOTE] story of my life right now...of course dyeing my hair black and wearing a leather jacket to school is probably just making it worse :P actually i found that when i dress and act the way I want, which is gothic and dark, i get comments and looks from strangers but it actually makes me feel good instead because thats the way i want to be. drawing some negative attention on a public bus makes me feel good about myself. if you know what i mean.
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