The Gay Chat Thread - dildo bong edition - General

[QUOTE=Zeke129;39477010]If shota was rude to zydos you'd have a point but what exactly are you hoping to accomplish with posts like this[/QUOTE] Me? I know it will accomplish nothing with Shota. I felt like getting it out though. Hearing him bitch about his perpetual existence is annoying. He does nothing to help himself and it's pathetic to see it all play out.

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KulSQjjQVPE[/media] The Beatles would kick the shit out of Sinatra and give Shota a joint Wait wait... that's it. Shota, start smoking weed. It honestly is what saved me, helped me delve deep into my thoughts and pull out the truth. I was shattered over the prospect of having a worthless existence, I wanted to end my life because I couldn't take it any more, until I smoked weed and saw that all of us, in our own little ways, influence the world greatly, and there's so much to life I wouldn't get to experience if I killed myself. Recently I was devastated that my boyfriend left me. For the first 3 weeks I was a mess, then finally I just sat down and smoked a joint and I was at peace with it, hell when I last talked to him about my feelings and what I had thought and had to say, we left off in a place of "well I'm not sure where to go with all this" and "well I really still care about you, z" but we're sharing a room during VancouFur this year because we're still close in that regard. See? I could have sulked and nothing would have changed, but because I opened my mind and forced myself to see the truth of it all, that I may not be able to ever have him back as my love, that doesn't mean he has to disappear. I see that, and now he might even come back to me. Fucking silly, but hey. That's what happened when I bucked up, took charge and dealt with something. It only happened because I acted on it. Smoke weed, see the world for what it is, be happy

[QUOTE=zydos;39476817]Exactly. They are impossible to predict but you can shape the future through your actions. If you don't do anything at all, nothing ever changes. If you keep telling yourself nothing will happen and nothing will get better, then I've got news bro, that's exactly what will happen. You will shrivel up and never experience the greener grass. You have potential, but like me when I was going through my dark years, you fail to see it. I've had far too many concussions in the past 4 years, and after numerous MRI's and CT's, its revealed I have macroscopic (yes, visible to the naked eye) scarring all over my brain in different areas. My memory and ability to remember dates, assignments, facts, little quibs of anything, is that of a 45 year old, and I'm 19. I failed my first term of university because I couldn't remember I had essays and things to do until the week before. In your words, I would be doomed forever to a life of failure. But I'm not letting something I can't change ruin me, I'm learning how to manage myself. Notes, weekly-planner entries, whiteboard, I work with what I have. You just need to stop being so fucking pessimistic, you sound like my mom. She keeps thinking all these sad things and shitty things about her and her situation (which is actually totally average and not even that terrible), and nothing changes. She just gets worse and worse because she tells herself she's fucked. I've had way more devastating things happen to me in the last two years than probably any of you on this forum have ever had to deal with, but because I realize there's a world out there to enjoy and I strive to be a part of it, I'm the happiest person I know. Really. I'm so happy I can't even contain it, because there are so many great things about life that I get to see and enjoy every day. Stop being such a fucking black-hole, kid. You're so fucking emo about your view on everything, it's no surprise you're still stuck in this funk. "Useless souls with big dreams die every day who will have never made an impact on the world, billions of them already have"? Then buck up and become one of the few that make an impact, make a difference in the world. I will make music, sweet music, for the people. Whether I become famous or not, I will make music. I want to make a difference for people. Even if I don't do it, I will enjoy the life I led trying to do so, instead of sitting on my computer on forums not going anywhere, whining about my problems and doing nothing to fix them. I spend hours of each day dealing with people like you, friends or family, and when you just sit there and keep whining, being stubborn and refusing to see the light, I just throw my arms up and give up. Sure, widdle away and rot, be a nobody. That's your fault. Though you're the only person that can make yourself into a somebody, and believe me you can. Follow a passion, follow something that makes you tick, and live a life If you're just going to reply all moody and not actually listen to a word I say, then fuck it I'm done. It's nobody's fault but your own that you didn't live a good life, so go out there and live a good one. Fuck what you think you can or can't do, just do. Prove yourself wrong and be awesome. If not? Too bad, don't ever complain on this site again about it, because there's nothing we can do about it. Lord knows I have tried, myself.[/QUOTE] I'm trying, trust me. It's not happening at the rate that I'd like it to. It's tough to continue moving forward. I get jealous easily and have twisted ways of coping with myself. But at least I'm moving foward. [QUOTE=Paul McCartney;39476773]I don't respect you, and I don't like you. Mainly because I've been Do you even have a GED?[/QUOTE] I'd rather be a depressed plebe then being a successful asshole. Please don't be a jerk. I like everybody no matter who they are. Its their decision to like me back. It's better to have a serious supportive discussion than it is to talk about somebodies baddragon dildo collection. Yes I have my GED. Please don't be mean. I'm sorry.. [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=zydos;39477103]Smoke weed, see the world for what it is, be happy[/QUOTE] I already do. Most of the money from my last job went to it. I'd be more happy if I could just see the sunshine and feel the warmth of the summer/spring/fall air though when high. It's normally below freezing outside this time of year and my moms boyfriend screams at me if I smoke in the house.

I didn't mean to be mean about the last part. I was just curious since I remember bits and pieces. It's fine to have some discussion here and there about your life, it's just annoying to have it be in nearly every other post. Okay? Start getting active, run bike whatever.

[QUOTE=Shotacon;39477131]I'd rather be a depressed plebe then being a successful asshole. Please don't be a jerk. I like everybody no matter who they are. Its their decision to like me back. It's better to have a serious supportive discussion than it is to talk about somebodies baddragon dildo collection. Yes I have my GED. Please don't be mean. I'm sorry..[/QUOTE] But a lot of us have been supportive, you just shoot down the good comments with more bad comments all the time. First step in trying to change yourself is actually [I]trying[/I] to change yourself, you can't let others do it for you.

[QUOTE=Paul McCartney;39477161]I didn't mean to be mean about the last part. I was just curious since I remember bits and pieces. It's fine to have some discussion here and there about your life, it's just annoying to have it be in nearly every other post. Okay? Start getting active, run bike whatever.[/QUOTE] You said Frank Sanatra would kick the shit out of Shotacon.

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;39477219]You said Frank Sanatra would kick the shit out of Shotacon.[/QUOTE] It was because he would disprove of his negative behavior and stagnant behavior. [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] And I'm sure Sinatra is an excellent brawler.

[QUOTE=Paul McCartney;39477312]It was because he would disprove of his negative behavior and stagnant behavior. [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] And I'm sure Sinatra is an excellent brawler.[/QUOTE] I'm sure Sinatra would have a thing or two to say about gay people as well. He was pretty progressive for his day but the guy [b]was[/b] born in the 40s. Why do we care what he might think anyway?

Sigmund Frued was progressive in his day (he assumed homosexuality was stunted sexual development, and suggested treatment rather than throwing them in jail as was the standard of the day), even though now his ideas (about a century old) are what many people think about psychology and homosexuality in general.

[QUOTE=Zeke129;39477380]I'm sure Sinatra would have a thing or two to say about gay people as well. He was pretty progressive for his day but the guy [b]was[/b] born in the 40s. Why do we care what he might think anyway?[/QUOTE] I think early 20's. Since I remember he was a propaganda icon in world war 2. And Sinatra is a cool cat. I dig the man.

Smoke more then, or at least smoke cigarettes too and smoke weed. Nicotine is a mental stimulant~ so get smarter and think more deeply, success. But yes, just keep moving forward. Keep going. Don't stop, because you'll love where it takes you in time. [I] Just keep swimming[/I]

[QUOTE=Sobotnik;39477421]Sigmund Frued was progressive in his day (he assumed homosexuality was stunted sexual development, and suggested treatment rather than throwing them in jail as was the standard of the day), even though now his ideas (about a century old) are what many people think about psychology and homosexuality in general.[/QUOTE] Freud's ideas aren't as highly revered by psychologists as you think [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=Paul McCartney;39477494]I think early 20's. Since I remember he was a propaganda icon in world war 2. And Sinatra is a cool cat. I dig the man.[/QUOTE] Wow didn't know he was in his 80s when he died

[QUOTE=zydos;39477550]Smoke more then, or at least smoke cigarettes too and smoke weed. Nicotine is a mental stimulant~ so get smarter and think more deeply, success. [/QUOTE] Are you honestly suggesting someone should take up smoking cigarettes to help them get their shit together?

[QUOTE=Zeke129;39477621]Freud's ideas aren't as highly revered by psychologists as you think[/QUOTE] you havent met my psychology teacher then he went to yale and got a phd in it but still thinks freud is the best

[QUOTE=douche beat;39477650]Are you honestly suggesting someone should take up smoking cigarettes to help them get their shit together?[/QUOTE] Yes Yes I am Get addicted then realize that there are better things to do than smoke, then reflect on your life and see there are better things in general to be doing Trust me, I'm a psychologist [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=Sobotnik;39477661]you havent met my psychology teacher then he went to yale and got a phd in it but still thinks freud is the best[/QUOTE] Pleeeeeeease don't get me started on [del]Fraud[/del] Freud

[QUOTE=zydos;39477550]Smoke more then, or at least smoke cigarettes too and smoke weed. Nicotine is a mental stimulant~ so get smarter and think more deeply, success. But yes, just keep moving forward. Keep going. Don't stop, because you'll love where it takes you in time. [I] Just keep swimming[/I][/QUOTE][QUOTE=zydos;39477709]Yes Yes I am Get addicted then realize that there are better things to do than smoke, then reflect on your life and see there are better things in general to be doing Trust me, I'm a psychologist[/QUOTE] If anyone is taking these posts seriously, don't. You're free to do whatever with your life but don't smoke cigarettes because someone told you something like this.

I leave you all alone for a couple of months and this is what you're up to when I get back honestly

well shed some light on the thread then

[QUOTE=zydos;39477550]Smoke more then, or at least smoke cigarettes too and smoke weed. Nicotine is a mental stimulant~ so get smarter and think more deeply, success.[/QUOTE] lmao

[QUOTE=zydos;39477709]Get addicted then realize that there are better things to do than smoke, then reflect on your life and see there are better things in general to be doing[/QUOTE] I know this is the internet, and I shouldn't be afraid to offend people, but I mean no insult to the speaker when I say this: this is literally the worst fucking advice I've ever seen. My dad was a smoker from long before I was born until I was a teenager. Not because he didn't want to quit, not because he didn't have better things to do (he did, and was doing those things), but because he literally fucking couldn't. He tried quitting multiple times and failed, until he eventually found success through drugs that hurt him in other ways. But he doesn't need them now, and he's living a happier and healthier life because of it. You are telling people to basically accelerate faster towards rock-bottom so that they can use how fucked up they are to motivate them to un-fuck themselves, which is so backwards that I can't even begin to address it as if it were a legitimate argument. You want to get your life together? Set goals, work at them, don't bring yourself down if you take a while to reach them or if you can't reach them, and try to keep a positive outlook on things. The last thing you want to do is further fuck yourself up.

No no, I understand all of that :/ it was just a joke post, hence why I said trust me, I'm a psychologist, which I clearly am not. Your last paragraph was basically everything I've been saying, just, I made a parody post, calm down guys :C I figured you'd have caught that

[QUOTE=zydos;39478250]No no, I understand all of that :/ it was just a joke post, hence why I said trust me, I'm a psychologist, which I clearly am not. Your last paragraph was basically everything I've been saying, just, I made a parody post, calm down guys :C I figured you'd have caught that[/QUOTE] Rule number one of internet: people are take thing serious

True that

jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez a lot of stuff sure did happen here in the last few hours i think a lot of you need to realize that the things that make you happy aren't necessarily the key to happiness for everyone and others need to learn that just because you're unhappy doesn't mean you'll be unhappy forever as long as you actually try and do something about it i'm sure there's some old chinese guy i could quote that said something about learning to grow crops or just sitting there and doing nothing and starving to death or maybe there isn't who knows, i've been playing a lot of sleeping dogs lately you cannot blame "being depressed" or genetics or anything for not doing anything i'm avoiding using myself as an example because i'm not exactly someone to look up to, so i will say that in my travels in the last year or so, i have met many people with problems much worse that what you (shotacon) describe and you know how i met them? we were all trying to get better nothing is going to change if you sit around all day whining about it basically, do something about your life if you're not happy about it, there are very few reasons not to, and those reasons that exist are very rare

[QUOTE=Shotacon;39476389]Not everybody can escape a crippling social disability.[/QUOTE] You fucking have Aspergers. I have Aspergers. You don't see me complaining all the time here do you? Or if I do it isn't crying over spilled milk. In fact I've gotten over that "boundary" that you appear to be stuck on and unwilling to really seriously go over. The only reason nothing interesting has happened to me yet is because it's not going to really go into motion until I start college next summer, so until then I don't have alot to do really. Does Aspergers suck, yeah it does, for a while. Is it a [i]"crippling social disability"[/i] fuck no, it's very manageable actually, you're just not doing a single thing about it. The reason I removed you from my steam friends list is because I don't want you messaging me, moaning all the damn time. [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=zydos;39477550]Smoke more then, or at least smoke cigarettes too and smoke weed. Nicotine is a mental stimulant~ so get smarter and think more deeply, success. But yes, just keep moving forward. Keep going. Don't stop, because you'll love where it takes you in time. [I] Just keep swimming[/I][/QUOTE] While you're at it, just go to heroin, that will definitely fucking help you out, or smoke crack and meth, that will make you feel alot better. Zydos that's awful advice and you know it.

Cocainum is hell of a drug. That's all you really need to know :v:

[QUOTE=Pvt. Martin;39479825]Zydos that's awful advice and you know it.[/QUOTE] I know that's why I posted it D: Jesus christ guys, I poured my heart out earlier and one page back, and when that didn't work in the slightest I made some stupid comment and now everybody thinks I'm aweful :C Fuck guys, smoking is bad. If any of you took that seriously, you need some help outside of mine [editline]4th February 2013[/editline] zydos is nice remember, he just wants to make everyone happy and fix their problems, just reach into your hearts

[QUOTE=zydos;39480069]zydos is nice remember, he just wants to make everyone happy and fix their problems, just reach into your hearts[/QUOTE] The other day you said I would make a bad pet you meanie

Because you were disgusted by the thought of my giant dick crushing you!.. and if you're going to be a pet, you better enjoy my dick! [sp]I can't help how big my dick is :c[/sp]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;39480117]The other day you said I would make a bad pet you meanie[/QUOTE] I love how you always complain about dildos, furry talk and practically anything else and then post stuff like this. [editline]5th February 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=zydos;39480069]I know that's why I posted it D: Jesus christ guys, I poured my heart out earlier and one page back, and when that didn't work in the slightest I made some stupid comment and now everybody thinks I'm aweful :C Fuck guys, smoking is bad. If any of you took that seriously, you need some help outside of mine[/QUOTE] Are you actually saying there is something wrong with people for advising against your advice?