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[QUOTE=Neb;26419347]I'm failing school, I am an in extremely bad habit/cycle of not doing my homework and I can't help it. I just have no attention span at all, and I get bored of even the most important assignments. I am now in an extreme state of panic and I almost feel like my life has no meaning anymore. I don't have a girlfriend, I feel like my friends are cooler than me. Where the fuck has my life gone? What the hell is wrong with me? The only thing I am really good at is singing and the drums and I am too nervous and shy to try and join any bands or something. Sometimes I feel like I should kill myself, but that would make me a coward. I just can't find meaning in my life anymore and I don't know what I am going to do with myself. That helped a little bit, I am sort of in tears right now though, I dug myself into a deep hole and I don't think I will be able to get out.[/QUOTE] Take Sector 7 with you.

[QUOTE=not_Morph53;26419905]Take Sector 7 with you.[/QUOTE] I don't get it. Are you trying to be a douchbag? Whats Sector 7? [editline]1st December 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=Sector 7;26419752]Don't kill yourself. If you're about to kill yourself, think for a moment: If you've got nothing to lose, you can do anything you want. Hitchhike across the country. A friend of mine did that after highschool, and now he's got a job (and a purpose) in Australia. Or get a job as a deckhand aboard a ship. Join the army, or join the French foreign legion and learn a new language. Just get out of where you are. Seeing the world will give you new perspectives and experience - at the very least, it'll make you thankful for what you had. If you're still stuck in highschool, tell your feelings to your teachers, or a guidance counselor - they are there to make the system work for you. At the very least, you can get put in easier classes if you're failing. Talk to your parents if you think it'll help (though it may not.) You've always got more options than you think.[/QUOTE] Also yes, this is a thing I really want to do. I think traveling the world and just having fun and meeting new people would be awesome, I am sick of fucking school and it's system. All of it is bullshit, if you want to get good grades and be a boring lawyer or doctor or some shit be my guest, but I want to actually get out there and experience new things and not waste my life on a desk 7 hours almost ever day. I mean I understand grades are important, but I think grades are out of the question for me. I don't have the attention span to sit on a desk and listen about boring bullshit. The only class I really enjoy is World Civ and Astrology because I love learning about new places and history. God I feel like I am in a fucking prison in this state, I just want to get all my friends and go on a world tour or some shit. I want to be like Anthony Bordain or something lol.

[QUOTE=Neb;26420152]I don't get it. Are you trying to be a douchbag? Whats Sector 7? [editline]1st December 2010[/editline] Also yes, this is a thing I really want to do. I think traveling the world and just having fun and meeting new people would be awesome, I am sick of fucking school and it's system. All of it is bullshit, if you want to get good grades and be a boring lawyer or doctor or some shit be my guest, but I want to actually get out there and experience new things and not waste my life on a desk 7 hours almost ever day. I mean I understand grades are important, but I think grades are out of the question for me. I don't have the attention span to sit on a desk and listen about boring bullshit. The only class I really enjoy is World Civ and Astrology because I love learning about new places and history. God I feel like I am in a fucking prison in this state, I just want to get all my friends and go on a world tour or some shit.[/QUOTE] I may be referring to the user that you were going to quote, before you even quoted him, but I dunno, I'm a psychic douchebag.

[QUOTE=not_Morph53;26420352]I may be referring to the user that you were going to quote, before you even quoted him, but I dunno, I'm a psychic douchebag.[/QUOTE] Oh I didn't even read his name so I was like what the hell are you talking about :P. See, I don't pay attention to these things.

[QUOTE=Neb;26420152]I just want to get all my friends and go on a world tour or some shit.[/QUOTE] They give enlistment bonuses if you get your friends to do it too. Seriously. Join the air force. Fuel jets in Korea for 4 years, then have them pay for your college.

Why do people tend to be dicks for no reason at all?

[QUOTE=Sector 7;26420390]They give enlistment bonuses if you get your friends to do it too. Seriously. Join the air force. Fuel jets in Korea for 4 years, then have them pay for your college.[/QUOTE] I don't think the military would be my thing, I don't want to get stationed in an area for 4 years, the whole point is for me to travel across the world to as many different places as possible. I don't know where I am going to get the damn money from though, god this sucks.

[QUOTE=Neb;26420595]I don't think the military would be my thing, I don't want to get stationed in an area for 4 years, the whole point is for me to travel across the world to as many different places as possible. I don't know where I am going to get the damn money from though, god this sucks.[/QUOTE] See if you can contact a Sister Cities exchange program in your area. If you're still a student in high school, you can volunteer yourself for student exchange trips to all sorts of other countries. You'll still have to spend some money, but this program is considerably cheaper than just traveling and staying in a hotel. I was an exchange student in Germany for a couple of months through Sister Cities. Normally it costs about a thousand bucks to get into the program, but I won a scholarship through an essay contest and got to go for free. Yours may have scholarship programs along the same lines, if you're lucky! If you're still in high school, ask the school counselor if she knows of any exchange programs. The schools are usually involved with them, and if you've got one she might be able to direct you to the right people to talk to.

[QUOTE=Leaf Runner;26368807]Why are there so many people on facepunch lately trying to find hope in their hopeless lives through virtual ratings shaped like hearts? Grow up, get a social life.[/QUOTE] Have you heard of human compassion? Hope? I don't care much for people who make ignorant comments like this.

This reminded me of [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80GM64HkF5g[/media]

[QUOTE=xpod1;26421426]This reminded me of [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80GM64HkF5g[/media][/QUOTE] That's actually a pretty good song. Also, I'm glad you guys are helping each other out :buddy: More terrible-attempt-at help coming tomorrow.

I will never bump this thread, ever again, I swear Fuck yeah, broke my own automerge

[QUOTE=Goggles;26442520]I will never bump this thread, ever again, I swear Fuck yeah, broke my own automerge[/QUOTE] Looks like no one needs help for now... Nice read on this thread at least.

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;26420585]Why do people tend to be dicks for no reason at all?[/QUOTE] I'll use my poor knowledge of human nature and say that it's usually a attempt to show dominance over someone and prove their strength.

My ex-girlfriend dumped me after a four months because she was a Christian and she said that I was distracting her with her walk of faith. I'm not a great Christian, but at least I supported her about it. Now she's with another guy and they're getting serious. The guy (one of my old classmates) is an Atheist. I'm not so sad about our break up, but it's how ignorant she is that makes me angry. I've never found getting over somebody so hard because it just infuriates me to see how she is acting about everything. Oh, and she acts to me like everything is normal and everything is fine. FUCK.

... And that's why yellow makes me sad...

[QUOTE=Nate;26463225]My ex-girlfriend dumped me after a four months because she was a Christian and she said that I was distracting her with her walk of faith. I'm not a great Christian, but at least I supported her about it. Now she's with another guy and they're getting serious. The guy (one of my old classmates) is an Atheist. I'm not so sad about our break up, but it's how ignorant she is that makes me angry. I've never found getting over somebody so hard because it just infuriates me to see how she is acting about everything. Oh, and she acts to me like everything is normal and everything is fine. FUCK.[/QUOTE] I hope you realize it was all just an excuse to break up, correct? :< Also, a lot of people like to deal with stress through denial, so keep that in mind.

[QUOTE=Goggles;26479049]I hope you realize it was all just an excuse to break up, correct? :< Also, a lot of people like to deal with stress through denial, so keep that in mind.[/QUOTE] That's actually really true. Thank you stranger :)

Know what sure, I'll get rocks tossed at me or something. I left my hometown to help my mom get away from my abusive dad, went to work in the oil fields and get some major money from it. Started out alright but soon me not having a home became a problem, was staying with a friend at his families farm house in the middle of nowhere. Friend said it was free and I had a home. Time passes and I haven't been assigned to a rig, I'm on my last few dollars and my friends family is getting annoyed that I haven't been called out to work yet. As a result I call my work and find out they overstaffed and are trying to find a way to get me in but not coming up with anything. Therefor I'm sent home broke after having to sell my wii and 360. I get out of my car and my friends dad then springs that he's expecting 700 dollars from me for boarding, and that while my friend thought it was free, apparently it wasn't and he'll hunt me down if I can't get him the money. Now I'm back at my tiny apartment, only 50 bucks for grocries for two weeks, with none of my games, my cars busted up, I owe a guy money I'm not sure how to get, and I need to find a way to help my mother out. Sigh.

I posted a thread back in September of how bad my summer was. I'll take the main points - Was about to leave to a trip through Europe, but instead I walk in on my best friend laying dead on his floor after he shot himself in the head. - A month before that, my Jack Russell of 12 years was hit by a car and killed. The dog I got to replace him, which was a Border Collie (I've wanted one all my life) developed severe brain damage after I got him and I had to put him down - My parents got a divorce right after that and my father left back to Scotland the day my mother told me, and I haven't heard from him since. - My Grandma, who helped raise me as a child, died literally a week after my father left. - My Aunt has leukemia and only has 2 months left to live - A tree fell on my truck after a storm and I had to pay several hundred dollars to repair it, since it bent the base frame of the truck.

[QUOTE=Pandamox;26498582]I posted a thread back in September of how bad my summer was. I'll take the main points - Was about to leave to a trip through Europe, but instead I walk in on my best friend laying dead on his floor after he shot himself in the head. - A month before that, my Jack Russell of 12 years was hit by a car and killed. The dog I got to replace him, which was a Border Collie (I've wanted one all my life) developed severe brain damage after I got him and I had to put him down - My parents got a divorce right after that and my father left back to Scotland the day my mother told me, and I haven't heard from him since. - My Grandma, who helped raise me as a child, died literally a week after my father left. - My Aunt has leukemia and only has 2 months left to live - A tree fell on my truck after a storm and I had to pay several hundred dollars to repair it, since it bent the base frame of the truck.[/QUOTE] I don't quite understand your problem. I have no idea how you've dealt with the grief, how it's affected you, or how its harmed you, but I can tell you one thing for sure: You'll pull through. If you've been able to go on without offing yourself after even ONE of those events, you'll be able to keep moving. Think of your purpose in life - if you can't, formulate one. There's got to be a reason you get up and move out, be it your mother, self-furthering, or the advancement of general society. Think of that when you're down, and make it your duty to complete or atleast aid it. Talk to your mother a lot more, and help each other out. Never, ever, ever be afraid to ask for help - sure, you're strong, but it takes real strength to realize two people are much more effective than one. If you can do it, make the trip through Europe with your mother - it might help. That is, if the tickets are still good, and if financials approve. Otherwise, just take a break - go on a vacation - with someone you care about. As for the other guy, I'll get back to you later. I'm not so good with financial trouble.

You think you can help me? Well okay then, just try. My life fucking sucks. Everyone hates me and believes me to be an idiot when in reality they're all borderline autistic. I live in a small town which doesn't get much attention, not even any tourists. It's nothing special. The best job I could get was flipping burgers at the restaurant down the road from my house. Yeah, down the ONLY road in this town as it seems. I work for a cheapskate fucking asshole who pays me virtually pennies for working at a location which should actually require more than three employees (including me, him, and this faggot I live next to). Let me talk about my "best friend" who is a mentally retarded fatass who does nothing all day but manages to keep eating and have a home of any kind. Then, my other friend, who I have deep-rooted feelings for but I'm too much of a pussy to say anything to her in fear of being rejected, is probably the only one smart enough I can actually talk to (not like the bar is raised high). So how can you make me feel better? [editline]5th December 2010[/editline] Oh, and I live in a goddamn pineapple.

No woman will ever love me. :( :P

I was going to whine in here but then after reading some of the posts I realized that I would be complaining about nothing since I have loving parents, a stable home life, and my psyche intact. So now I'm just going to stop being such a gigantic pussy and suck it up.

[QUOTE=Goggles;26498872]I don't quite understand your problem. I have no idea how you've dealt with the grief, how it's affected you, or how its harmed you, but I can tell you one thing for sure: You'll pull through. If you've been able to go on without offing yourself after even ONE of those events, you'll be able to keep moving. Think of your purpose in life - if you can't, formulate one. There's got to be a reason you get up and move out, be it your mother, self-furthering, or the advancement of general society. Think of that when you're down, and make it your duty to complete or atleast aid it. Talk to your mother a lot more, and help each other out. Never, ever, ever be afraid to ask for help - sure, you're strong, but it takes real strength to realize two people are much more effective than one. If you can do it, make the trip through Europe with your mother - it might help. That is, if the tickets are still good, and if financials approve. Otherwise, just take a break - go on a vacation - with someone you care about. As for the other guy, I'll get back to you later. I'm not so good with financial trouble.[/QUOTE] I've been trying to convince my mother to go on the trip with me, and I'm going to pay for it all once she's ready to go. I'm just having a hard time knowing that all the most influential people in my life have suddenly left me, and I don't really have anyone to look up to anymore. I don't exactly need someone to lead me.. I just need someone to look up to. And I don't have anyone to look up to anymore

To cheesy, sorry.

[QUOTE=Goggles;26352307]I'm not, you are.[/QUOTE] No you are. :3: