• Ryan's Story: 1989-2003 (Suicide from bullying)
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[QUOTE=Brokein3;21725185]I hope the bitch that turned him down knows what she did.[/QUOTE] shoulda stayed in the kitchen and made him a sandwich instead
[QUOTE=16bit;21726326]Anyone who rated funny is just a dick.[/QUOTE] I rated funny. [i]And I don't feel bad about it.[/i]
To all of those that have posted with the "Fight back", have to think over one thing. When you're being bullied, you're being supressed. Atleast it was for me. I was bullied my entire school days. Started with words, became physical. You don't always just stand up to the bullies. It's not just "that easy". I can understand him, and as much as I really want to get a grip on those that did it and wring their fucking neck, it's better to let them live with their own grief. But, really, think about it. You can't always just send a fist flying towards the bully.
In Norway, the bullying doesn't end when you punch them in the face. If you do that, you're most likely going to get your ass kicked by all of the bullies' friends, and the situation just gets worse.
I found a notebook at the bus stop with revision notes; I looked through it at some of his work, but when I got to the end I found he had drawn crude pictures of naked men, women, and some Furries all over it. I showed it to my mates and they where laughing at it and kept flicking through, then we got to the last couple of pages and we found pictures of people being decapitated and raped and all the sort of messed up shit, and in one... He even labelled it I threw away the book incase my parents found it and were like '[i]Freddi... Why are there two girls tied up and decapitated in this book?[/i]'
Fuck. I am sad now, poor kid, RIP.
[QUOTE=Redcow;21728174]What a fucking pussy. SERIOUSLY. People go to war and see people dying every day. The medics there see blast wounds and terrible things. THAT'S something to be sad about. THAT'S something to go away from fucked up. Not a rumor about you being gay. Seriously, pussy.[/QUOTE] Soldiers aren't usually 13 years old. When I was 13, I was bullied and I got suicidal occasionally. Putting me on a battlefield would have driven me batshit insane. But soldiers are trained, they know that if they follow orders, they will most likely survive. They're also old enough to cope emotionally with the stress of the warfare. Don't compare a soldier to a bullied teenager. They are in no way alike.
I shed a tear :(
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;21725100]Bullying is stupid. Joking around is fine but just make sure they know you don't mean it. I have red hair. Believe me, I get shit. But I don't really care anymore. Still, they can go fuck off. I don't take the shit however.[/QUOTE] Oh you have red hair I feel really bad for you You must've been very near killing yourself at times [/sarcasm]
I don't see the point in the people that suicide from bullying without killing the people doing the bullying really, I know I would of.
I completly agree take them with you if your going to off yourself.
[QUOTE=ForTehWolf...2!;21725741]Screw this kid, you don't just pussy out and kill yourself if someone makes fun of you or beats you up, if life pisses you off deal with it asshole [highlight](User was banned for this post ("flaming" - RawRKat!90))[/highlight][/QUOTE] :argh: Man, it's heartless people like this that made him kill himself. I'm am living a great life, but there is some emotional turmoil inside of me. At times I get in bed and cry, but I always question myself. "Why am I doing this?" But that's a question I can't anwser. It's some turmoil I have from my childhood. :ohdear: OP, I rate you heart.
Bullying is worse when you have Autism. Fucking memories won't leave me. Lonely for three years. [I][B]3 fucking years. [/B][/I]Recently in the years of Late Year 9 up to now in Year 10 I've been a very nice guy. In year 9 when I was a very friendly guy one day a younger bastard decided "I'll kick water at this faggot because I am a badass". I snapped. I broke his nose in one hit. I didn't even think one second. Just a big punch to the nose. I think I made him shit himself. (After hitting him I felt like running up to him and just ripping his face apart. I'm not joking. I felt like killing the bastard because I just snapped)
He did the right thing standing up for him self. We all know telling the teacher does nothing to stop bullies and because of this I think there should be stricter punishments regarding bullying.
fuck this story why didn't his parents talk to the school? the parents that were bullying the son? stupid parents
Ah yes, being from vermont I heard of this.
[QUOTE=Black-Ice;21737122]Bullying is worse when you have Autism. Fucking memories won't leave me. Lonely for three years. [I][B]3 fucking years. [/B][/I]Recently in the years of Late Year 9 up to now in Year 10 I've been a very nice guy. In year 9 when I was a very friendly guy one day a younger bastard decided "I'll kick water at this faggot because I am a badass". I snapped. I broke his nose in one hit. I didn't even think one second. Just a big punch to the nose. I think I made him shit himself.[/QUOTE] You did a good job, it's usually the only way that really helps. But I find commiting suicide because of bullying a bit dumb, maybe it was because of mental problems, but a decent thinking person will not commit suicide after being picked on at school
I remember that in 4-th grade, a few of my classmates bullied me all the time. I was pissed, but I was also a vagina back then and I didn't dare say anything. I did go to boxing classes, but I didn't have the courage to hit someone in the face outside the training ring. I think it was in 5-th grade when one of them made a joke about my cousin (who passed away a few days before said events and was a very good friend of mine). It was something in the lines of: You are a fucking faggot and you probably raped your cousin until he died. And then something just snapped into me, I turned around to the three guys, who were laughing casually, grabbed the one who said the "joke" by the neck and plunged him into the nearest desk. He was bleeding and the doctor said he got a mild concussion. I still don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I haven't been bullied ever since.
A russian kid in my school was deemed as dumb by the history teacher because he didn't have a fucking clue what was going on in history, Nikita (The russian) was smart at every other subject but History he could not compute so the teacher picked on him and said phrases about him like "Hello, my Rooshan' friend, Use that thing you call a brain, and answer the question" "Well, Russia's land mass doesn't make up for the lose in your IQ?" And lots more. Then one day the teacher goes "NIKKITA! THATS SILLY! YOUR SILLY! NO! YOUR STUPID!" Then Nikkita snapped and threw a chair at the teacher then beat the teacher up with that chair then kicked him repetitively. I think the teacher deserved it.
The problem with bullying and the internet is when they go home for the day and try to escape to the internet and mentally get away from their problems, the problems are there waiting for them. So it festers until they break.
should have took it like a man
Lots of people get bullied, they don't all kill themselves.
[QUOTE=FreddiRox!;21739301]A russian kid in my school was deemed as dumb by the history teacher because he didn't have a fucking clue what was going on in history, Nikita (The russian) was smart at every other subject but History he could not compute so the teacher picked on him and said phrases about him like "Hello, my Rooshan' friend, Use that thing you call a brain, and answer the question" "Well, Russia's land mass doesn't make up for the lose in your IQ?" And lots more. Then one day the teacher goes "NIKKITA! THATS SILLY! YOUR SILLY! NO! YOUR STUPID!" Then Nikkita snapped and threw a chair at the teacher then beat the teacher up with that chair then kicked him repetitively. I think the teacher deserved it.[/QUOTE] DUDE! That kid is bad ass, if I were that kid, I would've sworn in Russian and spit on his face. Then I would've walk straight out of school like nothing happened.
Knowing how much bullying can affect a person, I try to do my part to stop it. Just recently in the high school I attend they broke up the middle school and combined it with my High School, making it a grade 8-12 high school. I'm in my senior year and I've seen lots of bullying, but being a larger person (6'0", 210 pounds) with known martial arts training (2 Years of Muay Thai and some military hand to hand) - i'm not trying to sound badass or anything - I make sure I don't see any of it happening around the school. We also have a program called LINK which i'm in that helps middle school students in the transition over to high school, and because of all of this I honestly can't say I see any bullying at my school. All it takes is a few kind hearted (Being intimidating may help a bit too) people to stand up to bullies at your school to eliminate the obvious kinds of bullying. Not saying kids don't get bullied at my school anymore, but it sure as hell isn't as bad as it use to be.
thankfully i already dont remember this
I shed a manly tear. I've never seen much of this kind of bullying happen. I guess kids in Australia are too pussy to actually bully other kids? The only person that comes to mind who was actually bullied was someone in my class in year 7/8. This kid was the worst smelling person you would ever meet. He showered/brushed his teeth around once every 2 weeks. He didn't even seem to have a reason for it. People told him he smelled bad and I occasionally suggested that he have a shower and brush his teeth. He just wouldn't listen. It was insane. I was one of the very few people who accepted him. I am fairly sure that I suffered socially because the "smelly English dork" was always around me but I don't care. I wouldn't have done it any other way. I'm proud to say that I was a friend to him when few others would be. Liam, even though you were a little over-bearing sometimes and I honestly didn't understand why you didn't take more care of your hygiene, you were my friend and I say a big "Fuck you" to all those assholes who picked on you.
My heart goes out to the mother and father of Ryan. I hope that they can move on and remember Ryan with a rose-tinted filter, to allow some degree of happiness after his death. <3
And this is why I learned Taekwondo
I have been to many, MANY schools in my life, and the one i was bullied at, coincidentally, had teachers that were crap. Ie "Person X did/said Y" and they would simply say "Just ignore it". It doesn't work like that. I came home in tears one day exclaiming i never wanted to go back to that school again. My Dad stormed over to the bullies house (he was drug fueled, naturally, but thats another story for another time), confronted the bullies father, and that was that. Nowadays, in high school, most people have grown up. I don't know anyone who has had a problem with bullying past freshman year.
it really amazes me that some faggots really have nothing better to do with their shitty lives than make others feel miserable like seriously get a hobby that doesn't involve morphing into a throbbing giant cock [editline]03:07AM[/editline] although as Asmaedus said, the problem seems to take care of itself by/during high school certainly by the time of graduation almost everybody is grown up enough to recognize the stupidity of it all
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