[QUOTE=ImBill;16618567]im not sure what that means
but it seems you aren't having a bad day and that's good
bye[/QUOTE]
:golfclap:
[QUOTE=I Memo;16614529]:sigh: I doubt there's any physical force preventing those who are "getting some" to go on fp...
Personally, I am getting "a bit" and I can certainly tell you what a forum is, kind sir[/QUOTE]
Ah, I never said I was promoting a direct relationship between the two. Certainly there would not be a force doing such a thing, that would be illogical. But if you look just a wee bit beyond the literal meaning of what I wrote, you will understand my friend, kind sir.
Be religious. I've been depressed and thinking suicidal because my girlfriend dumped me. Her reason: wasn't feeling the same. The real reason she's told everyone but me: She needs a Christian guy in her future. Someone with morals she says.
But fuck, I'm the one who gives two shits about hunting, animals, and all that jazz, while she doesn't care.
Rawr.
But really, being religious does help.
[QUOTE=Throosh;16596156]Relationships are overrated, which is exactly why I have never had one and never plan to[/QUOTE]
Apparently this man speaks from experience.
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[QUOTE=Aries;16619345]Be religious. I've been depressed and thinking suicidal because my girlfriend dumped me. Her reason: wasn't feeling the same. The real reason she's told everyone but me: She needs a Christian guy in her future. Someone with morals she says.
But fuck, I'm the one who gives two shits about hunting, animals, and all that jazz, while she doesn't care.
Rawr.
But really, being religious does help.[/QUOTE]
Being religious would only help if you were going to be dating a religious girl.
In my opinion, if two people with different religious beliefs that they really care about come together, then there will only be problems in the future.
And if that's why she said she left you, there's probably something else that really irked her. Because that really sounds like an excuse.
That is, unless you were a complete dick and that's what she meant by "Your morals"
Christians have fucked up morals.
I find girls that smoke/drink underage are unattractive.
I think if she drugs HERSELF out of her own volition then it isn't rape
[QUOTE=Bangjangles;16619460]Being religious would only help if you were going to be dating a religious girl.
In my opinion, if two people with different religious beliefs that they really care about come together, then there will only be problems in the future.
And if that's why she said she left you, there's probably something else that really irked her. Because that really sounds like an excuse.
That is, unless you were a complete dick and that's what she meant by "Your morals"[/QUOTE]
Don't worry, I wasn't a dick. According to all her best friends, I'm the sweetest guys they've met, and they're actually disappointed in her.
And she told me it wasn't right any more, the thing that irked her was that I wasn't religious.
But hey, I've moved on already. I'm in love with Lankist's posts.
[QUOTE=Lankist;16619606]I think if she drugs HERSELF out of her own volition then it isn't rape[/QUOTE]
Agreed, rated tick.
If you seriously consider changing your religious affiliation for a girl, they yes, you are a dick.
[QUOTE=Doriol;16619987]If you seriously consider changing your religious affiliation for a girl, they yes, you are a dick.[/QUOTE]
Not to her I wasn't.
[QUOTE=Aries;16619995]Not to her I wasn't.[/QUOTE]
You're still a dick for suggesting it.
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[QUOTE=Doriol;16619525]Christians have fucked up morals.[/QUOTE]
Not all. Only the really crazy ones. :( And then we all get a bad name because of those mother fuckers.
[QUOTE=PromiscuousPancake;16623120]Not all. [B]Only the really crazy ones.[/B] :( And then we all get a bad name because of those mother fuckers.[/QUOTE]
Crazy is a relative term defined by society. To me, you are crazy if you believe in a god.
On Topic: Uh, I dunno. Smart, interesting, yada yada yada. Smoking = bad, other drugs = bad. I think the biggest thing would be if the girl wasn't ignorant about stuff and willing to challenge her own beliefs, too many closed minded people in this world.
[QUOTE=Kybalt;16623682]Crazy is a relative term defined by society. To me, you are crazy if you believe in a god.
On Topic: Uh, I dunno. Smart, interesting, yada yada yada. Smoking = bad, other drugs = bad. I think the biggest thing would be if the girl wasn't ignorant about stuff and willing to challenge her own beliefs, too many closed minded people in this world.[/QUOTE]
Well, I mean the ones who go around trying to convert everyone using the worst methods possible.
"YOU'RE GOING TO HELL IF YOU BLAHBAGSJGASG"
I'm Christian, but honestly, if someone wants to be left alone, I'm not going to force my believes down their throat. :| Which I don't think anyone should do.
BUT YEAH
I just get a teeny bit defensive sometimes when people label all Christians as insane people who go around trying to hit people with the Bible. My parents have big roles in our church, especially my dad who is one of the pastors.
But I agree that some Christians need to be slapped in the face. x__x
/thread derail
I'm done.
I just got out of a relationship with a pretty cute girl, I thought she was annoying most of the time. I was happy it ended but now, every day I feel like I miss her more and more. :(
Someone who isn't going to cheat on you. That's the worst feeling in the world when that happens.
[QUOTE=Cluckyx;16616990]I've got to say, coming to FP to talk about relationships is like going to a PETA forum for advice of how to be a butcher.
But if you insist. I've been with my current GF for 4 years, we've been living together for 2 1/2 and guess it's been going pretty swell. The reason it works for us is we're not so much girlfriend and boyfriend more best buddys who fuck regularly.
We can do the whole romantic shit, we can sit down and make small talk, I can cook dinner and buy a bottle of wine. Or we can break out 'Splosion Man and play 2 player for the night and swill a fuckton of beers then watch a movie. She's a bit of a Tomboy, but we have a very similar sense of humour, she's not nearly as nerdy as me, but she can understand the general gist of whatever technoshit I babble.
We both earn money, we don't leech off of eachother, we keep it simple. For all I know we could be together for another 3 months or another 30 years. I just intend to enjoy it while it's good.
Is that so bad?[/QUOTE]
Our brains are hardwired to stay intimately close to another after a sexual relationship. The culprit behind this neurotransmitter is called Phenylethylamine (PEA). This lasts for four to five years before it drops and couples lose interest in each other. Coincidentally, divorce rates between couples peak on the fifth year of marriage. Frequent coitus (sex) releases oxytocin which keep a bond between a couple strong. So frequent sex with a mate would mean a strong oxytocin but what do you do if you will be separated for any period of time (several months?) That determines who will be married for 50+ years and who will be divorced.
[QUOTE=Wolf_Marine;16625639]Our brains are hardwired to stay intimately close to another after a sexual relationship. The culprit behind this neurotransmitter is called Phenylethylamine (PEA).[/QUOTE]
The "culprit" is actually Dopamine. Phenylethylamine is a neuromodulator and isn't really responsible for that effect. It's also not hardwired, it's psychological, as Dopamine is related to the reward-learning system. The brain simply learns that having sex with someone modulates dopamine and thus they'll want to do it again as a result.
[QUOTE=Wolf_Marine;16625639]Frequent coitus (sex) releases oxytocin which keep a bond between a couple strong.[/QUOTE]
Only for women.
[quote]On Topic: Uh, I dunno. Smart, interesting, yada yada yada. Smoking = bad, other drugs = bad. I think the biggest thing would be if the girl wasn't ignorant about stuff and willing to challenge her own beliefs, too many closed minded people in this world.[/quote]
You say all drugs are bad and then you say there are too many closed-minded people in the world.
You're kind of stupid.
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