Gay Chat V. 10 - now with more rainbows - General

Maybe I have been lucky in the past, but I've had some ok experiences with Grindr. Gained a boyfriend (now ex, and good friend), another 2 friends, and a potential FWB gig (possible BF, but time will tell). Hell, I don't even live in a city, and I doubt it's my 'boyish charm' that does it.

[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;51294149]meeting up with people on grindr is fucking impossible, two people bailed on me in the last five days[/QUOTE] seattle boys 11/10 hotness 0/10 reliability still salty about that motherfucker who pulled a fade on me [I]i only gave you time nigga cus you was so hot aight?[/I] and ya went and fucked it up

[QUOTE=Liam968;51294512]Maybe I have been lucky in the past, but I've had some ok experiences with Grindr. Gained a boyfriend (now ex, and good friend), another 2 friends, and a potential FWB gig (possible BF, but time will tell). Hell, I don't even live in a city, and I doubt it's my 'boyish charm' that does it.[/QUOTE] I'm becoming pretty good friends with someone I met through Grindr who I'm kind of in a fwb situation with right now we both agreed to take things slowish and I'm super cool with it

I've been horribly sick since the 30th, started vomiting constantly, then on the 31st I woke up with a headache and a fever, on the 1st the fever went down and the vomiting stopped, still have a lingering migraine. Feel like shit my dudes.

I don't shave, but I do trim. I don't mind hair that much.

[QUOTE=Reyjr43;51297447]I've been horribly sick since the 30th, started vomiting constantly, then on the 31st I woke up with a headache and a fever, on the 1st the fever went down and the vomiting stopped, still have a lingering migraine. Feel like shit my dudes.[/QUOTE] I had to pull over while driving to work today to throw up. Called out after that.

So since the end of high school, I've always sort of identified as bisexual. There were times when I would see a cute guy and actually feel the same way I did when I saw a cute girl. But I'm confused now because I've never felt attracted to the sexual part of my gay side. I don't find myself attracted to watching gay porn over straight. In daily life, I find myself more often attracted to girls. But sometimes I find myself imagining what it'd be like to be in a relationship with the my cute guy friends. When I'm around other gay guys, I feel just as at home as when I'm around girls. I guess my question is, how does one know if he is truly bi? Or does it not matter because everyone is different?

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;51299276]So since the end of high school, I've always sort of identified as bisexual. There were times when I would see a cute guy and actually feel the same way I did when I saw a cute girl. But I'm confused now because I've never felt attracted to the sexual part of my gay side. I don't find myself attracted to watching gay porn over straight. In daily life, I find myself more often attracted to girls. But sometimes I find myself imagining what it'd be like to be in a relationship with the my cute guy friends. When I'm around other gay guys, I feel just as at home as when I'm around girls. I guess my question is, how does one know if he is truly bi? Or does it not matter because everyone is different?[/QUOTE] There's no gay test lol. Everyone is different. If you find a guy sexually attractive, and not just in a "I can appreciate his looks" way, then you're at least a little bit into guys. I wouldn't consider porn to be that telling, people jerk off to all kinds of stuff Try things with a guy.

So the thing I bought from BD arrived today. Spoiler because lewd: (also I don't usually like talking about this stuff but like I have tons of people to talk to about it lol) [sp]First time: spots of "hmm" but mostly my body saying "wtf wat r u doing no". It didn't end well. Second time: to ease my paranoid mind, cleaned really well, relaxed myself as best as I could, and tried again. Got a bit further and then eventually managed to take the majority of it up to the rather terrifying knot. Still lots of my body going "wtf" but it certainly felt okay. 11/10 will fuck again.[/sp] And so now I am officially gay yay better get on OKC again I guess

[QUOTE=paindoc;51299542]So the thing I bought from BD arrived today. Spoiler because lewd: (also I don't usually like talking about this stuff but like I have tons of people to talk to about it lol) [sp]First time: spots of "hmm" but mostly my body saying "wtf wat r u doing no". It didn't end well. Second time: to ease my paranoid mind, cleaned really well, relaxed myself as best as I could, and tried again. Got a bit further and then eventually managed to take the majority of it up to the rather terrifying knot. Still lots of my body going "wtf" but it certainly felt okay. 11/10 will fuck again.[/sp] And so now I am officially gay yay better get on OKC again I guess[/QUOTE] What kind did you even get :v: I've got a medium david and it's pretty damn fun, still can't take the whole thing though

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;51299276]So since the end of high school, I've always sort of identified as bisexual. There were times when I would see a cute guy and actually feel the same way I did when I saw a cute girl. But I'm confused now because I've never felt attracted to the sexual part of my gay side. I don't find myself attracted to watching gay porn over straight. In daily life, I find myself more often attracted to girls. But sometimes I find myself imagining what it'd be like to be in a relationship with the my cute guy friends. When I'm around other gay guys, I feel just as at home as when I'm around girls. I guess my question is, how does one know if he is truly bi? Or does it not matter because everyone is different?[/QUOTE] I remember feeling the same way, gay porn wasn't doing it for me and I didn't really feel like I was interested in any kind of gay sex stuff. Then I found out about the word "twink" and everything was 👌. But really some people are interested in a romantic gay relationship but not a sexual one, some people just haven't realized their sexuality, some people just aren't in to some kinds of porn, everybody's different. If you want to explore to porn angle you could look at different types of gay porn, there's a lot of variety. But ultimately there's loads of possible reasons for why you're feeling the way you are and there's no easy answer.

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;51299276]So since the end of high school, I've always sort of identified as bisexual. There were times when I would see a cute guy and actually feel the same way I did when I saw a cute girl. But I'm confused now because I've never felt attracted to the sexual part of my gay side. I don't find myself attracted to watching gay porn over straight. In daily life, I find myself more often attracted to girls. But sometimes I find myself imagining what it'd be like to be in a relationship with the my cute guy friends. When I'm around other gay guys, I feel just as at home as when I'm around girls. I guess my question is, how does one know if he is truly bi? Or does it not matter because everyone is different?[/QUOTE] It's definitely possible for you to be romantically into guys but not sexually. The only important thing with sex in a relationship is that the two of you match up, whether that's no sex or sex every day or anywhere in between. I mean, if you're completely repulsed by the idea of sex with a guy, then maybe it's not a good idea. Maybe you just don't like gay porn. Maybe you haven't found the type you like for that, maybe you don't have a type for gay porn but you'd be good with actually doing it yourself. And really, if you think you'd enjoy sex with a dude, try it out. Just be safe! ~Everyone is different~

[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;51301417]It's definitely possible for you to be romantically into guys but not sexually. The only important thing with sex in a relationship is that the two of you match up, whether that's no sex or sex every day or anywhere in between. I mean, if you're completely repulsed by the idea of sex with a guy, then maybe it's not a good idea. Maybe you just don't like gay porn. Maybe you haven't found the type you like for that, maybe you don't have a type for gay porn but you'd be good with actually doing it yourself. And really, if you think you'd enjoy sex with a dude, try it out. Just be safe! ~Everyone is different~[/QUOTE] I'm not completely repulsed by it at all. I'm just not as enthusiastic about it I guess.

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;51301450]I'm not completely repulsed by it at all. I'm just not as enthusiastic about it I guess.[/QUOTE] I don't watch gay porn (or any open for that matter) and I still love sucking dick. Not liking a certain type of porn is a bad way to determine sexual interests.

[QUOTE=Adelle Zhu;51301450]I'm not completely repulsed by it at all. I'm just not as enthusiastic about it I guess.[/QUOTE] Most porn is awful garbage to begin with.

[QUOTE=Combine 177;51301553]Most porn is awful garbage to begin with.[/QUOTE] I find VR amazing. I got a google cardboard and the pornhub app. Shit's cash.

google cardboard is my favourite sex toy

Google Cardboard gives me a headache if I use it for more than 10 minutes, makes me feel like vomiting The 2 times I've used the Vive I didn't get the same feeling so that's nice

[QUOTE=Political Gamer;51301686]Google Cardboard gives me a headache if I use it for more than 10 minutes, makes me feel like vomiting The 2 times I've used the Vive I didn't get the same feeling so that's nice[/QUOTE] It does hurt my eyes a bit and the 3D is wonky unless it's stereoscopic. And my phone (or any phone) doesn't have a high enough pixel density.

Minor blogpunch: Being able to warm up leftovers in the microwave changes everything. Having a working generator turns this motorhouse into a motorhome.

[QUOTE=Political Gamer;51301686]Google Cardboard gives me a headache if I use it for more than 10 minutes, makes me feel like vomiting The 2 times I've used the Vive I didn't get the same feeling so that's nice[/QUOTE] even the rift's second development kit was a good porn novelty the big difference is having 3d spatial tracking instead of only rotational tracking like cardboard had before long phones will be doing full spatial tracking though [editline]3rd November 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Trekintosh;51302106]Minor blogpunch: Being able to warm up leftovers in the microwave changes everything. Having a working generator turns this motorhouse into a motorhome.[/QUOTE] what's kept you from applying to a new apartment?

[QUOTE=bitches;51303725]what's kept you from applying to a new apartment?[/QUOTE] $$$$ SLO county has a biblical housing crisis, such that studio apartments are well over $1000/mo often. In addition, places usually require great credit and proof that your income is 3x the rent. I make $1400 a month at my new job (and just finished an interview for a second job), but I only have one pay stub of my new job's rate, and most places want 2 or 3. The RV is the only even remotely feasible solution right now. If my BF drops out of any classes, he loses his financial aid and won't be able to go to school at all, so he can't get a job until next semester where he will have less classes.

[QUOTE=kaze4159;51300541]What kind did you even get :v: I've got a medium david and it's pretty damn fun, still can't take the whole thing though[/QUOTE] medium rex despite saying it was "just alright" I used it four times yesterday :v

[QUOTE=paindoc;51304294]medium rex despite saying it was "just alright" I used it four times yesterday :v[/QUOTE] rex is great, i have a large one, the knot is too big for me though

I kinda want something a bit smaller just to be able to use it more casually. David's fun as fuck but it's a real effort to start using 'cause the tip is two inches wide :v: Also it's a medium firmness so kind of hard, I hope you got a soft rex [editline]4th November 2016[/editline] Or I just need to get gud, I haven't used it in ages 'cause of uni and other shit putting me in a bad mood for it

whats the appeal in animal cock

If you're gonna have a dildo you may as well have an interestingly shaped one I guess

[QUOTE=KillRay;51308496]whats the appeal in animal cock[/QUOTE] because normal shaped is pretty boring, know it sounds weird but funky shapes give a nicer feeling

are there mice ones [editline]5th November 2016[/editline] asking for a friend

[QUOTE=Limed00d;51310265]are there mice ones [editline]5th November 2016[/editline] asking for a friend[/QUOTE] Bad Dragon offers slugs on special occasions. I guess that's close enough.