• Gay Chat V. 10 - now with more rainbows
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[QUOTE=bitches;50420529]so if you didn't see the news yet, [URL="https://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1520557"]garry is completely redesigning the forum soon(ish)[/URL] users will be able to create their own custom boards and only that user will be able to moderate it (and those that user appoints) the idea is for the current moderation team to not have to constantly babysit this place by giving power to the users and relying on mob popularity to make the best boards stand out inevitably there will be a lgbt lifestyles type forum thing once again, and most likely more than one user will create a version of it at the same time which means that we should try to agree ahead of time which one to popularize; which user to back who we trust to be a fair moderator who won't cause endless drama shitfests I nominate Xieneus who did a swell job with the steam group for a great while before everyone stopped caring about it[/QUOTE] Theyre doing this AGAIN? Wasn't the last attempt at making FP some sort of social network back in like 2008 or something? This is gonna be gud. IIRC last time there was, like, hella porn custom forums. I remember there being a silly furry forum and anti-fur forum. A bunch of art and political ones. pretty sure there was a fucking bestiality group too. The admins ended up moderating the custom forums back then anyways, even with the admins of the groups being normal forum users. I'm excited to see what happens :v:
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Got stung by a bee at work today. Good thing I'm not allergic :v: [sp]oh look another fucking sparks post whining about his job cuz that doesn't get fucking old does it[/sp]
What's a good way to drop a hint to someone that your kind of uncomfortable with how they approach your sexuality? I have a friend who keeps chest banging about how straight he is while also making weird "banter" passes at me and I don't wanna tackle him about it head on cause he's kind of shit at this sort of thing and I don't want to hurt his feelings when he isn't doing it on purpose.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;50425892]Got stung by a bee at work today. Good thing I'm not allergic :v: [sp]oh look another fucking sparks post whining about his job cuz that doesn't get fucking old does it[/sp][/QUOTE] That's not really complaining though, just something interesting that happened. In any case, I've never been stung by a bee.. makes me scared I could be allergic to one.
Hi peeps from the CD/TG want to discuss how the LGBT custom forum would work (mods, ratings, etc.), since Gay and Trans are both part of the same acronym. we made a discord to talk bout it here: [url]https://discord.gg/012m2dsYupV30jfQw[/url] . If you don't have it, it doesn't require a download or a email/pass registration to talk there. just click the link, get a nickname, and your in. Would be easier to do it there rather than filling this thread and the cd/tg thread with "how & who are we gonna mod/make the place look/ratings/etc." thanks and sorry for intruding if i am
We do need some representatives from this thread, it's disproportionately full of folks from the transgender thread right now, I encourage all to get their voice heard
AFAIK Facepunch moderator Seiteki is LGBT. If you want to avoid drama and power tripping there couldn't be a better choice than to request that he/she start the board for it.
I would prefer original FP admins not be the Gay subforum admins. I'm nervous of powertrips since after the change rules will tend to be more relaxed, but FP admins will still try to enforce original rules that the subforums may not require.
I'm still in favor of Xieneus if he's up for it, since he demonstrated sensibility in the steam group for this thread, meeting that balance between kicking toxic fuckers and keeping order.
cheetahben and gangleider both seem like very level headed people to me too. i like xie tho
so far people in the lgbt subform discord were talkin about instead of it being just lgbt it can be a "alt lifestyle" type of thing so it can fit more peeps in. would make it a more active place in the long run
[QUOTE=Wii60;50427697]so far people in the lgbt subform discord were talkin about instead of it being just lgbt it can be a "alt lifestyle" type of thing so it can fit more peeps in. would make it a more active place in the long run[/QUOTE] what do you define as alt lifestyle; who else?
vote for me
[QUOTE=bitches;50427718]what do you define as alt lifestyle; who else?[/QUOTE] furry/fetish communities
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;50427733]furry/fetish communities[/QUOTE] mixing every other group under the same board is nothing but trouble the infighting and arguing about which groups shouldn't be there won't ever stop
[QUOTE=bitches;50427743]mixing every other group under the same board is nothing but trouble the infighting and arguing about which groups shouldn't be there won't ever stop[/QUOTE] -shrug- if you don't include enough subcommunities you won't have a big enough subforum. you're going to need to join forces if you want to have this kind of content, and an active community at the same time
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50427751]And if I remember correctly we had CD/TG drama in GC before and vice versa. But this was a good while ago. IMO. I like where Gay Chat is right now. In GD. Also I like Seiteki as a mod even if it was for the custom forum or w/e. Only issue I see is that I hardly see Seiteki. Maybe I don't browse where he posts but that's all I've known/seen. [editline]31st May 2016[/editline] This too and whilst we're at it I'd like to post in CD more often but I'm just too shy about it.[/QUOTE] yeah i don't think seiteki is a bad choice he just isn't super active in any of these communities right now
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50427751] This too and whilst we're at it I'd like to post in CD more often but I'm just too shy about it.[/QUOTE] Don't be shy, We don't bite. :v: we also got a discord too if you wanna jump in there and hang out with us (its kinda more popular than the thread itself actually). link in cd/tg op.
I agree that a whole board would be better suited as a variety board of both minorities and niche interests, for the sake of having more than two lonely threads. The problem is that a lot of users would be uncomfortable with, for example, a board clearly designed as a space for LGBT chat also branding itself as a space for furry topics. If you're going to go down that road you need to be willing to fully dedicate to it, which would mean removing users who disagree with mixing the two if they are causing drama about it. Elsewise you cause worse drama by backtracking on what you want your board to be used for. The secondary topic to talk about is whether or not adult material would be allowed, which causes further drama if it is allowed in reference to whether or not you care to moderate the return of catgirl/furry porn threads.
[QUOTE=bitches;50427804]I agree that a whole board would be better suited as a variety board of both minorities and niche interests, for the sake of having more than two lonely threads. The problem is that a lot of users would be uncomfortable with, for example, a board clearly designed as a space for LGBT chat also branding itself as a space for furry topics. If you're going to go down that road you need to be willing to fully dedicate to it, which would mean removing users who disagree with mixing the two if they are causing drama about it. Elsewise you cause worse drama by backtracking on what you want your board to be used for. The secondary topic to talk about is whether or not adult material would be allowed, which causes further drama if it is allowed in reference to whether or not you care to moderate the return of catgirl/furry porn threads.[/QUOTE] [url]https://discordapp.com/channels/187038244087529473/187038244087529473[/url] bitches get in here you would love this shit honestly
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50427811][U]Don't fix what ain't broke is why I'm sorta against it. [/U]I'm not against change or trying something new at all even if it's tried and true. I'd be down for having a custom CSS, ratings and all that. [U]I just don't want to come into a thread and see drama again.[/U] That's what's turning me off the most. Whilst we haven't had any drama at all for a good while. Glad of that. Just don't wanna see it happen.[/QUOTE] If you want to avoid drama you need to find someone you can trust to unify a community and remove insufferably dramatic users. Avoiding the topic of how to govern a new talking space isn't how to solve it. [editline]31st May 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=DanTehMan;50427815][url]https://discordapp.com/channels/187038244087529473/187038244087529473[/url] bitches get in here you would love this shit honestly[/QUOTE] that is not a functional link plus i'm anticipating the discord to be argumentative cancer or the short sighted appointing of friends over proven leaders so no thanks i'm just leaving my two cents here instead
[QUOTE=bitches;50427817] that is not a functional link[/QUOTE] correct link [url]https://discord.gg/012m2dsYupV30jfQw[/url] [QUOTE=Firecat;50427827]I really want to say please don't put furry stuff and etc in with the gay chat and shit but that's probably the most realistic option and it already seems theres quite the mutual community no offense haha[/QUOTE] thats kinda one of the reasons its a venn diagram of similar interests
Banning people who are depressed and comment about it sounds rude as hell imo. Dramabanning should probably be restricted to arguments, not sadposts.
[QUOTE=kalamari13;50427830]Banning people who are depressed and comment about it sounds rude as hell imo. Dramabanning should probably be restricted to arguments, not sadposts.[/QUOTE] is that what they're talking about in the discord? absolute cancer, that not going to be any part of a community with such assholes as that leading it when I say drama I'm talking about users who only try to exclude others from the community
Honestly, I would rather avoid anything to do with furries on FP because furries, no matter where, always somehow bring drama with them. There's this group of like 15 people on Telegram who are the rare exception and we already had to migrate from Skype when that app become shit and the old group got filled up with some really weird fucks and drama happened.
[QUOTE=Firecat;50427841]Just make a community ranting thread tbh, I'm sure it'd be both a way for people not looking for that kind of stuff to avoid, while also being more focused on giving input/advice on situations where people might need it[/QUOTE] with a whole board to just us, anyone could make a thread to talk about their specific life problem, and the board moderators could remove it when it has run its course
[QUOTE=bitches;50427840]is that what they're talking about in the discord? absolute cancer, that not going to be any part of a community with such assholes as that leading it when I say drama I'm talking about users who only try to exclude others from the community[/QUOTE] thats not even a little bit what people are talking about in the discord? people are just trying to think up how we can get people to want to use the subforums if they're created, is all. no one is going all nazi yet
[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;50427845]Honestly, I would rather avoid anything to do with furries on FP because furries, no matter where, always somehow bring drama with them. There's this group of like 15 people on Telegram who are the rare exception and we already had to migrate from Skype when that app become shit and the old group got filled up with some really weird fucks and drama happened.[/QUOTE] in my experience facepunch has more drama in bitching about furries being on fp than furries ever cause on their own but in any case it is a can of worms
if you want to participate in some community building discussion i would suggest going to the discord and seeing what people have to say, otherwise bitching about the [I]possibility[/I] of people bitching is back-asswards
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