I'm all out of ideas of what to call my bf. He's now calling me little baby and luv, little baby because I'm 10 years younger than him. I'm thinking of calling him my love, but I think it's too soon. I'm tired of calling him with "heys" and "so" etc
eh we've got plenty of pet-names between me and my bf, "hun" is the most used (but not honey.[B] never honey.[/B])
I'd say just try and call him random stuff and see if he likes it?
[QUOTE=Fingers!!!;39402543]I'm 10 years younger[/QUOTE]
christ
hun Is a very bad pet name
I never got why someone would get into a relationship with someone an entire decade younger/older than them. Doesn't seem like there would be a whole lot you could relate with
[QUOTE=Fingers!!!;39402543]I'm all out of ideas of what to call my bf. He's now calling me little baby and luv, little baby because I'm 10 years younger than him. I'm thinking of calling him my love, but I think it's too soon. I'm tired of calling him with "heys" and "so" etc[/QUOTE]
wait, so he's 30?
[QUOTE=0FucksGiven;39402732]I never got why someone would get into a relationship with someone an entire decade younger/older than them. Doesn't seem like there would be a whole lot you could relate with[/QUOTE]
it depends on the age. As you get older the age gap can get bigger. It depends on how old Fingers is.
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Well thats another birthday over for another year. One more year until adulthood...yay.
Also got these really awesome birthday cards made by a couple of friends of mine: [URL="http://i.imgur.com/e1KpPX5.jpg"]http://i.imgur.com/e1KpPX5.jpg[/URL]
He's smart, he's adorable. I've had my share of teenagers with my ex. I just wanted to try something more serious, something different.
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39402333]I'm aware it's stupid, when I make an attempt, feels like I have little or no control, last time it happened, there's a gap, time wise, could be 5 minutes, could be an hour, not even sure if it actually happened[/QUOTE]
Go see a fucking doctor and then a psychiatrist, seriously.
And don't give us any bullshit that you don't need to because clearly you do.
my autobiography is going to be titled 'Receipt for Your Payment to Valve Corp.'
i think mine will be "you could save 10% on your next purchase at lovehoney"
[QUOTE=eddy-tt-;39403173]Go see a fucking doctor and then a psychiatrist, seriously.
And don't give us any bullshit that you don't need to because clearly you do.[/QUOTE]
I've seen my GP, I've seen half a dozen psychiatrists, they're response was just to put me on anti depressants and tell me to live with it basically, I'd rather not go through that again, especially considering my mother (I live at home) said that she would be furious with me if I needed help again.
I have to say the psychiatric system is more than useless. I've been with them for a year and a half and so far they have:
-Put me on antidepressants
-Told me to wait
-Said they're transferring me to adult services
-Organised two meetings with representatives from adult services, neither of whom knew my name or anything about my problems
-Told me my case will be submitted for review by a team of psychiatrists I don't know
-Not given me a straight answer about whether I'm getting any therapy or not
-Told me to wait again
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39403411] especially considering my mother (I live at home) said that she would be furious with me if I needed help again.[/QUOTE]
wow
just wow
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39403411]I've seen my GP, I've seen half a dozen psychiatrists, they're response was [B]just to put me on anti depressants and tell me to live with it basically[/B], I'd rather not go through that again, especially considering my mother (I live at home) said that she would be furious with me if I needed help again.[/QUOTE]
this is a legitimate reason to be annoyed at psychiatrists
i dunno where you live (if it's Uzbekistan I'll feel silly) but mental healthcare in the US leaves something to be desired
well a little more than something
let's say a lot
oh who are we kidding it's pretty shit
it's expensive as fuck and most psychiatrists will just throw lots of meds at you and considering the side effects and the fact that anti-depressants have barely shown a difference from placebo and how expensive they are that's not necessarily a good thing
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;39403502]this is a legitimate reason to be annoyed at psychiatrists
i dunno where you live (if it's Uzbekistan I'll feel silly) but mental healthcare in the US leaves something to be desired
well a little more than something
let's say a lot
oh who are we kidding it's pretty shit
it's expensive as fuck and most psychiatrists will just throw lots of meds at you and considering the side effects and the fact that anti-depressants have barely shown a difference from placebo and how expensive they are that's not necessarily a good thing[/QUOTE]
The fact that my mother works as a psychologist is kind of cool (I don't have to pay if I need attention :P)
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39403411]I've seen my GP, I've seen half a dozen psychiatrists, they're response was just to put me on anti depressants and tell me to live with it basically, I'd rather not go through that again, especially considering my mother (I live at home) said that she would be furious with me if I needed help again.[/QUOTE]
In that case find someone who you can talk to regularly then talk about everything and anything that bothers you, what makes you feel the need to do such actions. And lastly tell your mom to fuck off with that attitude, parents are meant to be supportive and clearly being furious over a problem you have isn't doing that.
[QUOTE=eddy-tt-;39403666]In that case find someone who you can talk to regularly then talk about everything and anything that bothers you, what makes you feel the need to do such actions. And lastly tell your mom to fuck off with that attitude, parents are meant to be supportive and clearly being furious over a problem you have isn't doing that.[/QUOTE]
My mum is the best out of my parents by far, and I have people I can talk to, but there are some deeper seated issues it seems, but oh well.
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39403691]but oh well[/QUOTE]
No, not fucking "oh well". You're not talking suicide and then play it down like that. Tell us what's bothering you, whatever's fucking with your emotional well-being. We'll listen, we'll provide advice and we'd do anything to help. But don't bring up suicide and imply it didn't matter.
By doing that, you give us responsibility over your life, and that's quite heavy. You're talking about your imminent death, no matter how serious you meant it, this is what it boils down to. So, give us a chance to help or don't make stupid implications. You're writing about it, so you either want help or you want our reaction. If you're in for the latter, you have no idea what kind of weight you're putting on people.
[QUOTE=H4ngman;39403864]No, not fucking "oh well". You're not talking suicide and then play it down like that. Tell us what's bothering you, whatever's fucking with your emotional well-being. We'll listen, we'll provide advice and we'd do anything to help. But don't bring up suicide and imply it didn't matter.
By doing that, you give us responsibility over your life, and that's quite heavy. You're talking about your imminent death, no matter how serious you meant it, this is what it boils down to. So, give us a chance to help or don't make stupid implications.[/QUOTE]
None of you have any obligation toward me, you are absolved of all responsibility, and frankly, I am too much of a coward for the cowards way out.
[QUOTE=begotten;39403574]The fact that my mother works as a psychologist is kind of cool (I don't have to pay if I need attention :P)[/QUOTE]
well then you're really lucky
i don't even want to get into how much was spent on my treatment in the last year
[QUOTE=Uzbekistan;39403935]None of you have any obligation toward me, you are absolved of all responsibility[/QUOTE]
No. This is not how it works. The gravity of this matter completely overpowers any of your statements. By bringing it up, you've lost that kind of control over it, it is now a matter of our choice only, what obligation and responsibility we hold over you and any individual with a spark of civil courage and decency has it, all of it and you don't fuck with that.
I've had my share of friend's suicides. No notes, no therapy, no implications, not a word. I'd have given anything for a chance of talking about it, for any hint, any implication.
Nothing to do with us, like fuck it does
Not saying this is you but I hate when people try to garner respect with "I would have helped and talked to them" even though they never show any interest otherwise, they really think that someone they never talk to will try to come out to them with something that personal and serious?
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hm[/QUOTE]good timing these posts are worse than the dildo/furry/ whatever chat
yep lets just post gay human people instead this page
for once have an actually nice page??
[QUOTE=H4ngman;39403991]No. This is not how it works. The gravity of this matter completely overpowers any of your statements. By bringing it up, you've lost that kind of control over it, it is now a matter of our choice only, what obligation and responsibility we hold over you and any individual with a spark of civil courage and decency has it, all of it and you don't fuck with that.
I've had my share of friend's suicides. No notes, no therapy, no implications, not a word. I'd have given anything for a chance of talking about it, for any hint, any implication.
Nothing to do with us, like fuck it does[/QUOTE]
Well, it's appreciated that you're offering me support for reasons I don't fully understand, but I just need to grow up.
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[QUOTE=mikeyt493;39404167]yep lets just post gay human people instead this page
for once have an actually nice page??[/QUOTE]
Whoops, sorry
[QUOTE=mikeyt493;39404167]yep lets just post gay human people instead this page
for once have an actually nice page??[/QUOTE]Yeah I agree, we should ignore the people who are having issues and asking for help, instead we should post useless .gifs of guys being fucked.
[QUOTE=H4ngman;39403991]No. This is not how it works. The gravity of this matter completely overpowers any of your statements. By bringing it up, you've lost that kind of control over it, it is now a matter of our choice only, what obligation and responsibility we hold over you and any individual with a spark of civil courage and decency has it, all of it and you don't fuck with that.
I've had my share of friend's suicides. No notes, no therapy, no implications, not a word. I'd have given anything for a chance of talking about it, for any hint, any implication.
Nothing to do with us, like fuck it does[/QUOTE]
this is exactly why i like to refrain from talking about my issues in the improper places
i wouldn't want anyone to feel guilty about it
I once thought about setting up an email like that incase anything ever happened to me (not suicide). Still need to get around to it.
[QUOTE=l l;39404267]Yeah I agree, we should ignore the people who are having issues and asking for help, instead we should post useless .gifs of guys being fucked.[/QUOTE]there's a depression etc thread for a reason
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