I would want to love and lose, because this whole 'never have been loved at all' thing is getting pretty shitty in my case.
[QUOTE=Shotacon;39163268]I feel incredibly lonely.[/QUOTE]
If you're 18 go on okcupid or something.
Otherwise, know that feel
Living in a small town sucks, can't wait to move to a city. Doubt I'll find a guy here.
[QUOTE=| Liam |;39163477]If you're 18 go on okcupid or something.
Otherwise, know that feel
Living in a small town sucks, can't wait to move to a city. Doubt I'll find a guy here.[/QUOTE]
I feel like I'm literally too nerdy for OKCupid. Why would any of these handsome guys want to know about me, a guy who spends his entire days sleeping, and entire nights on the computer?
>So lonely feeling night?
[QUOTE=Shotacon;39163615]I feel like I'm literally too nerdy for OKCupid. Why would any of these handsome guys want to know about me, a guy who spends his entire days sleeping, and entire nights on the computer?[/QUOTE]
There's people on dating sites who have hair in all of the opposite places where it should be, who are 65 and never moved out of their mother's basement, and who spend day in and day out searching ebay for the next piece for their rare collection of animation cels from a single episode of the care bear show.
I'm sure you can't be that bad.
Besides, if there's nobody out there for someone who spends all day and night on the computer than lots of us here are out of luck.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;39163707]There's people on dating sites who have hair in all of the opposite places where it should be, who are 65 and never moved out of their mother's basement, and who spend day in and day out searching ebay for the next piece for their rare collection of animation cels from a single episode of the care bear show.
I'm sure you can't be that bad.
Besides, if there's nobody out there for someone who spends all day and night on the computer than lots of us here are out of luck.[/QUOTE]
Most of the guys that actually hit on me on okcupid are handsome outgoing jocky guys though, they assume by looking at me that I'm like an apple store employee or something, handsome and talkative AND geeky. But I really am not. I'm just geeky. I'm even having troubles making simple friends on the internet now. I'm not a very interesting person to talk to, and a lot of people consider me annoying.
By the way, I'm 20, live in my mothers basement, I never have been anything other than low-class low-income, my mother is extremely religious and calls me a faggot whenever she's in a bad mood (always), My mother is also an alcoholic, I lost my job recently, my ipod was stolen recently, my 700$ bike broke recently, a guy I liked for a longass time is no longer single, and my computer's a piece of shit that can't run any decent games to keep me at least a little bit entertained.
My number one priority should probably be to look for a job, not pathetically whining to strangers on an internet forum, but the need for human affection is starting to bite me in the ass. Money is a good thing to have, but I am not a very wise spender. Most of the cash from my last job was basically just spent on video games and weed.
[QUOTE=| Liam |;39163477]If you're 18 go on okcupid or something.
Otherwise, know that feel
Living in a small town sucks, can't wait to move to a city. Doubt I'll find a guy here.[/QUOTE]
I wish I could move right now, small towns are the worst, especially out here.
stop buying games if none of them entertain you
hold off on the weed for a bit
get that job you want
save up
buy a new computer and/or save up a lot and rent an apartment if you don't liek your current arrangements
living with your mom at 20 isn't really that bad generally, but they way you describe her makes it seem like you'd rather not live with her
Stop bitching and go do something about it then?
I find it hard to actually meet people from site like okcupid and the like websites or so, it feels weird.
[QUOTE=Shotacon;39163766]
My number one priority should probably be to look for a job, not pathetically whining to strangers on an internet forum, but the need for human affection is starting to bite me in the ass. Money is a good thing to have, but I am not a very wise spender. The majority of the cash from my last job was basically just spent on video games and weed.[/QUOTE]
Well, you're on the right track of knowing your priorities. Set more goals like this for yourself, and make them realistic so that you can actually follow through with them. Seems like your ultimate goal here is to move out, so just make some plans to get yourself where you can.
[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;39163838]I find it hard to actually meet people from site like okcupid and the like websites or so, it feels weird.[/QUOTE]
I would have to be really desperate to use an online dating site. I prefer meeting face to face, especially after what just happened recently.
There isn't many starter jobs that you can even support yourself on anymore. It's getting worse as minimum wage decreases every year, along with rising tuition costs and college debt if I am willing to get a better one.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;39163905]I would have to be really desperate to use an online dating site. I prefer meeting face to face, especially after what just happened recently.[/QUOTE]
Well when you're done with school and work in the middle of nowhere it's pretty hard to meet people face to face out of the blue. (I don't go to bars.)
Online dating sites are more like for finding people, then going to take a coffee or something with em and begin from there imo, so you still meet face to face, the source is just different.
But it's so hard to find people on these sites that actually share interest or just come at you asking if you want to fuck :v:
[QUOTE=Shotacon;39163908]There isn't many starter jobs that you can even support yourself on anymore. It's getting worse as minimum wage decreases every year, along with rising tuition costs and college debt if I am willing to get a better one.[/QUOTE]
come live here people are yelling at the governor to raise the minimum wage to $10/hr i'm sure that's totally going to happen
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;39163928]come live here people are yelling at the governor to raise the minimum wage to $10/hr i'm sure that's totally going to happen[/QUOTE]
It isn't already? Pretty sure it is in Alberta.
Federal US minimum wage is $7.25. Certain other states have higher minimum wage (such as Florida, $7.67). I can't speak for other countries.
[QUOTE=Broguts;39163940]It isn't already? Pretty sure it is in Alberta.[/QUOTE]
not here in new york, it's $7.25 iirc
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[QUOTE=TehWhale;39163959]Federal US minimum wage is $7.25. Certain other states have higher minimum wage (such as Florida, $7.67). I can't speak for other countries.[/QUOTE]
what he said
[QUOTE=TehWhale;39163959]Federal US minimum wage is $7.25. Certain other states have higher minimum wage (such as Florida, $7.67). I can't speak for other countries.[/QUOTE]
Your minimum wage sucks, I feel for you.
Here in Québec the minimum wage is currently 9.90$, not so bad, but cost of living is a tad higher.
[QUOTE=Broguts;39163965]Your minimum wage sucks, I feel for you.[/QUOTE]
it's $5.15 in georgia so i can't really complain
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;39163978]it's $5.15 in georgia so i can't really complain[/QUOTE]holy shit what
also florida's is apparently higher??
[url]http://www.dol.gov/whd/minwage/america.htm[/url]
Its like 15 bucks (15.75 usd) and then some in South Australia
I'm on like 16ish at one job and ~25 at the other
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;39164012]Its like 15 bucks (15.75 usd) and then some in South Australia
I'm on like 16ish at one job and ~25 at the other[/QUOTE]
that's fair enough it's a risk just commuting unless you're in a tank in australia since everything wants you dead and all
it should be higher
Minimum wage where I live is $10.25
Now if I could get a job
I was lucky with my jobs lol
I get paid well enough, dont work very hard at either, and I've literally applied for 2 jobs ever, so 100% apply / hire ratio lol
My state has the highest minimum wage in the US, $9.19
[QUOTE=Gravity Ponds;39164012]Its like 15 bucks (15.75 usd) and then some in South Australia
I'm on like 16ish at one job and ~25 at the other[/QUOTE]
Holy hell, 15 buck for a min. wage? Damn aus. cost of living must be high, I guess?
Your min wage is more than I make D:
milks about $1 per liter (just under 4 bucks a gallon I think it works out to)
petrol's like a $1.40 a liter at the moment
Breads like $2.50 a loaf
[editline]10th January 2013[/editline]
[url]http://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/compare_countries_result.jsp?country1=United+States&country2=Australia[/url]
Yeah apparently we cost a lot more to live in
But like.. our healthcare shits on yours and such
Hmm.
Milk is 1.77$/Liter (Edited, checked a receipt)
Gas is 1.24$L
Bread, cheapest I can get is 1.99$, very small, a nice, let say, square bread and stuff, is around 3-4$
:|
(I'm in Canada by the way. Min wage is 9.90$, I make around 14$/hr)
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