• I've lost all my good friends and I'm close to ruining my family.
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Look, talk with your parents, and see a shrink. Your absolutely terrified of leaving your home. You want to die. You think the world hates you. [b]Go see a fucking shrink[/b]
[QUOTE=Llivavin;23040591]ITT facepunchers can't read signs. This kids issues can't just be solved with "take a break from the computer" Go see a psychologist/psychiatrist.[/QUOTE] It's the best thing you can do.
[QUOTE=ProboardslolV2;23040662]Start exercising. I found that once I started jogging regularly I had more motivation and work ethic to figure out my problems. I don't know why but exercising puts me in a good frame of mind and makes me want to be a better person. Once you start with exercising, it's all a barrel roll from there[/QUOTE] Exercising also = endorphins
Guys how is he going to get to a shrink without going outside. :v:
[QUOTE=Heroms;23040720]Guys how is he going to get to a shrink without going outside. :v:[/QUOTE] House calls.
I was like that for about until I was 14. Now I'm in a town with football freaks and I'm the only metalhead of those. Sure they may not be of my same interests and for a year in this town I stood in and did nothing because I thought, "Well if they don't share my interests why bother with them." Then I took a look at myself, didn't take care of my body and didn't dare to make a move because I think I'd look silly like you say you think so. I still don't take care of my looks and I'm just a dirty metalhead on the outside, but after so long being inside and lonely I tried the opposite and tried to learn a little bit about other people's interests. Sure I may have looked like an idiot trying to talk about how Messi scored a goal or some shit, but they looked stupid when they tried to talk about a song or how it made them feel, and thats the spark that made friends for me. Now I don't know if that will work for you, but when I moved I just kind of learned to not give a fuck. I lived in a rotten community full of racist black people. I was one of three white kids in a school with 500 black students who all held a grudge over white people for some reason. I got beat up sometimes for being white no joke. I thought it would ruin my life forever and I'd just be hopeless. Well you know what? I picked up and said fuck them. [B]TL;DR[/B] No one lives a life on roses. If I can learn how to pick up the "I dont give a fuck" attitude and adapt to my surroundings. So can you. Just you need that push and I see alot of motivation in your life.
Substance abuse.
Maybe I should see a psychologist or something... I don't know, I don't like the idea of talking to some person I do not know about this kind off stuff. And my problem isn't just to stand up on my own legs and just get myself together because that's what I've done my hole life. I've never been complaining, I've never told anyone about my troubles, I've never shown any sadness nor weekness. But it's my own legs that are failing me know, I can't go on lonely. The hard part about this is talking to my parents, because they'd never understand. Edit: I have tried working out, I went out running in the morning about 09:00 o'clock for about a week and so, but then I lost motivation and started thinking why am I doing this? And I quit.
[QUOTE=Offline;23040260]Commit suicide[/QUOTE] Shut up, alright? He obviously is going through a really hard time and he doesn't need little wank stains like you telling him to kill himself. What if you were in the same exact situation and someone told you to kill yourself? Fuck off. This is what is wrong with the world. Little faggots like you telling people to end their lives just because they're having a rough time in life. But you know what I think? I think since you constantly bash on other people, you have a shit life of your own and would rather make people feel bad instead of helping them. Congratulations, you win the Worst Troll ever award. Fucking faggot. [QUOTE=Omfgplosion;23040771]Substance abuse.[/QUOTE] You too, I hope your happy making others feel like shit. Anyways, just ignore everybody. Next time you go pick up food, don't look at anyone, or anything, just look right ahead. People will think "Wow that guy doesn't give a shit about anything! Badass."
Try drawing art or cooking.
You sound similar to me, but I'm able to keep my self esteem up. Which is probably part of my problem because to do that I mentally distance myself from other people. I want to get out more and actually talk to people so this weekend I'm thinking about going to some fireworks for the 4th of July, and see if I can at least talk to someone. I know you aren't American, but maybe you can go out on some holiday and try something similar? The same thing that happens to you when you try to talk to people happens to me. I just totally freeze, it's like my voice disappears and my jaw locks. No matter how much I want to say something I just can't. Like you, I'm afraid that I'll make a fool of myself if I try, but I just have to face that fear. It's really starting to interfere with my life. (I'm not afraid of going to the store though :v:)
[QUOTE=Soul-Chicken;23040112]Welcome to the Club[/QUOTE] What he said. ^
[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23040783]Maybe I should see a psychologist or something... I don't know, I don't like the idea of talking to some person I do not know about this kind off stuff. And my problem isn't just to stand up on my own legs and just get myself together because that's what I've done my hole life. I've never been complaining, I've never told anyone about my troubles, I've never shown any sadness nor weekness. But it's my own legs that are failing me know, I can't go on lonely. The hard part about this is talking to my parents, because they'd never understand. Edit: I have tried working out, I went out running in the morning about 09:00 o'clock for about a week and so, but then I lost motivation and started thinking why am I doing this? And I quit.[/QUOTE] go see a psyc[B]hiatrist[/B]. they can give you pills. But truly, there's no pill in the world that can beat good old fashioned exercise and sleep.
[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23040783]Maybe I should see a psychologist or something... I don't know, I don't like the idea of talking to some person I do not know about this kind off stuff. And my problem isn't just to stand up on my own legs and just get myself together because that's what I've done my hole life. I've never been complaining, I've never told anyone about my troubles, I've never shown any sadness nor weekness. But it's my own legs that are failing me know, I can't go on lonely. The hard part about this is talking to my parents, because they'd never understand. Edit: I have tried working out, I went out running in the morning about 09:00 o'clock for about a week and so, but then I lost motivation and started thinking why am I doing this? And I quit.[/QUOTE] A psychologists job is to understand, I went to one once when they were diagnosing my dyslexia so I don't really know how effective they are for cases like yours but I've met people who said they were depressed and that their psychologist helped them through it.
[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23040783]Maybe I should see a psychologist or something... I don't know, I don't like the idea of talking to some person I do not know about this kind off stuff. [b]And my problem isn't just to stand up on my own legs and just get myself together because that's what I've done my hole life. I've never been complaining, I've never told anyone about my troubles, I've never shown any sadness nor weekness. But it's my own legs that are failing me know, I can't go on lonely. The hard part about this is talking to my parents, because they'd never understand.[/b] Edit: I have tried working out, I went out running in the morning about 09:00 o'clock for about a week and so, but then I lost motivation and started thinking why am I doing this? And I quit.[/QUOTE] That's your problem. They are your parents. They will understand. If they don't, make them. Bottling all in is the worst, worst, worst, worst, worst thing you could do in your situation. Your clinically depressed. Running around a fucking track isn't going to make you happier, medical help and support from your parents will. also smash your computer. Your addicted.
Start hanging out with people shesh!
Gitcher self a girl, mate.
[QUOTE=ProboardslolV2;23040834]psyc[B]hiatrst[/B][/QUOTE] [IMG]http://i49.tinypic.com/m9x1d3.png[/IMG] Spell checker disagrees. Perhaps you mean psychiatrist but psychologist is also a word.
[QUOTE=tommyc225;23040118]Get new friends, move on. Put yourself out a little bit more. Go to an after school club of some sort to show your dad you're trying. Also, sad story bro.[/QUOTE] This sounds a hell lot like me, but I think I'm healthy. Thanks for the warning, I'll get off the computer now.
[QUOTE=wewt!;23040900][IMG]http://i49.tinypic.com/m9x1d3.png[/IMG] Spell checker disagrees. Perhaps you mean psychiatrist but psychologist is also a word.[/QUOTE] FUCK Yea, psychologist is a word but psychologists can't prescribe shit
[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23040783]Maybe I should see a psychologist or something... I don't know, I don't like the idea of talking to some person I do not know about this kind off stuff. And my problem isn't just to stand up on my own legs and just get myself together because that's what I've done my hole life. I've never been complaining, I've never told anyone about my troubles, I've never shown any sadness nor weekness. But it's my own legs that are failing me know, I can't go on lonely. The hard part about this is talking to my parents, because they'd never understand. Edit: I have tried working out, I went out running in the morning about 09:00 o'clock for about a week and so, but then I lost motivation and started thinking why am I doing this? And I quit.[/QUOTE] You really need to tell someone about how you feel. If you don't feel confident about talking to a psychiatrist, perhaps you should atleast write your thoughts down in a journal or something. Although seeing a psychiatrist is a better option.
I truly wish the school would be there for me, because that's the only way I could try to make me self somebody, it's the only place I meet people.
OP, I hope I don't get a response from you. You suffer from a multitude of mental disorders that I'm not going to try and diagnose, and the computer isn't helping. First, apply sledgehammer to computer. Second, see a shrink, talk with your parents, and go out there and make some friends. Stop making up fucking excuses as to why you can't, because you can. Anyone can. You just need to actually go out there and try to make friends.
[QUOTE=ProboardslolV2;23040930]FUCK Yea, psychologist is a word but psychologists can't prescribe shit[/QUOTE] For me that means they actually have to do their job :v:
I'm sort of like him, except that I occasionally go to my friends for movies/splitscreen gaming/party/bowling/raving and I actually do most of the chores in the house.
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;23040960]OP, I hope I don't get a response from you. You suffer from a multitude of mental disorders that I'm not going to try and diagnose, and the computer isn't helping. First, apply sledgehammer to computer. Second, See a shrink, talk with your parents, and go out there and make some friends. Stop making up fucking excuses as to why you can't. You just have to try.[/QUOTE] How about ''no'' on the sledgehammer + computer part, he should see a shrink before he DIY's his issues.
[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23040950]I truly wish the school would be there for me, because that's the only way I could try to make me self somebody, it's the only place I meet people.[/QUOTE] Make it be there for you. Take on the I don't give a fuck attitude and talk to people, make friends, join clubs, etc.
[QUOTE=wewt!;23040986]How about ''no'' on the sledgehammer + computer part, he should see a shrink before he DIY's his issues.[/QUOTE] He's addicted to the computer. He knows this. If you were addicted to heroin and trying to quit, would you leave it all over the house?
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;23040960]OP, I hope I don't get a response from you. You suffer from a multitude of mental disorders that I'm not going to try and diagnose, and the computer isn't helping. First, apply sledgehammer to computer. Second, see a shrink, talk with your parents, and go out there and make some friends. Stop making up fucking excuses as to why you can't, because you can. Anyone can. You just need to actually go out there and try to make friends.[/QUOTE] Birthday parties sort of help. Does the OP have friends who are interested in movies or gaming?
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;23040960]You just need to actually go out there and try to make friends.[/QUOTE] I try.. and end up getting two faced or backstabbed.
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