• Parents treating younger siblings easier
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[QUOTE=EvilZx;20261917]Can't disagree with that.. Doesn't work with my parents. They EXPECT me to be like that, telling me to help him with his homework and stuff, but when I try to help him, he doesn't want me too. If I don't, I get yelled at. Lose-Lose situation[/QUOTE] Ah never mind then. Well, then don't help him. He wants to act like a little shit let him..just ignore him and he will learn over time that it isn't acceptable.
If your a twin like me you get equal respect:haw:
[QUOTE=Eight Bit;20261514]My brother punches me in the jaw, he gets nothing. I do it back to him, I can't go out for two weeks. I feel your pain dude.[/QUOTE] That's not the same thing though, you're a lot stronger than he is. Also, about that piano part, I wish my parents went tough at me when I was learning how to play on the piano when I was very young. I stopped after a month because I didn't like it, yet now I self-teach myself how to play on my electric keyboard. (Using the internet. It's useful, isn't it?) I talked to my parents last year about the time I went to piano lessons and my mom said she was disappointed because the teacher said I'm a natural, and way ahead of the other students. I had no idea.
Happens to me too, and it doesn't help my brother has a smart mouth, and I'm slow witted with comebacks. I apparently am hurting him mentally too when I beat the shit out of him.
[QUOTE=Eluveitie;20263570]Happens to me too, and it doesn't help my brother has a smart mouth, and I'm slow witted with comebacks. I apparently am hurting him mentally too when I beat the shit out of him.[/QUOTE] So am I, but then I just bitch slap whoever I'm talking to.
They tried the first technique on you, you turned out to be a retard so they try another technique.
he's 7 years old for Christ's sake. cut him some slack
In my family you sort shit out yourself. :colbert:
Big whup I'm the middle child out of three my older sister now has a child and my younger one has dad wrapped around her finger, I just get stuck in an odd void where I don't seem to exist.
I don't know. I smell weed on my cousin and so does my mom, he's at our house pretty much every day since he lives near me. He has 60's-70's in all his classes which is failing/borderline failing and he still plays games at midnight. Mind you, he is only 12 years of age. [editline]12:44AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Umi-hebi;20262029]It's only worth a car if you get a nice one. And then after some use it's only worth a grand.[/QUOTE] not unless you keep it for a generation or two. i'm never going to sell my dad's piano when he dies. he's been playing piano for 55 years and lives off of it. do you know how bad that would make me feel and him? it's worth a lot now, about $30,000.
[QUOTE=EvilZx;20261457]Why do parents do that? My younger brother is currently 7 in the 2nd grade, and his behavior is absolutely horrible. I really mean it's horrible, he gets constant complaints from his school, weekly report cards demanding parent teacher conferences, and gets in a lot of trouble, not to mention he's annoying as fuck and he's not that good at school work. Here's the thing though, he plays video games, that's cool right? But he plays a lot of it, and when I did bad in school when I was his age, parents took away all my electronics and forced me to work. Not with him, even after every complaint and report card, they just go easy on him and let him do whatever. What the fuck man. This pissed me off so much, I try my best to set him straight, taking away his games so he'll concentrate on his work, and telling him he can play after. But he just complains to my parents and they yell at me telling I'm the one at fault. Just now, he was practicing his piano, and then he stops a minute after and says he didn't look at the time (He has to practice 30 minutes), then he goes "Only 20 minutes left!", so I quickly correct him and he starts to whine some more about how I'm wrong and he wants to play his games. So then he starts crying about his game and crap. I get really pissed and break his microSD that I bought with MY money for him as a present. I just show it in his face and I break it in half. He crys and calls my dad and just right now, as I'm typing, my dad is yelling at me, even though I told him I'll give him another one. What the fuck is with that, I rage when my parents do that, they've done it so much, and the one time I do something about it, they yell at me like nuts, even though they did it to me when I was younger. tl;dr : Read it.[/QUOTE] more descriptive tl;dr plz
"More descriptive tl;dr" : Read it please. :D
7 years old and can't respect his older bro? You HAVE no younger brother, except when your parents are watching. Say it, think it, know it. Then see how he reacts. Btw, I'm a younger and I feel like I get the brunt of the "HELL NO YOU CANT DO THAT," even though I don't ask for as much.
Your parents are getting older and really couldn't be fucked dealing with another screaming child.
Just publicly humiliate him. It'll show the little runt who's boss.
[QUOTE=BloodYScar;20263868]They tried the first technique on you, you turned out to be a retard so they try another technique.[/QUOTE] Because you are the perfect image of mental capacity. Your posts are shit and so are you. [editline]02:32AM[/editline] Seriously every post you make is shit, doesn't contribute, and generally makes no sense in the context of the conversation.
I know how you feel seeing as I'm the oldest. You're parents probably thought they were too hard on you so now they're setting it straight by being more passive which isn't a good thing because my mum did that with my younger sisters and they walked all over her and treated her like shit where as with me I treat my mum with respect and follow the house rules unlike they do. You're parents are going to be in for a treat when your brother hits puberty so they'll be reaping what they've sowed.
[QUOTE=EvilZx;20261457]Just now, he was practicing his piano, and then he stops a minute after and says he didn't look at the time (He has to practice 30 minutes), then he goes "Only 20 minutes left!", so I quickly correct him and he starts to whine some more about how I'm wrong and he wants to play his games. So then he starts crying about his game and crap. I get really pissed and break his microSD that I bought with MY money for him as a present. I just show it in his face and I break it in half. [/QUOTE] Maybe because someone needs to learn to control their anger, if you parents gave you a bike for christmas and then proceeded to destroy it you'd be annoyed, sure this is on a lesser scale but still. I'm the youngest of two and I probably am quite spoil in comparision to my sister.
I am actually pretty cool headed, I rarely get angry. You have to consider the fact that this has been going on for over a period of one year, and this is the first time I've snapped. I don't even get angry at video games. :cool: I snapped this time because he's been constantly crying over the past week on getting Pokemon Heart Gold and Soul Silver. I've been telling my parents not to get it, but of course, they did. I've stopped him from playing a couple of times to do his school work, and he just continues to cry. I think he deserved what I did.
At least you get attention. Middle child means I barely exist. On the plus side it means I hardly ever get trouble, just a nagging occasionally.
[QUOTE=Eight Bit;20261514]My brother punches me in the jaw, he gets nothing. I do it back to him, I can't go out for two weeks. I feel your pain dude.[/QUOTE] Exact same with my brother, I usually wait to my mom n' dad is out to shop. Then I shoot him with my softgun :smug:
Im the middel one and i always get the blame. My sister didn't go to school , she got drunk etc and she got a brand new laptop.
I have the same problem. I have two sisters (13 y) that failed some subjects last year and I try to help them as much as I can but my parents just wants me to leave them alone. But they fucking do nothing and all they do is playing online stuff like Habbo.
Try and find a way to make him look bad. My friends little brother used to get him in trouble all the time. Most of which, my friend never did. He'd be in his room, and his brother would randomly scream "OWWW MOM, HE HIT ME" when he didn't. His parents would be downstairs and assume that he did hit him. So, my friend would get in trouble. This would happen almost every day, and one day he hid a camera in his brothers room and filmed him. Once he yelled randomly that he hit him, he told his parents about the camera and from that point on his brother wouldn't get his way all the fucking time.
Sucks that you need parent's help for college, otherwise you could just leave them. They sound the ignorant type to me.
[QUOTE=pie_is_good;20261564]Use the brick method. Every time he does something stupid, smash a brick to his head. If he cries, or threatens to tell someone, simply do it again. It's okay if he falls asleep after a hit. That's normal. He will become an obedient boy in no time.[/QUOTE] Oh god if only my little bro wasn't as big as me I would do this. I nearly pissed my pants laughing
I am youngest and always correct my older brother. Because my parents got tired of bitching about everything. I am sure that is the mean reason why they just let it happen. They already gone through it once and don't want to go through it again.
My mom always sides with my older sister on when to turn off our computers because apparently playing video games for 2 hours is worse than going on Facebook for 2 hours. [editline]12:41PM[/editline] She also lies a lot about me, but I learned to stop giving a shit and just accept it because arguing never does anything. [editline]12:43PM[/editline] DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO MASTURBATE WHEN YOU'RE SHARING A ROOM?! I HAVE TO PLAN WEEKS AHEAD!
My parents raised my two brothers and I properly, so shit like this just doesn't happen.
As the oldest child you pretty much pave the way for your younger siblings to have it easier.
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