I've lost all my good friends and I'm close to ruining my family. - General

I'll quote myself: "my mother is at a festivale for 3 days (she left today) and my dad is at a friends place getting drunk. " I'll talk to my mom, she'd understand me. My dad not really reliable.

[QUOTE=BagMinge101;23041352]I wasn't talking to you via that blank-quote.[/QUOTE] K then

[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23041553]I'll quote myself: "my mother is at a festivale for 3 days (she left today) and my dad is at a friends place getting drunk. " I'll talk to my mom, she'd understand me. My dad not really reliable.[/QUOTE] Oh. Well, why don't you get off the computer and play music or something to pass the time.

[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23041553]I'll quote myself: "my mother is at a festivale for 3 days (she left today) and my dad is at a friends place getting drunk. " I'll talk to my mom, she'd understand me. My dad not really reliable.[/QUOTE] Alright then, when they return, speak to them.

Try reading, it should help you relax.

[QUOTE=BagMinge101;23041580]Oh. Well, why don't you get off the computer and play music or something to pass the time.[/QUOTE] I'm gonna try to go to bed, but I need to be really tired to be able to sleep because I think too much. Edit: I read, alot! It's one of the biggest parts of my life.

if you can go buy some weights, like dumbells and follow a routine. It'll help you feel better. More endorphins and more confidence. Not saying it'll solve everything, but it'll help.

[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23041603]I'm gonna try to go to bed, but I need to be really tired to be able to sleep because I think too much. Edit: I read, alot! It's one of the biggest parts of my life.[/QUOTE] If you can't get to sleep easily, it means you're not active enough during the day.

Call your old friends, go out with them. If you really feel that bad about sitting at the computer then just say fuck it, quit the games at least for a day, hell, even half the day is a good start and do something else (take a ride for example). Also people sometimes are glad to meet old friends and if you don't push it too much even care for your problems.

I sorta had this problem. I joined a martial arts. I now can defend myself, have a high confidence, and made a bunch of friends, it also got me away from the computer, but you should also see a therapist. They'll help you too. Good luck bro. :ohdear:

I'm shy as fuck, not as much as I used to be for sure, but thats because I switched schools back in 8th grade and became the moody mysterious guy everyone wanted to know :frogc00l:

Call your friends, tell them your story, fuck around with them, go to a bar, get wasted with them, become best friends.

Another "I'm going to kill myself because I have x bad feelings and my x is gone/ruined" thread? Step 1: Go outside and try talking to people, get a new friend or two, no one is stopping you, do things with your parents. Step 2: Grow up, no one cares that you're going to the store to buy something, no one is going to think you look weird. Step 3: Talk to your parents or a shrink about the problems you're having and try to fix them. Tip: Don't kill yourself, if your parents care about you, you'll only be hurting them for the rest of their lives.

[QUOTE=radioactive;23041625]If you can't get to sleep easily, it means you're not active enough during the day.[/QUOTE] Yes, I know that.

[QUOTE=Francis;23041483]You know what you need to do, get a Harley and hit the road. Outdoors will do ya better. Otherwise, shit happens.[/QUOTE] to 'francis' bastards like you need to get a life. you may be fun once in a while but now your getting annoying.

[QUOTE=Terawattz;23041744]Another "I'm going to kill myself because I have x bad feelings and my x is gone/ruined" thread? Step 1: Go outside and try talking to people, get a new friend or two, no one is stopping you, do things with your parents. Step 2: Grow up, no one cares that you're going to the store to buy something, no one is going to think you look weird. Step 3: Talk to your parents or a shrink about the problems you're having and try to fix them. Tip: Don't kill yourself, if your parents care about you, you'll only be hurting them for the rest of their lives.[/QUOTE] Nope, it's not. Read the thread.

i died once

Also if you do things for other people for free or give them free shit it makes you feel better. I'm going to go mow my neighbor's lawn in 30 minutes for free. It may also have something to do with they're from Thailand and I like Asian immigrants.

I agree with the rest of the people. See a shrink and try out some sports. Martial Arts is a good one. Do some community service. It might make you feel better.

Rede mit deinem Vater. Mann zu Mann. Er muss es verstehen. Es ist wichtig, dass du das nicht mit deiner Mutter besprichst, die ohnehin immer gnädig mit dir ist. Dein Vater hat auch Teil an der Familie. Versuch ihn nur nüchtern zu erwischen. (Assuming by your Name that you are german, if not, my bad.) Talk to your Father. It's important, because he is not that merciful with your mistakes. I guess your mother wil only soothe-talk you, and nothing will happen. Your Father is the one who is left with a big deal of Responsibility for the Family. But try to catch him when he's sober. Until then, Rated heart - Hope it gets better.

[QUOTE=Landen85;23042076]Rede mit deinem Vater. Mann zu Mann. Er muss es verstehen. Es ist wichtig, dass du das nicht mit deiner Mutter besprichst, die ohnehin immer gnädig mit dir ist. Dein Vater hat auch Teil an der Familie. Versuch ihn nur nüchtern zu erwischen. (Assuming by your Name that you are german, if not, my bad.) Talk to your Father. It's important, because he is not that merciful with your mistakes. I guess your mother wil only soothe-talk you, and nothing will happen. Your Father is the one who is left with a big deal of Responsibility for the Family. But try to catch him when he's sober. Until then, Rated heart - Hope it gets better.[/QUOTE] Thanks and, no I'm not German. My name is referring to Phil Ochs actually who was... Ah you can look him up if you want to. Anyway, perhaps yes. My dad is really cool and so, it's just that he started drinking pretty bad.

Just want to say, hang in there. You just need to find something that you really like in life, something that makes you enjoy life. Like a girl or a hobby.

[QUOTE=MrJazzy;23042133]Just want to say, hang in there. You just need to find something that you really like in life, something that makes you enjoy life. Like a girl or a hobby.[/QUOTE] Hmm, yeah a hobby that would be. I'd never be able to get a girl to like me, atleast no one that I like.

[QUOTE=Frazah;23040787]Shut up, alright? He obviously is going through a really hard time and he doesn't need little wank stains like you telling him to kill himself. What if you were in the same exact situation and someone told you to kill yourself? Fuck off. This is what is wrong with the world. Little faggots like you telling people to end their lives just because they're having a rough time in life. But you know what I think? I think since you constantly bash on other people, you have a shit life of your own and would rather make people feel bad instead of helping them. Congratulations, you win the Worst Troll ever award. Fucking faggot. You too, I hope your happy making others feel like shit. Anyways, just ignore everybody. Next time you go pick up food, don't look at anyone, or anything, just look right ahead. People will think "Wow that guy doesn't give a shit about anything! Badass."[/QUOTE] Take a chillaxitive, jeez. The OP should be offended because he was asking for it and expected it, not you.

[QUOTE=Don Ochs;23042150]Hmm, yeah a hobby that would be. I'd never be able to get a girl to like me, atleast no one that I like.[/QUOTE] Hmm.. never say never. Although I wouldn't concentrate on finding a girl right now, get your life in a way you like first.

[QUOTE=Offline;23042283]Take a chillaxitive, jeez. The OP should be offended because he was asking for it and expected it, not you.[/QUOTE] I'm sure he knew he would get such posts, but if you're going to post something like "kill yourself" then you have to expect people telling you to fuck off too.

May i ask what the name of this kid with "mental problems" was?

Internet friends > Real friends when they are all drug abusers. Thats how it is for me anyway.

Find 2 new friends that's it. Fuck having 18000 friends that you don't give a shit about. Hell add me on steam man and I will talk to you

I've found myself blowing off my friends a lot too, but for different reasons. Mainly because they always plan shit last minute and I can't get money/transport/whatever at the last fucking minute so I always pop off at them. Just don't worry about it dude. I used to be a massive geek (still am) but just be yourself and be confident. I remember getting bullied back when I was wee, but anyone tries anything now? You bet I'll fight tooth and bone. Go outside, talk to people and don't worry. Sit in a restaurant/mall/wherever kids hang out where you live and if they talk about something you do, be like "Oh! You like X as well?" Commonalities make great friendships.