[video]https://youtu.be/R8KZ9WOTU78[/video]
I just wanna recommend this gay as heck movie I watched earlier today, it's just an hour long but really cute and very nice looking!!
[QUOTE=Rubs10;51360795]I've heard that before and I always thought it sounded like overly romantic crap that manages to be insulting to both men and women[/QUOTE]
Eh, fair enough. I might be gay, actually. Or at least very confused in my sexuality.
college led to the confirmation that i am indeed a gay individual
[QUOTE=Xieneus;51360890]college led to the confirmation that i am indeed a gay individual[/QUOTE]
wow who would have guessed
When it comes to being dom, I'm one of the "pseudo" gays that dreams of getting lewd with a twink. That being said, I'm a genuine cocksucker. :cool:
BJs > penetration, any day.
BJs are good because they can't slap a hideous moan track all over the porn
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;51359839]The long story short is that you are investing way too much mental energy in this one dude. just remember there are plenty of other fish in the sea and it isn't worth some guy playing around with your emotions like that.
You are right, there are many reasons he might keep doing this to you, and it might not even be malicious, but the fact of the matter is that it IS affecting you negatively so at some point you should try to cut the cord and move on.[/QUOTE]
turns out he was working open-close shifts at his job since wednesday
i feel a bit asinine now, but oh well. caught myself a few times before I over thought things, though, so yay progress I guess
dinner is in 90 minutes and no im not stressed hahahahHA
[editline]12th November 2016[/editline]
[I]*heavy breathing*[/I]
[QUOTE=paindoc;51361373]turns out he was working open-close shifts at his job since wednesday
i feel a bit asinine now, but oh well. caught myself a few times before I over thought things, though, so yay progress I guess
dinner is in 90 minutes and no im not stressed hahahahHA
[editline]12th November 2016[/editline]
[I]*heavy breathing*[/I][/QUOTE]
If he is such a bad communicator that you lack any kind of understanding as to why he keeps ghosting you, it would probably be best for you to move on imo
Personally I don't feel I identify with the term bisexual
I prefer gaywalker
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;51361492]If he is such a bad communicator that you lack any kind of understanding as to why he keeps ghosting you, it would probably be best for you to move on imo[/QUOTE]
Maybe, maybe not. I'll see how tonight goes. This is on me, too. We're still strangers effectively: he doesn't owe me anything really when it comes to promptness. I have actual anxiety issues around this stuff too, and seeing as how for some reason my physician won't give me loads of benzos I can't just make it go away everytime.
I need to learn to be better about not worrying about the motives of others, and that's independent of what happens with this bloke.
[QUOTE=BlackMageMari;51360380]I guess that I should clarify I don't see myself having sex with a man (at-least, if I am male) but I do with women... yet I guess there would be some men out there that I would be attracted to personality wise.
... guess I really should be saying I'm confused to hell and back.[/QUOTE]
okay first time I check this thread in a while and this is exactly me
Going on about 1000 years of "Who the fuck am I attracted to" with no end in sight
I'm just going with the mindset of assuming I'm heterosexual until the next time I get some strange personality crush on a dude
I wonder at times if it's more just overattachment than anything since it typically comes from people who show some nonzero amount of affection, even if it's fake (as in, they act that way towards everyone)
If the episode of south park is to be believed, the Japanese make people gay.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;51361915]If the episode of south park is to be believed, the Japanese make people gay.[/QUOTE]
Seems reasonable
[QUOTE=halofreak472;51361794]okay first time I check this thread in a while and this is exactly me
Going on about 1000 years of "Who the fuck am I attracted to" with no end in sight
I'm just going with the mindset of assuming I'm heterosexual until the next time I get some strange personality crush on a dude
I wonder at times if it's more just overattachment than anything since it typically comes from people who show some nonzero amount of affection, even if it's fake (as in, they act that way towards everyone)[/QUOTE]
like the fix for being weirdly kinda afraid of dogs is being more exposed to dogs that are friendly dogs, the best fix for this is to try dating of some kind. you just have to find what's right for you, and you may figure it out in time without dating but dating would probably accelerate it
update on date: regardless of past doubts, it went well. He also worked most of today up until an hour before our date, desperately tried to get changed and get his dog walked, and then was willing to take a bus and walk a considerable distance (car is in shop) to get to me.
soooo. i'm probably the one overreacting here.
[QUOTE=paindoc;51361740]Maybe, maybe not. I'll see how tonight goes. This is on me, too. We're still strangers effectively: he doesn't owe me anything really when it comes to promptness. I have actual anxiety issues around this stuff too, and seeing as how for some reason my physician won't give me loads of benzos I can't just make it go away everytime.
I need to learn to be better about not worrying about the motives of others, and that's independent of what happens with this bloke.[/QUOTE]
It positively gets better with more experience, if things go sour with this guy my only advice is to keep trying
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;51360852][video]https://youtu.be/R8KZ9WOTU78[/video]
I just wanna recommend this gay as heck movie I watched earlier today, it's just an hour long but really cute and very nice looking!![/QUOTE]
I've been looking for good gay anime for a while! Thanks for sharing!
welcome to the :weeb:
[QUOTE=Rubs10;51362679]I've been looking for good gay anime for a while! Thanks for sharing![/QUOTE]
Yeah me too, only other one I watched had a really unappealing art style and the majority seem to look the same while also playing out the same story wise.
[url]https://myanimelist.net/anime/9926/Sekaiichi_Hatsukoi[/url]
It was this one, it has a bunch of sequels and spin-offs but they all look the same.
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;51360852][video]https://youtu.be/R8KZ9WOTU78[/video]
I just wanna recommend this gay as heck movie I watched earlier today, it's just an hour long but really cute and very nice looking!![/QUOTE]
Just finished it, this protagonist is a very compelling argument for growing out my hair
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;51362935]Just finished it, this protagonist is a very compelling argument for growing out my hair[/QUOTE]
If you need to have argument for having "long hair" there is always "use it before you lose it", I mean that is if balding/baldness is common in your family, I've pretty much had long hair all my life.
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;51362935]Just finished it, this protagonist is a very compelling argument for growing out my hair[/QUOTE]
Personally I couldn't be happier about getting my hair cut two days ago. It's been so long I started to look questionable. A trim of the beard feels good too.
I work half-time at a local second-hand store and during my time there people have been getting super friendly and complimented me for being very useful and cool. And most of the people who work there are late 40 to 50's ladies.
I feel it isn't often men get complimented in that regard. It really makes you feel better and more compelled to work :cat:
I had hair past my shoulders for 2 or 3 years. Never again, short hair is the way.
i love my pony tail
longer hair is fun to have, never past my shoulders though, that's a little too much for me
I have hair down to my shoulder blades right now, to be quite frank I like having rather long hair, allows me to feel more feminine since I don't have to be secretive for fear of judgment I suppose.
I never understood the logic behind of long hair being femine somehow, maybe it is just too common for men to have long hair here so it never got to me.
Apart from the fact I have to shampoo it pretty regularly to keep it from going nasty and greasy, I love my beyond shoulder length hair, it completes my Viking Metal band drummer look
I try to grow mine out but it's hard with hair that is unruly.
#1 on the sides.
I'd pay to have bangs and a ponytail
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