My friend's mother commited suicide on Christmas - General

[QUOTE=Greendead;19287370]Tomorrow is her funeral. FUCK, I'm nervous. But I remember I was at my cousin's grandpa's funeral(I didn't know him) and when I gave my condolences to his wife(she was like 60 or more years old) and shaked her hand, but she didn't let go. She said in tears: "Please, please, love eachother. Love your girlfriend, love your friends, love your family, don't hate in eachother, because you have no idea, how this hurts. Please, just love eachother." and I said:"We will we will,..." Her son had to drag her away from me to stop her. And then she burst into tears again. From that day on, I always remember her sentence, when something like this happens. Love eachother as much as you can and hate less, because in the end, it will hurt like a bitch.[/QUOTE] Quoted For Truth.

[QUOTE=Greendead;19287370]Tomorrow is her funeral. FUCK, I'm nervous. But I remember I was at my cousin's grandpa's funeral(I didn't know him) and when I gave my condolences to his wife(she was like 60 or more years old) and shaked her hand, she didn't let go. She said in tears: "Please, please, love eachother. Love your girlfriend, love your friends, love your family, don't hate eachother, because you have no idea, how this hurts. Please, just love eachother." and I said:"We will we will,..." Her son had to drag her away from me to stop her. And then she burst into tears again. From that day on, I always remember her sentence, when something like this happens. Love eachother as much as you can and hate less, because in the end, it will hurt like a bitch.[/QUOTE] :frown:

What a fucking bitch. Seriously if she seemed normal and had a chemical imbalance that wasn't diagnosed That's one thing I can understand, sure rare but possible. But if she did it out of pure shenanigans (pressure, stress, spite) I have to say she's a bitch.

Why would someone do that to their family, suicide affects more than just you.

Sure the death is sad and all, but I'm a little disappointed she didn't kill herself in a more comical fashion i.e. hanging self with Christmas lights, sledding into open traffic. etc. etc.

What a fucking selfish cunt.

[QUOTE=Robbobin;19241772]yeah except hell only exists in one religion and that isn't true even if that wasn't the case.[/QUOTE] Only one? Seriously? The traditional Hell exists in Christianity, Judaism, and Islam. Furthermore, the Bahá'í faith understands Hell to be a spiritual condition, and Buddhism has many spiritual "hell realms". edit: Hinduism also has a hellish realm, called "naraka".

That's terrible, I feel for your friend, must be terrible for him atm. I have a friend who's mother died of cancer in her early 40s, found dead in her house. The dude's always depressed, he's on anti-depressants, poor guy.

[QUOTE=Insulator;19291395]What a fucking selfish cunt.[/QUOTE] Well that's a reckless thing to say. If she was at the point where she would take her own life on Christmas don't you think she may have been depressed? [editline]11:15PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Yahnich;19241644]People who commit suicide go to hell in all religions.[/QUOTE] Not in my religion :smile:

[QUOTE=Billiam;19291733]Well that's a reckless thing to say. If she was at the point where she would take her own life on Christmas don't you think she may have been depressed? [/QUOTE] but still, killing yourself on Christmas to end YOUR pain, yet unaware that you will inflict lifelong pain on your kids, spouse, and family? Sounds pretty fucking selfish to me.

[QUOTE=Insulator;19293390]but still, killing yourself on Christmas to end YOUR pain, yet unaware that you will inflict lifelong pain [b]on your kids, spouse, and family?[/b] Sounds pretty fucking selfish to me.[/QUOTE] in other words "your family"

i hope her phat lewts was good

Thats rough man. If you're a religious person, pray for her soul. And its hard to tell what a person goes through, and what causes them to act so drastically.

[QUOTE=i-am-teh-sex;19293528]in other words "your family"[/QUOTE] pardon my redundancy.

She commited the ultimate act of selfishness on the holiday of selflessness. Seems she was a fan of irony.

I could reply something funny but I would be banned :v: Sorry,bro. I bet it is a damn shit feeling.

[QUOTE=AustinM;19293678]i hope her phat lewts was good[/QUOTE] Sorry bro, you missed out on all the idiots rating everyone funny.

The utter stupidity and insensitivity of some people here is just shocking. OP, I am sorry to hear for your friends loss and I am sure that things will return to as normal as they will get soon.

People who want to kill themselves can sit and imagine how their family and friends will feel after their deaths and those who go through with it could almost be considered even more cruel than a murderer who doesn't know his/her victims or care.

Shit, I know she may have been depressed an all, but for her family, did she [I]have[/I] to do it on christmas eve?

[QUOTE=Reactors;19244419]I'm sorry for the loss. I once too committed suicide.[/QUOTE] Wait What O.o [editline]11:33AM[/editline] [QUOTE=rathat48;19277263]Who is rating everything funny, this is serious business guys.[/QUOTE] The more you tell them to stop the more they will do it.

What a selfish woman.

[QUOTE=Greendead;19241244]I just found out that my friend's mother commited suicide on Christmas Eve. I knew my friend's mother well and I was at his home at least once a month, so I knew his family very well. I didn't see any problems in his family, they all looked happy and nice. People said that her husband came home from his job and he didn't see her anywhere. He found out that the keys to basement are gone. He went to check it out, if she's in basement, but it was locked. He shouted, if someone can hear him, but there was no response. In panic, he called the police and they broke the door out and they found her with a rope around her neck, which was attached to the ceiling. I did saw her stealing some stuff in stores and having some difficulties with talking to me, but I didn't know she went this far with this. And she did it on Christmas Eve. Probably the worst day you can commit a suicide. Funeral is in three days: that's 1 day before New year. How unlucky is that? I'm still kinda shocked. It's just so wierd, that a person you know, will never ever talk to you again and you will never see it again. Just....so wierd felling.... If someone dies in a car accident, that's one thing, but if someone takes his life on purpose and you actually KNOW this person, that's a totally different thing. Did anyone else know a person that commited suicide? I feel terrified right now... (and please, forgive any spelling mistakes. I'm teriffied and tired right now)[/QUOTE] My answer? Yes. My great grandad's business went to pot and he put a shotgun in his mouth :\ AND My auntie had a drug overdose a few years back...

I hope all is well when you attend her funeral today.

[QUOTE=sink257;19299006]I hope all is well when you attend her funeral today.[/QUOTE] Well said.

That does completely suck for the family because not only does it ruin this Christmas, it will ruin every Christmas for them for the rest of their lives. It's terrible....

What a selfish irresponsible motherfucker. She suicides on christmas so her children will never enjoy it again. That dumb motherfucker deserves to be dead. Seriously wtf. I'd piss on her tomb.

Poor kid, now every Christmas he will be like, "Fuck yeah it's Christmas. Oh wait my mom's dead fffuuuu-"

suicide is one of the most selfish act imaginable. Especially when someone does it on a festive day. Now for the rest of his life, the death of his mother will be connected with Christmas. My condolences.

sry m8