A girl that really likes me asked me out to the movies, I really don't want to go. This stuff happens like every few months; some really shy girl that likes me comes forward and asks me out to go somewhere. I'm not exactly closeted but I don't really go around telling people that I'm gay, so I guess she doesn't know.
I'm tired of going out with girls just to make them feel good. Last time I went out to the movies with a girl that liked me and she felt me up like crazy, I just kinda sat there and let her do it because I had no idea what to do. It was the most awkward thing that has ever happened to me, and I don't plan on doing it again with another girl.
What should I say to her? She messaged me on Facebook asking about the movies but I haven't responded yet. It's not a set date so I can't use a fake excuse.
[QUOTE=GhostProject;38952286]A girl that really likes me asked me out to the movies, I really don't want to go. This stuff happens like every few months; some really shy girl that likes me comes forward and asks me out to go somewhere. I'm not exactly closeted but I don't really go around telling people that I'm gay, so I guess she doesn't know.
I'm tired of going out with girls just to make them feel good. Last time I went out to the movies with a girl that liked me and she felt me up like crazy, I just kinda sat there and let her do it because I had no idea what to do. It was the most awkward thing that has ever happened to me, and I don't plan on doing it again with another girl.
What should I say to her? She messaged me on Facebook asking about the movies but I haven't responded yet. It's not a set date so I can't use a fake excuse.[/QUOTE]
maybe you should tell her you are gay?
[QUOTE=GhostProject;38952286]A girl that really likes me asked me out to the movies, I really don't want to go. This stuff happens like every few months; some really shy girl that likes me comes forward and asks me out to go somewhere. I'm not exactly closeted but I don't really go around telling people that I'm gay, so I guess she doesn't know.
I'm tired of going out with girls just to make them feel good. Last time I went out to the movies with a girl that liked me and she felt me up like crazy, I just kinda sat there and let her do it because I had no idea what to do. It was the most awkward thing that has ever happened to me, and I don't plan on doing it again with another girl.
What should I say to her? She messaged me on Facebook asking about the movies but I haven't responded yet. It's not a set date so I can't use a fake excuse.[/QUOTE]
"Hey! I'd love to go with you to the movies as friends, but I'm not looking for romance right now" or you could just come out and say "... but I'm gay [or some variance]
just be honest, if you don't like her why get her hopes up?
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38952397]maybe you should tell her you are gay?[/QUOTE]
I plan on it, some friends in my "clique" don't know and I feel like she might tell them which has me a bit worried, because I don't know how they'll react to my sexuality. I just want to survive the last few months in high school without being "that gay kid", lol.
[QUOTE=Dog;38952415]just be honest, if you don't like her why get her hopes up?[/QUOTE]
I don't want to get her hopes up, it's happened to several girls before, I'm just really awkward and not into talking about myself, so I never tell her anything she might want or need to hear.
[QUOTE=GhostProject;38952286]Last time I went out to the movies with a girl that liked me and she felt me up like crazy, I just kinda sat there and let her do it because I had no idea what to do. It was the most awkward thing that has ever happened to me, and I don't plan on doing it again with another girl.[/QUOTE]
you pretty much allowed yourself to get tortured. be up front and tell her that you're not interested in women that way.
[QUOTE=TehWhale;38952272]aren't you the guy who caused your boyfriend to have heart troubles after you yelled at him (probably for something as dumb as this)[/QUOTE]
Ummm you are fucking stupid. I was mad at him before for letting another guy kiss him.
[editline]24th December 2012[/editline]
Which was what caused the heart problems to begin with
[editline]24th December 2012[/editline]
The kissing thing that is
[QUOTE=GhostProject;38952443]I just want to survive the last few months in high school without being "that gay kid", lol.[/QUOTE]
you won't be "that gay kid" unless you make it overly apparent
though that won't be true if you live in a horse and buggy or banjo area
[QUOTE=l l;38942016]Tumblr is so much fun[/QUOTE]
aaaa picture I posted just exploded I've never had that many likes and reblogs before
[QUOTE=l l;38952594]aaaa picture I posted just exploded I've never had that many likes and reblogs before[/QUOTE]
Can I see
Most notes I've ever had on something was some anime thing I posted that has 37,600 notes.
i got a bit over a hundred on one of my posts
i still get a likes and reblogs
[url]http://tokugawa-heavy-industries.tumblr.com/post/33975749137[/url]
my most noted thing is [URL="http://latingeek.tumblr.com/post/35591557370"]pretty gay[/URL]
also I reblogged [URL="http://latingeek.tumblr.com/post/32585043068"]this[/URL] at some point???
followed u both
I still can't believe I got 1,800 notes just by this [url]http://antirabbit.tumblr.com/post/36310899795/polar-bears-cafe-episode-34[/url]
[QUOTE=latin_geek;38952839]also I reblogged [URL="http://latingeek.tumblr.com/post/32585043068"]this[/URL] at some point???[/QUOTE]
is renard a social masochist or something
I have a festivus pole downstairs
but that is about it for holiday stuff
Mum sits there googling "womens fitness regime" or whatever
Then shes's like
"yeah fuck this go grab me a double of black label and coke"
xmas spirit
[QUOTE=Saza;38953512]I have a festivus pole downstairs
but that is about it for holiday stuff[/QUOTE]
Yule's been pretty good, y'know, other than avoiding the wild hunt and the Draugar. Gonna have some turkey and ham tomorrow though, and that'll be nice.
someone buy me a dildo please
christmas spirit and all that jazz
I went to buy a friend one for xmas but seems like no site accepts paypal
isn't paypal attached to a bank account?
i'm p sure you can get a credit/debit card and pay directly
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;38953566]Mum sits there googling "womens fitness regime" or whatever
Then shes's like
"yeah fuck this go grab me a double of black label and coke"
xmas spirit[/QUOTE]
I've been trying to get my parents to start getting in reasonable shape for their age, but they keep putting it off, and it is worrying to me, I don't want them to have a lot of health problems because of health neglect.
ey yo gaypunch
how do y'all stay undepressed? every night i have free i expect that i'll feel all fine and dandy because i can dick around and play games uninterrupted, but i always feel so depressed and unmotivated to do anything, be it videogames, masturbating, drawing, anything.
it sucks a lot. what do you guys do to cope?
[QUOTE=Raijin;38953629]i'm p sure you can get a credit/debit card and pay directly[/QUOTE]
I'm under 18, so I cant have a credit card. Not sure how debit cards work... I know I can get prepaid credit cards though
[editline]24th December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;3895366]what do you guys do to cope?[/QUOTE]
beer
doesn't feel right to come in here all mopey and depressed when i don't really know you guys too well, but it's gotten to the point where it's nearly unbearable and i have no one else to ask.
[editline]23rd December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;38953672]I'm under 18, so I cant have a credit card. Not sure how debit cards work... I know I can get prepaid credit cards though
[editline]24th December 2012[/editline]
beer[/QUOTE]
Pretty shitty habbit, but one of my main methods of coping is eating. Kinda blows though because weight and stuff.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;38953669]ey yo gaypunch
how do y'all stay undepressed?[/QUOTE]
what's the fuel for your depression? you need to find the proverbial water for this fire.
[editline]23rd December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;38953672]I'm under 18, so I cant have a credit card. Not sure how debit cards work... I know I can get prepaid credit cards though[/QUOTE]
credit card = buy now, pay bills later (bad because interest rates)
debit card = buy now, pay now (in the event that your account doesn't have sufficient funds, the payment won't go through so there's nothing to worry about)
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;38953669]it sucks a lot. what do you guys do to cope?[/QUOTE]
Medication.
[QUOTE=Raijin;38953688]what's the fuel for your depression? you need to find the proverbial water for this fire.[/QUOTE]
well, i keep stumbling upon people that make me choke up online; ex-friends, people that have removed me, people that i am paranoid of because i think they hate me or something. that's a big one right there
there's also me just getting into a self-loathing mood where i nitpick everything about myself, which brings me even further down. like, i'm not good at drawing, i waste my money on dumb shit like art and games and food, i'm fat, etc.
my parents are an issue too, they constantly destroy my self-esteem. my mom passive-aggressively mocks me and belittles me for nearly everything i do, whilst my dad is more direct and yells at me, sometimes knocking the headset off of my head, pulling my hair and talking right into my ear. shit's terrifying.
honestly, out of those three issues i'm having, i think my parents are the biggest one. call it teenage angst, but i really don't like them and they are legitimately terrifying people
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;38953743]i waste my money on dumb shit like art and games and food, i'm fat, etc. [/QUOTE]
IMO money isn't wasted if you enjoy what it gets you, and you can afford to spare that money.
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;38953754]IMO money isn't wasted if you enjoy what it gets you, and you can afford to spare that money.[/QUOTE]
yeah, i think it's just me freaking out because there's so much stuff i wanna buy but there isn't enough money to buy it with :U
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