[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;33033810]Going to college in a bigger city with people coming there from all kinds of different places means more chance of meeting people I have stuff in common with.
[editline]29th October 2011[/editline]
I'm not denying anything. Whenever I talk about girls I like I even say I know I'll never talk to them.[/QUOTE]
I honestly don't expect you to change much. If this is your mindset this late on in high school, you're going to stay a cynical mess and nitpick at everyone you meet. You need to get out of your little world and realize that you don't need to have anything in common to meet people. It's also never too late to change an opinion of you. Humans are well, human. They are always subject to change. This applies to you too. If you sit around and say things will change eventually, you'll stay just like that, sitting around waiting for change to come to you.
You need to get up off your ass because guess what sweetie, you're not gonna change in college unless you change now.
[editline]30th October 2011[/editline]
On a lighter note, I'm getting into Homestuck and holy shit, I've never laughed so hard at typed dialogue in my life.
[QUOTE=Dark Descent;33033901]I honestly don't expect you to change much. If this is your mindset this late on in high school, you're going to stay a cynical mess and nitpick at everyone you meet. You need to get out of your little world and realize that you don't need to have anything in common to meet people. It's also never too late to change an opinion of you. Humans are well, human. They are always subject to change. This applies to you too. If you sit around and say things will change eventually, you'll stay just like that, sitting around waiting for change to come to you.
You need to get up off your ass because guess what sweetie, you're not gonna change in college unless you change now.
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What needs to happen first is everyone needs to grow the fuck up and be more accepting of differences. Then I'll be more willing to talk to people because I won't be absolutely terrified of them making fun of me for my interests.
[QUOTE=Dark Descent;33033901]I honestly don't expect you to change much. If this is your mindset this late on in high school, you're going to stay a cynical mess and nitpick at everyone you meet. You need to get out of your little world and realize that you don't need to have anything in common to meet people. It's also never too late to change an opinion of you. Humans are well, human. They are always subject to change. This applies to you too. If you sit around and say things will change eventually, you'll stay just like that, sitting around waiting for change to come to you.
You need to get up off your ass because guess what sweetie, you're not gonna change in college unless you change now.[/QUOTE]
I agree, and @ Taep honestly if you haven't tried it, therapy really DOES help. Not psychology, i mean therapy. Someone cool to talk to who won't judge you, but give you tips on how to be better socially without changing who you are. It's worked for me. Maybe it can work for you too. You just gotta give it a chance, just try striking up a conversation. Life is not supposed to be skirted safely around, its meant to be charged through, getting the most of every experience possible, LIVE LIFE DUDE. You will suffer hardships, you will gain victories, its all part of life, as is the ability to accept you are different and move on, not letting it hold you back. Just let go of those fears.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;33033949]What needs to happen first is everyone needs to grow the fuck up and be more accepting of differences.[/QUOTE]
YOU NEED TO DO THIS, STOP PROJECTING TO EVERYONE ELSE, YOU NEED TO CHANGE TOO. NO-ONE IS GOING TO MAKE FUN OF YOU FOR YOUR INTERESTS, WE DON'T LIVE IN SOME FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL SITCOM.
#DRAMA. FUCKING DRAMA ERREWHERE
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;33033951]I agree, and @ Taep honestly if you haven't tried it, therapy really DOES help. Not psychology, i mean therapy. Someone cool to talk to who won't judge you, but give you tips on how to be better socially without changing who you are. It's worked for me. Maybe it can work for you too. [/QUOTE]
My mom wanted me to do that shit a couple years ago. I told her to fuck off and it was never mentioned again.
YOUR ENTIRE FUCKIGN ARGUMENT REVOLVES AROUND HOW EVERYONE ELSE CAUSES YOU TO BE SCARED OF THEM. CHANGE YOUR FUCKING PAMPERS AND WAKE THE FUCK UP, YOU CAUSE YOUR SELF TO BE LIKE THIS BECAUSE BAWWWWWW EVERYONE ELSE NEEDS TO CHANGE. NO. BULLSHIT. YOU LIVE IN SOME DELUDED FANTASY WORLD BECAUSE EVERYONE NEEDS TO FUCKING ACCOMMODATE YOU AND YOUR NEEDS. THE WORLD DOESN'T FUCKING REVOLVE AROUND YOU AND YOUR ANGSTY VIEWS. THIS IS WHY YOU CAN'T TALK TO OTHERS, THIS IS WHY PEOPLE DON'T TALK TO YOU, YOU BRING THIS UPON YOURSELF. IF YOU'D UNFUCK YOURSELF AND MAYBE CHANGE, LOOSEN UP A LITTLE, EVERYTHING WOULD BE A LOT DIFFERENT. ALSO A MAIL ORDER RUSSIAN BRIDE WOULDN'T LIKE BLACK/DEATH METAL EITHER SO SHE'S NOT AN OPTION FOR YOU.
EVERYTHING WORKS TWO WAYS, AND REQUIRES INPUT FROM BOTH PARTIES SO GUESS WHAT, YOU CAN'T SIT ON YOUR PALE ASS ALL DAY AND EXPECT SHIT TO CHANGE.
Life opens up when you do. And I can attest to that statement.
Ok, maybe I would talk to people if I knew what the fuck to talk about and actually had a chance to talk to some people who look like people I would like to get to know. There's one girl I want to get to know but I don't have any classes with her so I never get a chance to talk to her. And I'm not just randomly going up to her when I see her in the hallways because that's fucking weird.
Talk to her.
[QUOTE=Dark Descent;33034130]Talk to her.[/QUOTE]
When and about what?
Also she added me on Facebook a while ago for some reason but that's not a great place to start talking to someone. And she's almost never on there anyway.
At the very least, pass her and say hi or something. At least throw in a quick "How are you?"
Or I can just do what I've been doing and pretend she doesn't exist but that doesn't help me change at all.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;33034209]Or I can just do what I've been doing and pretend she doesn't exist but that doesn't help me change at all.[/QUOTE]
No shit?
Yeah fuck it I know I'm not going to ever talk to her.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;33034143]When and about what?
Also she added me on Facebook a while ago for some reason but that's not a great place to start talking to someone. And she's almost never on there anyway.[/QUOTE]
Message on facebook. "Hey I see you in the halls every so often, and I'm such a cynical asshole that barely anyone stands out to me but you do so like we should talk about how boring I am."
I don't know, just say hi or something. I smile at people in the hallways that I don't know, that's how I met one of my now closest friends.
Just fucking say hi! Is a simple pass in the hallway combined with a greeting that hard?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;33034288]Yeah fuck it I know I'm not going to ever talk to her.[/QUOTE]
god dammit
I'm gonna try to lighten the mood in here, this is from my steam chat:
Razgriz 25th inf. [h+]³: Also, i think my mom is onto me. I was talking about my awesome model of Chell, and she said: "Why are you obssesed with her? You like her or something?" I gave her a "you-fuckin-srs?" look, and she retorted with: "Ha! You're in love with Chell!" I rolled my eyes, but i did an OHSHITSHEFOUNDMYPORN In my mind.
Froztshock: Pokerface.
[QUOTE=TehG3A3;33034326]Just fucking say hi! Is a simple pass in the hallway combined with a greeting that hard?[/QUOTE]
Yes that actually is difficult for me. And the fact that I want to be more than just friends with her makes ti even more difficult because I'll just be putting myself under even more pressure not to fuck up.
If that's too difficult then give up. You're a hopeless waste of a human if you can't fucking greet someone in the hallway.
dude, lighten up. Also, why not talk to people about things not in your interests? Ask them about their interests, or talk about shared experiences like school or teachers.
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;33034412]If that's too difficult then give up. You're a hopeless waste of a human if you can't fucking greet someone in the hallway.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure but I think you took it too far.
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;33034412]If that's too difficult then give up. You're a hopeless waste of a human if you can't fucking greet someone in the hallway.[/QUOTE]
No.
[editline]30th October 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=iFail;33034445]dude, lighten up. Also, why not talk to people about things not in your interests? Ask them about their interests, or talk about shared experiences like school or teachers.[/QUOTE]
this.
[QUOTE=iFail;33034445]dude, lighten up. Also, why not talk to people about things not in your interests? Ask them about their interests, or talk about shared experiences like school or teachers.[/QUOTE]
Well I guess their interest are equally boring to me as mine are to them so I guess we have somewhere to start.
No, i'm sick to death of having to bend over backwards just to not step on any toes around here and he just fucking complains and complains and complains but assures us that he can't do anything, and doesn't want to do anything even though we are trying the hardest we can to console him even though he started the whole shitstorm. If i started that shitstorm i would have been run out of town by now. If you're not going to do anything about this, as simple as saying hi everytime you see her, then go wallow in self-pity elsewhere, i have shit to do and i really don't want to refresh every two seconds just to get pissed off that you haven't reached an epiphany about that you CAN do it yet. He doesn't want to help himself, and he won't let us help him, so why bother?
[QUOTE=ossumsauce;33034488]No, i'm sick to death of having to bend over backwards just to not step on any toes around here and he just fucking complains and complains and complains but assures us that he can't do anything, and doesn't want to do anything even though we are trying the hardest we can to console him even though he started the whole shitstorm. If i started that shitstorm i would have been run out of town by now. If you're not going to do anything about this, as simple as saying hi everytime you see her, then go wallow in self-pity elsewhere, i have shit to do and i really don't want to refresh every two seconds just to get pissed off that you haven't reached an epiphany about that you CAN do it yet. He doesn't want to help himself, and he won't let us help him, so why bother?[/QUOTE]
If you have better shit to do then get out of the damn thread.
I'm here because i had the courtesy to care about another human's well being, but frankly i couldn't less of a shit if you won't accept my help. I'm trying to shock you into reality, the world cannot change around you, will not change, you are the manifestor of your own destiny, and you clearly don't give a fuck so don't complain to us about how nobody likes you because it's your fault. Look, iv'e seen this same scenario 3 times now, each time we tried so hard to make you feel better but no matter what, someone even mentions electronic music, you are for starters extremely closed-minded about that, then go to complain about how closed-minded people won't conform to your standards, then you complain about how you can't man up and say hi to a girl in the hall. I mean really, nobody could be that close to pissing their pants with anxiety by saying hi to a girl in the hall.
Speaking of shit storms, what ever happened to MeMassiveFag? Did we run him out?
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